Imperfectly Fertile

Emily Barker (CNMdip, mBANT, CNHC)

Are you on a fertility journey, trying to conceive (TTC), and feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to do everything perfectly? Welcome to Imperfectly Fertile, the podcast that helps you let go of guilt and find clarity on your path to pregnancy. Whether you’re navigating IVF, exploring nutrition for fertility, or just beginning your TTC journey, this podcast is here to help you release the pressure to be perfect, and remind you that you don’t have to do it all to conceive. Learn more about Emily Barker (CNMdip, mBANT, CNHC) at https://www.rootsandshootsldn.com/ and on Instagram @‌rootsandshoot

Episodes

  1. Nourishing your relationship when TTC with Aly Bullock

    FEB 9

    Nourishing your relationship when TTC with Aly Bullock

    One of the hardest parts of TTC (if you are in a couple) is nourishing your relationship alongside the rollercoaster of emotions that can come with trying for a baby. This week Emily speaks to Aly Bullock, a couple & family therapist who specialises in helping couples communicate with intention for a healthier relationship. 3:06 - Common things Aly sees with the couples she's supporting through infertility - couples having different reactions to the journey and the conflict and disconnect that can sometimes come along with that 4.40 - What things does Aly recommend couples can do to feel more connected when navigating disconnect and reacting differently to the journey 5:49 - How do you navigate your relationship when you feel you are doing more or making more effort than your partner or your partner is less on board 12:20 - How trying to follow all the rules and putting more pressure on yourself can have a negative impact on your relationship and how to support yourself and each other 16:00 - Sex while you are TTC. Normalising how hard this is, ways to incorporate fun into sex on your fertility journey to make things feel less strain 19:30 - Tools and activities to help couples feel more connected 26:00 - Aly's key takeaways We talk about common issues that can come up for couples while going through the stress of infertility and miscarriage, as well as some key tools couples can lean on to support themselves and each other, and work towards a more harmonious and connected relationship. Visit Aly's Website at⁠: alysonbullock.com⁠ Follow Aly on Instagram ⁠@relationshipswithaly Learn more about Emily Barker (CNMdip, mBANT, CNHC) at ⁠https://www.rootsandshootsldn.com/⁠ and on Instagram @‌rootsandshoots_fertility

    29 min
  2. Letting Go of The Fairytale - Navigating Solo- Parenthood and with Mel Johnson

    JAN 12

    Letting Go of The Fairytale - Navigating Solo- Parenthood and with Mel Johnson

    Are you considering a solo parent journey or already walking that path? In this episode, Emily sits down with Mel Johnson, The Solo Parenthood Coach. Mel talks about her own journey to solo parenthood and going from navigating the grief around not being able to become a parent in the way she’d imagined to thriving as a solo mum to her daughter Daisy. 2:00 - Mel’s story and journey to solo parenthood 4:41 - Creating Mel’s business, ‘The Stalk and I’  7:20 - Navigating the decision to become a solo parent - letting go of the fairy tale we’ve been sold 14:00 - Rethinking what perfect is - letting go of binaries and embracing your own way 16:50 - Grieving the loss of an imagined future and letting  20.35 - Mel’s advice for women considering going down the sold parent route  23:45 - Fears vs reality of becoming a solo parent  26:44 - Navigating finding a sperm donor 30:00 - Being single in a couple-centric world 35:00 - Self-care non-negotiables and Mel’s ‘Life Raft’ as a solo parent  39.45 - Mel’s three key takeaways  Mel gives her advice around making the decision to pursue the path in the first place, doing the work to feel confident in embracing the journey, and letting go of the fairytale we’ve been sold about how becoming a mum should look. She explores the things she wished she knew when she was starting to navigate the journey herself as well as some valuable gems of insight for anyone on this path or considering a solo parent journey. Visit Mel’s website at: https://thestorkandi.com/ Follow Mel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_stork_and_i/?hl=en Learn more about Emily Barker (CNMdip, mBANT, CNHC) at ⁠https://www.rootsandshootsldn.com/⁠ and on Instagram @‌rootsandshoots_fertility

    44 min
  3. Living in Sync with Your Menstrual Cycle for Fertility with Laura Wilkes

    JAN 5

    Living in Sync with Your Menstrual Cycle for Fertility with Laura Wilkes

    Have you ever wondered why you feel different throughout your menstrual cycle? In this episode of Imperfectly Fertile, Emily sits down with women’s health expert and yin yoga teacher Laura Wilkes to explore what it really means to live in sync with your menstrual cycle, what “fertile living” is, and how it’s different from simply trying to conceive. You will learn how understanding the natural rhythm of your menstrual cycle phases and hormones can help you feel balanced, reduce stress, and boost fertility naturally. 01:00 – Laura’s Story & Journey to Hormone Healing 06:30 – What Is Cyclical Living? 09:23 – The Difference Between Women’s and Men’s Cycles 13:10 – How Modern Living Affects Your Menstrual Cycle 15:00 – The Four Phases of the Menstrual Cycle 20:20 – Yin Yoga for Hormone Balance & Fertility 25:12 – What Does “Fertile Living” Really Mean? 32:25 – TRE: Tension & Trauma Release for Women 36:00 – Three Key Takeaways for Living Cyclically Laura shares her powerful personal story of burnout, hormonal imbalance, and healing through cycle syncing and cyclical living. Learn how to recognize the signs your body gives you throughout each phase — from menstruation to ovulation — and how to support your energy, nutrition, and movement to align with your body instead of fighting against it. Visit Laura’s Website at https://www.laurajwilkes.com/ Follow Laura on Instagram @‌laurajwilkes_ Learn more about Emily Barker (CNMdip, mBANT, CNHC) at https://www.rootsandshootsldn.com/ and on Instagram @‌rootsandshoots_fertility

    39 min

About

Are you on a fertility journey, trying to conceive (TTC), and feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to do everything perfectly? Welcome to Imperfectly Fertile, the podcast that helps you let go of guilt and find clarity on your path to pregnancy. Whether you’re navigating IVF, exploring nutrition for fertility, or just beginning your TTC journey, this podcast is here to help you release the pressure to be perfect, and remind you that you don’t have to do it all to conceive. Learn more about Emily Barker (CNMdip, mBANT, CNHC) at https://www.rootsandshootsldn.com/ and on Instagram @‌rootsandshoot

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