Relationship Talk with Freda

Freda Idahosa Ajayi
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Relationship Talk with Freda is a Christ-centered podcast for singles and married couples who desire clarity, wholeness, and lasting love. Grounded in the finished work of Christ, each episode offers honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and practical insight for navigating relationships God’s way—before marriage and within it.

Episodes

  1. Episode 7: Red Flags God Won’t Ignore (Even If You Do)

    2D AGO

    Episode 7: Red Flags God Won’t Ignore (Even If You Do)

    God is faithful to guide those who ask. When peace withdraws, it is not abandonment—it is direction. Pay attention.

    13 min
  2. Season 2 Preview

    2D AGO

    Season 2 Preview

    Season 2 is going to be all about singles and dating and choosing well! Our theme is Wisdom before Attachment. It will also have bonus episodes like we had in Season 1!

    1 min
  3. Bonus Episode: The Role of Self Regulation in Emotional Intelligence (Chp 10 of The Inside Job book)

    FEB 5

    Bonus Episode: The Role of Self Regulation in Emotional Intelligence (Chp 10 of The Inside Job book)

    This special bonus episode of Relationship Talk with Freda celebrates the release of the hard copy of my book, The Inside Job: Real Men and Emotional Intelligence. This work is a definitive, Christ-centered guide on emotional intelligence for men, especially in leadership and in love. In this episode, we explore how emotional intelligence is formed and expressed through the life of Jesus Christ—examining how He responded to pressure, disappointment, and overwhelming situations with dignity, patience, assurance, and wisdom. The Inside Job offers a practical framework to help you understand your emotional life, exercise self-regulation, and align your responses with who God has called you to be. This conversation is designed to equip you to live, lead, and love with clarity, strength, and Christ-like maturity.

    21 min
  4. Episode 6: Discernment vs Desire (How to Tell the Difference)

    JAN 30

    Episode 6: Discernment vs Desire (How to Tell the Difference)

    Desire is powerful. There’s no doubt about that. It moves us, motivates us, and sometimes even feels like it’s guiding us. But here’s the truth: desire is not discernment.

    12 min
  5. Meet me!

    JAN 30

    Meet me!

    In this episode, I share a bit more about my life and how I got here. It’s been a long journey but I’m glad I’m here by the grace of God. If this is your first time listening, I’m truly glad you’re here. And if you’ve been part of this community for a while, thank you for staying connected.

    10 min
  6. Episode 5: Identity Before Relationship

    JAN 30

    Episode 5: Identity Before Relationship

    Identity must come first. Knowing who you are in Christ gives relationships their proper place. It allows connection without dependency, closeness without control, and love without fear. From that place, intimacy becomes a gift—not a substitute for self-understanding.

    19 min
  7. Episode 4: Love Without Fear (Dating From Rest, Not Anxiety)

    JAN 29

    Episode 4: Love Without Fear (Dating From Rest, Not Anxiety)

    If fear is leading your decisions, love is not. You can’t have both in the same place.

    11 min
  8. Episode 3: Why Marriage Is Not Your Missing Piece

    JAN 26

    Episode 3: Why Marriage Is Not Your Missing Piece

    Today, we are addressing a belief many Christians carry quietly: “Once I’m married, I’ll finally feel complete.”

    9 min
  9. Episode 2 (Part 2): Why Relationships Expose What Salvation Already Healed

    JAN 26

    Episode 2 (Part 2): Why Relationships Expose What Salvation Already Healed

    Why do insecurities surface, triggers appear, and emotional wounds feel loud—especially in romantic relationships?

    7 min

  10. JAN 26

    Episode 2: Why Relationships Expose What Salvation Already Healed Part 1

    In part 1 of today’s episode, I want to address something many believers struggle with but rarely name honestly: Why do relationships still hurt if I’m saved?

    4 min

  11. SEASON 1, EPISODE 1 TRAILER

    Episode 1: Welcome!

    Welcome to our first episode of Relationship Talk with Freda❤️!

    1 min

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Relationship Talk with Freda is a Christ-centered podcast for singles and married couples who desire clarity, wholeness, and lasting love. Grounded in the finished work of Christ, each episode offers honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and practical insight for navigating relationships God’s way—before marriage and within it.

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