In this rich and heartfelt conversation, I sit down with Dr Bee Lim — clinical psychologist, accredited EMDR practitioner, author of Welcome Home: Healing Trauma and Reclaiming Wholeness, and co‑founder of Mind Health Collective. Together, we explore the emotional landscapes of trauma, cultural identity, intergenerational stories, contemplative practice, and the parts of ourselves we abandon in order to survive. Whether you are a therapist, psychologist, Asian diaspora practitioner, or someone navigating belonging and healing, this episode offers wisdom, validation, and gentle grounding. In this episode, we explore: • Why Bee wrote Welcome Home and how the four animal characters were chosen • Intergenerational Trauma in the Asian diaspora and the “silence” • Cultural identity, migration, and the pressure to constantly “prove yourself” • The concept of cultural dissociation and how therapists lose parts of themselves during Western clinical training • How to practice culturally responsive therapy without pathologising culture • IFS‑informed parts work through an Asian lens • The wolf part: anger, silencing, and reclaiming agency • The crane part: intellectualising, observing, dissociating from the body • How contemplative practice supports therapists to return to themselves • Grief, gardening, and the slow rituals that reconnect us to the body • How we can become “future ancestors” who pass on emotional wealth • What it means to be “enough” in a culture of survival and striving Who this episode is for: • Therapists and psychologists seeking culturally responsive frameworks • EMDR, IFS, ACT, and trauma‑informed practitioners • Asian diaspora therapists and clients navigating identity + belonging • First‑generation migrants healing intergenerational narratives • Readers of Welcome Home and those curious about parts work • Anyone longing for a gentler relationship with themselves About Dr Bee Lim Dr Bee Lim is a clinical psychologist and accredited EMDR practitioner whose work centres trauma, identity, displacement, and cultural lineage. Born in Malaysia, trained in New Zealand, and now based in Sydney, she integrates clinical rigour with culturally attuned, trauma‑informed care. She is the author of Welcome Home, co‑founder of Mind Health Collective, and founder of BeTuned, a therapeutic game‑based platform. Learn more at: Meet the four parts of you. Take Dr Bee Lim's free Homecoming Profile: homecoming.drbeelim.com Then come home to the full story in her book, Welcome Home: drbeelim.com/welcomehome Follow Bee on Instagram Resources mentioned: • When Culture Looks Like Pathology: Understanding Cultural Dissociation in Diaspora Clients Webinar (mentioned) Connect with your host, Poh Gan I’m an educational & developmental psychologist and board-approved supervisor specialising in neurodiversity-affirming care and cultural identity. Outside of work, I am a buddhist practitioner with a deep love in meditation and learning to walk the Bodhisattva path. Instagram: the.blossoming.therapists Website: www.blossomingtrueself.com.au If this episode resonated: Leave a review on Apple PodcastsShare with a colleague or friend in the Asian diasporaTag us on Instagram with your reflectionsSubscribe for more conversations with therapists on application of Buddhist and contemplative wisdom in work and personal lives. Disclaimer: The content discussed in this podcast is for inspiration and educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy or clinical supervision, and our time together does not constitute a therapeutic relationship. Please seek professional support if you are in need. Let us know what you took away from this conversation! Bodhi Inner Path Circle is a contemplative membership community for therapists who long for a regular, supportive, spiritually grounded place to practise meditation, learn Buddha‑Dharma in reflective practice, and connect with dharma friends. It is currently open for enrolment! You're warmly invited to join us to start your cultivation and practice today! Support the show