Healthy Boundaries for Moms| Christian Life Coach

Lori Grimes-Life Coach for Christian Moms

Healthy Boundaries for Moms is a faith-based podcast helping moms get clear on their priorities so they can stop people-pleasing, set healthy boundaries, and build stronger relationships. Through practical tools and real-life conversations, we focus on boundaries, organization, relationships, time management, and living with intention-so you can create a life that actually feels aligned.

  1. 4h ago

    EP 29: Healthy Boundaries 101: What They Are and What They Are Not

    Have you ever felt exhausted from carrying everyone else's problems, emotions, and responsibilities? As Christian moms, we often hear that we're called to serve others. But somewhere along the way, many of us started believing that helping everyone is the same thing as loving everyone. In this episode, we're going back to the basics of healthy boundaries. We'll talk about what boundaries actually are, what they aren't, and why understanding the difference can transform your relationships, reduce resentment, and create more peace in your life. We'll also explore the powerful distinction found in Galatians 6 between carrying someone's burden and carrying someone's load—and why Christian moms often struggle to know the difference. In This Episode: What healthy boundaries actually are What God has entrusted you to steward Why boundaries are not selfish, controlling, or unloving The difference between burdens and backpacks Why Christian moms often struggle with boundaries The difference between helping and rescuing How boundaries strengthen relationships and reduce resentment Why we're responsible to others, not for others QUESTIONS What responsibilities has God entrusted to me in this season? Where might I be carrying a backpack that belongs to someone else? Am I helping carry a burden, or am I rescuing someone from responsibilities that are theirs to manage? RELATED EPISODES EP: 7: When Keeping the Peace is Costing Your Relationships (The Cost of Comfort-Part 3:Relationships EP: 10: Do You Wish You Felt More Peaceful and In Control? Here's Why You're Not Holding Your Boundaries EP: 12: Feeling Guilty Setting Boundaries? What the Bible Really Says About Boundaries, Peace, and People-Pleasing RESOURCES & LINKS Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider 🙌 Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries support, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. Sign up for our Newsletter at: https://www.healthyboundariesformoms.com/connect Join the Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl CONNECT WITH ME Website: www.healthyboundariesformoms.com Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms Facebook Group: Healthy Boundaries for Moms Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com PODCAST CREDITS Podcast: Healthy Boundaries for Moms with Lori Grimes Edited by William Grimes Music by JonasBlakewood from Pixabay

    18 min
  2. 4d ago

    EP 28: The Midweek Reset: Why Setting Goals Isn't Enough

    Have you ever started a goal feeling motivated, only to lose momentum a few days later? In this Midweek Reset, Lori explores why vision is often more powerful than goals. Goals tell us what we want, but vision helps us connect emotionally to why it matters. Learn how creating a compelling picture of the life you want can increase motivation, simplify decision-making, and help you stay committed to the habits that support the future you're trying to build. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why goals alone often aren't enough to sustain motivation How vision creates emotional connection and momentum Why vision boards and inspiration can be powerful tools How to identify what you're naturally drawn toward The difference between chasing a goal and creating a future How vision can help you make better daily decisions QUESTIONS What am I consistently drawn toward? What do I admire about it? What need, value, or desire might that reveal? What is one vision I want to create for this season of life? RELATED EPISODES EP: 15: This is the Abundant Life and Finding Satisfaction (And It's Not What You Think) EP: 16: Less is the Abundant Life, Living on Purpose (Midweek Reset) EP: 27: The Foolproof Way to Prioritizing What Matters Most RESOURCES & LINKS Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider 🙌 Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries support, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. Sign up for our Newsletter at: https://www.healthyboundariesformoms.com/connect Join the Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl CONNECT WITH ME Website: www.healthyboundariesformoms.com Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms Facebook Group: Healthy Boundaries for Moms Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com PODCAST CREDITS Podcast: Healthy Boundaries for Moms with Lori Grimes Edited by William Grimes Music by JonasBlakewood from Pixabay

