Be The One Podcast

Nancy Matthews

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  1. 2d ago

    Master Inner Peace A Revolution from Within with Regena Ozeryansky

    Are you truly at peace, or are you just constantly chasing the next milestone, hoping it will finally bring you happiness? In this transformative episode of the Be The One podcast, host Nancy Matthews sits down with Regena Ozeryansky, founder of Internal Peace Now (IPN). Regena introduces us to the “Revolution to Inner Peace”—a powerful reimagining of what it means to be at peace. It’s not about sitting on a mountaintop; it’s about emotional mastery, recognizing the “subpersonality committee” in your mind, and breaking the unconscious patterns that keep us stuck. Together, Nancy and Regena explore why high achievers often reach the pinnacle of success only to ask, “Is this all there is?” and how we can rewrite the stories we tell ourselves to manifest a life of true fulfillment. Timestamps: [00:00:40] Welcome & Introduction to the Revolution of Inner Peace [00:03:28] The “Inner Mind Committee” & Understanding Your Subpersonalities [00:04:49] The Hidden Impact of Chronic Stress on Our Lives [00:06:04] Transformative Life Challenges & Finding Your True Purpose [00:08:23] What Story Are You Telling Yourself? Breaking Habitual Patterns [00:14:00] “Is This All There Is?” Navigating Success vs. Fulfillment [00:16:00] How to Access the Life You Know is Available to You [00:19:20] Manifesting Success & Quieting the Noise [00:22:09] ⚡ Lightning Round! Vacations, Biggest Influences & Favorite Foods ✨ Join the Community: Come hang out at the “Internal Peace Renegades” virtual water cooler on What’s App! It’s a free space to connect, share, and communicate messages of light and love. 🧠 Take the Stress Test: Ready to go deeper? Take Regena’s simple, 5-question quiz (takes less than a minute!) to evaluate your specific stress levels and get personalized strategies to support you. Website: https://internalpeacenow.com/ 📩 Connect with Regena: Reach out to Regena via the links in the show notes below to learn more about her 12-week trademarked methodology, retreats, and workshops! Website: https://internalpeacenow.com/connect/ #InnerPeace #EmotionalMastery #PersonalGrowth #BeTheOne #Mindfulness #StressRelief #SelfCare #Manifestation #Neuroscience #Psychology #NancyMatthews #TheOnePhilosophy Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

  2. Oct 8

    Are you on the right track? Is it The One you chose or did someone else lay down the track you’re on?

    Are you living your truth, or are you just playing the roles everyone else expects you to play? In this powerful episode of the Be The One podcast, I sit down with Jewana White—The Conductor of Inner Sovereignty—to unpack what it really takes to reclaim your power and choose yourself. After 23 years working on the railroad (following the tracks laid out by her family), Jewana realized she was living a life of quiet fulfillment but zero genuine passion. Despite having the “secure” job, the paycheck, and the benefits, her body began to break down with injuries and pain. She soon discovered that her physical pain was a profound wake-up call: she was on the wrong track. In this episode we dive deep into: ✨ How to distinguish between the roles you play and who you truly are. ✨ Why “the issues are in your tissues” and how unresolved emotional pain lodges itself in the body. ✨ The terrifying but liberating moment you decide to bet on yourself. ✨ Her beautiful “VIBE UP” framework (Vision, Intentions, Breath/Body, Execution) to help you become the conductor of your own life. If you’ve ever felt the weight of expectations, struggled with burnout, or wondered if you’re on the right track, this episode is your divine appointment to wake up and take your authority back. Timestamps: 0:00 — Show Intro 0:39 — Introducing Jewana White 2:38 — Following tracks laid by others (railroad & family) 3:49 — The wake-up call: injuries on the job 6:38 — Coming back to yourself, one step at a time 7:34 — What part is really you vs. the roles you’re playing 9:29 — Inner sovereignty: reclaiming your authority 13:00 — Betting on yourself 13:15 — The body, mind & spirit connection 15:34 — “The issues are in the tissues” — Chinese medicine & chi flow 16:11 — Distant healings & energy revivals 16:29 — Become the conductor of your own life 17:49 — Free gift: The VIBE Up framework 18:40 — Lightning round begins (favorite food) 20:28 — Who Jewana would love to meet (Don Miguel Ruiz) 20:48 — What she’d most like to be known for 21:44 — Closing remarks 👇 Connect with Jewana White: Grab her free “Vibe Up” guide and connect with her for distant healings and VIP experiences here: https://jewanawhite.com/vibe-up Email: Jewana@JewanaWhite.com Remember to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear that it’s time to bet on themselves! 🌟 #InnerSovereignty #BeTheOne #NancyMatthews #MindBodySpirit #HolisticHealing #HealingJourney #TakeYourPowerBack #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #Intuition #MentalHealth #SpiritualGrowth #VibeUp Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

