Internal Momentum

Ben Wendel
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Internal Momentum is a podcast about the moment something finally moves out of the way. Not the advice you already know. Not the strategy you’ve heard a hundred times. But the internal shift that made different behaviour possible in the first place. We all know what we should do. Eat better. Train consistently. Have the hard conversation. Focus. Commit. Lead properly. And yet… we don’t. So the real question isn’t what to do. It’s what changed internally when someone finally did it. This podcast is built around a single, quiet question: What shifted inside you that made the new behaviour inevitable? Through long-form conversations with founders, operators, leaders, creatives, and high-performers, we explore: the internal blocks people were carrying without realising itthe beliefs, identities, or fears that were quietly in the waythe perspective shifts that dissolved resistance rather than overpowering itthe moments where effort was replaced by clarityhow momentum returns when you stop fighting yourselfThese aren’t motivational stories or tactical playbooks. They’re conversations about internal transformation, the reframes, realisations, and internal decisions that changed how someone showed up day after day. Because sustainable momentum doesn’t come from more discipline. It comes from removing the friction inside the person. If you’re building something, a passion, a business, a life - and you’re tired of trying to force yourself forward, this podcast is an invitation to look at what’s actually in the way… and what happens when it finally shifts.

  1. 1d ago

    Cassandra Emmerson: Brands That Create Freedom

    Most people think a brand is a logo. The ones who believe that are working twice as hard as they need to. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Cassandra Emmerson, brand strategist and founder of Emmersyn, to unpack what a brand actually is, what it costs to build one properly, and why the whole point of it is freedom. Cassandra shares what it finally took to walk away from the corporate world for the last time. Years of hitting the same ceiling, being allowed to be good but only so good, and then finding out while she was on annual leave with her mum that meetings about her own work were happening without her. She left weeks out from settling her first mortgage, after a lifetime of ideas she never executed because she did not believe she was good enough yet. Ben and Cassandra then get into brand itself. Why the logo is only a symbol for recognition while everything underneath it does the actual work, how a bucket of KFC ended up in her mother's kitchen after a lifetime of her never buying it, and why coherency is the thing that creates trust. They also talk about reputation, the quiet ripple that starts the moment a brand becomes inconsistent, and how expensive that is to reverse. Ben opens up about his own blind spots, including the years he spent hiding in the background and building on word of mouth because putting himself out there felt too exposed. Then the conversation lands somewhere neither of them planned, on freedom itself. Cassandra on working out the number she actually needs instead of the ideological one. Ben on how the pursuit of freedom can quietly become its own prison. If you have ever built something that works but could not say clearly what it stands for, this episode will give you a much sharper way to look at it. About the Guest Cassandra Emmerson is a Perth-based brand strategist and the founder of Emmersyn, where she works with founders to turn businesses into brands that make money and create freedom. She spent years in senior corporate brand roles before leaving to build her own practice, and now runs brand immersions, an advisory, and a three-phase framework covering recognition, connection, and aspirational branding. Her focus is on making the strategy the big brands use available to founder-led businesses. Connect with Cassandra: Website: emmersyn.com.au LinkedIn: Cassandra Emmerson Instagram: emmersyn_brandstrategy Chapters: 00:33 Leaving the Corporate World Behind 04:03 The Journey to Building a Brand 07:35 Understanding Brand Beyond the Logo 13:15 The Costly Mistake of Ignoring Brand Strategy 16:08 Finding Your Why in Business 20:43 The Importance of Authenticity in Branding 22:21 Branding as a Long-Term Asset 24:28 The Three Levels of Branding 27:02 Aspirational Branding and Its Importance 30:07 The Role of Brand in Scaling Businesses 33:15 The Process of Brand Discovery 38:57 Building a Framework for Brand Strategy 45:15 Overcoming Fear and Pursuing Goals 49:33 The Pursuit of Freedom and Its Paradoxes

