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Welcome to the If You Ask Me podcast, hosted by Hannah Bradshaw and Sarah Lyons, two former employment lawyers turned coaches and the co founders of BlueSky. This podcast is about the big conversations we wish were happening more often. We talk to women in leadership positions across law firms, both those who have been through it themselves and those who bring fresh insights into how the profession can evolve. Our aim is to create a space that is uplifting and practical, where law meets life and possibility opens up. New episodes released weekly. 

  1. The Squiggly Moments That Shape Your Career with Aoife McDonagh

    4d ago

    The Squiggly Moments That Shape Your Career with Aoife McDonagh

    In this episode of If You Ask Me, Hannah and Sarah speak with Aoife McDonagh, Partner in the Funds & Investment Management Group at Maples Group, about building a successful legal career while navigating motherhood, ambition, leadership and career change.  Aoife reflects on beginning her career during the global financial crisis, securing a training contract at a time when opportunities were scarce and how the relationships and team culture she experienced early on continue to shape her approach to leadership today. She also discusses the impact of AI and innovation on legal practice and what firms must do to attract and retain talent, particularly women. The conversation explores the "squiggly moments" that often define women's careers in law, including Aoife's decision to leave her long-term firm while expecting her second child and join the Maples Group with a clear ambition to make partner. She speaks candidly about the pressure women place on themselves, the importance of being vocal about your own career goals and why simply "keeping your head down" is rarely enough. If You Ask Me is sponsored by BlckBx, the life admin personal assistant behind professional working families - saving you time, mental load and giving you back your energy. Sign up at blckbx.co.uk and get 10% off with code Blue10

    32 min
  2. The Freedom to Choose: Law, Leadership and Financial Independence with Louise Jeffers

    May 5

    The Freedom to Choose: Law, Leadership and Financial Independence with Louise Jeffers

    In this episode of If You Ask Me, we speak to Louise Jeffers, partner in clinical negligence at Browne Jacobson, about building a successful legal career in a way that is both ambitious and sustainable. Louise reflects on her route into law, her move from claimant to defendant work, and the career path that led her to partnership while raising two young children. She talks openly about the realities of combining leadership and motherhood, the support systems that made it possible, and why becoming a parent did not reduce her ambition but gave her a deeper sense of clarity, empathy and purpose. The conversation also explores some of the bigger structural questions facing the profession, including what law firms need to do to retain more women, why genuine flexibility matters, and how better support around maternity leave and return to work can make a real difference. Louise also shares her thoughts on financial independence, why women in law should be talking more about money and investing, and how having financial freedom can create more choice over the shape of a career and family life. This is an honest, thoughtful conversation about leadership, motherhood, money and what success can look like when you define it for yourself.

    32 min
  3. Motherhood, ambition and making partner in law, with Marianne McJannett

    Apr 22

    Motherhood, ambition and making partner in law, with Marianne McJannett

    In this episode of If You Ask Me, Hannah and Sarah speak to Marianne McJannett, employment law partner at Aberdein Considine, about building a legal career on her own terms. Marianne shares the story of how she stepped into leadership unusually early, taking on major responsibility just months after qualifying, and how that shaped the way she thinks about confidence, networks and career development. She also talks candidly about using LinkedIn to raise her profile, build credibility and open doors, including how it supported her path to partnership. The conversation also explores the reality of combining a demanding legal career with motherhood. Marianne reflects on returning from maternity leave, the adjustment of the first six months back, the importance of support at home and at work, and why becoming a parent sharpened her ambition rather than limiting it. This is an honest and practical conversation about visibility, leadership, flexibility and what career progression can look like when you stop following the traditional script.

    44 min
  4. You Can Have a Big Career and a Family: Joy Davey on Partnership, Ambition and Motherhood

    Apr 15

    You Can Have a Big Career and a Family: Joy Davey on Partnership, Ambition and Motherhood

    In this episode of If You Ask Me, we speak to Joy Davey, partner at CMS, co-founder of Women Who Work, and mother of three, about what it really takes to build a senior legal career alongside family life. Joy shares her path into law, her determination to make partner, and the reality of navigating promotions, maternity leave and career moves with young children. We talk about the impact of post-Covid flexibility, the pressure many women feel to scale back after becoming mothers, and why ambition does not disappear after having children. This is a candid conversation about speaking up for what you want, resisting the urge to opt out too early, and creating a version of career and motherhood that works for you. Expect honest reflections on: returning to work after maternity leavefull-time versus part-time workingmaking partner with young childrenflexibility in law firmsthe support women really need to thriveA practical and reassuring listen for women in law who want both a fulfilling career and a family life on their own terms.

    46 min
  5. Motherhood, Partnership and letting go of perfection with Georgie Field

    Mar 25

    Motherhood, Partnership and letting go of perfection with Georgie Field

    This episode explores the reality of building a senior legal career while raising a young family and why trying to “do it all” simply doesn’t work. Georgie Field, partner at Norton Rose Fulbright, shares her journey from returning from maternity leave unsure about her future, to making partner with two young children. She talks candidly about the pressure, self-doubt, and emotional load that comes with that transition, and what ultimately helped her move forward. The conversation covers the importance of speaking up about your ambitions, the role of flexibility in modern law firms, and why visibility and self-advocacy still matter. Georgie also shares the practical realities behind the scenes—delegating at home, building the right support network, and setting boundaries with clients. This is an honest look at ambition, motherhood, and the trade-offs involved, along with a reminder that you don’t need to do everything yourself to succeed.