  3. Oct 6

    Philanthropy Misunderstood: Why You Don’t Need to Be Rich to Be a Philanthropist

    Philanthropy Misunderstood: Why You Don’t Need to Be Rich to Be a Philanthropist How to Fund Your Cause and Make an Impact, No Matter Your Bank Account Think you need a million dollars to be a philanthropist? Think again. In this inspiring episode of Be The One TV, I sit down with Bob Hopkins—philanthropy expert, author, and founder of Philanthropy United—to dismantle the biggest myth surrounding the world of giving: that it’s only for the ultra-wealthy. Bob shares his powerful journey, from a pivotal childhood moment delivering groceries to a family in need, to his recovery from alcoholism, which ultimately led him to a 40+ year career as a fundraising executive. We dive deep into what true philanthropy really means (spoiler alert: it’s about your heart, not your wallet) and how anyone with a cause can step up and make a massive difference. If you are a non-profit founder, a visionary with a cause, or simply someone who wants to do more good in the world, Bob delivers practical, actionable strategies you can use today. We discuss: ✨ Why giving is a learned behavior (and how to master it) ✨ The #1 mistake people make when asking for money (and why people actually want to be asked!) ✨ The best months of the year to run an annual campaign ✨ How to build a 100-person fundraising army to support your vision ✨ Bob’s incredible upcoming documentary and book tour honoring Wounded Warriors Whether you are looking to raise funds for your community, your business, or a personal mission, this conversation will shift your perspective and give you the tools to become a true changemaker. You did good today, Bobby—and after watching this, you will too! 🌟 👇 Connect with Bob Hopkins: Website: https://philanthropyunited.org Email: bhopbobtx@yahoo.comTel: 214-502-0306 ⏱️ Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro & Welcome to Be The One TV 0:40 — Meet Bob Hopkins: Philanthropy Expert from Dallas 1:51 — Bob’s Origin Story: First Experience Giving at Age 5 3:25 — Bob’s Recovery Journey: From Alcoholism to Fundraising 3:48 — Learning Fundraising Through AFP 4:27 — From Philanthropy in Texas Magazine to Philanthropy Understood 6:03 — What Philanthropy Really Means 6:51 — How to Raise Money for Your Cause 7:49 — Join AFP: Association for Fundraising Professionals 8:39 — October & November: The Best Months to Fundraise 9:22 — The Annual Campaign Playbook: Databases, Letters & Giving Levels 10:13 — “I Needed to Be Asked” — Why Direct Asks Matter 10:32 — Modern Fundraising: Internet, Phone Calls & House Luncheons 11:59 — Board Members Should Host Events Too 12:17 — Building Volunteer Boards: Trustees, Advisors & Honorary Boards 12:56 — Bob’s Teaching Career & Retirement from University 13:56 — Connect with Bob: philanthropyunited.org 16:54 — Wounded Warriors Project & National Book Tour 17:48 — Serving Veterans: Bob’s Personal Mission 20:14 — Lightning Round Begins 20:29 — Favorite Music: Frank Sinatra 21:11 — Favorite Food: Enchiladas & Cheeseburgers 21:57 — Most Influential Person: Dean Nolte, Debate Coach 23:12 — Closing & Call to Action 🔗 Links & Resources from This Episode 1. Join AFP — Association for Fundraising Professionals Want to learn how to fundraise for your cause? Bob’s #1 recommendation is to join AFP. They offer conferences, programs, and local chapters in major cities across the country. 👉 https://afpglobal.org/ 2. Connect with Bob Hopkins Have a cause or nonprofit — or want to get one? Bob welcomes you to reach out directly by phone or email. He answers personally (unless it says spam risk!). 👉 Visit: https://philanthropyunited.org/ 3. Philanthropy Misunderstood Bob’s first book explores the common misconceptions about what philanthropy really means — and why it’s not just about wealthy people writing checks. 👉 Available at https://philanthropyunited.org/product/philanthropy-misunderstood/ 4. Philanthropy Understood Bob’s newest book features everyday people doing extraordinary good — including Nancy’s husband, Barry. It’s about heart, desire, and being a changemaker, not money. 👉 Available at https://philanthropyunited.org/product/philanthropyunderstood/ 5. Wounded Warrior Project Bob is embarking on a year-long national tour interviewing wounded warrior families for an upcoming book series (200 families per book) in partnership with the Wounded Warrior Project. 👉 Learn more at https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/ 6. 📞 Bob’s Direct Contact Info Email and phone number below — Bob invites you to call or email him person to person: 📧 bhopbobtx@yahoo.com 📞 214-502-0306 Remember to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who has a big vision and a cause that needs funding! 🚀 #Philanthropy #BeTheOne #NancyMatthews #FundraisingTips #NonprofitLeadership #Changemaker #SocialEntrepreneurship #FundraisingStrategy #PurposeDriven #DoGood #PhilanthropyUnderstood #WoundedWarriors Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