  2. Sep 5

    Catherine Bergsma: Without The Company Behind You

    Nearly twenty years of expertise walked out the door with her. The confidence stayed behind. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Catherine Bergsma, founder of STREET Marketing, to unpack what actually changes when you leave a big agency, put your own name on the invoice, and find out which parts of you were borrowed from the company all along. Catherine started out wanting to be an actress and was told there was no money in it, so she went into advertising instead. That decision carried her through media, music, and years overseas before landing her at one of the biggest agencies in Western Australia, and later into client-side roles running major sponsorship campaigns. Decades in, running her own consultancy, she found that the skills came with her but the certainty did not. She shares the moment a client stopped her to ask why someone so good at the work went so awkward the second it came to saying the price out loud. Ben and Catherine explore what it costs to say yes to everything, why being the jack of all trades quietly confuses the people trying to buy from you, and how a network of genuinely capable people is what finally makes saying no possible. They also get into learning to let people down, the difference between a big brand budget and a small business one, and why the client who can least afford you is often the hardest one to serve. Underneath all of it sits identity. Ben talks about the years his business was so fused with who he was that every complaint landed like a personal failing, and what it took to let it become its own thing. Catherine talks about reaching a point in her career where she has earned the right to choose what she is known for. Together they land on a simple idea about money that changed how both of them price, invoice, and decide who to work with at all. If you have ever gone quiet in the moment you had to say your price out loud, this episode will make that moment feel a lot less personal. About the Guest Catherine Bergsma is the founder of STREET Marketing, a Perth-based marketing consultancy working with small and medium businesses across strategy, brand, social media, and paid campaigns. She spent close to two decades in agency and client-side marketing, including senior roles at Marketforce and national marketing and communications for Programmed, before building her own practice. Her strength sits in account service and strategy, getting inside a client's business and turning a direction into a plan they can actually follow. Connect with Catherine: Website: streetmarketing.com.au LinkedIn: Catherine Bergsma Instagram: TBC Chapters: 01:00 Katherine's Journey into Marketing 08:49 Transitioning from Big Brands to Small Businesses 18:38 The Identity of Business and Personal Growth 26:14 Networking and Building Relationships 32:52 Embracing Opportunities and Learning from Failures 39:51 Embracing the Lows for Greater Highs 41:39 The Art of Letting People Down 45:27 Navigating Pricing and Client Relationships 46:32 The Value of Happy Money 52:23 Building Confidence Through Results 55:39 The Importance of Client Relationships 01:01:15 Choosing the Right Clients for Success 01:05:51 Dreams of Office Spaces and Business Growth

  3. Aug 29

    Dr Robert Glover: Nice Is Not Honest

    Most men do not lie to get away with something. They lie so that nobody gets upset with them. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Dr Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, to unpack what the ceiling is actually made of when a man says he wants one thing and then does the complete opposite. Robert has been working on the pattern he named for thirty five years, and at seventy he still calls himself a recovering Nice Guy. He describes the voice that used to run in his head almost around the clock, the one he calls the lie coach, telling him what to leave out, what to soften, and how to keep everybody comfortable. He shares the affair he had during his second marriage, the ultimatum that sent him into therapy, and why he now sees that one failure as the reason the book exists at all. Ben and Robert explore honesty as the actual work. Telling the truth about what you want instead of earning it sideways. Making your own needs a priority without apology. What it costs a man to spend decades being agreeable rather than honest. Ben opens up about his own years as a nice guy, the relationship he walked away from and later returned to, and the swing to the opposite extreme that Robert calls the boundary kamikaze. The conversation then turns to the part most men resist. Robert makes the case that a man cannot get everything he needs from his partner, that a partner should receive what he calls his processed vulnerability rather than the raw version, and that the men who break through are the ones who stopped trying to do it on their own. He also reframes the mistakes people carry the most shame about as the only things they can truly call their own. If you have ever said yes when you meant no, or done something nice while quietly hoping it would be repaid, this episode will name the pattern out loud and show you what it takes to stop. About the Guest Dr Robert Glover is the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, the book that named and defined the Nice Guy Syndrome. He holds a PhD in marriage and family therapy and practised for years as a licensed marriage and family therapist before moving into full time work with men. He now coaches, teaches, and runs small group workshops from his home in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, alongside an international membership community for men called Integration Nation. Connect with Robert: Website: drglover.com Community: integrationnation.net Instagram: @drgloverofficial YouTube: youtube.com/@DrGloverOfficial Chapters: 00:43 Breaking Through the Invisible Ceiling 07:20 The Reluctant King: Embracing Purpose and Identity 14:04 The Power of Struggle: Finding Meaning in Mistakes 19:53 Commitment and Accountability: The Path to Transformation 29:24 The Importance of Healthy Self-Interest 30:18 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 35:25 Shifting Perspectives on Intimacy 40:45 The Role of Male Friendships 47:37 Processing Vulnerability and Support Systems 54:08 Breaking the Echo Chamber 59:33 The Journey of Nice Guy Recovery 01:04:19 The Power of Honesty in Relationships 01:13:59 Embracing Mistakes and Moving Forward

