The Sadie Green Story.

Sadie Green/Pam Colby
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What are the repercussions of abuse? This podcast tells my story of childhood degradation and survival. Each episode features a conversation between me and my longtime friend, Pam Colby, and includes excerpts from a memoir that I wrote when I was younger. We share this in an attempt to understand how early trauma can affect a lifetime. Thank you for listening. 

  1. EPISODE 1

    E1. Why Now?

    Send us Fan Mail “People loved my mother. She nearly killed me.” With that stark paradox, we open a story that refuses easy answers. Sadie Green grew up in rural Minnesota with a cleft palate that required surgeries and a mother who was celebrated by neighbors while inflicting severe, escalating abuse at home. Decades later, Sadie returns to the pages she wrote in her thirties—memories captured during a winter of solitude—to understand how fear is rooted in her body and how fear has shaped her relationships and sense of self. We move between lived memory and documented fact: hospital notes from the University of Minnesota, five surgeries paid for by proud parents with little money, and a rare removal from the home in 1970.  Pam and Sadie examine the nature of memory, why doubt is normal for survivors, and how evidence—medical records, witnesses, removal—can steady a story but not remove the doubt that family denial thrives on.  If you value survivor-led storytelling and conversations that make space for complexity, press play and stay with us as the series unfolds with new episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe, share this episode, or leave a review with one takeaway that stayed with you.  Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    24 min

  2. EPISODE 2

    E2. Looking Back

    Send us Fan Mail A single sentence on a phone call—“We only have one daughter”—can divide a life in two. We sit down with Sadie to follow the arc from being erased by her family’s story to authoring her own during a winter spent alone in a Wisconsin cabin: a wood stove, a dog, a wary cat, and a stack of notebooks. Stillness pulls up images she has outrun for years, and the only way through is to let the questions stay. Sadie walks us through the mechanics of memory work—starting in third person to protect herself, making a “grocery list” of scenes, and slowly shifting into the first person as ownership returns.  We also push against a popular myth: that reconciliation with family is always the preferred goal.  Sadie explains why distance was her survival, how “she went crazy” became the convenient cover story, and why some doors must stay closed to keep a life intact.  If this story resonates, share it with someone, subscribe for new episodes every Tuesday, or leave a review to help others find the show. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    23 min

  3. EPISODE 3

    E3. Hunger and Hiding

    Send us Fan Mail A cold November garage, a basement chair, and a girl counting footsteps—that’s where Sadie’s story begins. We walk through the fear along with the stubborn spark of imagination: a belief that somewhere else this would not be happening. The narrative moves from hiding to hunger, showing how neglect and control can live side by side—how a parent can starve you and still track your every move, turning everyday items like socks and sweaters into weapons for punishment. A grandmother leaves food in a shed and proves that love can be small and still life-saving. We also face the most difficult truths: a father whose gentle nature could not interrupt cruelty, and the sentence that stings across decades—“it seemed like you enjoyed punishment.” We examine how family systems protect themselves with denial and how poverty and medical debt magnify stress. If this resonates, follow the show, share this story with someone, and leave a review to help others find it. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    24 min

  4. EPISODE 4

    E4. The Teacher and The Schoolhouse

    Send us Fan Mail A clean green shoebox of sugar donuts sits on a teacher’s desk, and a hungry girl can’t stop staring. From that memory, we follow Sadie back to a one-room schoolhouse in rural Minnesota, sneaking in from the woods after the bell, wearing somebody else's clothes, and where a teacher saw everything. It begins with food and shame but unfolds into a wider portrait of community, power, a grandmother's courage, and others who try to help when help feels dangerous.  Decades pass, and then a hallway meeting becomes a reckoning: the teacher arrives with a cane and a perfect memory. She names the cruelty and refuses, even now, to soften the story to spare anyone's pride. We honor the educators who see what others miss, who keep notes, and who stand their ground under community pressure.  If this story moves you, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help others find these conversations. Your voice helps keep survivors’ stories heard. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    25 min

  5. EPISODE 5

    E5. Better Memories

    Send us Fan Mail A pink bedroom, a potbellied stove, and a snowfall that turns a farmyard into a fairytale—Sadie walks us through a time when tenderness and harm lived side by side. She characterizes trauma echoing across a lifetime. Along the way, Sadie honors loyalty to siblings who remember differently, showing how denial can be a survival tool for others and why telling the truth need not be cruel. She describes how limited resources and a lack of intervention can normalize abuse over time. Listen, share with someone interested in trauma and healing, and leave a rating on the "Go to Show" page to help others find this story. New episodes every Tuesday. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    25 min

