Life After the Closet

Matt Boling
  • 5.0 (8)
  • SEXUALITY

Life After the Closet explores what happens after we say the words ‘I’m gay’...and real life keeps going. From messy healing and identity shifts to joy, love, humor, and growth, this podcast dives into the raw, honest, and often hilarious stories of gay life beyond the coming-out moment.

Episodes

  1. JAN 8

    Navigating Sobriety and the Road to Self-Acceptance as a Gay Man

    In this episode, Matt shares his journey through coming out, substance abuse, and his path to sobriety. He discusses the struggles he faced with alcohol and drug addiction, which began in college, and highlights the pivotal moments that led him to seek help. Matt also talks about the support from his family, relationships affected by his addiction, and the challenges and joys of being sober while interacting with the gay community. He provides valuable insights for people struggling with addiction and advice on how to support loved ones dealing with similar issues. Now sober for over a year, Matt continues to focus on maintaining his recovery and forming genuine connections as a gay man.

    35 min

  2. 12/31/2025

    From Self-Critique to Self-Compassion: A Candid Talk on Body Dysmorphia

    In this episode, I engage with Adam in a candid and insightful conversation about body dysmorphia, particularly within the gay community. Adam shares his personal journey, discussing his struggles with self-image since coming out at 25. The discussion touches upon societal pressures, the impact of social media, and the comparison culture pervasive in the LGBTQ+ community. They explore the importance of self-acceptance, the role of supportive relationships, and practical coping mechanisms like writing, therapy, and self-reflection. The episode emphasizes the power of owning one's unique identity and the significance of mutual support and kindness in healing.

    54 min

  3. 12/30/2025

    Life After the Closet

    In the first episode of 'Life After the Closet,' host Matt is joined by his longtime friend, Rene, to discuss the inspiration and purpose behind the podcast. They delve into Matt's personal journey of coming out at 30 and all of the unexpected challenges, joys, and lessons learned along the way. The episode explores themes of authenticity, vulnerability, and the broad spectrum of experiences within the LGBTQ+ community. Matt shares his vision for the podcast, aiming to provide a safe space for all voices, promote understanding, and offer hope and humor to listeners navigating life after the closet.

    48 min
  • 3 Episodes

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
8 Ratings

About

Life After the Closet explores what happens after we say the words ‘I’m gay’...and real life keeps going. From messy healing and identity shifts to joy, love, humor, and growth, this podcast dives into the raw, honest, and often hilarious stories of gay life beyond the coming-out moment.

Information

  • Creator
    Matt Boling
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    3
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Life After the Closet