The Wellthy Life

Deanna Rose
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Stop paying the $30k burnout tax and lead in your Anchor State. Most founders think their ability to push is an asset. But if you’re relying on willpower to get through Tuesday, you’re just surviving. Welcome to The Wellthy Life, for growth obsessed founders ready to trade white-knuckling for predictability, real control, and the version of themselves that built the success. Hosted by Deanna, we bridge hard science (data, logic, ROI) with the humanness of presence, safety, and curiosity to provide the SOP for your executive leadership.

  1. 2D AGO

    15. Stop Optimizing Your Calendar, Your Nervous System Is the Bottleneck (15 Hours/Week Hiding Here)

    What if the problem isn't your calendar, it's your nervous system? Most high performers think they have a time problem or need more time. But what they have is a nervous system problem that's creating invisible time leaks: rewriting work that was already good enough, taking 30 extra minutes on decisions that should be instant, mentally rehearsing conversations long before having them. This episode breaks down the exact mechanism that's draining your cognitive capacity and shows you how to reclaim 10-15 hours per week by regulating your internal state instead of optimizing your schedule. You'll learn to identify whether you're leaking time through the control pattern or the over-functioning pattern and what to do about it. Keywords: nervous system dysregulation, hidden productivity drain, cognitive capacity, perfectionism, over-functioning, decision velocity, burnout recovery, high performer time management

    9 min

  2. 4D AGO

    14. Saturday Reset: Stop Obsessing Over Results (Do This Instead)

    You feel stressed because you’re watching the wrong things. If you’re constantly refreshing revenue, tracking sleep scores, checking performance dashboards, and reacting to outcomes, your nervous system never gets a break. And when stress stays high, your thinking keeps you stuck. In this Saturday Reset, we break down the difference between lead and lag indicators and why obsessing over results can reduce clarity, increase urgency, and slow execution. You’ll learn: The real difference between lead and lag indicators Why monitoring outcomes can trigger fight-or-flight How to shift your focus back to controllable inputs If you feel like you’re constantly reacting to metrics instead of leading from clarity, this episode will help you redirect your attention to what actually drives performance. Execution improves when you regulate the inputs. 14 Day inerOS Reset https://deannawrose.com/osreset Take the Nervous System Pattern Quiz https://shorturl.at/aHm4Q Connect on Social https://instagram.com/dr.deannawrose/ How I support high performers https://deannawrose.com/programs  Get email updates https://deannawrose.com/connect#newsletter

    8 min

  3. FEB 10

    13. The Invisible Bottleneck Killing Your Team's Performance: How Nervous System Leadership Determines Output

    In this episode, we break down why so many founders and executives experience low initiative, slow execution, decision bottlenecks, and disengaged teams despite hiring smart, experienced people. The missing piece? Co-regulation and nervous system leadership. When a leader operates in chronic urgency or tension, their nervous system broadcasts threat signals that force the team into Conservation Mode. In this state, cognitive resources are diverted away from the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for strategy, creative thinking, judgment, and independent decision-making, and redirected toward survival and vigilance. This episode explores: Why leadership is a biological transmission system How neural mirroring and co-regulation determine team performance Why stressed leaders unintentionally shut down creativity and ownership The hidden 40% capacity ceiling many organizations are paying for without realizing it Why process optimization and incentives fail when the nervous system is dysregulated How psychological safety functions as a performance input, not a cultural perk You’ll also learn the Anchor Protocol, a practical, physiology-based framework for becoming a regulated reference point your team can think around instead of brace against. If you’re tired of being the bottleneck, making every decision yourself, or feeling like your team can’t fully access their intelligence, this episode will change how you think about leadership, performance, and velocity. [00:00] Why capable people perform worse under pressure [01:32] The hidden reason teams lose creativity and momentum [03:20] How leaders unknowingly broadcast threat signals [04:45] The hidden cost [06:10] Why smart people make uncharacteristic mistakes [07:11] Why strategic solutions fail [09:32] The 3-step Anchor Protocol [13:15] Why regulation delivers immediate ROI 14 Day inerOS Reset https://deannawrose.com/osreset Take the Nervous System Pattern Quiz https://shorturl.at/aHm4Q Connect on Social https://instagram.com/dr.deannawrose/ How I support high performers https://deannawrose.com/programs  Get email updates https://deannawrose.com/connect#newsletter

