Tales From a Sex Store

Erotique Studios

Stories and conversations from an adult boutique. We discuss little moments and upcoming events, and share information that we find relatable, educational, or empowering. This show is not for minors.

  1. 1d ago

    Q&A 02 With Hazel and Billy

    The hosts reconnect and catch up, discussing social norms in sex stores, toy cleaning and sterilization, attitudes towards sex toys, encounters outside the sex store, dealing with recognized individuals, propositions and uncomfortable encounters, and handling uncomfortable situations. They emphasize the importance of creating a safe and comfortable environment for customers and employees, and share insights on addressing uncomfortable encounters with grace and professionalism. The conversation covers various themes related to the operation of a sex store, including the store's name on bank statements, product knowledge, in-person shopping experience, handling used sex toys, the hiring process, sexual health and wellness training, comfort and normalcy in a sex store, skills for being a good lover, and evolution and growth. Takeaways Social norms in sex stores differ for men and women.Attitudes towards sex toys should be positive and shame-free. In-person shopping experience is crucial for selecting sex toys.Training for sex store employees includes sexual health and wellness certification. Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting and Catching Up02:25 Do I need toy cleaner - elaboration05:24 How do we deal when seeing customers in public?08:49 How do you deal with people you know outside of work when they come into the store?12:13 Do you ever get propositioned?14:04 What's your most uncomfortable encounter?16:36 Does a sex shop show up on my bank statement?18:25 How well do you know the products?21:44 What do you do with old sex toys?24:03 What is the hiring process like?26:14 Training for sensitivity and inclusivity28:25 Creating comfort in a sex store environment32:06 Closing

    33 min

  2. Jun 1

    Q&A 01 With Hazel

    The conversation covers the diverse customer base of sex stores, the approachable atmosphere, product exploration, customer interactions, and advice for first-time visitors. It emphasizes the importance of creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for all customers, regardless of their background or experience. Takeaways Diverse Customer BaseApproachable Atmosphere Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the World of Sex Shops00:38 What types of people come in?03:51 What if I don't know what I want?05:32 How should I talk about what I want?06:12 What are some interesting products?07:37 What are some interesting questions you get?08:44 Can I touch the products?09:40 Do I need toy cleaner?10:34 Is it a good place to meet a hookup or pick someone up?11:43 Can people return used toys?12:27 I'm embarrassed. When is the best time to visit?13:34 How should I act?14:23 What do you carry?15:27 How do you deal with customers who make other customers uncomfortable?16:04 What do you recommend for a first toy?17:05 What do I need to know before going in?20:03 Contact information and closing.

    21 min

  3. May 25

    An Interview With Hannah Wilson, the Foundress of the Oh Hi Collective

    The conversation delves into the founding and expansion of the Oh Hi Collective, the cultivation of mental health and authenticity, the negotiation of boundaries and rejection sensitivity, and the importance of embracing expansiveness in communication and consent. It considers embracing the expansive responses "yes and" or "no and" and advocates for a more inclusive and open approach to sexual expression. It also highlights the impact of societal norms on sexual education, consent, and the need for age-appropriate sex education. The conversation delves into the themes of compersion, joy, and pleasure, as well as the normalization of conversations around sexuality and pleasure. It explores the rebellion of finding joy despite efforts to ruin it, the importance of sitting in discomfort, and the need to overcome scarcity and judgment in society. Takeaways Healthy SexualitySex TherapyBoundaries and Rejection Sensitivity Embracing expansivenessChallenging societal normsJoy and PleasureNormalization of Conversations Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Oh Hi Collective08:59 Cultivating Mental Health and Authenticity18:12 The Power of Boundaries and Rejection Sensitivity28:01 Negotiating Boundaries and Healthy Sexuality33:50 Embracing Expansiveness in Communication and Consent01:00:27 Overcoming Scarcity and Judgment Discussion Links Oh Hi CollectiveDr. Phronsie Sprenger, PhD, LCSW, CST-SShannon Sepulveda, DPT, PLLCWomen's Health and Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy AlokJaiyaDr. Patti BrittonBridgerCareBlue Mountain ClinicBrené BrownMarc Brackett Ph.D.Audre Lorde

    1h 18m

  4. May 18

    How Normalizing Sexual Curiosity Can Break Shame and Empower Confidence

    The conversation covers a wide range of topics related to sexuality, sex toys, shame, and societal norms. It also delves into the history of sex toys and the evolution of societal attitudes towards sexuality. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, creating a safe and open space for discussing intimate topics. Takeaways Sexuality is diverse and multifacetedShame and societal norms impact sexual expression Chapters 00:00 Exploring Sex Toys and Conversations05:16 Shame and Societal Attitudes18:10 Historical Evolution of Sex Toys23:37 Creating Comfort in a Sex Store Links Body Rituals Among the Naciremadon Miguel Ruiz - The Four AgreementsChainsaws28,000 Year Old DildoOh Hi Collective

