Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B

Jennie K. Drollinger
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Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B Have you ever wondered, “Did I miss my chance?” Hosted by Jennie K. Drollinger—an unapologetic ’80s girl at heart—Second Chances is a storytelling podcast about second chances in love, career, health, family, faith, purpose, and life after unexpected change. Each episode shares real, hope-filled stories of people who found their Side B: rekindled romances, love after divorce, restored marriages, career reinvention, health recovery, healing after heartbreak, family reconnection, and new beginnings after loss, failure, or fear. It all began with Jennie’s own lost and found love story: meeting a boy in H.S. 1985 Alaska, falling fast, then losing touch through misunderstandings and an old-school disconnected landline—a mystery that took over three decades to explain and finally uncover what really happened. Thirty years later, they found their way back to each other. Their journey captured hearts nationwide and was crowned America’s Favorite Couple 2025, winning out of 210,000 couples. But this isn’t just a love story podcast. It’s a community of Side B moments—a place for listeners to share stories of resilience, forgiveness, healing, personal growth, reinvention, purpose, and proof that it’s never too late to begin again. Pull up a chair. Get cozy. You’re not too late. "Your life didn’t end when your plans did—some stories aren’t over yet, and the best parts may still be waiting on Side B." Your Side B story could give someone hope! Listen to inspiring real stories and submit your own at: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/second-chance-on-love-side-b/id1868301852 https://open.spotify.com/show/3gpuyYsF5MXrn67ATYNcZP?si=a3183c87390c48cb Follow us on: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove https://www.tiktok.com/@jendoll70 #SecondChances #SecondChanceOnLove #NewBeginnings #HopeAfterHardship #StorytellingPodcast #WomenPodcasters #80sVibes

  1. 3d ago

    Why Forgiving Yourself Is Harder Than Forgiving Anyone Else

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B, Jennie explores forgiveness, self-forgiveness, shame, remorse, and personal growth. Inspired by Forgiven: Own What Is, Let Go of What Isn't, she examines how childhood experiences and past choices shape who we become, and why understanding our behavior can create space for healing, accountability, and emotional well-being. This episode is a reminder that we can't change the past, but we can stop allowing it to define us—and move forward with self-compassion, grace, and second chances. Takeaways: Forgiveness is about giving ourselves permission to change the future. Remorse can lead to growth, while shame can keep us stuck. Understanding our past choices helps us to forgive ourselves. We often judge our younger selves with the wisdom we have now. Forgiveness is a process that may need to be revisited. We can own our choices without being defined by them. Understanding childhood experiences can inform our adult behavior. Forgiveness does not require reconciliation with others. Setting boundaries is essential for protecting our peace. The rest of our life is still ahead of us, regardless of past mistakes. Sound Bites: 00:00 "The rest of your life is ahead of you." 19:49 "Forgiveness does not mean access." 25:27 "We can own the choices we made." 25:56 "We don't have to keep carrying the shame." 26:53 "What am I ready to stop carrying?" Chapters: 00:00 The Challenge of Self-Forgiveness 03:09 Understanding Remorse vs. Shame 06:00 The Weight of Past Choices 08:52 The Impact of Childhood Experiences 12:09 Forgiveness: A Process, Not a Destination 15:02 The Complexity of Forgiveness 17:55 The Journey of Self-Understanding 21:11 Practical Steps to Forgiveness 24:05 Embracing Second Chances Grab your copy : https://amzn.to/4geO6zM Contact Heather: https://www.raisinggoodhumans.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thinkgetagrip/ Contact Cherisse: https://www.instagram.com/insighteqcb/ https://www.facebook.com/cherisse.brown/ Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    Why Forgiving Yourself Is Harder Than Forgiving Anyone Else

  2. Aug 19

    Two Transplants, Two Near-Death Experiences & One Second-Chance Love Story 30 Years Later