  4. Sep 24

    The Fortune 500 VP Who Walked Away to Find Meaning (And What She Learned)

    Lisa L. Baker had it all — the executive salary, the $2.5 billion portfolio, the senior vice president title at one of the world’s most recognizable companies. By every external measure, she was the picture of success. But behind the scenes, she was living someone else’s script, bound by “golden handcuffs” and a lifetime of “shoulds” — the expectations, obligations, and well-meaning advice that had shaped her path since childhood. In this episode of Be the One, Lisa sits down with host Nancy Matthews to unpack her journey from success to significance. She shares how she broke free from a life built on other people’s blueprints, what it really takes to lead boldly as your authentic self, and why the question “What do I really want?” is one that too many successful people stop asking themselves far too early. Whether you’re a corporate leader feeling the weight of golden handcuffs, an entrepreneur wondering if there’s more, or someone who suspects that success and significance aren’t the same thing — this conversation will challenge you to examine whose script you’re living and invite you to step into your own greatness. Timestamps - 0:00 — Welcome to the Be the One podcast - 1:02 — Nancy introduces Lisa L. Baker: success to significance, leading boldly, and “shoulding” on yourself - 2:15 — Lisa’s #1 message: You were created with greatness already inside you - 2:56 — The golden handcuffs: when success looks perfect but feels empty - 3:38 — “The outcome is magical. The process, not so much.” - 5:16 — Breaking free from a lifetime of “shoulds” and limiting beliefs - 6:34 — Lisa’s origin story: her mother’s advice to “never be dependent on a man” - 7:18 — The corporate pinnacle: running a $2.5B book of business at eBay - 8:18 — The turning point: “I still didn’t feel like any of it mattered” - 9:41 — Success vs. significance: why they’re not the same thing - 11:35 — Leading boldly and living fully — the juicy life where both coexist - 12:08 — How to find significance inside a system (you don’t have to quit your job) - 13:08 — “You can endure almost any how if you have a big enough why” - 14:06 — Lisa’s “area of greatness”: where strength, passion, and impact collide - 15:50 — The leader Lisa loves working with most — and why - 17:40 — “The speed of the leader is the speed of the pack” - 19:05 — Leaving corporate: the hardest and most rewarding decision of her life - 19:35 — ⚡ Lightning Round: music, food, and the one person she’d love to meet - 20:37 — Mother Teresa and leading with love over fear - 21:52 — Free resources from Lisa - 23:56 — The two questions every leader needs to ask: “What do I want?” and “What do I need?” Connect with Lisa: - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelisalbaker - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisa-l-baker Free resources from Lisa: - Feeling uncertain or lacking confidence? Get a free ~6-minute training on making bold moves + the Confidence Blockers Checklist at https://ascentim.com/boldmoves/ - Living someone else’s “should” script? Get the free 5-minute reflection “Is Should the Script for Your Life?” at leadboldlywithlisa.com Subscribe & follow: - Subscribe to Be the One with Nancy Matthews on Substack and YouTube so you never miss an episode Substack: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NancyMatthews - Share this episode with a leader who needs to hear it - Leave a comment: What’s one “should” you’re ready to let go of? #BeTheOne #Leadership #SuccessToSignificance #LeadingBoldly #GoldenHandcuffs #PurposeDrivenLife #WomenInLeadership #AuthenticLeadership #CareerTransition #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #LeadershipDevelopment #FindYourPurpose #CorporateToCoach #LisaLBaker #NancyMatthews #WomenEmpowerment #SelfDiscovery #LeadWithLove Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

