Tales From a Sex Store

Erotique Studios
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Stories and conversations from an adult boutique. We discuss little moments and upcoming events, and share information that we find relatable, educational, or empowering. This show is not for minors.

  1. 1d ago

    What's In a Skirt?

    ... Would a kilt by any other name not be as breezy? The story from Miss Kitty's introduces the theme of cultural norms and traditions, and how they impact our choices and behaviors. It also explores the idea of challenging these norms to find more comfortable and meaningful ways of living. The story highlights the importance of self-reflection and curiosity in shaping our perspectives and actions. Takeaways Cultural norms and traditions influence our choices and behaviorsChallenging norms can lead to more comfortable and meaningful ways of living Chapters 00:00 The Story from Miss Kitty's02:56 Cultural Norms and Traditions05:54 Self-Reflection and Curiosity08:50 Challenging Norms for a Better Life Links Brené Brown Marie Kondo

  2. Jul 13

    Empress Norton: She No Dead

    The conversation covers the life of José Sarria, the story of Emperor and Empress Norton, gender identity, queer history and activism, and discusses alternative currencies and grassroots economics. They consider the legacy of José Sarria, the historical erasure of the queer community, the fight for LGBTQ+ rights, and the dysphoric nature of drag. It also discusses the preservation and dissemination of LGBTQ+ history and examines the impact of queer historical figures and artistic representation. Takeaways José Sarria's impactful life and contributions to queer activism.The significance of alternative currencies in grassroots economics and community empowerment. The importance of preserving LGBTQ+ historyThe impact of historical figures on the queer community Chapters 00:00 The Life of José Sarria02:19 Emperor Norton and Empress Norton13:53 Alternative Currencies and Grassroots Economics19:47 The Legacy of José Sarria22:00 The Queer Community's Historical Erasure26:38 The Archival Preservation of LGBTQ+ History33:32 The Impact of Historical Figures38:19 The Artistic Representation of LGBTQ+ History Links Harvey MilkEmperor Norton ProclamationsCommunity Currency250 Year EmpireISCSMJose Sarria Condom AdKaironic TimeGeorge SantayanaQueer Liberation LibraryInternational Court SystemJose Sarria FoundationGLBT Historical ArchivesKhnumhotep and NiankhkhnumTenderloinJose Sarria - God Save Us Nelly QueensDiscordianism

  3. Jul 6

    A Brief Exploration of Self-Pleasure

    A discussion on the benefits and myths of masturbation, or self-pleasure, covering the many physical and mental health benefits, debunking myths, and addressing potential risks. The conversation emphasizes the normalcy and importance of self-pleasure in understanding one's body and enhancing relationships. Takeaways Normalcy and importance of self-pleasurePhysical and mental health benefits of self-pleasure Chapters 00:00 The Positives of Self-Pleasure05:48 Self-Pleasure and Relationships12:11 Understanding and Embracing Self-Pleasure Sources https://www.healthline.com/health/masturbation-side-effects#benefitshttps://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/24332-masturbationhttps://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/benefits-of-masturbation

  4. Jun 29

    A Brief Download of Drag

    The conversation attempts to define drag by exploring the history of drag performance and culture. It explores the subversive nature of drag as a challenge to social and cultural norms, and delves into the distinction between gender identity and expression, especially between performance and performativity. The conversation also addresses the legal challenges in and erasure of queer history; the historical, cultural, and political roots in queer liberation and resistance; and the intersectionality of drag with race, class, and activism. It emphasizes the role drag has played in building community and solidarity from the 1700s to today. Takeaways Subversive NatureGender Identity vs. Drag PerformanceDrag as a caricature performance of genderThe intersectionality of drag with race, class, and activism Links What is Judith Butler’s Theory of Gender Performativity?Crossing the Stage: Controversies on Cross-Dressing by Lesley FerrisClassic Drag: The Greek Creation of Female Parts by Sue-Ellen CaseTrixie Mattel Breaks Down the History of "Drag"PolariThe 1871 Trial of Boulton and ParkWilliam Dorsey SwannPrincess Seraphina: Britain’s first drag queenCrystal Labeija: The Queen Who Reinvented Ball CultureStormé DeLarverieWhen Remembering Stonewall, We Need To Listen to Those Who Were ThereSTARRImperial Sovereign Court of the State of MontanaQueer BozemanMontana State University - Bozeman Queer Straight AllianceMontana Pride and upcoming events

  5. Jun 22

    Stonewall, the Hanky Code, and Dating

    The conversation begins with an introduction and a discussion about Stonewall, highlighting its diversity and the evolution of language. It then transitions into a detailed exploration of the Hanky Code and cruising culture, shedding light on their historical significance and relevance in the queer community. The conversation delves into the contemporary relevance and evolution of the Hanky Code and cruising culture. It also discusses the challenges and complexities of modern dating and building relationships. Send us your questions and stories to: tfass@erotiquestyle.com Takeaways Stonewall and its diversityThe Hanky Code and cruising culture over timeChallenges and complexities of modern dating Chapters 00:00 Elaborating on Stonewall and Queer History18:16 Evolution of Hanky Code and Cruising Culture25:03 Challenges of Modern Dating Links StonewallThe Stonewall InnMarsha P. JohnsonSylvia RiveraStormé DeLarverieFeds Altering Queer HistoryHanky CodeDamronSamois

