RELIGION SUCKS - Going Deeper with God

Rich & Kirsten Lasinski

Welcome to Religion Sucks, the podcast that explores what it means to have a real relationship with God—not the empty promises or endless demands of man-made religion—but daily, authentic intimacy with your Creator, in a relationship based on His unchanging character, not your performance. Hosted by Pastor Rich Lasinski and his wife, author and speaker Kirsten Lasinski.

Episodes

  1. 4D AGO

    Lost in the Wilderness of the Heart

    Pain has a way of exposing what we believe about God. Lynn joins us to trace the arc from head knowledge to heart transformation, and he does it by telling the hardest story he knows: losing his son on a Colorado 14er and facing the five wounds—deceit and denial, fear, anger, sadness, and shame—that followed. Instead of burying that story, he chose to invest it. What we hide in the dark can be used against us; what we bring into the light, God can use. We explore why the heart sits at the center of spiritual life, and Lynn shares how a familiar parable reframed his grief as a trust from God to steward, not a secret to hide. That shift unlocked a ministry of presence where the goal is not to fix people but to sit with them, ask better questions, and gently ask, “What is Christ saying to you right now?” Freedom looks like honest language, a safe community, and the courage to name what hurts without fear of judgment. We also unpack the quiet crisis many churches face: a lobby culture that discourages honest conversations that lead to healing. From mountain memories to Isaiah 61’s promise to bind up the brokenhearted, this conversation charts a practical path for anyone stuck in shame, grief, or numbness. If you’re tired of performance religion and hungry for a faith that can hold real life, you’ll find hope, language, and next steps here. If this story stirred something, share it with a friend, subscribe for more honest conversations, and leave a review telling us what you’re bringing into the light next.

    45 min

  2. FEB 10

    From Performance to Peace: Seven Reasons Why Religion Sucks

    Ever feel like your spiritual life is a performance review you can’t pass? We pull back the curtain on why religion—understood as striving to reach God through our own effort—wears people out, breeds competition, and stifles honest questions. Instead of piling on more rules, we trace a simpler, stronger thread: the gospel’s invitation to follow Jesus, find rest, and experience transformation from the inside out. If you’re tired of the spiritual treadmill and longing for an authentic experience of faith, this one’s for you. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs relief from striving, and leave a review telling us which reason resonated most. Then come tell us your story at religionsucks.co.

    24 min

  3. JAN 27

    Facing Disappointment While Holding On To Faith

    What if you did everything “right” and still ended up with heartbreak you can’t pray away? We sit down with author and leader Joanna Meyer to talk about the gap between faith and reality—where singleness stretches for decades, infertility closes cherished doors, and a pastor’s family breaks apart. Joanna doesn’t offer quick fixes. She invites us to strip faith to the studs, set down performance, and meet a Savior who knows suffering from the inside. Across this conversation, we unlearn the myth that a faithful life always trends upward. Joanna shows how American ideals of constant progress can distort discipleship, making us equate God’s favor with outcomes. Instead, we turn to the older, deeper path of lament—naming what is broken, turning toward God, and choosing hope even when circumstances don’t shift.   If this conversation met you in a hard place, share it with a friend who needs company in the tension. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: where are you learning to lament and still hope?

    42 min

  4. JAN 14

    Finding the Good in Cancer

    RELIGION SUCKS - Going Deeper with God

    48 min

  5. JAN 1

    Delivered from Darkness, Part One

    A quiet lie can rewrite a whole life: you’re not enough, you don’t deserve love, you’re better off hiding. Our guest, Lauren, traces how those lies took root in her life, how social media amplified the ache, and how anxiety, depression, and self-harm became counterfeit forms of belonging.  What unfolds isn’t a quick fix or a neat conversion—it’s a slow return to hope through worship, honest community, and a new identity that's stronger than her shame.  If you’ve ever wondered how to support someone in the pit—or how to climb out yourself—this story offers real hope. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs encouragement, and leave a review to help more people find their way to healing.

    28 min

  6. JAN 1

    Finding God's Grace in Addiction

    What if the change you’ve been chasing isn’t about trying harder but being made new from the inside out? Michelle joins us to tell a raw, hope-filled story of addiction and shame transformed by grace.  Together, we unpack some tools for sustained sobriety, how to keep pursuing God when people disappoint, and the daily practices that keep temptation small by keeping the truth close.  If you or someone you love is wrestling with addiction, this conversation offers a path forward grounded in grace and a Savior who changes hearts before habits. Listen, share with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review to help more people find this story of real, lasting freedom.

    24 min

  7. JAN 1

    Why Does God Allow Suffering?

    A wise person once said that you can't know that Jesus is all you need until Jesus is all you have. Shawn Reinsel is a loving husband to his wife, Dana, and father to six sons; he pastors a church on South Padre Island, TX, authors books, and heads up a thriving international ministry. Before these blessings, however, he walked through a heartbreaking season of loss and betrayal.  Shawn joins us to wrestle with the complex question of God's presence in our suffering. We dig into why the Holy Spirit often leads people into the wilderness, how Romans 8 reframes suffering with purpose, and why David’s long conflict with Saul prepared him to be a king after God’s heart. This is a grounded, compassionate conversation for anyone wondering where God is when hope feels thin. If the themes here resonate—grace, suffering, spiritual formation, and union with Christ—tap follow, share this with a friend who needs hope, and leave a short review so more people can find the show.

    37 min
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About

Welcome to Religion Sucks, the podcast that explores what it means to have a real relationship with God—not the empty promises or endless demands of man-made religion—but daily, authentic intimacy with your Creator, in a relationship based on His unchanging character, not your performance. Hosted by Pastor Rich Lasinski and his wife, author and speaker Kirsten Lasinski.

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