  5. Sep 17

    35 Years of Guilt Left Her Body the Day She Told the Truth

    35 Years of Guilt Left Her Body the Day She Told the Truth How publisher PeggyLee Hanson spent nearly a decade helping others share their stories of courage — while hiding her own — and the moment everything changed. PeggyLee Hanson is the founder of Courageous Women Publications, an award-winning bestselling author, and the woman Nancy Matthews calls “the Divinely Sent Book Whisperer.” In this episode of Be The One, PeggyLee opens up about the moment she was “released” from the corporate world at 52, how she published her first book in a single month, and why she created the Courage Under Siege anthology series — now on its ninth volume. But the real story is what happened when she finally told her own. For nearly a decade, PeggyLee encouraged others to share their most vulnerable truths while keeping her own locked inside. When she finally shared her story, the guilt she’d carried for 35 years left her body — and no one walked away. 0:40 — Welcome to Be The One TV 2:50 — PeggyLee’s origin story: “I was released from the corporate world” 5:03 — Writing a book in a weekend: how it all started 6:57 — Courage Under Siege: 9 volumes of ordinary people, extraordinary stories 8:07 — The Toastmaster stories that were “left on the stage” 15:02 — “I couldn’t ask others to tell the truth until I was willing to tell mine” 17:57 — “I had 35 years of poison living inside my body” 18:25 — “The guilt left my body” — what changed after she told her story 19:43 — The fear of abandonment: “Everyone I told left me” 20:44 — Scars vs. open wounds: should you wait until you’re fully healed? 23:03 — Five strategies for healing and sharing your story 24:46 — “If you’re afraid to tell your story, tell it to me first” 26:14 — Lightning round: pineapple, her 101-year-old mother, and what she wants to be known for 28:38 — How to connect with PeggyLee & grab her free writing guide 📅 Book a call with PeggyLee: bookwithpeggylee.com ✉️ Email her: peggylee@peggyleehanson.com 📖 Free Chapter Writing Guide: freewritingchapter.com — Learn the 5 elements to get your chapter out of your head and onto paper. 🌐 Visit Nancy Matthews’ website: www.nancymatthews.com #BeTheOne #PeggyLeeHanson #CourageUnderSiege #ShareYourStory #Storytelling #Publishing #SelfPublishing #AuthorLife #BookWhisperer #CourageousWomenPublications #VulnerabilityIsStrength #HealingJourney #OvercomingShame #WomensStories #Anthology #WritingCommunity #PersonalGrowth #Inspiration #WomenInBusiness #Toastmasters #WriteYourBook #Storyteller #MentalHealth #FearlessStorytelling #NancyMatthews Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

  6. Sep 10

    She Was Managing 140 People, On Medication, and Barely Surviving — Until a Horse Changed Everything

