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Welcome to the Allen & Eve Podcast! We’re a Christian married couple having real, open conversations about life, marriage, relationships, family, faith, and everything in between. As followers of Jesus Christ, we believe God’s Word should be the foundation of our lives and marriage, so we try to look at what we talk about from a biblical perspective. But listen… we’re sinners too! We might not always get it right; we might get a little in our flesh sometimes, and we definitely won’t always agree. 😂 And that’s okay — because these are real conversations between a real husband and wife. We’re here to talk, laugh, disagree, share what we’ve learned, and work through some of the same things other couples and families are dealing with every day. We don’t know where every conversation will take us, but we hope you’ll join us for the journey. This is Allen & Eve. Let’s talk about it.

  1. Oct 7

    Your Marriage Changes When You Learn to Serve Each Other

    Send us Fan Mail       Are you giving your best energy to your job, friends, and outside commitments while leaving your marriage with the leftovers?            Marriage is your first ministry, yet it is often the easiest place to withhold grace, keep score, and prioritize your own pride. When conflict hits, human nature wants to defend self rather than serve the other person. But if Christ came to serve, how can believers justify withholding service from their own spouse?         In this episode, we break down what genuine, biblical servanthood looks like inside marriage—especially when emotions run hot, frustrations mount, and one partner is falling short. Serving isn’t about being a doormat or manipulating an outcome; it is intentional humility, picking up the slack without complaining, and warring for your spouse in prayer instead of tearing them down. Tune in as we confront selfish mindsets, examine the practical steps to diffuse defensiveness, and refocus on building a unified, God-centered covenant.

  2. Sep 30

    The Silent Killer of Marriages Isn’t Infidelity—It’s Burnout

    Send us Fan Mail            Infidelity isn't the only thing tearing relationships apart—often, the quiet killer creeping into homes is pure exhaustion and burnout. In this episode of the Allen & Eve Podcast, we dive deep into the reality of what it actually takes to fight for your marriage and run a household as a true team. Marriage is not a game, and responsibilities do not stop at the front door. Even when one partner works a 9-to-5 outside the house, and the other manages the home and children full-time, labor should never be treated as one-sided. Your primary job isn’t the paycheck—it’s your marriage and family. When a spouse is left with zero support, feeling like a single parent inside a partnership, resentment builds, leading to emotional burnout and broken homes. From stepping in without being asked—washing dishes, folding laundry, sweeping up—to getting out of the house for fresh air and protecting each other's mental health, we unpack the daily work, prayer, and mutual honor required to keep a household thriving.

  3. Sep 23

    Why We’re Guarded: The Dark Side of Church Leadership We Experienced

    Send us Fan Mail           Leaving church wasn’t about walking away from God—it was about protecting our marriage and family from toxic, unchecked church leadership. In this episode of the Allen & Eve Podcast, we have an unfiltered conversation breaking down the dark side of church leadership we personally experienced and why we no longer attend a traditional church building. From financial manipulation and money-grabbing tactics on the pulpit to secretive scandals, false prophetic claims, and leadership unaccountability, we dig into the real reasons behind church hurt and spiritual fatigue. We aren't here to bash the Body of Christ; we are here to expose the difference between man-made religious cliques and true biblical headship in marriage and faith. Topics Covered in This Episode: Why we guarded our hearts and walked away from religious manipulationSpotting red flags: crooked finances, vague pastoral resignations, and cultish dynamicsWild prophetic culture, flexes from the pulpit, and money-focused servicesProtecting your marriage, spiritual leadership at home, and biblical submission under Christ

  4. Sep 16

    Behind Closed Doors: Confessing the Mistake That Paused Our Show

    Send us Fan Mail          We’re back, and to be completely honest, I owe y’all an explanation. In this episode, I’m putting my pride aside and confessing the mistake I made that caused us to pause the show in the first place. I thought I was making a smart move by stepping into the background and putting all the focus solely on my wife, but I was wrong. I made sudden moves without real communication, expected Eve to just follow along, and ended up leaving her stressed, confused, and hurt. We’re having an open, unfiltered conversation about where I messed up, how we worked through the frustration, and why marriage isn't a game you can play by your own rules.