    7 min
  3. Jun 1

    EP 27: The Foolproof Way to Prioritizing What Matters

    Do you ever end the day feeling exhausted but not satisfied? In this episode, Lori shares a different way to think about prioritizing. Instead of simply reacting to what feels urgent, you'll learn how to identify what matters most, create a vision for the life you want, and make daily deposits into the areas that align with your values. You'll discover the difference between maintenance tasks and meaningful investments, how proactive planning creates confidence and margin, and why the most satisfying days aren't necessarily the busiest ones. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why vision should come before prioritization The difference between maintenance and investments How to identify your most important life pillars Why keeping promises to yourself builds confidence How proactive planning creates margin and momentum A simple question to help you make better daily decisions RELATED EPISODES EP: 15: This is the Abundant Life and Finding Satisfaction (And It's Not What You Think) EP: 16: Less is the Abundant Life, Living on Purpose (Midweek Reset) EP: 19: Boundaries Change Everything-Especially the Relationships That Need Them The Most RESOURCES & LINKS Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider 🙌 Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries support, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. Sign up for our Newsletter at: https://www.healthyboundariesformoms.com/connect Join the Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl CONNECT WITH ME Website: www.healthyboundariesformoms.com Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms Facebook Group: Healthy Boundaries for Moms Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com PODCAST CREDITS Podcast: Healthy Boundaries for Moms with Lori Grimes Edited by William Grimes Music by JonasBlakewood from Pixabay

    19 min
  4. May 27

    EP: 26 The Midweek Reset: 3 Ways to Make an Average Week Feel Abundant

    Do you ever feel like you’re rushing through life waiting for things to finally calm down? In this episode, Lori shares 3 practical ways overwhelmed moms can create more peace, joy, and abundance in their everyday lives — especially going into summer when routines shift and life can feel even more chaotic. Through creating space, increasing the quality of your life, and planning restorative moments for yourself, this episode will help you stop living in survival mode and start experiencing more calm, connection, and contentment in ordinary life. What We Discussed Why so many moms feel emotionally flat and mentally overloaded How busy schedules and constant mental load steal peace The importance of creating margin in your schedule and home Why abundance often comes from depth, not excess Simple ways to create more intentional connection with your family Planning small restorative moments that help refill you emotionally How beauty, nature, music, and quiet help reduce stress and restore your nervous system Learning to recognize goodness in everyday life instead of always waiting for the next season RELATED EPISODES EP: 15 This is the Abundant Life and Finding Satisfaction (And It's Not What You Think) EP: 16: Less is the Abundant Life, Living on Purpose (Midweek Reset) EP: 18 The Midweek Reset: How to Find 5 Minutes of Quiet in a Busy Day RESOURCES & LINKS Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider 🙌 Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries support, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. Sign up for our Newsletter at: https://www.healthyboundariesformoms.com/connect Join the Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl CONNECT WITH ME Website: www.healthyboundariesformoms.com Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms Facebook Group: Healthy Boundaries for Moms Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com PODCAST CREDITS Podcast: Healthy Boundaries for Moms with Lori Grimes Edited by William Grimes Music by JonasBlakewood from Pixabay

