This Is How You Find Her ”UNAPOLOGETICALLY” Podcast

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She was never lost — just buried under beliefs, expectations, and b******t. This podcast is your weekly permission slip to remember her — the version of you who’s bold, messy, radiant, and unapologetically real. Hosted by Alyson June — trauma survivor, yoga teacher, hypnotherapist, and healer for women who are done playing small — This Is How You Find Her: Unapologetically is where healing meets fire. Here, we: U****k our beliefs Rewrite the story Regulate the nervous system Reclaim our power And stop living for everyone but ourselves Expect: ✨ Real talk ✨ Raw truths ✨ Spiritual tools ✨ Subconscious rewiring ✨ Zero fluff Because this is your season to rise. Not fixed. Not perfect. Just fully you.

Episodes

  1. Apr 29

    Why Choosing Yourself Feels So Hard (Even When You Know Better)

    You’re not stuck—you’ve adapted. In this episode, we break down why choosing yourself feels so hard, even when you know better, and how you’ve learned to accommodate patterns that no longer fit. This is the shift from awareness… to real change. I opened up something very limited. I’m offering 1:1 private sessions for the first five women only. This is not surface-level. We go straight to: what you’re in why you’re staying and what needs to shift 👉 It’s a $97 deep-dive session 👉 No fluff. No overthinking. Just real movement $97 Deep Dive Transformation

    24 min

  2. Apr 16

    You Keep Asking for More… But You’re Still Accepting Less

    You say you want more. More respect. More peace. More honesty. More alignment. But are you actually living at that standard… or are you still tolerating less? In this episode, we get honest about the gap between what you say you want and what you’re actually allowing in your life. Because your standards aren’t what you say they are— they’re what you consistently accept. We talk about: Why you keep entertaining inconsistency even when you want respect How chaos becomes normal when your nervous system is used to it The subtle ways you lower your standards to keep situations, relationships, or comfort And what it really takes to start living at the level you say you want This isn’t about judgment. It’s about awareness… so you can finally change it. ✨ If this episode hit and you’re ready to go deeper, I opened up my 1:1  Clarity Call

    20 min

  3. Apr 8

    You’re Not Healing… You’re Repeating the Same Patterns in a Different Way

    You’re not stuck—you’re repeating the same patterns in a different way. In this episode, we break down why awareness isn’t enough, how your nervous system keeps pulling you back to what’s familiar, and the truth about why nothing is actually changing. If you’ve been “doing the work” but still ending up in the same place… this is the wake-up call you need. 👉 Ready to actually change it? Finding Her is linked below. Finding Her Reset

    23 min

  4. Apr 3

    Why You Keep Staying in Patterns You’ve Outgrown (And How to Stop)

    You’re not stuck. You’re staying. In this episode, we get honest about why you keep choosing what’s familiar—even when it hurts. The job. The relationship. The pattern. You already know. The question is… why aren’t you choosing it? If this episode hit and you’re ready to go deeper, I opened up my VIP membership, Finding Her Tribe—where we take this work off the podcast and into real life. VIP Membership And don’t forget to follow the podcast so you don’t miss next week’s episode.

    29 min

  5. Mar 26

    Why You React the Way You Do (And How to Stop)

    You’re not wrong for feeling triggered. But what you do after the trigger is what keeps you stuck. In this episode, Alyson breaks down the difference between your nervous system reacting and the story you build from it — and how that story can quietly become your identity. If you’ve ever thought “this always happens to me”… this episode will shift how you see it — and what you do next. Want to purchase the audio - The Pause

    33 min

  6. Mar 18

    Why You Say You’re Ready for Love… But Can’t Receive It

    You say you’re ready for love, peace, or more… but when it actually shows up, something in you pulls back. In this episode, Alyson shares a real moment that triggered her and walks you through why wanting something and receiving it are two completely different things. We dive into how your nervous system is wired for what feels familiar, not necessarily what you desire — and how that keeps patterns repeating in your life. This is where awareness begins… and where things can finally start to shift.  For a free journaling guide to this episode email me and say "free guide" in the subject line - aj@alysonjune.com  Want more??? Sign up for our 4- week coaching mastermind https://www.alysonjune.com/copy-of-online-courses

    25 min

  7. Mar 9

    The Method of Y: Why the Same Patterns Keep Showing Up in Your Life

    Most of us think our problem is a belief like “I’m not enough.” But what if that belief isn’t actually the root? In this episode, Alyson shares the realization that changed how she understands patterns, the nervous system, and why the same situations keep showing up in our lives. She introduces The Method of Y — a simple reflection practice that helps you uncover the deeper why behind your patterns so real change can begin. Grab my free Finding Her Reset Below  The Method Of Y Finding Her Reset

