Nextdoor Swing

Cora and Max
  • 5.0 (7)
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Get the inside scoop on Swinger and Ethical Non Monogamy Lifestyle travel and events!  Hosted by veteran lifestyle couple and full time RVers, Cora and Max.  They hope to entertain and educate listeners with information based on their personal experiences.  Listeners can expect to laugh, be intrigued and maybe even have a few head nods along the way.  Have somewhere you think they should visit?  Email ideas to nextdoorswing@gmail.com, also follow on Instagram @nextdoorswing and Facebook NextdoorSwing.

  1. 3D AGO

    Ep 16: How iCandy Parties Work From Rooms To Themes

    Send us Fan Mail Rooms can sell out in a week or two, themes go hard, and the energy can feel like a mini EDM festival, so if you’ve ever wondered how iCandy parties actually work, we lay it out from the inside. We’re recording from Secrets in Kissimmee, Florida during a First Friday weekend, and we walk you through what to expect when you show up, how the crowd feels, and how to avoid the common booking mistakes that trip people up. We break down the two main iCandy formats: the Secrets hotel takeovers (three big weekends a year with a multi-night commitment) and the Colette’s club events (typically a Saturday night party without the hotel piece). We also share why people travel in groups from all over the US and beyond, how big these nights can get, and what makes the vibe feel welcoming even when it looks like everyone already knows each other. Then we get practical: how to book takeovers through iCandyParties.com, why you should join the email newsletter for room-release alerts, where to follow iCandy on Instagram and Facebook, and how the merch tent works. We also give our best “just the tips” advice on going all out for the party themes and using the room crawl as the easiest way to meet people fast. Finally, we answer a listener mailbag question about games in the lifestyle, including when games are a fun icebreaker, when they get pushy, and why “read the room” is the rule that saves everyone’s night. If you enjoy lifestyle travel, swingers events, and real talk about community and consent, hit subscribe, share the show with a friend, and leave us a review so more people can find us. Support the show

    29 min

  2. APR 22

    Ep 15: Secrets Hideaway Explained

    Send us Fan Mail Florida has plenty of resorts, but not many where you can go from a quiet clothing optional pool day to a full-on themed party weekend and still feel protected by clear rules, strong consent culture, and real security. We’re recording on location at Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, Florida and walking you through what it’s actually like, from the courtyard vibe to the dungeon space inside Club Swinkster. We get into the details people always ask for before they book: the five-acre layout, individually owned condo rooms, pools and hot tubs, bars, the newer tiki area, and why Secrets is a legit travel destination for couples from all over the US and beyond. We also talk logistics that matter, like how to find accurate info on secretsfl.com, how day passes and wristbands work, and why takeovers can change the crowd from weekend to weekend. If you’re looking up “Secrets Hideaway Kissimmee,” “adults only lifestyle resort,” or “swingers resort near Orlando,” this is the practical starter guide we wish everyone had. We also answer a mailbag question we hear all the time: can you go to a lifestyle club or resort and just watch? We explain why voyeurism is completely acceptable, how to say “no” without awkwardness, and how “maybe next time” can be a healthy boundary. To close, we share a personal story about trying something new as a couple, leaning into trust, and then talking through what we liked afterward, because exploration only works when communication stays strong. If this helped, subscribe for more real-world lifestyle travel tips, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review so more curious couples can find us. What question should we answer next? https://www.secretsfl.com Support the show

    31 min

  3. APR 8

    Ep 14: Paradise Lakes Resort 101

    Send us Fan Mail We record from the playroom at Paradise Lakes Resort and break down what makes this nudist-first lifestyle destination feel easy, social, and surprisingly relaxed. We also share a real night story and answer a mailbag question about how to ask potential play partners about STI testing without being rude.  • What Paradise Lakes Resort is and why “nudist” comes first  • The layout of the property and how the resort differs from the surrounding community  • Pools, hot tubs, Club Reveal, bars, restaurant, and on-site activities like pickleball  • Who the resort tends to attract and what the weekend party vibe feels like  • When to visit and why Fridays and Saturdays hit hardest  • How to book, where to find events, and how memberships and fees work  • First-timer tips including the no alcohol in rooms rule and bag checks  • The three play spaces and how each one has a different vibe  • Our playroom story focusing on consent, masks, and how connection happens in real time  • Mailbag scripts for bringing up STI testing plus condom boundaries in play spaces  https://paradiselakesresort.com/ Please support us by sharing this episode with your friends and other lifestyles.  Click here to book your next Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=209133 Support the show

    27 min

  4. APR 1

    Ep. 13: Host A Lifestyle House Party

    Send us Fan Mail We share our real-world blueprint for hosting a lifestyle house party that feels safe, sexy, and easy instead of crowded or messy. We walk through guest list control, smart planning, home setup, and our mailbag answer on why some parties ask for a “donation”.  • Defining what a lifestyle house party can be, including home and hotel suite options  • Choosing who to invite, why friends of friends work, and how we vet strangers on SDC and SLS  • Picking a date early and avoiding conflicts with other local lifestyle events  • Controlling the guest list and headcount so the vibe stays right  • Setting expectations with clear guidelines, reminders, and optional themes  • Avoiding Airbnb and VRBO risks, including cameras and legal trouble  • Planning parking, bathrooms, valuables, closed rooms, and pet containment  • Separating food and bar areas so guests don’t bottleneck in the kitchen  • Creating dedicated play space plus our bedding layering method  • Stocking the right supplies: towels, wipes, condoms, toothbrushes, mints, mouthwash, and lots of ice  • Answering where “donation” money goes and why hosts use that wording  Please support us by sharing this episode with your friends and other lifestylers.  Book your next Bliss Cruise with us!  Click here: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=209133 Support the show