    12 min
  5. May 25

    EP 25: The Biggest Life Hack for Overwhelmed Moms

    IN THIS EPISODE What if one of the biggest life hacks for overwhelmed moms had less to do with doing more… and more to do with taking better care of yourself? In this episode, we’re talking about why prioritizing your health may actually be a keystone habit — one foundational habit that creates positive ripple effects in almost every other area of your life. Because healthy habits don’t just change your body. They change your energy, your routines, your mindset, your emotional capacity, your confidence, and the way you show up in your relationships, parenting, and daily life. This episode is not about perfection, extreme dieting, or unrealistic routines. It’s about creating foundational habits that support a more peaceful, intentional, and proactive life. In This Episode We Discuss: Why health is a “keystone habit” How healthy habits compound over time Why structure creates more peace and freedom The connection between health, emotional regulation, and capacity How reducing decision fatigue lowers stress Why envisioning a different life matters Creating an elevated, intentional lifestyle through simple habits Practical ways to start prioritizing your health as a busy mom Stewardship, discipline, and aligning your habits with your values Lori’s personal story of how prioritizing her health changed her identity and life direction What We Discussed Drinking more water and walking consistently Prioritizing protein and simplifying meals Strength training and building foundational habits Creating staple meals and reducing overwhelm Building proactive systems instead of living reactively Creating peaceful nighttime routines and rhythms Viewing healthy habits as support instead of punishment How healthy habits can crowd out chaos and misalignment RELATED EPISODES Episode 8 — Don't Let Comfort Drain Your Future (The Cost of Comfort-Part 4:Physical Episode 15 — This is the Abundant Life and Finding Satisfaction (And It's Not What You Think) Episode 16 — Less Is The Abundant Life, Living on Purpose (Midweek Reset) RESOURCES & LINKS Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider 🙌 Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries support, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. Sign up for our Newsletter at our website: www.healthyboundariesformoms.com Join the Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms Facebook Group: Healthy Boundaries for Moms Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com PODCAST CREDITS Podcast: Healthy Boundaries for Moms with Lori Grimes Edited by William Grimes Music by JonasBlakewood from Pixabay

    15 min
  6. May 20

    EP 24: The Midweek Reset: Stuck In The Comparison Trap? 3 Quick Ways To Get Out

    Comparison often leaves moms feeling discouraged, emotionally overwhelmed, insecure, and stuck. In this Midweek Reset, we talk about how to interrupt the comparison spiral and reconnect with what actually matters. Lori shares a practical reset plan for moms who feel like they’ve hit a midweek slump and need help getting refocused mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. We discuss: how overstimulation fuels comparison and insecurity why we need to recenter and calm the noise reconnecting with the parts of our lives we deeply value how comparison steals contentment and peace creating quick wins that build momentum and confidence why small intentional steps matter Friend, you do not need to completely reinvent your life this week. Sometimes you just need a quick reset and one faithful step forward. EPISODE QUESTIONS What has been overstimulating or distracting me lately? What are a few things in my life I truly would not want to trade? What is one small intentional win I can create this week? IN THIS EPISODE Why comparison leaves moms emotionally stuck The connection between overstimulation and insecurity Practical ways to recenter emotionally and mentally Reconnecting with gratitude and contentment Why comparison magnifies what we lack Creating quick wins in health, relationships, finances, and peace at home Small steps that rebuild confidence and momentum “You’re all right already” 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS Comparison steals peace, confidence, and focus. Small intentional wins create momentum. You do not need to become somebody else to have value or purpose. RELATED EPISODES Episode 23 — Why So Many Moms Are Losing Confidence Episode 20 — Don’t Blame Your Schedule for Your Overwhelm—Check What You’re Carrying Episode 22 — Feeling Guilt, Moms? Here’s a Quick Mindset Shift RESOURCES & LINKS Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider 🙌 Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries support, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. Newsletter: https://bit.ly/4u64B5B Join the Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms Facebook Group: Healthy Boundaries for Moms Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com PODCAST CREDITS Podcast: Healthy Boundaries for Moms with Lori Grimes Edited by William Grimes Music by JonasBlakewood from Pixabay