    14 min

  4. FEB 7

    12. 7 Minutes to Reset Your Nervous System | A Simple Breath Protocol

    If you’re feeling wired, anxious, irritable, or mentally scattered, your nervous system is likely stuck in a high alert survival state. This 7-minute breath protocol is something I’ve used with high achievers who need to calm their nervous system fast without forcing relaxation. In this guided video, I take you through a simple breathing sequence you can follow along with anywhere. This practice helps your body move out of fight-or-flight and back into a regulated baseline, so clarity, focus, and presence can come back online. Use this breathwork: Before or after high-pressure meetings When you feel exhausted but wired During anxiety, agitation, or irritability When your jaw is clenched and your breathing feels shallow When your mind feels frazzled or overstimulated We’ll go deeper into the neuroscience and research behind why this works in the next video. For today, this is about giving your nervous system a direct experience of regulation you can return to anytime. If this practice supports you, save it and come back to it when your system needs a reset. [01:05] When and why to use this breath practice[01:27] Overview of the protocol: physiological sigh + hold + long exhale[01:58] How to do the physiological sigh (double inhale)[03:00] Posture cues and common mistakes (shoulders, spine, chin)[03:46] Starting 10 rounds of guided breathing[07:40] Breath awareness check-in[09:50] When to use this practice in daily life 14 Day inerOS Reset https://deannawrose.com/osreset Take the Nervous System Pattern Quiz https://shorturl.at/aHm4Q Connect on Social https://instagram.com/dr.deannawrose/ How I support high performers https://deannawrose.com/programs  Get email updates https://deannawrose.com/connect#newsletter

    11 min

  5. FEB 6

    11. The Survival Fog: Why Your Brain Shuts Down Under Pressure

    In this episode, we pick up where the last conversation on brain fog and cognitive drag left off and go deeper into what actually happens inside your nervous system and cells when clarity disappears under pressure. We explore how chronic stress changes resource allocation in the brain, why oxygen and glucose are pulled away from the prefrontal cortex, and how mitochondria shift into a protective mode known as the cell danger response. When this happens, clarity, creativity, and innovation become biologically expensive, but deprioritized in favour of safety and survival. Using frameworks from neuroscience, polyvagal theory, cellular biology, cognitive load theory, and even physics, this episode connects the dots between nervous system states, executive function, leadership capacity, and long-term performance. You’ll learn why pushing harder reinforces fog, how gripping tight around outcomes drains cognitive capacity, and what actually restores clarity in a way that lasts. This episode is for high performers, founders, and leaders who feel sharp one moment and foggy the next, especially when the pressure is on, and want to understand how to lead, decide, and create without burning through their internal resources. You’ll Find in This Episode Why situational brain fog is a nervous system stateHow chronic stress redirects blood flow, oxygen, and glucose away from executive functionWhat the cell danger response is and why mitochondria shift into protection modeThe difference between acute stress that enhances performance and chronic stress that depletes itHow reduced ventral vagal tone affects clarity, creativity, and leadershipThe hidden cost of decision-making from a foggy stateWhat happens when the nervous system receives consistent signals of safety [00:00] Recap: situational brain fog and cognitive drag [02:24] Acute vs chronic stress through the lens of nature[03:30] When stress strengthens versus when it stunts growth [04:52] Introduction to the cell danger response[05:25] Mitochondria as environmental sensors, not just power plants [06:10] Why clarity becomes biologically expensive[07:55] Cognitive capacity as a finite neurobudget[09:31] Cognitive load theory and reclaiming mental bandwidth [10:05] Excess importance and pressure through a physics lens [12:35] Cool indifference and releasing pressure without disengaging [14:15] Management debt and the hidden cost of foggy decisions[14:55] Decision lag, incoherence, and innovation ceilings [16:36] What changes when the nervous system feels safe [19:00] Reducing neural leakage and soft fascination[19:40] Rhythmic recovery and clean effort–rest transitions [21:24] Brain fog as a signal of internal over-leverage[22:05] Energy debt and long-term performance cost 14 Day inerOS Reset https://deannawrose.com/osreset Take the Nervous System Pattern Quiz https://shorturl.at/aHm4Q Connect on Social https://instagram.com/dr.deannawrose/ How I support high performers https://deannawrose.com/programs  Get email updates https://deannawrose.com/connect#newsletter

    24 min

  6. FEB 6

    10: Reset your nervous system baseline in 7 minutes [follow along]