    11 min

  8. Mar 3

    You Can’t Manifest From Survival Mode (And Here’s Why)

    What if the reason your manifestations aren’t landing has nothing to do with your mindset… and everything to do with your nervous system? In this episode, we’re ripping manifestation off the vision board and grounding it in reality — your identity, your body, and your lived experience. I’m breaking down why women who have survived, overfunctioned, or carried the emotional weight of everyone around them struggle with traditional manifestation tools… and why affirmations can actually make you feel worse if your body doesn’t feel safe. We’ll talk about: ✨ The 5 nervous system–based blocks that sabotage manifestation ✨ Why your body chases predictable over positive ✨ The real reason Jim Carrey’s $10M check worked (hint: it wasn’t the paper) ✨ Demi Moore as a case study in manifestation outpacing identity ✨ And the wild contrast on RHOBH — where “manifest more money” meets full-body fear Plus, I’ll guide you through my signature 1% Method — a trauma-aware way to manifest that actually works for women coming out of survival mode. If you’ve ever felt like manifestation “just isn’t working for you,” this episode will make everything finally make sense. Your body goes first. Your manifestations follow. Let’s begin.

    31 min

  9. Feb 24

    When Survival Becomes Your Identity (and How to Unlearn It)

    In this episode, we’re going there — into the part of your life you’ve been calling “strength,” “independence,” and “getting sh*t done”… but is actually survival mode wearing mascara. This week, survival showed up everywhere for me. In my journaling. In the things I was reading. Even in what I was watching — including a moment in Demi Moore’s book that stopped me cold… and a scene from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills where Sutton Stracke whispered the words so many women feel: “My kids are grown… so who am I now?” That’s not confusion. That’s survival identity cracking open. Inside this episode, you’ll learn: ✨ Why “being the strong one” is usually a nervous system strategy, not a personality ✨ The 5 survival identities women live in without realizing it (with real-life examples) ✨ The difference between you and the version of you who stepped in to save your life ✨ How survival becomes identity — and how to slowly step out of it ✨ Why transitions (divorce, empty nest, breakups, reinvention) trigger identity collapse ✨ And what meeting your real self actually feels like This isn’t therapy talk. This is woman-to-woman truth: You didn’t lose yourself. You survived. And now… you’re emerging. At the end, I guide you into the next step if you’re ready to soften the survival identity: my 10-minute meditation Returning to Her, designed to help your body finally feel safe being the woman underneath the armor. If you’ve been tired of holding it all together… if rest feels wrong… if you’re in a life transition… if you’ve been asking “Who am I now?”… This episode is your mirror. And your beginning. Meditation + Bonus Journal can be found here - https://www.alysonjune.com/product-page/returning-to-her

    22 min

  10. Feb 17

    The Safety Struggle: Why You Stay Where It's Familiar

    Last week we talked about the story you’re telling yourself. This week, we’re going deeper. Because sometimes it’s not that you believe the wrong story — it’s that your body doesn’t feel safe enough to tell a new one. In this episode, we unpack the nervous system behind your patterns. Why familiarity feels safer than fulfillment. How survival can quietly become identity. And why guard up can look like strength — even when it’s really protection. If you’ve ever wondered why you “know better” but still don’t move… If you’ve built resilience but struggle to soften… If visibility, rest, or expansion feels subtly unsafe… This episode is for you. You are not broken. You are patterned. And patterns can be rewired. Download the free Safe to Be Her journal in the show notes to go deeper.The Safety Struggle Journal

    22 min

  11. Jan 25

    This is How You Find Her: The Story You're Telling Yourself

    The story you’re telling yourself shapes how you show up, love, hide, and hold yourself back. Most of us aren’t stuck because of our reality—we’re stuck because of an old script built from conditioning, fear, and survival. When you question that story, you finally meet the woman underneath it. This week is about rewriting the script and choosing the version of you that’s ready to rise.

    17 min
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She was never lost — just buried under beliefs, expectations, and b******t. This podcast is your weekly permission slip to remember her — the version of you who’s bold, messy, radiant, and unapologetically real. Hosted by Alyson June — trauma survivor, yoga teacher, hypnotherapist, and healer for women who are done playing small — This Is How You Find Her: Unapologetically is where healing meets fire. Here, we: U****k our beliefs Rewrite the story Regulate the nervous system Reclaim our power And stop living for everyone but ourselves Expect: ✨ Real talk ✨ Raw truths ✨ Spiritual tools ✨ Subconscious rewiring ✨ Zero fluff Because this is your season to rise. Not fixed. Not perfect. Just fully you.

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