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The Mothering Project is for women, carers, and empathetic leaders navigating work, care, and identity — and wondering when exactly the mental load gets its own day off. Honest conversations about motherhood, leadership, and holding it all together (mostly) 

  1. 1d ago

    Trying to Be Everything to Everyone | With Ready Or Not

    Send us Fan Mail The Mothering Project | Ready Or Not What happens when you put three mums behind the microphone and give them permission to be completely honest? ( We all talk at once ;) )  In this episode, I am joined by Lucinda and Lauren from Ready Or Not for a funny, heartfelt and refreshingly real conversation about motherhood, work, identity and the invisible mental load so many women carry every single day. Together, we unpack the constant tension between ambition and parenting, the pressure to "do it all," and why motherhood often feels less like balance and more like an ongoing negotiation. From school apps and WhatsApp groups to careers, relationships and finding yourself again, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, understood and a little less alone. If you've ever wondered whether everyone else has somehow figured motherhood out better than you… this episode is for you. In this episode we explore The identity shift that comes with becoming a motherWhy motherhood can make you feel stronger and more vulnerable at the same timeThe reality of juggling careers, children and trying to find time for yourselfHow Ready Or Not grew from a small idea into a trusted parenting communityThe role social media can play in creating genuine connectionThe invisible mental load of school admin, appointments and family logisticsPractical ways to lighten the load, including shared calendars, asking for help and embracing "done is better than perfect"Why friendships with other mums become even more valuable as children growNavigating your relationship with your partner through the busy parenting yearsWhy every season of motherhood asks something different of usKey takeaways There is no perfect formula for balancing work and motherhood.Letting go of perfection creates more space for what truly matters.Sharing the mental load isn't a luxury—it's essential.Community makes motherhood lighter.Every stage of parenting is temporary, even when it doesn't feel like it.Memorable moments "If you don't change it, you choose it." "Done is better than perfect." Plus... The hilarious conversation about school apps, WhatsApp groups and the invisible administration of parenting.An honest discussion about ambition, burnout and why switching off isn't always easy.A playful debate about what "having it all" really means.Mentioned in this episode Ready Or Not PodcastThe Mothering ProjectShared family calendars and practical planning toolsParenting experts and support networksIrish roots, Cork, family traditions and nostalgiaThis episode is for you if... You're balancing work and motherhood.The mental load feels overwhelming.You're trying to rediscover who you are after becoming a parent.You love honest, funny conversations that don't pretend motherhood is perfect.You need a reminder that you're not the only one figuring it out as you go.Episode theme Motherhood is messy, beautiful, exhausting and transformative. This conversation reminds us that none of us are meant to carry it all alone—and sometimes the greatest comfort comes from hearing another mum say, "Me too." Find them over here https://www.instagram.com/readyornot.pod/ Me: https://www.instagram.com/the_mothering_project/ Sign up to my newsletter here :  https://www.christina-byrne.com/

    56 min

  2. Jun 22

    From Chasing Success to Creating a Life That Fits | With Mia Lake

    Send us Fan Mail I absolutely loved this conversation with Mia Lake. Mia is the founder of Mia Lake Interiors, mum to her little man and one of those women who just gets it. We chatted about business, motherhood, ambition, style, boundaries and how success can look so different after kids. What I loved the most was how much of this conversation wasn't really about interiors at all. It was about creating a life that works for you and your stage of life and needs at that time.  Mia shares her journey from working with her dad to starting her own business and growing a team, but also the messy bits we don't always see. The juggle, the shifts in priorities, the breakdowns, the pressure and the constant recalibration that comes with trying to do meaningful work while raising a family. We also chatted about: Why motherhood changed what success means to herThe reality behind Instagram and running a businessBuilding a team and protecting cultureConfidence, style and feeling good in yourself againBoundaries, self-care and listening to your bodyWhy flexibility matters so much when you're raising kidsSupporting women and creating environments where people thriveBeing able to adapt to your environment from Office to Building sites Choosing a life that fits, instead of chasing someone else's idea of successThere were so many moments in this conversation where I found myself nodding along, and taking Mental Notes for myself. :)  So many of us have spent years chasing the next thing, only to realise that what we're actually craving is a life that feels good.  A life with enough space.  Enough flexibility. Enough joy.  A life that fits. I hope you love this conversation as much as I did. ♥ Christina Connect with Mia: Instagram: @mialakeinteriors LinkedIn: Mia Lake Website: www.mialakeinteriors.com.au

    43 min
  3. The Mother Who Wants Something Too

    Jun 14

    The Mother Who Wants Something Too

    Send us Fan Mail The Mother Who Wants Something Too Motherhood is one of the biggest jobs there is. The caring, the planning, the organising, the emotional load, the constant responsibility for small humans we love more than words can explain. It's relentless, beautiful, exhausting and life-changing all at once. And yet, amongst all of that, many mothers find themselves asking a question they never expected: "What do I want now?" Not because motherhood isn't enough.Not because they love their children any less.But because becoming a mother doesn't erase the woman underneath it all.In this final episode of The Mother You Become series, Fionnuala and I talk about the tension so many mothers feel between caring for everyone else and staying connected to themselves. We explore identity shifts, ambition, intuition and the courage it takes to listen to your own desires without guilt. Because motherhood asks so much of us.  The bravest thing we can do is acknowledge that alongside being a mother, we are still women with dreams, curiosity, purpose and parts of ourselves that deserve attention too. If you would love some help with that I would love for you to reach out to me.  https://www.christina-byrne.com/