    26 min
  6. Why career progression and motherhood do not have to be competing parts with Harriet Miller

    Mar 11

    Why career progression and motherhood do not have to be competing parts with Harriet Miller

    In this episode, we are joined by Harriet Miller, an investment management partner at Macfarlanes, and someone who has built her entire legal career within the firm. Harriet trained at Macfarlanes, discovered her passion for private funds early on, and has now been with the firm for 15 years. She was made partner four years ago while on her second maternity leave.  In this conversation, Harriet talks openly about what she learned on each maternity leave and how that time helped her come back a stronger lawyer. She shares why she believes motherhood can sharpen judgment and leadership, and how she and her husband built a genuinely shared approach to parenting across two demanding legal careers. Whether you are a woman planning maternity leave, preparing for partnership, or trying to balance two identities as a lawyer and a parent, Harriet's perspective is both relatable and reassuring. Her story shows that career progression and motherhood do not have to be competing parts. With intention, clarity and the right support systems, they can instead work together. Host: Sarah Lyons, Founding Director of BlueSky Host: Hannah Bradshaw, Founding Director of BlueSky Guest: Harriet Miller, Partner at Macfarlanes

    29 min
  7. Beyond “having it all”: partnership, parenthood and trade-offs in law with Louise O’Byrne

    Mar 4

    Beyond “having it all”: partnership, parenthood and trade-offs in law with Louise O’Byrne

    In this episode of If You Ask Me, we are joined by Louise O’Byrne, Partner and Head of the Commercial Department at Arthur Cox. Louise has spent nearly two decades at the firm, specialising in employment law and progressing through partnership while raising a young family. She reflects on making partner while heavily pregnant with her first child, navigating three maternity leaves and later advancing to equity partnership amid a particularly challenging time in her personal life. During the conversation, Louise speaks candidly about the realities of combining a demanding legal career with motherhood. She considers why the idea of “having it all” can be misleading, how learning to work alongside uncertainty and organised chaos became part of daily life, and what it means to take on senior leadership while being open about the pressures that can come with it. The discussion explores the assumptions that can arise when women return from maternity leave, the importance of direct and honest communication within teams, and the shared responsibility involved in managing career progression during periods of change. Louise also reflects on how hybrid working has altered the experience of working parents and what may be driving stronger retention and progression of women within Irish firms compared with some UK-based practices. Her perspective offers a grounded account of ambition, trade-offs and the evolving shape of leadership across a long legal career. Host: Sarah Lyons, Founding Director of BlueSky Host: Hannah Bradshaw, Founding Director of BlueSky Guest: Louise O’Byrne, Partner at Arthur Cox

    31 min
  8. Confidence, parenthood and progression in law with Lauren Gosnell

    Feb 24

    Confidence, parenthood and progression in law with Lauren Gosnell

    In this episode of If You Ask Me, we speak with Lauren Gosnell, Partner at Kennedys and Manchester lead of the firm’s Serious and Catastrophic Injury team. Lauren’s career in law began with an early interest in the profession, influenced by her father’s work in the legal world. Over nearly two decades in practice, she has developed a specialism in complex, high-value defendant claims, acting in cases involving spinal cord and brain injury, and managing technical evidence on causation and life expectancy. Since joining Kennedys, she has grown the Manchester team from a single lawyer into a team of 25. Alongside building her career, Lauren became a mother, an experience she describes as significantly influencing how she approaches her work. She reflects on returning from maternity leave during the pandemic, adjusting to remote work during a time of personal and professional transition, and stepping into partnership with a renewed sense of clarity and confidence. During the conversation, Lauren discusses her partnership interview, the decision to introduce herself first as a parent, and why acknowledging life outside work has become central to how she leads and connects with others. She considers how attitudes towards family life have shifted across the legal profession over the course of her career and how hybrid working has changed the way lawyers participate in meetings and client relationships. Lauren also speaks about leading a growing team in Manchester, setting clear boundaries around family commitments, and creating an environment where colleagues feel able to balance professional responsibility with life outside the office. She reflects on supporting team members returning from maternity leave and modelling the behaviours she hopes to see within her team. Host: Hannah Bradshaw, Founding Director of BlueSky Host: Sarah Lyons, Founding Director of BlueSky Guest: Lauren Gosnell, Partner at Kennedys

    31 min
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Welcome to the If You Ask Me podcast, hosted by Hannah Bradshaw and Sarah Lyons, two former employment lawyers turned coaches and the co founders of BlueSky. This podcast is about the big conversations we wish were happening more often. We talk to women in leadership positions across law firms, both those who have been through it themselves and those who bring fresh insights into how the profession can evolve. Our aim is to create a space that is uplifting and practical, where law meets life and possibility opens up. New episodes released weekly. 

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