    11 min
  7. May 18

    EP 23: Why So Many Moms Are Losing Confidence

    Comparison is quietly stealing confidence from so many moms today. In this episode, we talk about how social media, people-pleasing, comparison, and constantly looking sideways at everyone else can pull us away from our peace, purpose, and identity in Christ. We discuss: why comparison destroys contentment and satisfaction how social media increases insecurity and distraction the pressure moms feel to do life like everyone else how God intentionally designed people differently why comparison creates self-rejection instead of stewardship practical ways to stay in your lane and protect your peace Friend, you do not need to become somebody else to have value. Confidence does not come from outperforming everyone else. It comes from understanding who you already are in Christ. Where has comparison been stealing my peace or confidence lately? Am I spending more time focusing on someone else’s strengths than stewarding my own gifts and priorities? What is one area of my life I can start appreciating instead of criticizing this week? IN THIS EPISODE How comparison slowly steals confidence and contentment The emotional impact of social media comparison Why moms feel pressure to “do it all” The body of Christ and why God designed people differently How comparison creates insecurity and dissatisfaction The homemade toothpaste story and stepping outside your own lane Why different does not mean deficient Confidence rooted in identity instead of performance Practical ways to protect your peace and stay focused on your priorities 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS Comparison is the enemy of contentment and satisfaction. Different does not mean deficient. The goal was never sameness. The goal was faithfulness. RELATED EPISODES Episode 19 — Boundaries Change Everything—Especially the Relationships That Need It Most Episode 20 — Don’t Blame Your Schedule for Your Overwhelm—Check What You’re Carrying Episode 24 — Stuck in the Comparison Trap? 3 Quick Ways to Get Out RESOURCES & LINKS Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider 🙌 Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries support, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. Newsletter: https://bit.ly/4u64B5B Join the Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms Facebook Group: Healthy Boundaries for Moms Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com PODCAST CREDITS Podcast: Healthy Boundaries for Moms with Lori Grimes Edited by William Grimes Music by JonasBlakewood from Pixabay

    17 min
  8. May 13

    EP 22: The Midweek Reset: Feeling Guilt, Moms? Here's a Quick Mindset Shift

    🎧 WHAT THIS EPISODE IS ABOUT In today’s Midweek Reset, we’re talking about the mindset behind mom guilt and why so many moms feel responsible for everyone’s happiness, comfort, schedules, emotions, and expectations. Lori shares how guilt often comes from false beliefs about productivity, perfection, and what it means to be a “good mom.” We’ll also talk about what Jesus modeled about rest, boundaries, and intentional living-and why healthy moms and healthy families need margin. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or emotionally exhausted, this episode will help you pause, reset your thinking, and reconnect with what actually matters. ✨ EPISODE QUESTIONS What belief is driving my guilt right now? Am I making decisions from peace… or pressure? What would change if I stopped believing I had to do everything? 🔑 IN THIS EPISODE The hidden beliefs underneath mom guilt Why moms often feel responsible for everyone else’s emotions The connection between guilt and people-pleasing What Jesus modeled about rest and stepping away Why you do not have to do everything How catastrophizing fuels overwhelm A simple mindset reset for overwhelmed moms Replacing guilt with truth and intentionality ❤️ 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS Mom guilt is often driven by fear—not truth. You are not responsible for keeping everyone happy. Healthy families need peace, boundaries, and margin—not constant performance. 🔗 RELATED EPISODES Episode 12: Feel Guilty Setting Boundaries? What the Bible Really Says About Boundaries, Peace, and People-Pleasing Episode 15: Less Is the Abundant Life (and It’s Not What You Think) Episode 18: Find Five Minutes to Reset Episode 21: Is Mom Guilt Running Your Kid’s Schedule? 📥 RESOURCES & LINKS 🙌 Become a Healthy Boundaries for Moms Insider Join the weekly newsletter for encouragement, practical strategies, boundaries, organization tips, and Midweek Resets. 👇 Sign up here: https://bit.ly/4u64B5B 📘 Join the Free Private Facebook Group Healthy Boundaries for Moms Facebook Community 👇 https://bit.ly/4t6aKyl 📲 CONNECT WITH ME 📧 Email: hello@healthyboundariesformoms.com 📸 Instagram: @healthyboundariesformoms 🎶 TikTok: @healthyboundariesformoms 🎬 PODCAST CREDITS Background music made by JonasBlakewood https://pixabay.com/users/jonasblakewood-48502311/ Edited by William Grimes

    10 min
5
out of 5
13 Ratings

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Healthy Boundaries for Moms is a faith-based podcast helping moms get clear on their priorities so they can stop people-pleasing, set healthy boundaries, and build stronger relationships. Through practical tools and real-life conversations, we focus on boundaries, organization, relationships, time management, and living with intention-so you can create a life that actually feels aligned.