Sacred Arc

Sacred Arc

Sacred Arc is a grief-centered podcast exploring loss, love, identity and the spaces in between. Through reflection, storytelling, and embodied awareness, the show honors grief as a lifelong, non-linear experience and not something to fix or move past. Hosted by Kimberley Patterson, an intuitive grief guide, death doula, and licensed esthetician, Sacred Arc offers grief education, meaning-making, and nervous system informed reflection for those learning how to live alongside loss. Kimberley's work is informed by lived experience, death literacy, trauma-informed principles & somatic awareness.

Episodes

  1. 1D AGO

    EP 9 - Grief Hangout: 50 Things I've Learned (Season One Closing)

    Season One didn't end the way I originally thought it would. But maybe that's fitting. In this companion episode, I'm sharing 50 things I've learned about grief. Some of them are tender, some uncomfortable, some surprisingly funny, and some I wish I never had to learn at all. This isn't a clinical breakdown. It's not a lecture. It's more of a grief hangout. The kind where we sit down together and say the things out loud that most people don't. Things like... Grief doesn't follow a timeline You can love someone and be angry at them at the same time People will say things that hurt, and sometimes they truly don't know better Your body remembers what your mind tries to suppress You are not behind And carrying love forward is not the same as "moving on" I didn't know who would listen when I started this podcast. I just knew there were people whose grief needed language, just like mine. People who needed their pain witnessed. People who were tired of editing their sorrow to make other people comfortable. This episode is for you. It's a flashback, a reflection, a thank you...and a small doorway into what we'' be exploring next season as we begin tracing the arc back to childhood...and how what we carry often didn't begin with us. Thank you for listening. Thank you for staying. Thank you for letting this be sacred. If this season has meant something to you, you're always welcome to reach out. I read your messages. I see you. **And if you're in crisis or in need of immediate support, please reach out to a licensed professional. You don't have to carry this lone. Comments are open for reflection and support, not for fixing. Please help keep the comment section kind and supportive. Anything harmful will be removed.

    9 min
  2. FEB 4

    EP 7 - When Words Fail: How Grief Wants To Be Met

    Most people don’t say the wrong thing because they’re cruel. They say the wrong thing because they were never taught how to meet grief. When someone we love is grieving, words often rush in where presence should be. Comfort turns into fixing. Silence turns into forced meaning. Fear turns into phrases that unintentionally isolate the person who is already hurting. This episode exists because grief doesn’t need to be explained away. It needs to be witnessed. In this conversation, we talk about: Why people say things like “everything happens for a reason” or “they’re in a better place”How comments meant to comfort can land as dismissive or painfulWhat a griever is often feeling internally when these things are said...the anger, disbelief, exhaustion, or urge to pull awayWhy grief creates distance in relationships, even when there’s loveAnd what grief actually wants insteadWe also explore what can be helpful to say when words fail and why sometimes the most supportive thing is simply staying present without trying to fix the pain. You don’t need perfect language to meet grief well. You just need honesty, humility, and the willingness to stay. Disclaimer This podcast is for education, reflection, and support — not medical or mental health advice. If you are struggling or in crisis, please reach out to a trusted person or professional. Comments Comments are open for reflection and presence — not advice, fixing, or debate. Anything harmful or dismissive will be removed to protect this space. Contact Me If something in this episode resonated and you’d like to share your story, say hello, or simply be witnessed, you’re welcome to reach out. You don’t need the right words. I’ll include the link below.https://beacons.ai/sacredarc

    21 min
  3. JAN 14

    EP 4 - Grief Thresholds: The Moments That Change Us

    There are moments in grief that quietly divide life into before and after. In this episode, we explore grief thresholds...the internal crossings that change how grief lives in us. These aren't milestones you plan for or stages you move through in order. They're the moments when something shifts, when grief deepens, when the body responds, when your sense of self begins to change. We talk about the thresholds that often go unnamed. Moments of realization, overwhelm, anger, tenderness, and the quiet understanding that you are not the same person you were before. This episode in an invitation to notice where you might be standing now, not to fix or move past anything, but to recognize the crossings you've already made. You're not behind. You're not doing grief wrong. You're crossing something sacred. Comments are open for reflection and presence, not advice, fixing or debate. You're welcome to share what resonated or where you find yourself standing. Anything that feels harmful, dismissive, or unsafe will be removed to protect this space. *Content Note: This episode includes discussion of grief, loss, and emotional response. Please listen gently. Sacred Arc offers grief education, reflection, and embodied awareness. All content is educational and supportive in nature and is not a substitute for psychotherapy, mental health treatment, medical care or diagnosis. If you are experiencing distress or need support, please seek care from a qualified healthcare or mental health professional. You don't need to carry this alone.

    24 min

About

Sacred Arc is a grief-centered podcast exploring loss, love, identity and the spaces in between. Through reflection, storytelling, and embodied awareness, the show honors grief as a lifelong, non-linear experience and not something to fix or move past. Hosted by Kimberley Patterson, an intuitive grief guide, death doula, and licensed esthetician, Sacred Arc offers grief education, meaning-making, and nervous system informed reflection for those learning how to live alongside loss. Kimberley's work is informed by lived experience, death literacy, trauma-informed principles & somatic awareness.