Beyond The Game More Stories

Duane Lightfoot Jr

Beyond The Game More Stories is not a sports podcast. It’s about preparing for life and the role sports plays for many of us. Athlete out not, everyone has worn a jersey - a job title, a relationship, etc. This shows highlights those universal moments. The stories are real. No scripted inspirations, just honest conversation from real people about failure, growth and purpose. People trust what feels real and this shows earns that trust. Turning sports into life lessons it reminds us, you’re not broken for struggling, you’re not far behind for starting over and you’re not alone in the process.

  1. 16h ago

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 31 | Featuring Shanay Howard (Former D1 Basketball Player at Fairleigh Dickinson and College Eligibility Consultant))

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring Shanay Howard (Former D1 Basketball Player at Fairleigh Dickinson and Eligibility Consultant) Talent can get a coach’s attention — but understanding the academic side of college athletics can determine whether you ever get the opportunity to step on the field or court. On this episode of Beyond The Game More Stories, Duane Lightfoot Jr. sits down with Shanay Howard, M.Ed., Ed.S., a licensed school counselor, educational consultant, and NCAA eligibility and reclassification specialist who has spent more than 15 years helping students and student-athletes navigate academics, scholarships, eligibility, and the path to college. This is an important conversation for student-athletes, parents, coaches, counselors, and anyone trying to understand the college recruiting process. IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT: -What NCAA eligibility actually means — and why families need to understand it long before senior year -The difference between being talented enough to play college sports and actually being academically eligible to compete -Why a student can meet high school graduation requirements but still have issues with NCAA eligibility -Understanding transcripts, NCAA-approved core courses, core-course GPA, and why every class matters -Some of the common eligibility mistakes Shanay sees families make — and how many of them can be prevented with proper planning -Why student-athletes and parents should start thinking about academics and eligibility earlier than they may realize -Reclassification — what it means, why athletes consider it, and why families need to understand the academic implications before making the decision -The role parents should play in helping their student-athlete navigate recruiting, academics, and eligibility -Why communication between athletes, parents, coaches, counselors, and schools is so important -Scholarships and understanding that opportunities can come from more than athletic ability alone -Helping young athletes look beyond simply saying, “I want to play Division I,” and finding the academic and athletic opportunity that truly fits them -Why preparing for college athletics means preparing for life beyond athletics as well -Shanay’s passion for helping student-athletes achieve their dreams both on and off the field Whether your athlete is already being recruited or is just beginning to dream about playing at the next level, this conversation is a reminder that you can't wait until an opportunity arrives to start preparing for it. Parents and athletes: don't assume you know — educate yourself, ask questions, and start planning early. WATCH THE FULL EPISODE NOW! If this conversation helped you: LIKE the videoCOMMENT with your biggest takeaway or a question you wish you had known to ask earlierSUBSCRIBE to Beyond The Game More Stories and turn on notificationsSHARE this episode with a student-athlete, parent, coach, counselor, or teammate who needs this informationFOLLOW Beyond The Game More Stories on your favorite podcast platform CONNECT WITH SHANAY HOWARD Follow Shanay on Instagram (@Shanay.Y.Howard) and connect with her on LinkedIn for more information and education surrounding NCAA eligibility, reclassification, academic planning, and the student-athlete journey. Visit BTGMS.com for more episodes and information. #BeyondTheGameMoreStories #ShanayHoward #NCAAEligibility #NCAAEligibilityCenter #StudentAthlete #CollegeRecruiting #CollegeAthletics #Reclassification #NCAARecruiting #AthleticScholarships #CollegeScholarships #StudentAthleteLife #ParentsOfAthletes #YouthSports #HighSchoolAthlete #CollegeBoundAthlete #AcademicEligibility #RecruitingProcess #StudentAthleteDevelopment #BeyondTheGame

  2. Sep 28

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 30 | Featuring Terry Johnson (Coach University of Evansville)