  4. Aug 27

    Gianni Michelini and Paul Siderovski: The Room Changes Everything

    Most people think a room is just a room. The people sitting in it decide what you believe is possible. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Gianni Michelini and Paul Siderovski, the pair behind Fortuna One, the live event bringing Tony Robbins, Steven Bartlett and Gary Brecka to Australian stages in September, to unpack what actually shifts in a person when they walk into a room full of people playing a bigger game than they are. Paul explains how the whole thing started with one idea and one phone call, and how a kid from Waratah in Newcastle ended up in the room with people he had only ever watched from a distance. Gianni shares being at a party in Dubai and being too hesitant to say out loud what he was actually building, standing on a Greek island twenty years after he first saw it from a broken down scooter, and sitting at a breakfast table in Monaco where the man who invited him said he was the poorest person there. Both of them come back to the same point. The thing that changed was never the achievement. It was who they became while they were chasing it. Ben and the guests explore proximity as a strategy rather than a buzzword, why contribution opens more doors than any pitch ever will, and how to approach a room when you feel like you have nothing to offer yet. They also get practical about the part most business owners get stuck on: extracting the standard so the business stops depending on one person, the traffic light method for handing work over without the quality falling apart, and why a system of investing matters far more than picking the right asset. The deeper thread is the one Ben names about himself. He admits he has spent years chasing an enough he never actually defined, where the goal was only ever more, better and different. Gianni and Paul argue that an undefined number is not ambition, it is suffering, and that the fix is to give the business a job, name the freedom number, and stop waiting for permission to enjoy the life you are already living. The conversation also lands on labels, and how the internal ones do far more damage than anything anyone else calls you. If you have ever chased a number you never actually put on paper, or stood at the edge of a room talking yourself out of the conversation you came to have, this episode will give you a much clearer way to think about both. About the Guests Gianni Michelini is the chief executive of Fortuna One. His career began in music, taking him from a first record deal to studios around the world, founding the National Music Academy in Newcastle, and leading the Abbey Road Institute in Australia after partnering with Abbey Road in London. He also drives strategy and operations across the LimitlessX ecosystem and has a book for young people on the way. Paul Siderovski is a Newcastle entrepreneur, chartered accountant and strategist who has founded businesses across accounting, property, media, coaching and live events, including SiDCOR Chartered Accountants, EXP Capital and ODIS Strategy. He was sacked from a director role early in his career and describes it as the turning point that led to everything after it. His central idea is that a real business is not built around you, it is built to outlast you. Connect with Gianni: Website: fortunaone.com Website: limitlessx.com.au LinkedIn: Gianni Michelini Instagram: gianni_michelini Connect with Paul: Website: paulsiderovski.com.au Website: odis.com.au LinkedIn: Paul Siderovski X: @siderovski Instagram:paul.siderovski Chapters: 00:48 Introduction to Fortuna One Summit 06:00 Community and Networking at Events 13:58 The Importance of Proximity and Energy 19:56 Overcoming Networking Fears 28:13 Creating a Safe Space for Entrepreneurs 34:05 Internal vs. External Labels 41:03 Navigating Business Challenges 47:41 Automating Success 52:44 Finding Joy in New Challenges

