In this episode, I explore how faith can unravel without collapsing. I walk through a practical way to tell the difference between the core of Christianity and the packaging around it, offering questions to help you sort through doubt, grief, and uncertainty with honesty. My focus is on what remains when old assumptions fall away—especially the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus, grace, and love as the center of theology. Key Topics Core vs. Packaging: I distinguish between the core of faith and the cultural, political, and fear-based packaging that often surrounds it. The Center Points: I share what I see as essential: the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus, grace, covenant love, love of God and neighbor, and new creation. Signs It’s Time to Let Go: I break down warning signs that a belief may need to be released, including chronic fear, denial of reality, inability to tolerate questions, and prioritizing control over love. Does It Shrink Jesus?: I argue that any theology making Jesus smaller, more manageable, or less compassionate should be reexamined. Stability in Deconstruction: I describe how a strong foundation allows questions, stretching, and doubt to happen without losing your center. Grace and Resurrection: I talk about how grace is never earned and how resurrection anchors our hope, perseverance, and sacrificial love. Love as the Goal: I frame love as the very purpose and end of theology, using Jesus’ command to love one another as our ultimate measure. The Role of Scripture: I explain why Scripture is authoritative when it points to Christ and serves love, but distorted when used to support power, political regimes, or harm. Navigating Grief: I acknowledge the heavy grief that comes with letting go—including loss, anger, betrayal, and disorientation—and why feeling grief isn’t proof that you’re wrong. Four Questions for Discernment: I close with four actionable questions to help guide your process. Does this belief draw me toward love? Does this reflect the character of Jesus? Does this produce humility or superiority? Does this increase trust or fear? Transcript