    What happens when life gives you more than one second chance? In this powerful episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Joel and Vicky share an extraordinary journey of organ transplantation, resilience, faith, family, and unexpected love. Vicky received a life-saving kidney transplant from her sister, while Joel survived liver failure and a liver transplant. Their experiences reshaped how they view gratitude, family support, personal growth, and the gift of everyday life. Years later, Joel and Vicky reconnected and found their own second chance on love. Together, they open up about marriage, blending families, communication, overcoming adversity, and supporting each other through life's hardest moments. This is a story about surviving, healing, loving again—and choosing what to do with the second chances we're given. Takeaways: Second chances can change everything.Organ donation saves lives and creates new beginnings.Kidney and liver transplants reveal the power of resilience.Faith, family, and hope provide strength through adversity.Gratitude changes how we see everyday life.Sometimes survival leads to an unexpected second chance at love.Blending families requires patience, support, and understanding.Communication is the foundation of a strong marriage.Past relationships can fuel self-worth and personal growth.Love, laughter, and shared struggles can make relationships stronger.Sharing our experiences can create healing, purpose, and legacy. Sound Bites 00:00 "We all go through stuff." 03:17 "I was young and stupid." 05:10 "I did end up having babies." 08:03 "I was praying really hard."1 2:17 "I never had any doubts." 31:15 "I lost myself." 31:43 "We support each other." 36:56 "Don't let it fester." 47:00 "I wear it proudly." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Second Chances 02:47 Vicky's Journey of Resilience 06:09 Joel's Liver Transplant Experience 08:59 Faith and Overcoming Adversity 11:47 The Power of Family and Love 15:11 Finding Each Other Again 18:05 Cherishing Life's Little Moments 23:48 Reconnecting and Rediscovering Love 25:11 Blending Families and Navigating Relationships 26:39 Lessons from Past Relationships 30:19 Communication and Support in Marriage 35:59 Fun and Lighthearted Moments 42:14 Life Lessons and Legacy Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    Two Transplants, Two Near-Death Experiences & One Second-Chance Love Story 30 Years Later

  3. Aug 12

    A Mormon and An Atheist Fell in Love: From 320 Pounds & Drunk Texts to 14 Years of Marriage

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B, Chris Pettit went from alcohol addiction, food addiction, and 320+ pounds to a healthier life built on family, honesty, and consistency. In this conversation with Jennie, Chris and Heidi share how communication, respect for different beliefs, and family-centered habits helped them build a strong marriage and transform their health together. Their story proves that recovery, weight loss, and lasting change are possible when the reason is bigger than yourself. Takeways: Chris shares how he went from Captain Morgan to broccoli and lost 120 poundsHeidi and Chris explain how they built a marriage across different faith backgroundsThe couple opens up about the power of communication, honesty, and respectChris talks about the moment he realized health had to change for his familyThey share how their kids now live a healthy, active family lifestyleChris explains why recovery from food and alcohol addictionwas harder than Ninja Warrior training SoundBites: 00:00:28— Captain Morgan to Ninja Warrior00:29:486— Laugh, cry, heal00:03:50— Teach people kindness00:06:15— Drunken first date stories00:10:52— Barnes and Noble connection00:13:08— Mormon and atheist00:15:25— Communication is everything00:20:14— I was a dumbass00:22:37— Health for my family00:23:26— Captain Morgan to broccoli00:24:47— Recovery is harder00:27:09— Kids ask about protein00:29:31— Marriage is worth it00:35:00— Talk to your spouse00:36:49— Reaching out is scary00:39:11— Nobody is better Chapters: 00:00— Captain Morgan to Ninja Warrior01:27— Meet Chris and Heidi03:22— How They Met06:15— First Date Disaster10:01— Barnes and Noble Connection13:08— Mormon and Atheist Marriage15:25— Communication Is Key18:48— The Health Wake-Up Call23:05— Losing 120 Pounds23:48— Ninja Warrior Family27:09— Healthy Habits at Home29:56— Marriage Is Worth It35:21— Advice for Struggling Listeners38:16— Unconditional Love Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    A Mormon and An Atheist Fell in Love: From 320 Pounds & Drunk Texts to 14 Years of Marriage

  4. Aug 5

    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Break Trauma Bonds & Find Yourself Again

