The Phlip Side

THE PHLIP SIDE
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Mental health is something we all deal with—but rarely talk about honestly. Each week, this podcast brings real conversations to the forefront, co-hosted with a mental health professional who helps break things down in a way that actually makes sense. We talk about the hard stuff, the everyday struggles, and the small wins—offering insight, clarity, and tools you can take with you long after the episode ends. No shame. No fluff. Just honest conversations that meet you where you are.

  1. May 6

    Victim Mentality

    In a world that often feels chaotic and unpredictable, it’s easy to fall into the role of a victim. When so much is out of our control, reacting becomes natural—and accountability can quietly get replaced with blame. But while circumstances can explain where we are, they don’t have to define where we stay. The moment we start compiling a longer list of excuses than opportunities, we give away our power. Progress doesn’t stop because life is hard—it stops when we convince ourselves we have no say in what comes next. There are real challenges, real disadvantages, and real setbacks that people face every day. Ignoring that would be dishonest. But living in that space too long turns explanation into limitation. At some point, the shift has to happen. You stop asking, “Why is this happening to me?” and start asking, “What can I do with this?” Because the difference between feeling like a piece on the chessboard and becoming the player is simple: one reacts to every move, the other decides what happens next—even if the options aren’t ideal. Ownership doesn’t mean life is fair. It means you refuse to let unfairness be the final word.

    48 min

  2. Apr 16

    Attachment Styles

    n a generation focused on understanding each other and building deeper emotional connections, attachment styles have come to the forefront. They give us a way to look beyond surface-level issues and understand what’s really driving our reactions. When we take the time to learn them—both ours and our partner’s—it can strengthen a relationship in ways most people never reach. But the flip side is just as real. When we don’t understand these patterns, we misread each other. We take things personally that aren’t meant that way. We react to behaviors we don’t fully understand—and that’s where conflict grows. Sometimes the issue isn’t the situation itself… it’s the meaning we attach to it.

    50 min

  3. Mar 18

    Social Media, The Thin Line Between Reality and Theater

    We’ve been drawn to stories—movies, theater, storytelling—since as far back as the 6th century. Why? Because they give us an escape. They let us step outside of our everyday lives and imagine something bigger. We connect with characters, we admire their strengths, and sometimes we even aspire to become a little more like them. But what happens when the line between entertainment and reality starts to blur? What happens when the “stage” is no longer something we step into for a moment—but something we live in every day? When we stop compartmentalizing what we watch, and instead begin shaping who we are around what gets attention? At that point, we’re no longer just the audience—we’ve become part of the show. And that’s where things get complicated. Social media is a powerful influence. It can shape how we think, how we see ourselves, and even who we believe we’re supposed to be—all based on what an algorithm decides to put in front of us. It’s subtle, but it’s constant. And for our generation, this might be one of the biggest challenges we face. How much is too much?Who are we without the likes and comments?And maybe the most important question—what does this mean for the next generation watching us? Today, we’re diving into all of it.

    48 min

  4. Feb 17

    Anxiety, The Gift That Keeps On Giving

    Anxiety really is part of being alive—it’s a built-in alarm system. In the right dose it helps us prepare, focus, and avoid danger. The problem is when the alarm becomes oversensitive (goes off too often), too loud (feels overwhelming), or gets “stuck on,” and that’s when it starts shrinking your life instead of protecting it.

    1h 2m

  5. Feb 10

    Suicide The Thief In The Night

    Suicide is a thief. It shows up in the night when you least expect it and steals a part of you—something that can never be returned. Learning how to survive something like this doesn’t come easy, because when you lose them, you lose a part of yourself, too. The pain can be debilitating. Grief can pull us into the same dark mental space the person we lost once lived in—only now, they’re no longer here. Today, we’re taking a deep dive into the emotional turmoil that follows suicide loss: what it does to the mind and body, what it can make you believe, and what healing can actually look like over time. We’ll also talk about how to give support, how to receive it, and what to do—before it’s too late.

    50 min

  6. Jan 31

    Blame it on my A.D.D.

    The terms ADD and ADHD get thrown around a lot—often casually, sometimes incorrectly—but how well do we truly understand them? In this episode, we slow the conversation down and look beyond the labels to explore what ADD/ADHD actually are, how they work, and how they impact both those who live with them and the people who love them. We unpack the science in real-world language, breaking down how attention, motivation, emotion, and focus function differently—not deficiently—in the ADHD brain. We also explore how misunderstanding these differences can strain relationships, communication, and self-worth. Most importantly, we challenge the narrative that ADHD is only a struggle. This conversation highlights the often-overlooked strengths—creativity, empathy, resilience, innovation, and passion—while honestly addressing the real areas of challenge that require support, systems, and compassion. This episode isn’t about excuses or labels. It’s about understanding, replacing shame with clarity, and learning how different minds can thrive when they’re truly seen.

    50 min

  7. Jan 27

    Situationships

    Situationships can serve as a useful and meaningful part of one’s relational journey, provided they’re approached with awareness and communication. It is essential to assess whether they bring joy and growth or create emotional distress and confusion. By understanding one's own needs and desires, along with the dynamics at play, individuals can navigate situationships—and their relationships more broadly—with greater clarity and intention. Making conscious choices about connection can dramatically shape not only the current relational landscape but also future opportunities for love and companionship.

    55 min

  8. Jan 16

    After The Divorce

    After what seems to be hardest part you realize you have only just begun. Navigating life after divorce with children comes with a brand new set of challenges that most of us aren't prepared to face. Today we dive into that and have real conversation on what happens and how to handle it.

    57 min
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Mental health is something we all deal with—but rarely talk about honestly. Each week, this podcast brings real conversations to the forefront, co-hosted with a mental health professional who helps break things down in a way that actually makes sense. We talk about the hard stuff, the everyday struggles, and the small wins—offering insight, clarity, and tools you can take with you long after the episode ends. No shame. No fluff. Just honest conversations that meet you where you are.

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  • Creator
    THE PHLIP SIDE
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © THE PHLIP SIDE
  • Show Website
    The Phlip Side