    From a team of 140 and a medicine cabinet full of prescriptions to essential oils, energy healing, and a life she never saw coming. In this episode of the Be The One podcast, Nancy Matthews sits down with Kate Brown — healer, mentor, and founder of Kate Brown Healing Essentials — for a conversation that will make you rethink everything you’ve been told about “the safe path.” Kate shares the raw, unfiltered story of how a rescue horse’s emotional healing became the unexpected blueprint for her own — leading her out of corporate burnout, off anxiety medication, and into a life of purpose she never could have scripted. But this isn’t just Kate’s story. It’s a mirror. If you’ve ever heard the quiet voice whispering there has to be more than this — if you’ve ever wondered whether your body’s pain is trying to tell you something deeper — this episode is the conversation you’ve been waiting for. In this episode: 0:00 — Intro: Welcome to the Be The One podcast 0:40 — Meet Kate Brown: healer, mentor, and “interwoven” friend 2:31 — Farm roots: why the harvest doesn’t begin when the seed goes in the ground 4:43 — The oak tree, the lightning, and the cows who always knew before the storm 6:01 — A difficult horse, a bottle of essential oils, and the moment everything started to shift 7:15 — “If you don’t do something different, you’re not gonna be here a lot longer” — Kate’s turning point with anxiety and depression 12:21 — Three oils, Tony Robbins, and walking on fire: the next step that changed everything 14:08 — The logical brain as “the bully in your life” — and how it shuts down your intuition 15:52 — “Wholeness doesn’t require one voice to win” — the quote that stopped Nancy in her tracks 16:52 — You are a sacred ecosystem: mind, body, emotions, intuition, and spirit 18:25 — What your right shoulder is really telling you (and why the physical body heals last) 19:10 — Healing in layers: why emotional and spiritual healing come first — and why that’s not a delay, it’s design 22:17 — How to connect with Kate + her free gift for listeners 23:11 — “Brave Becoming”: the aromatherapy retreat that’s been transforming lives for nearly a decade 25:33 — Lightning round: Chunky Monkey ice cream and the 85-year-old Energizer Bunny mom 27:33 — The one takeaway: helping every person live the life they were intended to live Connect with Kate Brown at katebrownhealingessentials.com and grab her free gift at katebrownhealingessentials.com/be-the-one. Connect with Kate: Free gift: katebrownhealingessentials.com/be-the-one Website: katebrownhealingessentials.com Book a call: via the Contact page on her website Annual retreat: “Brave Becoming” aromatherapy retreat (in-person + live stream options) Got something valuable from this conversation? Take one step. Be the one — for yourself, for others, and for the world. #BeTheOne #BeTheOnePodcast #KateBrownHealingEssentials #HealingJourney #AnxietyRecovery #EnergyHealing #EssentialOils #MindBodyConnection #HolisticHealing #WomenEmpoweringWomen #BraveBecoming #MidlifeReinvention #NatureAsTeacher #Intuition #CorporateBurnout #SacredEcosystem #PurposeDrivenLife #NewEpisode #PodcastLife Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

  7. Sep 3

    Feelings Are the Fuel: How to Magnetize the Love You Deserve & Become The One who Attracts The One