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, what does it take to heal from narcissistic abuse and reclaim your sense of self? Jennie K. Drollinger talks with life coach Kyle Miller about recovery from emotional abuse, breaking trauma bonding, and building healthy boundaries. They explore myths about narcissism, the power of self-love, and practical steps for healing, self-discovery, and personal growth. Whether you're leaving a toxic relationship or supporting someone who is, this episode offers hope, clarity, and tools for moving forward. If you're ready to stop surviving and start thriving, this conversation will help you reconnect with your authentic self and create a healthier future. Takeaways: Misconceptions about narcissists and narcissistic tendenciesThe importance of boundaries and self-kindnessTrauma bonding and its impact on relationshipsLong-term effects of emotional and mental abuseSteps to rediscover passions and rebuild confidenceThe role of self-forgiveness and allowing feelingsHow age and societal beliefs affect starting overPractical daily practices for reconnecting with oneself Soundbites 21:21 Sound Bite: “It’s not just about getting out of the toxic relationship, it’s about finding you” 0:00/25:25“If you have to continually justify the way someone treats you, they don’t value you” 41:01 “You can just think to yourself, whoa, okay, that’s enough. That’s enough” Chapters 00:00 Introduction to healing from narcissistic abuse 01:59 Common misconceptions about narcissists 04:04 The importance of boundaries and self-kindness 07:06 Trauma bonding and recognizing patterns 09:55 Long-term effects of emotional abuse on health 13:01 When to seek help and avoid counseling pitfalls 15:01 The power of self-love and rediscovery 18:00 Starting over at any age and self-compassion 20:58 Justifying treatment and recognizing true support 23:04 Understanding gaslighting and its effects 25:08 Healing as a holistic process and physical health 28:00 Rediscovering passions and living fully 29:57 The importance of self-boundaries and self-talk 33:03 Daily practices for reconnecting with yourself 36:54 The message of hope and new beginnings https://kylemillercoaching.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kylemillercoach https://www.instagram.com/kylemillercoaching/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kylemillercoaching https://www.youtube.com/@Kylemillercoaching Have a Second Chance story? We'd love to hear it! Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com https://secondchanceonlove.com/

    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Break Trauma Bonds & Find Yourself Again

  5. Jul 29

    She Was in Her Wedding Dress When Her Soulmate Knocked on the Door

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, what would you do if the love of your life showed up at your door... at exactly the wrong time? Join Jennie as she discovers how one unexpected knock, plenty of laughter, a few surprising twists, and a little courage can turn an ordinary day into the beginning of an extraordinary second chance. Bob and Renee share their remarkable journey of finding their way back to each other after years apart, proving that timing isn't always perfect-but love has a way of rewriting the story. Through honest communication, resilience, personal growth, and unwavering faith in each other, they built a successful blended family and a lasting marriage rooted in love and respect. Their inspiring story is a powerful reminder that hope, healing, and second chances are always possible—and sometimes the best chapters of our lives begin with an unexpected knock at the door. Takeaways: The significance of timing and fate in relationshipsChildhood connections and how they influence adult love storiesNavigating blended families and the importance of honesty with childrenOvercoming past marriages and redemptive second chancesCommunicating openly and maintaining romance in long-term relationshipsThe role of patience, humor, and mutual respect in lasting loveLife lessons from personal experiences and family historyPractical advice for couples facing tough times or considering second chance Sound Bites: 00:00, Wrong time, right love 01:13, Renee’s background 02:11, Bob’s background 03:38, First marriages 05:06, Family connection 06:05, First spark 08:25, The almost-wedding 10:40, Separated 11:09, Caregiving and clarity 13:00, Life is short 15:22, Reconnecting 16:19, Sweden 17:46, Soul connection 20:04, Blended family 22:32, Adoption 24:54, Farming 27:19, Love notes 29:37, Respect and humor 31:58, What they admire 34:15, Fate 36:41, Saved my kids' lives 39:09, Advice for hard seasons 41:35, Hope 43:47, Closing Chapters 00:00, Wrong time, right love 01:13, Renee’s background 02:11, Bob’s background 03:38, First marriages 05:06, Family connection 06:05, First spark 08:25, The almost-wedding 10:40, Separated 11:09, Caregiving and clarity 13:00, Life is short 15:22, Reconnecting 16:19, Sweden 17:46, Soul connection 20:04, Blended family 22:32, Adoption 24:54, Farming 27:19, Love notes 29:37, Respect and humor 31:58, What they admire 34:15, Fate 36:41, Saved my kids’ lives 39:09, Advice for hard seasons 41:35, Hope 43:47, Closing Have a Second Chance story? We'd love to hear it! Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    She Was in Her Wedding Dress When Her Soulmate Knocked on the Door

  6. Jul 22 ·  Bonus

    Flip the tape. Your best song might be next.