  6. Jun 15

    Pride-A-Palooza and Queer Sex Toys With Erotique

    The conversation covers the Pride event in Bozeman, including the booth at Pride-A-Palooza, the partnership with the Oh Hi Collective, and the educational event called Queer Sex Toys with Erotique. It also delves into the challenges of representing a sex store at a family-friendly event, the significance of the Stonewall brick, and the impact of rainbow capitalism. The conversation highlights the importance of creating safe spaces, resisting hate, and promoting positivity within the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation covers a range of topics related to sex education, sex toys, and Pride events. It delves into the experience of attending a presentation on sex education, the normalization of sex toys, the use of sex toys for different bodies and relationships, the importance of body safety and cleaning methods for different toy materials, and the growth and significance of Pride events. Send us your questions and stories to: tfass@erotiquestyle.com Takeaways Pride events provide opportunities to create safe spaces, resist hate, and promote positivity within the LGBTQ+ community.Representing a sex store at a family-friendly event presents unique challenges, requiring a focus on empowerment, education, and body positivity.The significance of the Stonewall brick and the impact of rainbow capitalism are important topics within the LGBTQ+ community.Understanding body safety, sterilization, and material porosity is crucial when using sex toys.Pride events play a significant role in promoting community support, authenticity, and love. Chapters 00:00 Pride-A-Palooza and the significance of the Stonewall Brick and Rainbow Capitalism15:03 Hosting the Queer Sex Toys Event with the Oh Hi Collective and a little about queer toy usage.45:00 Reflection on Pride Events and Community Support Links Bozeman PrideAbility Montana"Pride is a Riot" Brick Keychain by Empath ArtStonewallRainbow CapitalismOh Hi CollectiveCleaning Sex Toys and Understanding Porosity Toys Mentioned Starsi by Cute Little FuckersZeep by Cute Little FuckersMorrie by Cute Little FuckersAce by Nu Sensuelle

  7. Jun 8

    Q&A 02 With Hazel and Billy

    The hosts reconnect and catch up, discussing social norms in sex stores, toy cleaning and sterilization, attitudes towards sex toys, encounters outside the sex store, dealing with recognized individuals, propositions and uncomfortable encounters, and handling uncomfortable situations. They emphasize the importance of creating a safe and comfortable environment for customers and employees, and share insights on addressing uncomfortable encounters with grace and professionalism. The conversation covers various themes related to the operation of a sex store, including the store's name on bank statements, product knowledge, in-person shopping experience, handling used sex toys, the hiring process, sexual health and wellness training, comfort and normalcy in a sex store, skills for being a good lover, and evolution and growth. Send us your questions and stories to: tfass@erotiquestyle.com Takeaways Social norms in sex stores differ for men and women.Attitudes towards sex toys should be positive and shame-free. In-person shopping experience is crucial for selecting sex toys.Training for sex store employees includes sexual health and wellness certification. Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting and Catching Up02:25 Do I need toy cleaner - elaboration05:24 How do we deal when seeing customers in public?08:49 How do you deal with people you know outside of work when they come into the store?12:13 Do you ever get propositioned?14:04 What's your most uncomfortable encounter?16:36 Does a sex shop show up on my bank statement?18:25 How well do you know the products?21:44 What do you do with old sex toys?24:03 What is the hiring process like?26:14 Training for sensitivity and inclusivity28:25 Creating comfort in a sex store environment32:06 Closing

  8. Jun 1

    Q&A 01 With Hazel

    The conversation covers the diverse customer base of sex stores, the approachable atmosphere, product exploration, customer interactions, and advice for first-time visitors. It emphasizes the importance of creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for all customers, regardless of their background or experience. Send us your questions and stories to: tfass@erotiquestyle.com Takeaways Diverse Customer BaseApproachable Atmosphere Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the World of Sex Shops00:38 What types of people come in?03:51 What if I don't know what I want?05:32 How should I talk about what I want?06:12 What are some interesting products?07:37 What are some interesting questions you get?08:44 Can I touch the products?09:40 Do I need toy cleaner?10:34 Is it a good place to meet a hookup or pick someone up?11:43 Can people return used toys?12:27 I'm embarrassed. When is the best time to visit?13:34 How should I act?14:23 What do you carry?15:27 How do you deal with customers who make other customers uncomfortable?16:04 What do you recommend for a first toy?17:05 What do I need to know before going in?20:03 Contact information and closing.

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Stories and conversations from an adult boutique. We discuss little moments and upcoming events, and share information that we find relatable, educational, or empowering. This show is not for minors.

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  • Creator
    Erotique Studios
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Erotique Studios

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