    Nancy Matthews sits down with Barbara Magro Berg — author of The Science of Attracting Your Soulmate — to unpack the four-step formula that blends neuroscience, spirituality, and EFT tapping to help you align with the love you deserve. Barbara shares her own journey from heartbreak to big love, explains why visualizing isn’t enough (you have to feel it), and walks through the daily practices that magnetize your soulmate to you. Timestamps: * 0:39 — Welcome to Be The One TV with Barbara Magro * 2:56 — From heartbreak to big love: Barbara’s story * 15:49 — Step 1: Commit to becoming the woman who attracts her soulmate * 16:39 — Step 2: Cut the crap and clear your blockages * 17:04 — Step 3: Embrace love’s presence (the “evidence of love” practice) * 19:14 — Step 4: Magnetizing your soulmate to you — moon rituals, love letters & star prayers * 21:11 — Why feelings — not just thoughts — are the fuel for manifesting love * 21:50 — The somatic experience: feeling her future husband’s hug before he arrived * 24:49 — “We are not born to be alone”: love as your divine right * 26:18 — Lightning round: what Barbara can’t live without, can do without, and wants to be known for * 27:36 — Raising the love vibration on the planet * 28:53 — Closing: get out there and be the one Ready to attract your soulmate? Start today by taking Barbara’s free “Attract Your Soulmate” quiz at https://thescienceofattractingyoursoulmate.com/quiz Ready to start dating to attract your big love? Get the “12 Practices to Attract Big Love” at https://thescienceofattractingyoursoulmate.com/free-12-dating-practices For those who want to go deeper, grab Barbara’s book for the full DIY four-step formula, or reach out for private coaching — short or long term — by emailing her directly at barbara@thescienceofattractingyoursoulmate.com. You can be the lone ranger and try to do it on your own, but having someone who can read between the lines and keep you accountable makes all the difference. And whatever you do today — just get out there and be the one. #soulmate #lawofattraction #manifestinglove #efttapping #neuroscienceoflove #spiritualgrowth #loveandrelationships #somatichealing #betheone #heartbreaktohealing #divinefeminine #consciousdating Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

  8. Jul 30

    The Ripple Effect: How Healing Yourself Heals the World

    The Ripple Effect: How Healing Yourself Heals the WorldWhat if healing your own wounds could heal the people around you? Ilene Gottlieb, RN explains how the ancient Hawaiian art of Ho’oponopono makes it possible. What if the most powerful thing you could do for the world… is heal yourself? In this episode of Be The One TV, host Nancy Matthews sits down with holistic nurse, healing touch practitioner, and Heart Healer, Ilene Gottlieb, a woman with over 50 years of experience in the healing arts, to explore the ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho’oponopono and its extraordinary capacity to dissolve trauma, restore relationships, and send healing ripples across generations. Ilene shares how four simple phrases “I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you” along with the practice of “cleaning,” can transmute the subconscious memories driving pain and conflict in your life. Whether you’re dealing with a difficult relationship, generational trauma, or simply the weight of daily stress, this episode will show you that healing doesn’t have to be complicated. It just has to be consistent. If you’ve ever felt like one person can’t make a difference — this episode will change your mind. 📌 Timestamps 0:00 — Introduction & what it means to “Be the One”1:30 — Meet Ilene Gottlieb: holistic nurse, heart healer & Ho’oponopono practitioner3:00 — How Ilene discovered Ho’oponopono after a week of vertigo5:30 — What is Ho’oponopono? The essence of this ancient Hawaiian practice8:00 — Taking 100% responsibility for your life — and why it’s empowering, not burdensome11:00 — The “cleaning” explained: what it really means and how it works14:30 — How Ho’oponopono transmutes ancestral wounds across generations17:00 — A real-life story: how one woman healed her relationship with her ex-husband overnight20:00 — You don’t even have to mean it — why the practice works anyway22:30 — Ilene’s e-book gift & the Heart Healers Ho’oponopono Community25:00 — How Ho’oponopono healed Ilene’s PTSD and her relationship with her mother28:30 — Lightning Round: eggs, Star Trek & the wisdom that comes with age31:00 — Final thoughts & how to connect with Ilene 🔗 Resources Mentioned * Get Ilene’s gift to easily guide you through Ho’oponopono at PathtoPeaceNow.com * Connect with Ilene: www.ilenethehearthealer.com | +1 (561) 602-1989 #HoOponopono #HealingTrauma #BeTheOne #NancyMatthews #IleneGottlieb #HeartHealer #AncestralHealing #ForgivenessPractice #HolisticHealing #MindBodySpirit #SpiritualHealing #PersonalGrowth #InnerWork #HawaiianWisdom #HealingJourney #SelfHealing #TraumaHealing #RippleEffect #ConsciousLiving #Forgiveness #LoveAndHealing #PodcastEpisode #BeTheOnePodcast #HealingCommunity #WellnessPodcast Get full access to Be The One at betheone.substack.com/subscribe

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