    Life doesn't always go as planned—but every setback can become a second chance. In this inspiring episode, Jennie Drollinger introduces the new vision for Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, exploring starting over, resilience, personal growth, healing, reinvention, and finding purpose after life's unexpected plot twists. Whether you're navigating divorce, loss, career change, retirement, empty nesting, or a new beginning, discover why your best chapter may still be ahead. It's time to flip the tape—because Sometimes your greatest chapter begins the moment you flip the tape. Takeaways: Why life's biggest plot twists often lead to our greatest blessingsThe meaning behind "Flip the Tape" and living on Side BWhy second chances aren't just about love—they're about lifeFinding hope after divorce, loss, illness, career change, or retirementBuilding resilience through life's unexpected transitionsCreating a community where every comeback story matters Sound Bites: 00:00 "Sometimes the chapter you never wanted becomes the chapter that transforms everything." 00:45 "If you've ever had to start over... then you've found your people." 01:36 "Life doesn't follow a straight line. It curves. Plot twists." 01:53 "Sometimes the very best parts of life happen after the unexpected." 02:35 "Life says, 'Flip the tape,' and suddenly we're living a story we never imagined." 02:55 "Maybe your best song hasn't even been played yet." 03:53 "Second chances aren't just about love. They're about life." 04:42 "I want this podcast to become a community." 05:42 "Side B is where resilience lives." 06:03 "Sometimes losing one dream makes room for an even better one." 06:15 "When life changes the plan, sometimes it improves the story." 07:12 "These aren't just comeback stories. They're Side B stories." 07:50 "Your story may not be over. Your comeback chapter may still be ahead." 08:10 "Sometimes the sequel really is better than the original." 09:43 "Remember... flip the tape. Your best song might be next." Chapters: 00:00 – The Chapter That Changes Everything 00:27 – Welcome to Side B 01:15 – When Life Doesn't Go as Planned 02:25 – Flip the Tape 03:30 – Second Chances Are About More Than Love 04:40 – Building a Community of Hope 05:35 – Why Side B Is Better Than You Think 06:40 – Real Side B Stories 07:45 – Your Story Isn't Over 09:00 – Your Best Song Might Be Next Have a Second Chance story to share? I'd love to hear it! If you've experienced a Side B moment in love, faith, family, health, career, or life, visit https://secondchanceonlove.com/ to share your story, or to be featured as a guest on the podcast. Reach out to us: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    Flip the tape. Your best song might be next.

  7. Jul 15

    The Daughter He Dreamed of Before He Met Her

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Dr. JC and Mieke share an extraordinary story of love after divorce, healing, manifestation, adoption, and second chances. After seven years of dating disappointments, one final swipe brought them together. Then Mieke revealed she planned to adopt her late sister’s daughter—the same little girl Dr. JC had been dreaming about for years. Through grief, financial hardship, therapy, and the challenges of adoption during COVID, they learned how honesty, communication, resilience, and authentic love can carry a relationship through adversity. A powerful reminder that the love—and family—you have been searching for may arrive in a way you never expected. Takeaways: The power of manifestation and law of attraction in loveHealing from past ruptures and divorce to find true loveThe role of self-love and authenticity in attracting a partnerUnbelievable signs and synchronicities that guided their journeyThe importance of trust and surrender in relationshipsHow shared values and purpose strengthen their bondThe impact of adversity and resilience on loveThe unique story of adopting Lexi and blending families Sound Bites 00:00 "If this is gonna be my last go at dating." 03:49 "I was a complete avoidant attachment." 08:21 "I was done with dating." 12:50 "I was having this recurring dream." 22:27 "I just knew that he was the one." 25:11 "I do not want to mess this up." 31:27 "We are inseparable, like inseparable." 33:17 "I'm so happy with my life." 40:23 "She feels like home." 46:19 "Trust the process." Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Second Chances 11:51 Manifestation and Connection 24:00 A Night to Remember 30:00 The Journey to Family: Meeting Lexi 32:57 Strength Through Adversity: Building a Relationship 35:49 The Power of Trust and Connection 39:59 Proposal and Commitment: A Love Story 43:56 Advice for Finding Love: Trust the Process 47:57 The Book and the Journey: Making Sense of Life Connect with Dr. J.C. Doornick: https://www.facebook.com/jeanclaudedoornick https://www.drjcdoornick.com/ https://www.makessensepodcast.com/follow/ https://a.co/d/02I3pgl7 Have a Second Chance story to share? Visit https://secondchanceonlove.com/ to connect, share your story, or to be featured as a guest on the podcast. Reach out to us: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. Find us here: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove

