The Long Strange Trip Podcast

Josh Patrick

Join us as we investigate some of life's most vexing issues. We're looking at doing businesss differently, retirement as re-invention, death without PTSD, Wisdom and how to gain it and use it, Resilience as a strategy and understanding transitions. Each week, we'll have either thought leaders to help us see that there is more than one way to skin a cat. And, in every episode we'll be seeking new and different solutions for each issue.

  1. Episode 21: The Hidden Voices Running Your Life Explained (IFS Therapy) with Tammy Sollenberger

    MAY 13

    Episode 21: The Hidden Voices Running Your Life Explained (IFS Therapy) with Tammy Sollenberger

    Who’s Driving Your Bus? Navigating the Internal Family System Have you ever felt like there’s a literal argument going on inside your head? One part of you is ready to conquer the world, while another is whispering that you’re a fraud, and a third just wants to hide under the covers with a bag of Hershey’s kisses. I’ve been there. In fact, I’m 73, and I’m still figuring out who’s actually behind the wheel.  In this episode of The Long Strange Trip, I sit down with Tammy Sollenberger, a gifted Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, to talk about why we do the "stupid" things we do—and how to stop vilifying ourselves for it. We dive deep into the "multiplicity of the mind" and why "No Bad Parts" isn't just a catchy book title, but a way to find actual internal peace. We explore: The Internal Family: Why your mind is less like a single person and more like a crowded dinner party (and yes, sometimes it’s rowdy).Managers vs. Firefighters: How our protective parts try to keep us "likable" or "numb" to avoid the pain of our inner exiles.The "C" Qualities: How to access your Authentic Self—that core of calm, curiosity, and compassion that’s often buried under the noise.The Skiing Dilemma: A personal look at my own struggle with aging and the conflicting voices that crop up when life forces a transition.If you’ve ever felt "stuck," "ineffective," or just plain curious about why your brain works the way it does, this conversation is for you. We aren't just talking psychology; we're talking about how to become a more integrated, self-led human

    29 min
  2. Episode 20: Redefining a Good Death: Insights from a Death Doula Rose Zealand

    MAY 6

    Episode 20: Redefining a Good Death: Insights from a Death Doula Rose Zealand

    In this episode, we’re asking a question that most of us spend our lives trying to outrun: What does it actually mean to have a "good death"? It’s a heavy topic, and I’ll be the first to admit that exploring this territory can feel very disconcerting. Today, I’m sitting down with Rose Zeeland, who looks at the end of life through a unique, dual lens as both a Certified Financial Planner and a Death Doula.  We aren't just talking about the clinical or the legal "stuff" here. We’re digging into the emotional and logistical challenges that start to feel much more real for those of us in our 40s and 50s. I’ve often found myself thinking about the "way less life going forward" part of the journey, and Rose offers a perspective that’s grounded in both professional expertise and deep human care.  In this episode, we explore: The Transition: Why Rose believes midlife is the critical time to start these honest investigations. The Family Table: How to have those necessary discussions with the people you love without it feeling morbid. Logistics vs. Legacy: Navigating the complex financial wealth management side while holding space for the emotional weight of loss. Being the Support: What it looks like to walk alongside a client or loved one through their final transition. I’ll be honest—I teach this kind of stuff, and I still find it difficult to apply to my own life sometimes. Rose is a fellow traveler who provides more than just a checklist; she provides a way to navigate the uncertainty with a bit more grace. Whether you're a business owner in transition or just someone trying to figure out how to support a parent, I think you’ll find this conversation as helpful as I did.  How are you handling the "un-talkable" conversations in your own life?

    33 min

About

Join us as we investigate some of life's most vexing issues. We're looking at doing businesss differently, retirement as re-invention, death without PTSD, Wisdom and how to gain it and use it, Resilience as a strategy and understanding transitions. Each week, we'll have either thought leaders to help us see that there is more than one way to skin a cat. And, in every episode we'll be seeking new and different solutions for each issue.