    A guided nervous system regulation practice designed for people who feel chronically activated and mentally overstimulated. If you’re exhausted but wired, dealing with brain fog, constant urgency, shallow breathing, jaw tension, or difficulty slowing down, this practice is for you. You’ll be guided through simple, body-based tools that help your nervous system shift out of survival mode and back into a regulated baseline. In this episode, you’ll experience: How to recognize high-guard stress patterns in real time through body sensationsA gentle interoceptive scan to build nervous system awareness and choiceA guided Anchor State transition using breath, eye softening, and slow neck movementPractical ventral vagal support to reduce urgency, racing thoughts, and internal pressureA repeatable regulation practice you can use before meetings, after difficult conversations, or when mental fog sets inThis is a state shift that restores access to clarity, presence, and internal control without requiring you to slow your life down. This episode is especially relevant if you’re searching for: nervous system regulation, somatic practices for stress, ventral vagal activation, burnout recovery, brain fog relief, anxiety without mindfulness, stress reset for high performers, polyvagal exercises, or how to calm your nervous system without slowing down your ambition. [00:00] Introduction to Nervous System Regulation [02:47] Experiencing the Anchor State [06:03] Integrating Regulation into Daily Life 14 Day inerOS Reset https://deannawrose.com/osreset Take the Nervous System Pattern Quiz https://shorturl.at/aHm4Q Connect on Social https://instagram.com/dr.deannawrose/ How I support high performers https://deannawrose.com/programs  Get email updates https://deannawrose.com/connect#newsletter

    8 min

  7. FEB 6

    09. Cognitive Drag: Is it Burnout or Something Else?

    In high-stakes leadership and performance environments, brain fog is a signal. When you walk into a meeting and struggle to find nuance, or stare at a strategy deck without clarity, what you’re experiencing is cognitive drag. The invisible friction that shows up when your internal system is overloaded. In this episode, we move away from forcing focus with caffeine, nootropics, and productivity hacks, and instead audit the architecture of clarity itself. Brain fog tends to fall into three categories, and knowing which one you’re dealing with completely changes how you approach the problem. We explore: when brain fog is driven by biological or metabolic mismatchwhen it’s a lifestyle load and dopamine regulation issueand when it’s a nervous-system response to pressure, growth, and visibilityThis episode is especially relevant for high performers who have optimized their habits, supplements, and routines, yet still experience situational brain fog during important decisions or moments of expansion. If clarity has been inconsistent despite doing “everything right,” this episode will help you identify where the leak actually is and why awareness itself is the first step toward restoring focus. You’ll Find in This Episode Why brain fog is a signal, not a personal failureWhat cognitive drag actually means in high-performance environmentsWhy forcing focus makes clarity worse over timeThe three main categories of brain fogHow metabolic and nutrient mismatches affect executive functionThe gut brain inflammation link and mental fogLifestyle load, dopamine depletion, and morning digital spikesWhy caffeine postpones the problem instead of fixing itSituational brain fog during growth, pressure, and visibility [00:00] Brain fog as a signal and the concept of cognitive drag[01:00] Auditing the architecture of clarity [01:50] Category 1: Biological baseline and metabolic mismatch [04:05] Category 2: Lifestyle load and dopamine mismanagement [05:35] Category 3: Situational brain fog under pressure [07:00] Awareness as a signal of safety to the nervous system[07:45] How restoring internal regulation brings clarity back 14 Day inerOS Reset https://deannawrose.com/osreset Take the Nervous System Pattern Quiz https://shorturl.at/aHm4Q Connect on Social https://instagram.com/dr.deannawrose/ How I support high performers https://deannawrose.com/programs  Get email updates https://deannawrose.com/connect#newsletter

    8 min

  8. FEB 6

    08. Two Practices to Help Your Nervous System Feel Safe

    This weekend episode is designed to complement the main episode of the week by offering practical tools you can start using right away to support your nervous system. While the main episode focuses on understanding stress patterns, burnout, and capacity from a big-picture lens, this episode brings the work into your day-to-day life with two simple, grounded practices that help rebuild safety and internal capacity without adding more pressure or complexity. If you’re feeling burned out, emotionally overloaded, mentally stretched, or stuck in survival mode, this episode offers a gentle starting point. Rather than forcing productivity or mindset shifts, we focus on reducing internal load and signaling safety to the nervous system through small, repeatable actions. These practices are especially supportive for high performers who carry responsibility for others, struggle to slow down, or feel like they’re always on, even when nothing urgent is happening. [01:35] Practice 1: Reducing emotional, mental, and energetic load [04:56] Practice 2: Signaling safety to your nervous system 14 Day inerOS Reset https://deannawrose.com/osreset Take the Nervous System Pattern Quiz  https://shorturl.at/aHm4Q Connect on Social  https://instagram.com/dr.deannawrose/ How I support high performers  https://deannawrose.com/programs  Get email updates  https://deannawrose.com/connect#newsletter

    9 min
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Stop paying the $30k burnout tax and lead in your Anchor State. Most founders think their ability to push is an asset. But if you’re relying on willpower to get through Tuesday, you’re just surviving. Welcome to The Wellthy Life, for growth obsessed founders ready to trade white-knuckling for predictability, real control, and the version of themselves that built the success. Hosted by Deanna, we bridge hard science (data, logic, ROI) with the humanness of presence, safety, and curiosity to provide the SOP for your executive leadership.

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  • Creator
    Deanna Rose
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Deanna Rose
  • Show Website
    The Wellthy Life