  5. Aug 26

    Essam Elmir: There Is Always Another Trade

    Some people spend years building a profile. Others quietly build the network everyone else ends up needing. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Essam Elmir, Head of Ecosystem at Fortuna One, to unpack what more than a decade in crypto and fifteen years of community building actually teaches you about people, money, and the discipline it takes to hold your nerve. Essam got into Bitcoin as a teenager, a self-described nerdy kid who hacked handheld consoles and then went down the rabbit hole when a school friend asked whether some coins he had mined years earlier could be recovered. From there it was Ethereum white papers, a Chinese project translated line by line through Google Translate, and years of learning the hard way. He describes trades that went seven figures, losses that took weeks to process, and being banned from banks simply for buying and selling crypto before anyone understood it. He also describes something less comfortable. He was in the room early, he knew the biggest names in the space when they had a few hundred followers, and he never put his own face forward. Ben and Essam explore the part of trading nobody puts on a highlight reel. What actually separates the top one percent is not chart reading, it is emotional control. They talk about the gambling loop, the ego that builds during a bull run and the drop that humbles you, and why one good friend's line about there always being another trade changed how Essam approaches risk. Ben opens up about his own crypto years, the days his mood was set by a chart, and the sell orders that never executed while he watched the market fall. The conversation then widens into the thing underneath both stories. Fear of being seen. Ben talks honestly about twenty years of capping his own business because visibility felt dangerous. Essam talks about the opportunity he watched pass while he stayed behind the scenes, and what he does differently now. They finish on community, execution, and why the small consistent gestures, the comment, the call, the follow up, quietly compound into everything else. If you have ever watched people with a fraction of your experience build a much bigger name than yours, this episode will name exactly what has been holding you back and what it costs to keep waiting. About the Guest Essam Elmir is the Head of Ecosystem at Fortuna One, where he builds and runs the community behind the events. He has been in cryptocurrency for over a decade, starting as a teenager mining early coins, and has spent around fifteen years building communities across crypto, trading, and now artificial intelligence. His focus sits on connection, education, and helping people get past the fear of asking the obvious question. Connect with Essam: LinkedIn: Essam Elmir Chapters: 00:53 Introduction to Assam Elmir and Fortuna One 03:08 Building Communities in Cryptocurrency 05:24 The Power of Collaboration 07:29 The Importance of Networking 09:40 The Reluctance of Being Front Facing 12:22 Mental Fortitude in Trading 14:49 The Journey into Crypto 17:30 The Future of Cryptocurrency 37:52 Market Patterns and Emotional Trading 42:39 The Role of AI in Business 48:06 Navigating Innovation and Fear 51:12 The Future of AI and Business Execution 59:44 Building Community and Connection at Events

  6. Aug 25

    Mustafa Allawi: The Stories That Shape Us

    Every person is living inside a story. Almost nobody stops to ask who wrote it. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Mustafa Allawi, founder and CEO of the global film and creative company Hazen, to explore how stories shape identity, behaviour, and what a person believes is possible for themselves. Mustafa left Iraq at fifteen and learnt English watching films. There are childhood friends he would not know how to find today. He talks about what it does to a person to leave parts of themselves behind in different places, and why that same process happens to everyone, even the ones who never move. It is the reason he ended up in storytelling, and it is the lens he now brings to working with people like James Cameron and Tony Robbins, where the main discovery has been that everybody wears their pants the same way. Ben and Mustafa work through the three kinds of stories that build an identity. The ones you tell yourself, the ones told to you by culture and family, and the ones other people tell about you. Ben opens up about the years he cast his ex-wife as the villain of his own life and himself as the hero, and the confronting conversation that finally broke the cycle. Mustafa presses him on how anyone actually gets there, and Ben names the tell that gives it away every time: righteousness. The conversation then turns inward on Ben. He talks about being the overweight, shy kid who would take no position on anything rather than risk one person disliking him. He talks about the half-written album sitting on Spotify that he has never told a single person about, and about stopping mid-song at the traffic lights in case a stranger in the next car saw him. He also names what it took to rebuild that identity on purpose, and why the ceiling on your income, your health, and your relationships is almost always sitting on the inside. If you have ever caught yourself as the hero of a story that needs somebody else to be the villain, this episode will make that story much harder to keep telling. About the Guest Mustafa Allawi is the founder and CEO of Hazen, a global film and creative company that tells unseen stories through documentary and brand work for an international audience. He arrived in Australia from Iraq as a teenager and built a career around a single belief, that nothing shapes people more than the stories they carry. His work has placed him alongside names including James Cameron, Tony Robbins, and Bassem Youssef. Connect with Mustafa: Website: hazen.com.au LinkedIn: Mustafa Allawi Chapters: 00:48 The Journey of Resilience 05:23 The Power of Storytelling 11:00 Personal Stories and Their Impact 19:39 Extracting Stories from Individuals 25:30 The Hero vs. Villain Narrative 27:13 Breaking the Cycle of Perception 29:14 Taking Responsibility in Relationships 30:09 The Role of Righteousness in Connection 33:26 Vulnerability and Authenticity in Conversations 36:13 The Power of Storytelling and Identity 38:53 Rediscovering One's True Self 42:45 Embracing Imperfection and Authenticity 46:18 Embracing Flaws and Self-Acceptance 49:22 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Boundaries 51:39 Lessons from Influential Figures 55:47 Overcoming Fear of Judgment 57:50 Navigating Parenting in the Digital Age 01:01:34 The Role of Pain in Growth