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring Terry Johnson (AssociateHead's Men’s Basketball Coach at University of Evansville)   Coach Terry Johnson: Winning, Relationships& Lessons Beyond Basketball | Beyond The Game More Stories On this episode of Beyond The Game More Stories,we sit down with University of Evansville Associate Head Men’s Basketball CoachTerry Johnson for a conversation that goes far beyond X’s andO’s. Coach Johnson has spent his career around winningbasketball, with coaching stops at Butler, Ohio State, Purdue, and nowEvansville. Along the way, he has coached on some of collegebasketball’s biggest stages, helped develop countless student-athletes, andlearned that coaching is about much more than what happens between the lines. IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT: -Coach Johnson’s journey from athlete to coach-His background as a multi-sport college athlete in basketball and baseball-His years at Butler and being part of the program’s historic rise-Experiencing Final Fours and national championship runs-Coaching at Purdue and being part of one of the most successful stretches inprogram history-His decision to join the University of Evansville and help build the next chapter of Purple Aces basketball-Why relationships are one of the most important parts of coaching-The difference between simply coaching a player and truly connecting with them-Holding athletes accountable while still letting them know you care-Player development and understanding that growth doesn’t happen overnight-Recognizing opportunities and being willing to take the next step in your journey-The impact coaches can have on young people long after their playing careers are over-The life lessons basketball has taught him along the way Coach Johnson’s journey is a reminder that success isn’t just about the games you win — it’s about the relationships you build, the people you impact, and who you become along the way. WATCH THE FULL EPISODE NOW! If you enjoy the conversation: LIKE the videoCOMMENT with your biggest takeaway from Coach JohnsonSUBSCRIBE to Beyond The Game More Stories and turn onnotificationsSHARE this episode with an athlete, coach, parent, or someonewho could benefit from Coach Johnson’s messageFOLLOW the podcast on your favorite podcast platform Visit BTGMS.com for more episodes andinformation. #BeyondTheGameMoreStories #TerryJohnson #EvansvilleBasketball #PurpleAces#CollegeBasketball #ButlerBasketball #PurdueBasketball #OhioStateBasketball#BasketballCoach #Coaching #LifeLessons #Leadership #PlayerDevelopment#Mentorship #StudentAthlete #BasketballLife #BeyondTheGame

  3. Sep 21

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 29 | Featuring Lavall Jordan (Coach DePaul University)

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring Lavall Jordan (Coach DePaul University) On this episode of Beyond The Game More Stories, Duane Lightfoot Jr. sits down with LaVall Jordan for a conversation about basketball, coaching, leadership, adversity, and the life lessons learned throughout his journey. LaVall’s basketball story has allowed him to experience the game from nearly every perspective — as a college athlete, professional player, assistant coach, head coach, mentor, and leader. But this conversation goes beyond wins, losses, and what happens on the court. We talk about the experiences that shaped him, the people who influenced his journey, and what basketball has taught him about navigating life when things don’t go according to plan. 🎙️ IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT: 🏀 Growing up and falling in love with basketball🐶 His playing career at Butler University and helping build the foundation for the program’s success💡 The lessons he learned as a player that eventually shaped the way he coached🏀 Making the transition from playing basketball to coaching it🧠 Learning from different coaches, programs, personalities, and leadership styles〽️ His years at Michigan and being part of a program competing on college basketball’s biggest stages🏆 Getting his first opportunity to become a college head coach🐶 Returning to Butler as the head coach of his alma mater❤️ What it means to coach and develop young people beyond basketball📈 Handling expectations, pressure, success, and failure🚪 What happens when an opportunity or chapter ends before you are ready for it to end🧭 Separating your identity from your title or position💪 Responding to adversity and continuing to move forward👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 Balancing coaching, family, and life📚 The lessons basketball has taught LaVall that apply far beyond the game🎯 What success means to him today LaVall’s journey is another reminder that the game may end, the job may change, and the path may look different than you expected — but the lessons stay with you. ▶️ Watch the full episode and join the conversation. If you enjoy the episode: 👍 LIKE the video💬 COMMENT with the biggest lesson you took away🔔 SUBSCRIBE and turn on notifications for future episodes📲 SHARE this episode with a coach, athlete, parent, or someone who needs to hear LaVall’s story 🎙️ Beyond The Game More Stories Everyone has a story someone needs to hear. The game may end, but the lessons don’t. 🌐 Visit BTGMS.com for more episodes and information. #BeyondTheGameMoreStories #LaVallJordan #ButlerBasketball #CollegeBasketball #BasketballCoach #LifeLessons #Coaching #Leadership #Mentorship #StudentAthlete #BasketballLife #BeyondTheGame

  4. Sep 14

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 28 | Featuring Keith Mondillo (Head's Women's Basketball Coach and Athletic Director at Gwynedd Mercy University)

