Your Favorite Black Lobbyist

Alexis Boss

Your Favorite Black Lobbyist (YFBL) dives into where policy, culture, and personal growth meet. Join host Alexis as she breaks down how legislation impacts daily life, shares stories of advocacy and leadership, and highlights voices often left out of the room. Expect honest talks on power, wellness, and living boldly. Be informed, inspired, and reminded your voice matter’s.

  1. May 5

    Policy Not Politics: Centering Black Women's Contributions

    Conversations about Black women’s impact are often framed through politics—but the full story lives in policy. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Tammy Greer for an educational and historically grounded conversation that reframes how we understand influence. Together, we explore the distinction between policy and politics, and why recognizing that difference is essential to understanding how change actually happens. This episode is centered on education, not debate—designed to make policy more accessible while highlighting the historical and ongoing contributions of Black women. In this episode, we discuss: The difference between policy and politics—and why it mattersWhy Black women’s contributions are often viewed through a political lensHow influence operates beyond elected officeThe importance of civic literacy and understanding systemsHow history shapes present-day engagementWe also reflect on the impact of key figures such as Anna Julia Cooper, Mary Church Terrell, and Constance Baker Motley, whose work helped shape education, civil rights, and legal frameworks that still influence policy today. The conversation also touches on broader perspectives in policy discourse, including figures like Phyllis Schlafly, to illustrate the range of ways women have shaped systems and public dialogue. This episode emphasizes clarity over complexity—helping listeners better understand how policy works, why it matters, and how to engage with it more intentionally. Season 2 continues to center conversations that connect history, systems, and civic awareness—so you can move through these spaces with greater understanding and confidence.

    1h 4m
  2. Apr 28

    Advocacy vs. Lobbying — Understanding the Difference

    Advocacy and lobbying are often used interchangeably—but they are not the same. Understanding the distinction is key to engaging effectively in policy, business, and civic spaces. In this solo episode, I break down the difference between advocacy and lobbying in a clear, practical way. This conversation is designed to make the process more accessible—so you can better understand where influence begins and how decisions are ultimately made. This is not a debate-driven conversation. It is an educational look at how systems work and how individuals can engage with them intentionally. In this episode, we discuss: What advocacy is and how it shows up in everyday lifeWhat lobbying is and how it directly impacts legislation and decision-makingThe key differences between influence and actionHow advocacy and lobbying work together to create real changeWhy understanding both is essential for professionals, business owners, and everyday citizensThis episode also explores how awareness, storytelling, and relationship-building play a role in shaping outcomes—whether you are in the room or influencing the conversation from the outside. Season 2 continues to focus on breaking down systems and making them more accessible—so you can engage with clarity, confidence, and intention. If you’ve ever wondered how decisions are made, who influences them, and where you fit into the process, this episode provides a strong foundation.

    22 min
  3. Apr 21

    Beyond the Box: Wellness, Identity & Freedom to Evolve

    We are often encouraged to define ourselves by one role, one title, or one version of who we are. This episode challenges that idea. In this conversation, I’m joined by AD, a multi-faceted creative and entrepreneur, to explore what it means to live fully—without limiting yourself to a single identity. We discuss the balance between ambition and alignment, the role of wellness in sustaining growth, and the importance of giving yourself permission to evolve. This is a reflective, grounded conversation centered on wholeness, not perfection. In this episode, we discuss: What it means to be multi-dimensional in a world that encourages boxesRedefining self-care as discipline, protection, and strategyHow faith and alignment guide decision-making and transitionsLetting go of expectations and external definitionsNavigating growth while staying rooted in who you areThe balance between privacy, authenticity, and visibilityThis episode creates space for a different kind of conversation—one that acknowledges that people, and especially Black women, are not one-dimensional. Growth requires expansion, and expansion often requires releasing what no longer fits. Season 2 continues to center conversations that connect identity, wellness, and intentional living—so you can move through life with clarity, confidence, and alignment. If you’re in a season of growth, transition, or rediscovery, this episode offers perspective and permission to evolve on your own terms.

    1h 12m
  4. Apr 7

    Power, Perception & Performance: Navigating the Workplace as a Black Woman (Part 1)

    Performance doesn’t always translate to protection—and in many cases, it can shift perception in ways that are difficult to name but deeply felt. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, I sit down with Dwayna Haley, creator of the “WHOAskedthePRGirl?!” series, to unpack the patterns that shape workplace experiences for high-performing Black women. Grounded in her ongoing series Power & Projection, this episode focuses on identifying the dynamics that often go unspoken but consistently show up. This is an educational conversation centered on systems, patterns, and lived experience—not individual conflict. In this episode, we discuss: What it means to be perceived as “the threat” in professional environmentsHypervisibility and the difference between attention and surveillanceTone policing and why clarity is often misinterpretedThe pressure to overperform—and the impact it has on perceptionHow workplace dynamics shape confidence, communication, and opportunityBy naming these patterns, this conversation creates space for clarity, validation, and more intentional navigation. Part 1 focuses on understanding the experience. Part 2 will explore how these patterns evolve—and how to move through them with strategy and awareness. Season 2 continues to center conversations that connect identity, leadership, and systems—so we can engage with greater clarity and confidence.

    1h 9m

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Your Favorite Black Lobbyist (YFBL) dives into where policy, culture, and personal growth meet. Join host Alexis as she breaks down how legislation impacts daily life, shares stories of advocacy and leadership, and highlights voices often left out of the room. Expect honest talks on power, wellness, and living boldly. Be informed, inspired, and reminded your voice matter’s.