  7. Aug 15

    Patricia Almeida: Success Without Self-Love

    You can achieve everything you set out to achieve. And still feel completely empty when you get there. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Patricia Almeida, a life coach, NLP trainer, and certified Advanced Wim Hof Method instructor, to unpack what it actually costs to live life on autopilot, and what it takes to find your way back. Patricia shares what happened when she reached almost everything she had set out to achieve in her corporate HR career, and still felt hollow inside. She reflects on the decision to leave her career and her familiar environment, travel overseas, and spend years in meditation, retreats, and self-development work trying to find out what was missing. She opens up about lacking self-love for most of her adult life without ever realising it, and what it actually took to reconnect with who she really was underneath the mask she had been wearing. Ben and Patricia explore why ice baths and cold exposure work as a mirror for whatever a person is suppressing, and why the discomfort of the cold reveals patterns that show up everywhere else in life too. They talk about self-sabotage, procrastination, and the quiet forms of self-destruction that hide behind a life that looks successful from the outside. Ben opens up about his own struggle with discernment and decision-making, and Patricia walks him through a live coaching moment using her own techniques, right there in the conversation. They also unpack the difference between chasing one defined purpose and simply living with intent, and why waiting to discover a single life mission can keep people stuck rather than moving. Patricia shares the small daily practices she uses to shift her state, calibrate her decisions, and stay aligned with her values, the same tools she now teaches her own clients. If you have ever achieved everything you thought you wanted and still felt something was missing, this episode will give you a way back to yourself. About the Guest Patricia Almeida is a Perth-based life coach, NLP trainer, and certified Advanced Wim Hof Method instructor. She runs a one-to-one coaching practice built on her own S.H.I.F.T. Method and leads public Wim Hof Method workshops across Perth, combining breathwork, cold exposure, and mindset training to help people reconnect with themselves and live with purpose. Connect with Patricia: Instagram: @patriciaalmeidacoaching Website: www.patriciaalmeidacoaching.com Chapters: 00:54 Introduction to Ice Baths and Self-Connection 03:14 The Journey to Self-Discovery 05:36 The Importance of Self-Love 08:27 Meditation as a Tool for Self-Connection 11:11 Understanding Self-Sabotage 13:46 NLP and Its Impact on Personal Growth 16:36 The Role of Wim Hof Method in Coaching 19:17 Navigating Emotional States 21:59 Choosing the Right Techniques for Clients 25:03 The Lifelong Journey of Self-Discovery 38:18 The Power of Positive Reframing 41:39 Understanding Procrastination and Taking Action 45:40 Building Habits and Overcoming Resistance 47:18 The Importance of Commitment and Accountability 49:12 Making Decisions with Purpose 55:41 Living with Purpose and Intent