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring Keith Mondillo (Head's Women's Basketball Coach and Athletic Director at Gwynedd Mercy University) What do parents and young athletes really need to know about the college recruiting process? In this episode of Beyond The Game More Stories, I sit down with longtime college basketball coach, athletic director, and recruiting educator Keith Mondillo for a conversation that every family with an athlete hoping to play at the next level should hear. Coach Mondillo has spent more than three decades inside college athletics as the Head Women’s Basketball Coach and Director of Athletics at Gwynedd Mercy University. During his coaching career, he has accumulated more than 500 victories, won seven conference championships, made nine NCAA Tournament appearances, and helped develop generations of student-athletes. His impact extends far beyond the basketball court. As an athletic director, Keith has helped oversee tremendous growth in his athletic department, including the addition of numerous sports, expansion of the department’s staff, and development of new athletic facilities. Now, he’s taking everything he has learned from sitting on the other side of the recruiting table and helping athletes and parents better understand the process. Through Keith Mondillo Coaching, he has developed resources including The Athletic Recruiting Roadmap, The Parent’s Recruiting Survival Guide, The Athletic Recruiting Email Playbook, The Athletic Recruiting Q&A Playbook, The Early Years Playbook, recruiting workshops, individual coaching programs, and his FREE College Recruiting Jumpstart Pack. IN THIS CONVERSATION WE TALK ABOUT: -His journey into college coaching and becoming an athletic director -Building and sustaining a successful college basketball program -What college coaches are REALLY looking for when evaluating athletes -The role social media plays in recruiting -When and how athletes should begin communicating with college coaches -The parent’s role in the recruiting process—and when parents may be doing too much -Recruiting red flags that athletes and parents should recognize -Understanding the differences between levels of college athletics and finding the right fit -Why families shouldn’t assume an athletic scholarship is the only path to making college affordable -Why waiting too long to understand recruiting can put athletes behind -Why Keith created his recruiting resources and the biggest mistakes he sees families making And most importantly, we discuss why recruiting shouldn't simply be about getting ANY opportunity—it should be about finding the RIGHT opportunity. Keith has spent decades recruiting athletes, evaluating talent, building teams, talking with families, and making the same decisions young athletes are trying to influence today. This episode gives families an opportunity to hear what the recruiting process looks like from someone who has actually been sitting on the other side of the table. DON’T JUST HOPE TO GET RECRUITED. LEARN HOW THE PROCESS WORKS. 👉 Check out Coach Keith Mondillo’s recruiting resources, including his FREE Recruiting Jumpstart Pack. 👉 SUBSCRIBE to Beyond The Game More Stories 👍 LIKE this episode if you found it valuable. 💬 COMMENT BELOW: What is the biggest question you have about college recruiting? 📲 SHARE THIS EPISODE with a young athlete, parent, coach, or family currently navigating the recruiting process. Because the game may end, but the lessons don’t. Everyone has a story someone needs to hear. #BeyondTheGameMoreStories #KeithMondillo #CollegeRecruiting #AthleticRecruiting #StudentAthlete #CollegeAthletics #RecruitingTips #NCAA #CollegeBasketball #YouthSports #SportsParents #HighSchoolAthlete #BasketballRecruiting #RecruitingAdvice #MoreThanAnAthlete

  5. Sep 7

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 27 | Featuring John Groce (Charleston Head Men's Basketball Coach)

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring John Groce (Charleston Head Men's Basketball Coach)From coaching me during my freshman year at Butler to becoming the head coach at Charleston, John Groce’s journey has been built on relationships, perseverance, leadership, and winning.In this episode, Coach Groce and I reconnect to talk about where our paths first crossed at Butler and the lessons we both carried forward from those early years. We discuss his evolution as a coach, the unforgettable 2010 NCAA Tournament run at Ohio, building championship programs, and the difficult decision to leave Akron after winning three straight conference tournament championships and four of the last five.Coach Groce also opens up about starting over at Charleston, how his definition of success has changed, developing young men beyond basketball, handling expectations, and the lessons he has learned through the highs and lows of a career in coaching.And because this one is personal, we reflect on our own relationship and what it means to reconnect more than two decades after our time together at Butler.The game may end, but the lessons don’t.Watch the full episode, SUBSCRIBE to the channel, LIKE the video, and COMMENT with the biggest lesson you took from Coach Groce’s story.Follow Beyond The Game More Stories for more conversations with athletes, coaches, and others whose experiences prove that everyone has a story someone needs to hear.#BeyondTheGameMoreStories #JohnGroce #CharlestonBasketball #CollegeBasketball #ButlerBasketball #MarchMadness #Coaching #Leadership #LifeLessons #Basketball

  6. Aug 31

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 26 | Featuring Brian Thornton (Former D1 and Professional Basketball Player and Chief Basketball Officer of Big 12 Conference)

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring Brian Thornton (Former D1 and Professional Basketball Player and Chief Basketball Officer of Big 12 Conference) From player to coach to conference commissioner to one of the most influential leaders in college basketball, Brian Thornton’s journey has allowed him to experience the game from nearly every angle.On this episode of Beyond The Game More Stories, Brian joins us to talk about growing up in Louisville, his path from Vanderbilt to Xavier, becoming an Academic All-American, playing professionally overseas, and making the transition from playing to coaching and eventually into athletic administration. Today, Brian serves as Chief Basketball Officer for the Big 12 Conference, helping shape the future of one of college basketball’s premier conferences.We also dive into the lessons behind his journey—the decisions, relationships, challenges, and opportunities that helped take him from the court to the executive level. Brian shares his perspective on leadership, the changing landscape of college athletics, the transfer portal, NIL, the business of college basketball, and what the future of the sport could look like. This conversation is about much more than basketball. It’s about growth, adaptability, relationships, leadership, and being prepared when opportunity arrives. 🎙️ The game may end, but the lessons don’t. 👉 Subscribe to Beyond The Game More Stories, like the episode, and share it with an athlete, coach, parent, or sports fan who needs to hear Brian’s story. #BeyondTheGameMoreStories #BrianThornton #Big12 #CollegeBasketball #XavierBasketball #VanderbiltBasketball #NCAA #NIL #TransferPortal #Leadership #Basketball #SportsPodcast #LifeLessons #BeyondTheGame

