Ego/Id: The Psychology of Everything

Austin Attaway

Ego/Id is a nonprofit psychology podcast making high-quality mental health research accessible, practical, and human. Each episode features conversations with psychologists, clinicians, and researchers exploring how psychological science shows up in everyday life. We break down complex ideas, highlight current research, and focus on what actually helps, without jargon or judgment. 🎧 New episodes biweekly 📸 Instagram: @ego.over.id 🌐 Website: www.egoid.org

Episodes

  1. 6D AGO

    The Psychology of FOMO with Dr. Michael Bernstein

    Why does being left out feel so personal? Why can ghosting or exclusion stick with us so deeply? And what is the real difference between social exclusion, loneliness, rejection, and FOMO? We sat down with social psychologist Dr. Michael Bernstein to unpack the science of belonging and what happens when that belonging feels threatened. We explored why humans are wired for connection, how exclusion shapes the way we think and behave, why social pain can feel surprisingly similar to physical pain, and how social media can intensify the fear of missing out. We also break down the difference between being directly rejected and being ignored, why ambiguity can be so hard to process, and what we can do to cope when exclusion shows up in everyday life. Whether you’ve felt left out by friends, overlooked in a group, ghosted, or caught in a comparison spiral online, this episode is for you. In this episode, we cover:What psychologists mean by social exclusionThe difference between exclusion, rejection, loneliness, and FOMOWhy humans are so sensitive to belonging threatsHow rejection changes attention, memory, and social perceptionWhy social pain can feel physically painfulThe impact of social media on FOMO and connectionGhosting vs direct rejectionSmall ways to help others feel includedWhy feeling left out is more common than most people thinkAbout our guestDr. Michael Bernstein is a social psychologist whose research focuses on social exclusion, ostracism, person perception, stereotyping, and how social experiences shape human behavior, cognition, and health. You can learn more about him HERECheck out his published academic work HEREGot questions? Shoot him an email! Enjoyed the episode? Please consider following and giving us a 5-star review! It really helps!

    1 hr

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Ego/Id is a nonprofit psychology podcast making high-quality mental health research accessible, practical, and human. Each episode features conversations with psychologists, clinicians, and researchers exploring how psychological science shows up in everyday life. We break down complex ideas, highlight current research, and focus on what actually helps, without jargon or judgment. 🎧 New episodes biweekly 📸 Instagram: @ego.over.id 🌐 Website: www.egoid.org