He waited two years to tell her how he felt. By the time he did, she was already dating someone else. In this episode of The Yadah Podcast, I sit down with Michael Wilson — campus minister at UNC Chapel Hill since 2009 — for an honest, sometimes hilarious, deeply moving conversation about faith, risk, waiting on God, and what it looked like to pursue the woman who became his wife. If you've ever struggled with waiting, taking risks, rejection, or trusting that God is preparing something good even when it doesn't look like it — this conversation is for you. You'll learn how to steward the waiting season, what it looks like to hear God's voice, and tidbits on pursuit with the intention of marriage. Michael shares his unlikely journey to ministry, growing up with intense social anxiety, almost walking away from his faith in college, and the years-long, painfully confusing road to being with his wife Grace — including the email he sent saying he "just saw her as friends," the heartbreak that followed when she started dating someone else, and the late-night phone call that changed everything. We also dig into what it really means to trust God's timing, how to take risks without certainty, the danger of putting all your emotional needs on one person, and Michael's practical approach to cultivating gratitude even when life doesn't feel good. 🎙 Find The Yadah Podcast everywhere else: https://beacons.ai/yadahpod 💬 Have you ever had to wait on something you really wanted, not knowing how it would turn out? Tell us about it in the comments below 👇 ✅ Subscribe to The Yadah Podcast and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode: https://www.youtube.com/@yadahpod?sub_confirmation=1 ――――――――― 🎬 Video Chapters: 00:00 Guest Testimony 03:10 Navigating Campus Ministry and Personal Growth 06:05 Judgment, Compassion, and Perspective Change 09:05 The Complexity of Relationships and Timing 11:55 Dealing with Rejection 15:07 Communication and Misunderstandings in Relationships 20:58 The Importance of Taking Risks 27:39 The Journey of Love and Trust | Finding A Good Thing 35:33 Practicing Delayed Gratification 48:50 Finding Gratitude in Challenges ――――――――― 📲 Follow The Yadah Podcast on social media! TikTok ▶️ https://www.tiktok.com/@Yadahpod Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/yadahpod ――――――――― #TheYadahPodcast #ChristianPodcast #FaithAndLove #TrustingGodsTiming #ChristianDating #WaitingOnGod #CampusMinistry #ChristianMarriage #FaithJourney #ChristianMen #SpiritualGrowth #RiskAndFaith #ChristianLiving #GodsTiming #FaithfulWaiting Tags: christian podcast, michael wilson, campus minister, christian dating advice, waiting on god, trusting gods timing, christian marriage story, faith and risk, unc chapel hill ministry, christian relationships, social anxiety faith, gratitude practice christian, christian men podcast, yadah podcast, faithful waiting season, Psalm 34:8