Healing After Heartbreak

Mary D. Majors
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Healing After Heartbreak is a trauma‑sensitive, spiritually grounded podcast for women who are ready to rise — not just from what hurt them, but into who they were always meant to be. We start with the pain that cracked your world open, but we don't stay there. This show guides you into clarity, confidence, emotional safety, and a grounded identity rooted in truth. Hosted by Mary Majors — a Master Certified Life Coach with a Master's degree in School Counseling, a background as a dyslexia therapist specializing in brain rewiring, and a doctoral focus in Community Care & Counseling (Traumatology) — this podcast blends science, spirituality, nervous‑system wisdom, and lived experience to help you heal deeply and rebuild gently. Each episode is warm, clear, and practical. You'll learn how heartbreak impacts your nervous system, how to restore self‑trust, how to hear your intuition again, and how to step into relationships with discernment instead of fear. Mary walks with you through the inner work that makes love feel safe: identity, boundaries, emotional regulation, spiritual clarity, and embodied confidence. This is not a "just move on" space. This is a space for women who want to heal with intention, compassion, and truth — and rise into the most grounded, confident version of themselves. Whether you're fresh out of a breakup or rebuilding your life with new strength, you'll find tools, stories, and steady guidance to help you reconnect with yourself — and choose love from a place of peace, not panic. You're not starting over. You're returning to yourself. And you don't have to do it alone.

Episodes

  1. Episode 8 - Breakup Fog: Why You Feel Confused, Overwhelmed, or 'Not Yourself' — and How to Get Your Clarity Back

    4D AGO

    Episode 8 - Breakup Fog: Why You Feel Confused, Overwhelmed, or 'Not Yourself' — and How to Get Your Clarity Back

    🌟 Episode 8 Show Notes Breakup Fog: Why You Feel Confused, Overwhelmed, or "Not Yourself" — and How to Get Clarity Back Welcome back to Healing After Heartbreak — the podcast where women rise into clarity, confidence, and emotional safety after life shakes them awake. Hosted by Mary Majors, a master‑certified confidence and clarity coach, this show blends psychology, nervous‑system wisdom, and faith to guide you back to the woman you were always meant to be. In today's episode, we're talking about something almost every woman experiences after a painful breakup but very few understand: breakup fog — that disorienting sense of not being able to think clearly, make decisions, or feel like yourself. If you've been feeling confused, scattered, numb, or mentally exhausted, this episode will help you understand why — and how to gently find your way back to clarity. 💛 In This Episode, You'll Learn: • What breakup fog actually is A physiological, emotional, and spiritual response to loss — not a personal failure. • Why your brain feels offline How cognitive overload, emotional flooding, and nervous‑system shock disrupt your ability to think clearly. • Why your emotions feel overwhelming Your system is processing grief, fear, shame, confusion, and longing all at once. • Why your intuition feels quiet Heartbreak shakes your spiritual grounding and sense of inner knowing — but this disconnection is temporary. • Why you feel "not yourself" Your old identity is dissolving, and your new one hasn't formed yet. You're in the in‑between. • Why shame makes the fog worse Shame thickens the fog and disconnects you from your intuition. Compassion clears it. • The 3‑Layer Clarity Reset A simple, five‑minute practice to reconnect with your body, mind, and spirit so clarity can return. 🌿 The 3‑Layer Clarity Reset (Episode Breakdown) 1. Ground the Body Use breath and presence to signal safety to your nervous system. Clarity begins with regulation. 2. Name What You're Feeling Giving language to your emotions reduces overwhelm and brings your thinking brain back online. 3. Ask Your Heart One Gentle Question: "What do I need right now?" Not forever. Not for the rest of your life. Just right now. Whatever rises is enough. This practice helps you shift out of survival mode and back into yourself — one layer at a time. ✨ Key Takeaways Breakup fog is not weakness — it's your system protecting you. You're not broken — you're buffering. Clarity returns through safety, not force. You're not losing yourself — you're transitioning into a wiser, more grounded version of you. Healing is not about rushing; it's about re‑rooting. 🤍 Join the New Facebook Community Our brand‑new Facebook group for Healing After Heartbreak: The Podcast is officially open. It's a faith‑rooted, trauma‑sensitive sanctuary for women who are rebuilding their identity, restoring self‑trust, and rising into their next chapter with confidence. Inside, we'll reflect on episodes, share breakthroughs, ask honest questions, and support each other as we grow. You're welcome here. You're supported here. You belong here.  🔗 Links Mentioned Join the Facebook Community Take the free quiz: What's Your Heartbreak Pattern? Explore more of Mary's work: marymajors.com 💬 If This Episode Spoke to You… The simplest way to support the show is to: Subscribe Leave a review Share this episode with a woman who needs it Awareness is where healing begins — and you're already doing the work. 🌸 Final Reminder Breakup fog isn't a sign you're failing. It's a sign you're healing. Clarity will return — and when it does, it will meet a wiser, softer, more grounded version of you.