  7. Aug 24

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 25 | Featuring Khyle Marshall (Professional Basketball Player/Coach)

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring Khyle Marshall (Professional Basketball Player/Coach) What does it take to chase a dream, handle expectations, reinvent yourself, and then help others reach their potential? In this episode of Beyond The Game More Stories, I sit down with Khyle Marshall—former Butler standout, professional basketball player, and current assistant coach at Furman University. Khyle was part of Butler's incredible run to the 2011 National Championship game, played professionally in Japan, Spain, Portugal, and the Dominican Republic, and has since built an impressive coaching career at Florida Gulf Coast, UIC, South Dakota State, and now Furman. In this conversation, we dive into: 🏀 Committing to Butler while watching the program make a historic Final Four run 🏀 The pressure of following a national championship season as a freshman 🏀 Setting a childhood goal of playing professional basketball—and accomplishing it 🏀 Knowing when it was time to retire and transition into coaching 🏀 Starting over every season after winning championships 🏀 The importance of player development, relationships, and staying true to the process 🏀 The life lessons that basketball continues to teach both on and off the court Whether you're an athlete, coach, parent, or someone chasing your own goals, Khyle shares wisdom that reaches far beyond basketball. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and turn on notifications so you never miss a conversation. Share this episode with a coach, teammate, or friend who could benefit from Khyle's story, and leave a comment with your biggest takeaway! #BeyondTheGameMoreStories #KhyleMarshall #ButlerBasketball #FurmanBasketball #CollegeBasketball #Basketball #Leadership #PlayerDevelopment #SportsPodcast #LifeLessons #Coaching #PersonalGrowth

  8. Aug 17

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Episode 24 | Featuring Matthew Graves (Indiana State University Head Coach

    Beyond The Game More Stories | Featuring Matthew Graves (Coach Indiana State University) What does it take to build a championship culture—and more importantly, develop championship people? In this episode of Beyond The Game More Stories, we sit down with Matthew Graves, Head Men's Basketball Coach at Indiana State University, former Division I player, and longtime college basketball coach. Coach Graves shares the experiences, relationships, and life lessons that have shaped his journey from player to leader. Throughout our conversation, we dive into the realities of coaching in today's college basketball landscape, leadership, player development, recruiting, and the importance of building trust and authentic relationships with your team. Coach Graves also reflects on his own playing career, lessons learned from the coaches who influenced him, and how those experiences continue to shape the way he leads young men today. Coach Graves' journey to becoming the head coach at Indiana StateLeadership lessons from playing and coaching at the Division I levelBuilding a winning culture that lastsThe importance of relationships and trust within a programRecruiting in the modern era of college basketballDeveloping players on and off the courtLearning through adversity and career setbacksFamily, mentorship, and the influence of his basketball rootsA fun segment comparing the Graves brothers and their unique strengthsWhy the greatest victories often happen far beyond the final scoreWhether you're an athlete, coach, parent, or sports fan, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and inspiring stories that remind us the greatest lessons are often learned beyond the game. 👍 Like this video💬 Comment your biggest takeaway from Coach Graves' story.📤 Share this episode with an athlete, coach, parent, or mentor who could benefit from these lessons.🔔 Subscribe to Beyond The Game More Stories and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode. 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major podcast platforms. Follow Beyond The Game More Stories for more conversations with athletes, coaches, and leaders whose greatest stories happened beyond the scoreboard. #BeyondTheGameMoreStories #MatthewGraves #IndianaState #CollegeBasketball #Leadership #PlayerDevelopment #Coaching #Basketball #Recruiting #StudentAthletes #SportsPodcast #LifeLessons #BeyondTheGame #NCAA #CoachLife 🏀 In this episode, we discuss:🔔 Enjoyed the episode?

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Beyond The Game More Stories is not a sports podcast. It’s about preparing for life and the role sports plays for many of us. Athlete out not, everyone has worn a jersey - a job title, a relationship, etc. This shows highlights those universal moments. The stories are real. No scripted inspirations, just honest conversation from real people about failure, growth and purpose. People trust what feels real and this shows earns that trust. Turning sports into life lessons it reminds us, you’re not broken for struggling, you’re not far behind for starting over and you’re not alone in the process.