  6. EPISODE 6

    E.6 A Tiny Bible, and Milk

    Send us Fan Mail A child learns the rules of a house long before anyone writes them down. The story isn’t told for shock; it’s told to understand how a nervous system adapts when home becomes a surveillance state, and love looks like control. We unpack how chronic abuse trains the mind to expect loss after joy and silence after need and why seemingly small anchors—magazines, a transistor radio, and Dylan's "Blowin' in the Wind"—can be lifelines. If you’ve ever felt guilty for wanting or scared when life gets good, this conversation offers company. If this resonates, subscribe, share with someone who needs it, or leave your thoughts in a review. New episodes every Tuesday. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    25 min

  7. EPISODE 7

    E7. My Father Mainly

    Send us Fan Mail Out by the barn, Johnny Cash echoes through the night, and a girl finds comfort in the stars and the soft nose of a cow. Nature remains a refuge where family is not. Sadie’s story reveals how abuse hides in plain sight, how families demand silence, and how one person’s passivity can leave a legacy of loss. We talk about loyalty, how a family can prize order over truth, and how siblings learn to survive by pulling away.  We explore why kids refuse help, why secrecy survives, and what a helpful person's persistence can still do. A locked psych ward—a place many fear—becomes a place of safety, with a boundary strong enough to hold.  If this conversation moved you, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review so others can find it. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    24 min

  8. EPISODE 8

    E8. Grandma

    Send us Fan Mail A storm can terrify, or it can set you free. Lightning, thunder, and summer rain can offer comfort when one is unwelcome indoors. A sense of belonging can be built from safe spaces, safe creatures, and the ebb and flow of Mother Nature.  Sadie shows how punishment became a system and how survival asked for cunning: Grandma held the line—she would not lie, but neither would she betray. Plates of food appeared at night, and by morning they were gone. It was care that shielded a child within the narrow space allowed. We talk about what denial can do to a family’s memory. We suggest that children deserve trust long after adults revise the record. If you’ve ever found safety in a place instead of a person or been saved by one steady ally, this story will find you. If this conversation moves you, share it with someone else, follow the show for more chapters, or leave a review so others find it too. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    25 min

  9. EPISODE 9

    E9. Grandma Continued

    Send us Fan Mail A cup of coffee overflows onto a saucer, while birds gather on a shelf to peck at suet. A grandmother puts on her best and decides to act without knowing the full story.  Sadie takes us into the fields and the woods that served as her second home. She shares the fantasy of possessing a forsaken shack where, nearby, a skunk shows mercy in contrast to human cruelty. We surmise the social rules that keep us from stepping in: fear of getting it wrong, of making it worse, of being accused of meddling, and why believing children matters. This is a story about the power of one steady adult and the brave decisions that can shore up enough endurance to go on. If this story moves you, share it with someone who needs courage, and subscribe for more of Sadie’s journey. Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    24 min

  10. EPISODE 11

    E11. Welfare Visit and Jr High

    Send us Fan Mail We follow Sadie from a staged welfare visit to the crowded halls of junior high, where shame and silence meet people who finally notice. School staff and a young social worker push past appearances and help move her toward safety.  This is about the power of everyday professionals—counselors, nurses, and teachers—to change outcomes for kids trying to disappear, and of therapists who move us toward self-compassion. Feel free to share Special Thanks to our supporters, who have made this podcast possible. Lucy Mathews Heegaard: Audio Engineer with music via Epidemic SoundTerry Gydesen: Photographer Polly KelloggKate TillotsonDawn CharbonneauJacob WyattMolly TillotsonJulian BowersWendy HorowitzPat FarrellLynette TabertLaura JensenPeople's Farm CollectiveDeborah Copperud of "Spock Talk" podcast

    26 min
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What are the repercussions of abuse? This podcast tells my story of childhood degradation and survival. Each episode features a conversation between me and my longtime friend, Pam Colby, and includes excerpts from a memoir that I wrote when I was younger. We share this in an attempt to understand how early trauma can affect a lifetime. Thank you for listening. 

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  • Creator
    Sadie Green/Pam Colby
  • Episodes
    11
  • Seasons
    1
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Sadie Green Story.
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    The Sadie Green Story.

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