  5. Aug 9

    Stepping Into Our True Gifts: Why We Redefined Our Roles on YouTube

    Send us Fan Mail          Welcome to a brand-new season of the podcast! If you notice things look and sound a little different around here, you’re in the right place. In this opening episode, I’m sharing the big shift God has been leading us into. My husband, Allan, isn’t going anywhere—he’s stepping fully into his giftings as our Creative Director, handling everything tech, production, and behind-the-scenes storytelling to bring this vision to life with excellence. As for me, God has placed an overwhelming burden on my heart to walk alongside you through every season of relationships—whether you’re single, dating, engaged, married, praying for reconciliation, or navigating co-parenting. Everything we tackle here will be anchored firmly in God's Word, because He designed relationships and His Word is our ultimate foundation. Tune in as we lay out what’s ahead, why the mission remains unchanged, and how we can grow closer to Christ and healthier in our relationships together.

  6. Jul 31

    Is It Okay to Compliment Someone Else When You're Married?

    Send us Fan Mail          Hey everybody!  Welcome back to the Allen & Eve Podcast! Come on in, bring it in, and join the family. Today, we are tackling a super hot, highly requested topic in marriage: Is it okay to compliment other people when you're married? Every marriage is built on unique boundaries, personalities, and seasons. In this episode, we open up about our own dynamic—where Eve is naturally outgoing and encouraging, while Allen takes a more laid-back, hyper-focused approach. We dive deep into why intent versus impact matters, how unaddressed insecurities or past traumas affect boundaries, and why your spouse should NEVER feel like they're competing for your attention. At the end of the day, it's all about doing the work, honoring your covenant, and ensuring that the love, grace, and encouragement you give out to the world starts right at home first. Grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let's grow together!

  7. Jul 24

    Stop Judging What You Don't Understand in Someone Else's Marriage

    Send us Fan Mail           Hey everybody! How are you doing? Welcome back to the show! Today, we are diving deep into a topic that so many couples and singles struggle with: why you should stop judging what you don't understand in someone else's marriage. It is so easy to catch a quick glimpse of how another couple interacts, misread the situation, and jump to conclusions. But the truth is, every single marriage develops its own unique language, rhythm, boundaries, and level of grace. What looks "unhealthy" or "harsh" from the outside might just be an inside joke, a personality trait, or a season where two spouses are actively extending grace and working through things together under God. Join us as we keep it raw, honest, and unpolished about our own mistakes with judging others, how we navigate communication in our own relationship, and why it’s so vital to focus on building up your own home rather than gossiping about someone else’s. Stay tuned all the way to the end for a beautiful prayer over your relationship!

  8. Jul 20

    When Family Relationships Are Difficult: Growing Through the Season

    Send us Fan Mail Navigating in-law relationships and family tension can put a massive strain on a marriage—especially when distance, silence, or unresolved conflict creep in. In this episode, we share a deeply personal story about a three-year season of distance with a sister-in-law, what it actually takes to navigate family hurt, and how married couples can walk through tough family dynamic seasons without letting bitterness take root. Instead of asking "When are they going to change?", we dive into the shift that changes everything: asking God, "What are You trying to teach me?" In this episode, we discuss: Navigating In-Law Dynamics: How to handle distance, silence, and difficult seasons without keeping score.The Role of the Spouse: Why your main job is to be a safe place—not to fuel bitterness or defend by creating a bigger divide.Personal Accountability over Pointing Fingers: How shifting focus to your own heart (humility, patience, and grace) accelerates true personal growth.Moving Forward vs. Reliving the Past: Why healing doesn't always mean re-hashing every detail, but choosing not to let past hurt define your future.Trusting God's Timing: How trials produce steadfastness and maturity (James1:2−4) while you wait for restoration.If you’re currently in a quiet, frustrating, or painful season with family, this episode is a gentle reminder that you can't force reconciliation—but you can allow God to transform your heart while you wait. 💬 Join the Conversation: Have you ever had to navigate a tough season with in-laws or extended family? How did you and your spouse support each other through it?

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Welcome to the Allen & Eve Podcast! We’re a Christian married couple having real, open conversations about life, marriage, relationships, family, faith, and everything in between. As followers of Jesus Christ, we believe God’s Word should be the foundation of our lives and marriage, so we try to look at what we talk about from a biblical perspective. But listen… we’re sinners too! We might not always get it right; we might get a little in our flesh sometimes, and we definitely won’t always agree. 😂 And that’s okay — because these are real conversations between a real husband and wife. We’re here to talk, laugh, disagree, share what we’ve learned, and work through some of the same things other couples and families are dealing with every day. We don’t know where every conversation will take us, but we hope you’ll join us for the journey. This is Allen & Eve. Let’s talk about it.

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  • Creator
    Allen&Eve
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    37
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Allen&Eve
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