    8 min
  2. You Might Also Like: Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang

    4D AGO · BONUS

    You Might Also Like: Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang

    Introducing "The Mayor" (w/ Laura Dern) from Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang. Follow the show: Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang Um, is this thing on? Because a pink corduroy-clad Laura Dern bursts like the sun into the Las Cultch studio to speak with Matt & Bowen at length and... that's OUR world! That's the world that WE're livin' in. Dern whips out a Reese impression, discusses channeling anger better than anyone in the biz, talks creating Amy Jellicoe alongside Mike White in Enlightened, and gets into both the comedic and dramatic brutality of Big Little Lies. Also, defining wonder whilst looking up at CGI Brachiosaurii, starring as Ellen's gay love interest in The Puppy Episode of her sitcom, and even more on Jeff Goldblum's chest, if you can believe it. All this, growing up in Hollywood in a different era, reflections on the current status of the entertainment industry, going punk rock at 12 years old, David Lynch as niche yet mainstream culture, and Laura's real life interaction with a Real Housewife. See one of Laura's thousands of current projects (Is This Thing On?, Jay Kelly, Palm Royale on Apple TV+), as well as her millions of indelible ones you probably already love. I SAID THANK YOU! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. Episode 7: Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People: The Hidden Patterns That Drive Your Attraction

    FEB 9

    Episode 7: Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People: The Hidden Patterns That Drive Your Attraction

    Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People: The Hidden Patterns That Drive Your Attraction In this episode of Healing After Heartbreak, Mary gently unpacks one of the most confusing and shame‑soaked patterns women face after heartbreak: choosing the same kind of emotionally unavailable partner again and again. If you've ever wondered why you're drawn to intensity instead of consistency, why "chemistry" feels like anxiety, or why you keep ignoring red flags you swore you'd never overlook again, this episode brings clarity, compassion, and truth. Mary explains how attraction is shaped by your nervous system, your attachment blueprint, and the emotional imprints formed long before your adult relationships. You'll learn why familiar pain can feel like home, why your body confuses activation with chemistry, and how to interrupt old patterns with tenderness instead of self‑blame. This episode is a grounding reminder that you're not broken — you're patterned. And patterns can be healed. ✨ In This Episode You'll Learn Why your attraction patterns are rooted in your nervous system How childhood attachment shapes adult chemistry Why emotionally unavailable partners feel "magnetic" The difference between true chemistry and trauma activation How unhealed wounds pull you toward familiar dynamics Why your body confuses intensity with intimacy The real reason you overlook red flags How dysregulation impacts who you choose What healthy attraction actually feels like How to interrupt old patterns with clarity and compassion ✨ Key Takeaways You're not choosing the wrong people because you're flawed — you're choosing what's familiar. Your nervous system seeks what it knows, not what's healthy. "Chemistry" that feels like anxiety is not chemistry — it's activation. Emotional safety is what allows you to recognize healthy love. You can't choose aligned relationships from a dysregulated state. Healing your patterns begins with understanding them, not judging them. You're not repeating cycles because you're failing — you're repeating them because you're ready to heal them. ✨ Links & Resources Take the "What's Your Heartbreak Pattern?" Quiz — discover the deeper patterns shaping your attraction Learn more about coaching with Mary — support for breaking old cycles and rebuilding self‑trust Visit: marymajors.com Subscribe to the Healing After Heartbreak podcast ✨ If This Episode Supported You… Share it with a woman who needs this reminder. And if you're loving the show, subscribing or leaving a review helps it reach more women rebuilding their self‑trust after heartbreak.

    8 min
  4. Episode 6: You're Not Who You Were When You Started

    FEB 2

    Episode 6: You're Not Who You Were When You Started

    Rediscovering the Three Pillars with deeper wisdom, steadiness, and self‑trust In this episode of Healing After Heartbreak, Mary returns to the Three Pillars introduced in Episode 1 — Emotional Safety, Self‑Trust, and Spiritual Clarity — but through the lens of who you've become since beginning this journey. You're not the same woman who pressed play on the first episode, and because of that, these pillars land differently now: deeper, truer, more embodied. You'll explore how emotional safety creates clarity, how self‑trust rebuilds itself through compassion and nervous‑system awareness, and how spiritual clarity rises when you're no longer operating from survival mode. Mary gently guides you into understanding how these foundations work together to help you choose love from groundedness rather than old patterns. This episode is especially powerful if you're healing after heartbreak, preparing to date again, or longing to feel more connected to your own inner wisdom. When these pillars settle into your body, you stop chasing clarity — and start hearing yourself again. SHOW NOTES — Episode 6

    9 min
  5. Episode 5: Before A Decision Comes the Feeling: Emotion and the Creation Cycle