    29 min

  5. MAR 25

    Ep 12: Attending a Lifestyle House Party

    Send us Fan Mail We share what lifestyle house parties really look like, from small apartments to packed mansions, and why they can be the easiest way to meet people while traveling. We break down party types, how to find events on SDC and SLS, and the simple etiquette that keeps everything fun, safe, and drama-free.  • Why house parties fit lifestyle travel and weekend plans  • What house parties are and how sizes change the vibe  • Common formats like DTF nights, bi women parties, single men invites and celebration events  • How to find listings on SDC and SLS and what “private invite” really means  • Reading the room, consent basics and leaving early without guilt  • Being a great guest: introductions, cleanup, parking rules and bringing a bottle  • Our favorite party stories plus what made a few nights total duds  • Mailbag answer on what to bring: cooler, go bag, lingerie and a go-home outfit  Please support us by sharing this episode with your friends and other lifestyles.  Book your next Bliss Cruise with us!  https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=209133 Support the show

    43 min

  6. MAR 18

    Ep. 11: Bliss Cruise Feels Like Adult Summer Camp On A Ship

    Send us Fan Mail We break down why Bliss Cruise remains our favorite couples-only, adult-only lifestyle vacation after seven sailings, including what makes the vibe feel both sexy and genuinely classy. We share what you’ll find onboard, why the shorter February Sampler brought in so many first-timers, and the practical tips that make the whole experience easier.  • Couples-only adult-only lifestyle ship charter basics  • What happens onboard including pool parties workshops vendors and meet and greets  • Play spaces on different parts of the ship including dungeons and outdoor play areas  • How the Bliss Cruise app helps you plan and connect on ship Wi‑Fi  • Who shows up across the lifestyle spectrum plus curious guests  • Where sailings depart and how each cruise now has its own identity and theme  • Why we keep coming back including the community and the no public sex rules  • Our favorite party and play memories including glow night and outdoor reconnecting  • Booking BlissCruise.com and how our affiliate link supports the show  • First-timer tips including theme nights speed dating playrooms door decor magnets and extension cords  • Mailbag on why the 4-night Sampler was less intimidating and drew 60% new guests  Book your next Bliss Adventure with us! https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=209133 Please support us by sharing this episode with your friends and other lifestylers.  Support the show

    38 min

  7. MAR 11

    Ep 10: Mailbag: Jealousy, Boundaries, Confidence

    Send us Fan Mail Mailbag time, and we’re tackling the questions couples whisper about and Google at 2 a.m.—jealousy, boundaries, confidence, saying no with grace, and where to start without blowing up your relationship. We get real about what actually works when the room gets hot and emotions run higher, sharing scripts, rituals, and mindset shifts forged over 12 years in the lifestyle. We break down the building blocks of trust with practical moves: set expectations before events, use direct language during play, and debrief the morning after. You’ll hear how we manage jealousy by choosing calm moments, swapping “me” for “we,” and staying vulnerable even when it’s uncomfortable. We talk confidence as a habit—taking care of your health, complimenting each other often, and walking across the room to introduce yourself. Rejection? It happens to everyone. A simple “not tonight” keeps it kind and keeps doors open. We also map the spectrum—from soft swap and full swap to exclusivity and poly dynamics—highlighting why four hearts are harder to align than two and how radical communication keeps feelings from outrunning agreements. New to the scene or returning after years away? We share why Bliss Cruise and Naughty in New Orleans are supportive first steps with seminars, play spaces, and room to regroup. Age and body-image myths get tossed too: the lifestyle is inclusive by design, spanning every body type, ability, and decade of life, and the most magnetic trait is respect. If you’re curious how couples stay close while exploring boldly, this conversation offers clear tools, honest stories, and a permission slip to go slow. Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review with the one question you still want answered—we might feature it in our next mailbag. Online Booking Support the show

    46 min

  8. MAR 4

    Ep 9: Inside The Woods: A Clothing-Optional Luxury RV Resort Near Tampa

    Send us Fan Mail We explore an adult-only, clothing-optional luxury RV community beside Caliente and explain how it pairs quiet days with easy access to high-energy nights. We also answer a listener question on staying discreet in the lifestyle with concrete tools and examples. • 11-acre, 75-lot luxury RV and park model HOA near Tampa  • Adult-only, clothing-optional, lifestyle-friendly community  • Who it suits: RVers, retirees, investors, long stays  • Location perks: Caliente next door, Gulf beaches nearby  • Seasons and pricing: winter busy, summer quiet, clear rate ranges  • How to book: website and app, no day passes  • Amenities: three pools, hot tub, large clubhouse, BYO bar  • Events: ABC party, taco night, casino night, luau, wine tasting  • House rules: gated entry, guest-only access, no sex on premises  • Discretion guide: couples pages, photo practices, travel-only play  • Upcoming: full Q&A episode with listener questions Please support us by sharing this episode with your friends and other lifestylers Also, follow our social medias. At Instagram, we are nextdoor swing, YouTube is nextdoor swing, and Facebook is also NextdoorSwing And if you want to check out our spicy content, head on over to OnlyFans, and the link is NextdoorSwing Support the show

    27 min
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Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
7 Ratings

About

Get the inside scoop on Swinger and Ethical Non Monogamy Lifestyle travel and events!  Hosted by veteran lifestyle couple and full time RVers, Cora and Max.  They hope to entertain and educate listeners with information based on their personal experiences.  Listeners can expect to laugh, be intrigued and maybe even have a few head nods along the way.  Have somewhere you think they should visit?  Email ideas to nextdoorswing@gmail.com, also follow on Instagram @nextdoorswing and Facebook NextdoorSwing.

Information

  • Creator
    Cora and Max
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Nextdoor Swing
  • Show Website
    Nextdoor Swing

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