    27 min

  5. May 11

    The Playful Power of Toy Demonstrations That Spark Imagination and Bonding in Adult Stores

    The conversation delves into the world of sexual wellness, pleasure, and exploration, sharing stories from the sex store and discussing the evolution of sex toys and technology. It also explores the concept of joy, democratizing orgasm, and the impact of virginity on sexuality. The episode ends with a discussion on future conversations and mental hugs, emphasizing the gentle and joyful nature of the topics discussed. Takeaways Sexual wellness and pleasureExploring new sexual experiences Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Morning Banter05:09 E-Stim Toys and the Perception of Bondage10:20 The Playful and Joyful Nature of Sex Toys16:30 Future Conversations and Mental Hugs Links Erotique's Next Top Sex Toy! Want a free sex toy in exchange for a review? Write in to us at TFASS@ErotiqueStyle.com Find out more on our IG @erotiquebzn

    20 min

  6. May 4

    Contraception Accessibility, Options, and Affordability

    ANNOUNCEMENT Erotique's Next Top Sex Toy Giveaway is live! We are giving out FREE toys from May 1st to the 14th in exchange for answering a short questionnaire! At the end of the questionnaire, you can be entered to win a $100 gift card; and yes, the toys are FREE. Check out our Instagram Page, or stop into the store for more information! Episode Description The conversation covers a range of topics related to sexual health, pleasure, and empowerment. It delves into the accessibility of contraceptives, the importance of self-pleasure, and the need for positive language around sexual empowerment. Takeaways Contraceptive accessibility and affordabilityImportance of self-pleasure and positive language around sexual empowerment Chapters 00:00 Back to Basics and Sexual Expression08:47 Positive Language and Sexual Empowerment23:40 The Joys of Self-Pleasure and Empowerment

    26 min

  7. Apr 27

    Tatting with Marrakech: Crafting a New Perspective on Compassionate Living

    The conversation delves into the childhood experiences of Marrakech and Hazel, highlighting the importance of curiosity and openness in shaping their perspectives. It also explores the impact of social scripts and cultural norms on behavior and the deconstruction of the concepts of 'good' and 'bad' in personal morality. The conversation delves into the impact of negativity, fostering resentment and cruelty, standing up for others, being an active bystander, choosing love and support, facing fear and shame, the opportunity to be brave, learning from mistakes, good-hearted gossip as connection and community, the challenge of softness and compassion, perspectives and experiences, and establishing boundaries and communication. Takeaways Curiosity and openness in childhoodSocial scripts and cultural normsDeconstructing the concepts of 'good' and 'bad' Kindness vs. PolitenessActive BystanderGood-hearted GossipBoundaries and Communication Chapters 00:00 Deconstructing 'Good' and 'Bad'27:10 The Impact of Negativity33:15 Facing Fear and Shame40:28 The Challenge of Softness and Compassion49:51 Establishing Boundaries Links 00:14:27 - The Four Agreements - don Miguel Ruiz 00:16:48 - "Propriety" What's Up Doc? 00:40:44 You Didn't Hear This From Me: (Mostly) True Notes on Gossip by Kelsey McKinney

    53 min

  8. Apr 20

    Unpacking the Gender Binary - Conversing With David and Davi, Authors of Memoir of a Reluctant Giant

    This episode welcomes David Strachan and Davi Barker. The conversation explores their collaboration on Memoir of a Reluctant Giant. It delves into the experiences of sex and gender variant individuals, highlighting the challenges of variance and societal norms. The conversation provides insights into the challenges and experiences of individuals navigating personal journeys of self-discovery and acceptance. Resources: 00:06:23 Intersex Society of North America00:08:39 Klinefelter syndrome00:20:16 Hermaphrodites and the Medical Invention of Sex by Alice Domurat Dreger00:20:57 Intersex in the Age of Ethics00:22:12 InterACT Advocates for Intersex Youth00:37:44 Radical Faeries00:38:16 Reagan's Legacy00:38:19 Senator Dianne Feinstein00:46:02 Rabbi Allen Bennett00:46:59 Gavin Newsom 2004 Gay Marriage00:47:26 Court Annuls SF Gay Marriages00:47:44 Gay Marriage Returns to SF in 200800:47:46 2015 Supreme Court Ruling on Gay Marriage00:50:58 Interracial Marriage Legalized - Loving Day1:15:21 Population Connection1:16:14 Carrying Capacity for the Earth1:16:50 Memoir of a Reluctant Giant on NortonPress.com

    1h 19m
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Stories and conversations from an adult boutique. We discuss little moments and upcoming events, and share information that we find relatable, educational, or empowering. This show is not for minors.

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    Erotique Studios
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Erotique Studios

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