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A guide to BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy, multiple dynamics, polyamory, what it's like to be a Sadist, and how to approach BDSM sensibly

  1. APR 18

    BDSM 122 - The Hero's Journey

    For those unfamiliar with The Hero's Journey, it is the structure that almost all myth, legend and fiction follows. And it applies to many things in life, but BDSM has its own particular take on it, for both Dom and sub. What is the Hero's Journey, and how do we learn from it in BDSM? In other episodes we will come back to this, and look at ways the steps result in failure, and what to do about it, but for this episode, let's be positive and think of it as a successful journey... Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    21 min

  2. APR 11

    BDSM 121 - It's Just A Number

    Father Time does a number on us all, so how do we remain positive kinksters as we get older, and bodies don't look, work or feel like they used to? Kink, sex and emotion are all affected by time and age, so navigating that for a positive outcome becomes the challenge. Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    30 min

  3. APR 4

    BDSM 120 - The Big O

    Orgasms. Aren't they fun? Now, what happens when we surrender control of them to someone else? In this episode we explore orgasm control in many of its forms, from edging to forced orgasms, chastity to squirting. And look at why surrender of control is so potent, for both Dom and sub. Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    27 min

  4. MAR 28

    BDSM 119 - Rough Stuff

    Consensual non-consent. Fun, challenging, potentially emotionally devastating, what we are doing here is playing with fear and power. In any other circumstances the law would be getting involved, but we are making this consensual, so what does that mean? How does it work? Why do we do it? Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    21 min

  5. MAR 25

    BDSM 118 - Hitty Things!

    Oh, who doesn't love a bit of impact play? From over the knee spanking to Florentining floggers, hitty things offer a massive range of ways to explore, and for a Dom to leave their mark... Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    24 min

  6. MAR 21

    BDSM 117 - Pretty Red Flags

    How do you know if a new potential partner is safe to play with? We look at vetting, what red flags look like, what beige flags might mean, and what happens when you meet someone who skirts past your careful vetting technique. And what about them? Are they vetting you appropriately? Is their vetting a red flag? How to navigate the minefield that is getting to know someone and decide if they are a suitable person to play with... Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    26 min

  7. MAR 18

    BDSM 116 - The Balancing Act

    New Relationship Energy (NRE), limerence, infatuation... getting into a new thing with a new person is intense! Brain chemistry changes, moods are affected, exhilaration abounds. But that's a potent, heady mix, and can be addictive. Not to mention the effect on behaviours with your existing partners. Should we shy away from that exciting headspace? Can we manage it sensibly? How do we balance the thrill of the new with being consistent with your existing relationships, and how do we manage to avoid the addiction of newness? Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    22 min

  8. MAR 14

    BDSM 115 - B is for Bondage

    The B in BDSM. And it covers such a wide variety of things, so here's an introduction to all things Bondage, of which we will delve into detail in future episodes. So, blindfolds, hoods, gags, cuffs, restraints, and then all manner of rope... the possibilities are almost endless, as are the effects of restraint on sub and Dom. Got a comment, question or idea? Let Me know!

    24 min
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A guide to BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy, multiple dynamics, polyamory, what it's like to be a Sadist, and how to approach BDSM sensibly

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