    34 min
  4. The School Years

    Jun 8

    The School Years

    Send us Fan Mail Most mothers think starting school means finally catching a break. I thought the same thing. I was wrong. When my son started school, I wasn't prepared for any of it — the gut-punch of goodbye at the school gate, the mental load that somehow got heavier, or the quiet anxiety that crept in when I compared his milestones to every other kid in the yard. Nobody talks about that part. In this episode I'm getting honest about what the school years actually did to me — and what I had to learn the hard way about showing up for my kids without completely losing myself in the process. We get into: Why the transition hits harder emotionally than you expectHow comparison and milestone anxiety can quietly wreck your confidenceReal, simple ways to cut the mental load before it cuts youWhat it actually looks like to parent with patience when you're running on emptyThis isn't a highlight reel. It's the stuff I wish someone had told me before we ever set foot in that school playground. Hit play if you're in it — or about to be. 🎙️ Because perfect parenting isn't the goal. Showing up real is.

    25 min
  5. The Blur of Toddlerhood.

    Jun 1

    The Blur of Toddlerhood.

    Send us Fan Mail The toddler years can be beautiful, messy, exhausting, and transformative all at once. In this episode I (yes the interview was flipped on me which makes me feel uncomfortable ha) share my experience of navigating the early years of motherhood and the profound shifts that come with raising young children.  Together Fionnuala and I explore how parenting evolves from the baby stage into toddlerhood, the challenges of managing big emotions (both theirs and ours), and the often-overlooked journey of reparenting ourselves along the way. We also talk about the importance of support, community, and maintaining connection with your partner and your own identity during a season that can feel all-consuming. Whether you're in the thick of toddler life or reflecting on your own motherhood journey, this conversation offers reassurance, practical insights, and a reminder that you're not alone. In this episode we discuss:  How parenting changes from the baby years to toddlerhood  Managing big emotions and emotional regulation  Reparenting yourself through motherhood  The role of support networks and community  Maintaining connection with your partner  Protecting your identity alongside motherhood  Why self-care looks different in this season A gentle and honest conversation for any mother navigating the beautiful complexity of the early years. 💛 Keywords: Motherhood, Toddlerhood, Parenting, Emotional Regulation, Self-Identity, Reparenting, Relationships, Support Networks, Early Years, The Mothering Project.

    30 min
  6. The Mother You Become — Becoming a mother

    May 25

    The Mother You Become — Becoming a mother

    Send us Fan Mail Becoming a Mother — The Emotional Reality No One Can Fully Prepare You For In Episode 1 of The Mother You Become mini-series, I sit down with Fionnuala for a really honest conversation about the early days of motherhood — the shock, the identity shift, the emotional rollercoaster, the overwhelm… and the love that completely changes you. We talk about what it actually felt like bringing our babies home, the pressure so many women quietly carry, and the parts of motherhood that nobody can fully prepare you for. This episode isn’t about having all the answers. It’s just two women reflecting honestly on one of the biggest transitions of our lives 🤍 In this episode we talk about: – the emotional shock of becoming a mother – postpartum emotions and identity shifts – the pressure to “get it right” – support, self-care and survival in the early weeks – learning to trust your own intuition – the beauty and complexity of early motherhood If you’re in this season now, preparing for motherhood, or reflecting on your own experience, I hope this episode makes you feel seen ✨ Christina x

    24 min

  7. May 18

    Done Dreaming? Here's How to Actually Start

    Send us Fan Mail Ever get that feeling that something needs to change — but you don't know where to begin? In this solo episode, I cut through the overwhelm and shares five honest, practical tips for anyone considering a career change or side hustle. Whether you're burned out, curious, or just quietly knowing there's more for you — this one's for you. In this episode you'll learn: Why burnout is a signal, not a reason to quit — and what to do insteadHow to follow your passion and intuitive pulls without throwing caution to the windThe smart way to test your ideas before you make any big leapsHow to build a financial and emotional safety net that actually supports your transitionWhy community and mentorship are the most underrated tools in a career pivot

    12 min

  8. May 11

    The Return Home: Motherhood, Business & Reinventing Yourself with Fionnuala Wylie

    Send us Fan Mail Our lovely guest is back — and this conversation feels even more needed the second time around. In this heartfelt follow-up episode, I sit down again with Fionnuala Wylie to talk about the transitions that quietly reshape us — motherhood, moving countries, identity shifts, burnout, business evolution, and learning to trust yourself through it all. After spending nine years abroad, Fionnuala shares what it has really felt like returning home to Ireland, navigating change as a mother and business owner, and honouring the version of herself she’s becoming in this next season. This episode is for the women in-between.  The women evolving.  The women questioning what they want now. And maybe needing the reminder that growth doesn’t always look loud — sometimes it looks like slowing down, recalibrating, and choosing differently. In this episode:  Why returning home after years abroad brought unexpected emotional shifts  The identity changes that come with motherhood and business growth The Irish weather chat ;)  Learning to celebrate small wins instead of constantly chasing the next thing  How support systems, routines, and community can hold you through change  The importance of adapting your business and energy for different seasons of life  Trusting uncertainty instead of fighting it  Why the “in-between” seasons often shape us the mostI hope you enjoy this one :)

    39 min
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The Mothering Project is for women, carers, and empathetic leaders navigating work, care, and identity — and wondering when exactly the mental load gets its own day off. Honest conversations about motherhood, leadership, and holding it all together (mostly) 

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    Christina Byrne
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