    The Daughter He Dreamed of Before He Met Her

  8. Jul 8

    The Bold Move That Turned a House into a Marriage—And Changed Everything

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Jennie sits down with Tudor and Susie to share their remarkable second chance love story. From blended family challenges and rebuilding trust to discovering how faith, forgiveness, and serving others transformed their marriage, their journey is a powerful reminder that hope is never lost. You'll even hear how one unexpected dog helped save their marriage. An inspiring conversation about marriage after divorce, resilience, healing, faith, and lasting love. Takeaways Resilience and second chances define Tudor and Susie's journey.Met through friends after tough past relationships.Overcame challenges blending families post-remarriage.Grew through shared experiences and mutual support.Prioritized children's well-being during transitions.Church community aided in navigating family dynamics.Built on friendship, understanding, and communication.Faced societal expectations about marriage and family.Love and forgiveness are central to their story.Honeymoon counseling unexpectedly saved their marriage.COVID-19 brought them closer, enhancing work understanding.Volunteering together strengthened their bond and purpose.Community service is vital in their lives and marriage.Family ties grew stronger, especially after losses.Actively support community through food distribution.Advice: Don't give up on love; work through struggles.Mutual respect and admiration are key.Serving others deepens their relationship Sound Bites 00:00 "He is a nice guy." 06:59 "We started dating." 16:06 "We got married on a boat." 18:57 "We joined a church." 21:48 "I was planning the divorce." 23:46 "That saved our marriage." 32:52 "COVID was very good to us." 33:51 "We volunteer together now." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Resilience and Love 02:36 Tudor and Susie's Early Lives and Marriages 06:59 The Beginning of Their Relationship 12:47 Building a Life Together 18:18 Blending Families and Overcoming Challenges 21:19 Navigating Marital Challenges 22:18 Unexpected Honeymoon Counseling 24:40 Strengthening Bonds Through Crisis 26:51 Shared Purpose in Service 28:43 Building Family Connections 30:24 The Power of Community Support 31:53 Advice for Finding Love Again 34:11 Admiration and Respect in Relationships Have a Second Chance story to share? I'd love to hear it! If you've experienced a Side B moment in love, faith, family, health, career, or life, visit https://secondchanceonlove.com/ to connect, share your story, or to be featured as a guest on the podcast. Reach out to us: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. Find us here: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove

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Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B Have you ever wondered, “Did I miss my chance?” Hosted by Jennie K. Drollinger—an unapologetic ’80s girl at heart—Second Chances is a storytelling podcast about second chances in love, career, health, family, faith, purpose, and life after unexpected change. Each episode shares real, hope-filled stories of people who found their Side B: rekindled romances, love after divorce, restored marriages, career reinvention, health recovery, healing after heartbreak, family reconnection, and new beginnings after loss, failure, or fear. It all began with Jennie’s own lost and found love story: meeting a boy in H.S. 1985 Alaska, falling fast, then losing touch through misunderstandings and an old-school disconnected landline—a mystery that took over three decades to explain and finally uncover what really happened. Thirty years later, they found their way back to each other. Their journey captured hearts nationwide and was crowned America’s Favorite Couple 2025, winning out of 210,000 couples. But this isn’t just a love story podcast. It’s a community of Side B moments—a place for listeners to share stories of resilience, forgiveness, healing, personal growth, reinvention, purpose, and proof that it’s never too late to begin again. Pull up a chair. Get cozy. You’re not too late. "Your life didn’t end when your plans did—some stories aren’t over yet, and the best parts may still be waiting on Side B." Your Side B story could give someone hope! Listen to inspiring real stories and submit your own at: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/second-chance-on-love-side-b/id1868301852 https://open.spotify.com/show/3gpuyYsF5MXrn67ATYNcZP?si=a3183c87390c48cb Follow us on: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove https://www.tiktok.com/@jendoll70 #SecondChances #SecondChanceOnLove #NewBeginnings #HopeAfterHardship #StorytellingPodcast #WomenPodcasters #80sVibes

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