    JAN 25

    Episode 5: Before A Decision Comes the Feeling: Emotion and the Creation Cycle

    In this episode of Healing After Heartbreak, Mary breaks down the missing link between clarity and choice - emotion.  If you've ever said, "I know what I should do, but something in me won't move," this conversation will help everything click. You'll learn why clarity doesn't come from thinking harder, journaling more, or making another pros-and-cons list - it comes from letting the body complete the emotional cycle it never got to finish.  Mary explains how emotion functions physiologically, why it gets stored, and how safety - not strategy - is what actually unlocks movement. This episode is especially powerful if you're making decisions after heartbreak, dating again, or trying to avoid repeating old patterns.  When emotion is honored, clarity doesn't have to be forced.  It arrives. Show Notes Episode 5

    8 min
  6. Episode 4: My Turning Point: The Season in Life That Broke Me Open

    JAN 19

    Episode 4: My Turning Point: The Season in Life That Broke Me Open

    In this deeply personal episode, Mary shares the season of her life that shattered everything she thought was stable - and ultimately became the beginning of her healing, her clarity, and her calling.  She opens up about the season of life that broke her open - the grief, the disorientation, the spiritual unraveling, and the slow rebuilding of her identity.  This turning point became the foundation of the work she does today: helping women rebuild emotional safety, self-trust, and spiritual clarity after heartbreak.  If you're walking through a season that feels like it's undoing you, this episode will help you feel seen, understood, and less alone. SHOW NOTES

    8 min
  7. Episode 2 - Rebuilding Self Trust After Heartbreak: The Real Reason You Doubt Yourself (and How to Fix It)

    JAN 13

    Episode 2 - Rebuilding Self Trust After Heartbreak: The Real Reason You Doubt Yourself (and How to Fix It)

    After a painful breakup, it's easy to question everything - your judgment,  your intuition, your boundaries, even your ability to choose a healthy partner again. But the real reason you doubt isn't that you're broken. It's because heartbreak shakes your nervous system, distorts your memories, and disconnects you from your inner wisdom.  In this episode, Mary breaks down why self-trust gets so fragile after heartbreak and what's actually happening inside your body and mind. You'll learn how fear, shame, and emotional overwhelm create "false stories" about your past choices - and how to gently rewrite them with truth and compassion.  Show notes Episode 2

    6 min
  8. Episode 3 - Your Nervous System After Heartbreak: How to Calm Anxiety and Feel Safe in Your Body Again

    JAN 12

    Episode 3 - Your Nervous System After Heartbreak: How to Calm Anxiety and Feel Safe in Your Body Again

    Heartbreak doesn't just hurt emotionally - it impacts your entire nervous system. If you've been feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself after a breakup, you're not alone. In this episode, Mary explains why heartbreak triggers survival responses, and why your body reacts even when your mind "knows better." You'll learn how to understand your body's signals, calm anxiety, and gently guide yourself back to emotional safety. Mary also shares simple grounding practices that help you feel steady, supported, and safe in your own body again. Show Notes Episode 3

    7 min
  9. Episode 1 - Before You Date Again: The Three Pillars That Make Love Feel Safe Again

    JAN 10

    Episode 1 - Before You Date Again: The Three Pillars That Make Love Feel Safe Again

    If you've ever stood at the edge of dating again after heartbreak - heart racing, stomach tight, wondering if you're actually ready - this episode is your grounding place.  Before you download the apps, say yes to the coffee dates, or even consider letting someone new into your world, you need something deeper than "hope" or "time heals."  You need safety. In this powerful opening episode, Mary breaks down the three essential pillars every woman needs before dating again: emotional safety, self-trust, and spiritual clarity.  These are not fluffy concepts.  They're the internal anchors that determine whether you repeat old patterns... or step into a completely new chapter of aligned, peaceful love. Show Notes Episode 1

    7 min
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Healing After Heartbreak is a trauma‑sensitive, spiritually grounded podcast for women who are ready to rise — not just from what hurt them, but into who they were always meant to be. We start with the pain that cracked your world open, but we don't stay there. This show guides you into clarity, confidence, emotional safety, and a grounded identity rooted in truth. Hosted by Mary Majors — a Master Certified Life Coach with a Master's degree in School Counseling, a background as a dyslexia therapist specializing in brain rewiring, and a doctoral focus in Community Care & Counseling (Traumatology) — this podcast blends science, spirituality, nervous‑system wisdom, and lived experience to help you heal deeply and rebuild gently. Each episode is warm, clear, and practical. You'll learn how heartbreak impacts your nervous system, how to restore self‑trust, how to hear your intuition again, and how to step into relationships with discernment instead of fear. Mary walks with you through the inner work that makes love feel safe: identity, boundaries, emotional regulation, spiritual clarity, and embodied confidence. This is not a "just move on" space. This is a space for women who want to heal with intention, compassion, and truth — and rise into the most grounded, confident version of themselves. Whether you're fresh out of a breakup or rebuilding your life with new strength, you'll find tools, stories, and steady guidance to help you reconnect with yourself — and choose love from a place of peace, not panic. You're not starting over. You're returning to yourself. And you don't have to do it alone.

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