  8. Aug 8

    Manisha Bhudia: Money Starts With Mortality

    Some people inherit a path. Others decide to break it. In this episode of Internal Momentum, Ben sits down with Manisha Bhudia, financial adviser and wealth strategist at Ultimum Financial Services, to unpack why money means very little until you know exactly what you are building it for. Manisha grew up in Nairobi, where the shape of her life was mapped out before she was old enough to question it. She was eight years old when her mother sat her and her two brothers down and told them their father might not survive a car accident, and it was the hopelessness in her mother's eyes that day that changed the direction of everything after it. Unable to afford further study, she registered with a UK accounting institute at nineteen, ordered textbooks from London, and spent six years as her own student and her own lecturer, driven by the belief that giving up would be a disservice to generations who had not been born yet. Ben and Manisha explore what happens when a person is quietly told their capability does not count, and how proving that your existence matters can become the engine behind an entire career. They talk about mortality, and how the sudden loss of Manisha's mother in 2022 changed the way she spends her time, her attention, and her money. Manisha shares the conversation she had with her daughter on a school run past a cemetery, and the question she puts to every client before a single financial strategy is written. They also go somewhere most money conversations never go. Ben admits that family is not actually his top value, despite saying it for most of his life, and talks about letting go of the pressure to be a perfect father. Manisha offers a different way to hold all of it, values arranged in a circle rather than a hierarchy, where no part of a life has to be sacrificed to make room for another. If you have ever worked hard for money without being able to say clearly what the money is actually for, this episode will hand you the question to sit with before you build anything else. About the Guest Manisha Bhudia is a Perth-based financial adviser and wealth strategist with Ultimum Financial Services, working across accounting, tax, investing, estate planning, and behavioural finance. Born and raised in Nairobi, she taught herself Chartered Management Accounting from textbooks ordered out of London before immigrating to Australia in 2007, and in 2021 was named one of the fifty most influential advisers in Australia by Financial Standard. Her work centres on helping business owners, professionals, and women build financial independence around a life they have actually defined for themselves. Connect with Manisha: Website: ultimumfinancial.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/manishabhudia Chapters: 00:50 Introduction to Manisha Bhudia's Journey 03:08 The Promise of Education and Change 05:41 Defining Moments and Mindset 07:59 The Role of Education in Empowerment 09:54 Cultural Perspectives on Women's Empowerment 12:31 Balancing Motherhood and Professional Life 15:35 The Importance of Support Systems 18:09 Awareness of Mortality and Living Fully 23:43 Finding Balance Between Living and Saving 29:12 The Importance of Understanding Your 'Why' 30:21 The Meaning of Money and Life's Purpose 33:15 Holistic Financial Planning and Life Experiences 35:41 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Podcasting 38:30 Identity Beyond Roles and Celebrating Individuality 41:20 Finding Your Why Through Mortality Awareness 44:16 The Impact of Life Events on Perspective 46:14 Creating Memorable Moments and the Role of Money 48:54 Letting Go of Perfectionism in Parenting 52:34 Challenging Societal Values and Personal Truths

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Internal Momentum is a podcast about the moment something finally moves out of the way. Not the advice you already know. Not the strategy you’ve heard a hundred times. But the internal shift that made different behaviour possible in the first place. We all know what we should do. Eat better. Train consistently. Have the hard conversation. Focus. Commit. Lead properly. And yet… we don’t. So the real question isn’t what to do. It’s what changed internally when someone finally did it. This podcast is built around a single, quiet question: What shifted inside you that made the new behaviour inevitable? Through long-form conversations with founders, operators, leaders, creatives, and high-performers, we explore: the internal blocks people were carrying without realising itthe beliefs, identities, or fears that were quietly in the waythe perspective shifts that dissolved resistance rather than overpowering itthe moments where effort was replaced by clarityhow momentum returns when you stop fighting yourselfThese aren’t motivational stories or tactical playbooks. They’re conversations about internal transformation, the reframes, realisations, and internal decisions that changed how someone showed up day after day. Because sustainable momentum doesn’t come from more discipline. It comes from removing the friction inside the person. If you’re building something, a passion, a business, a life - and you’re tired of trying to force yourself forward, this podcast is an invitation to look at what’s actually in the way… and what happens when it finally shifts.

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  • Creator
    Ben Wendel
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    36
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Ben Wendel
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