The Group Chat Therapist

Betty Guerrero

The Group Chat Therapist is a mental health and personal growth podcast that explores expectations, burnout, consistency, boundaries, and relationships—offering therapist insights with group chat energy. Real conversations, honest reflection, and no quick fixes. Hosted by Betty Guerrero, licensed psychotherapist in training (LPC-IT), registered dietitian, and personal trainer.

Episodes

  1. Apr 16

    What’s the Worst That Can Happen? Career Risks, Reinvention & Finding Your Purpose

    What’s the worst that can happen if you take the risk? In this Season 1 finale, Betty G. shares her non-linear journey—from pre-med student to living in a Ford Explorer, to becoming a registered dietitian, building a business, and becoming an LPC-IT this year. This episode is about career pivots, starting over, and trusting yourself even when the path doesn’t make sense. If you’ve been feeling stuck, behind, or afraid to make a move, this is your reminder: the worst-case scenario isn’t failure…it’s regret. What if it works? Follow on Instagram: ⁠⁠The Group Chat Therapist Podcast

    27 min

  2. Apr 9

    The Toxic Series Pt. 3: Breaking the Pattern-How to Stop Choosing Toxic Relationships.

    You’ve recognized the pattern—now it’s time to break it. In this episode, you move beyond awareness and into action. If you keep finding yourself in the same toxic or emotionally unavailable relationships, this episode will help you understand why—and what to do differently. Betty G. covers how to identify your relationship patterns, spot early red flags, and shift your dating behavior so you stop repeating the same cycles. You’ll also learn why healthy love can feel “boring” at first, and how to retrain your nervous system to feel safe in consistency instead of chaos. If you’re ready to stop asking “Why does this keep happening?” and start creating real change in your relationships, this episode gives you practical, actionable tools to begin. Follow on Instagram: ⁠The Group Chat Therapist Podcast

    21 min

  3. Apr 2

    The Toxic Series Pt. 2: Why You’re Attracted to Toxic People (It’s Not Random).

    In this episode, Betty G. breaks down the psychology behind why you’re drawn to inconsistent, avoidant, or unhealthy relationships. From attachment styles and trauma bonding to nervous system conditioning, you’ll learn why “chemistry” can feel so intense—and why it’s often a red flag. We explore how your past experiences shape your relationship patterns, why toxic relationships can feel addictive, and what keeps you stuck even when you know better. If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I keep choosing the same person in a different body?”—this episode will give you the clarity and insight to start breaking the cycle. Why you’re attracted to toxic or emotionally unavailable peopleHow attachment styles influence dating patternsWhat trauma bonds are and why they feel addictiveThe difference between chemistry and emotional activationFollow on Instagram: The Group Chat Therapist Podcast Books:  The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der KolkAttachment Theory by Thais Gibson References: Dutton, D. G., & Painter, S. (1981). Traumatic bonding: The development of emotional attachments in battered women and other relationships of intermittent abuse. Victimology: An International Journal, 6(1), 139–155. McDonald, M. C. (2023, October). What is a trauma bond? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-hope-circuit/202310/what-is-a-trauma-bond

    19 min

  4. Mar 26

    The Toxic Series Pt. 1: What Actually Is a Toxic Person? (And What It’s Not)

    What does it really mean when someone is “toxic”? And are we overusing the word in modern dating and relationships? Welcome to the #toxic series: everything you need to know, broken down into three episodes. In Pt . 1, Betty G. (RD, LPC-IT, Personal Trainer) breaks down what a toxic person actually is—from a psychological and behavioral perspective—so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start recognizing real red flags. We cover patterns like manipulation, gaslighting, emotional inconsistency, lack of accountability, and repeated boundary violations. But just as importantly, we talk about what is not toxic. From boundaries and emotional unavailability to conflict and incompatibility, mislabeling behaviors as “toxic” can keep you stuck in unhealthy dating patterns. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re dealing with a toxic relationship or just a difficult dynamic, this episode will give you clarity, language, and confidence. Perfect for anyone navigating dating, healing from past relationships, or learning how to build healthier, more secure connections. Follow on Instagram @thegroupchattherapistpod References: The Gottman Four Horsemen Gaslighting Defined

    22 min

  5. Mar 19

    Stop Waiting for People to Show Up.

    If you’ve ever felt hurt because someone didn’t show up the way you expected, this episode is for you. In this episode, Betty explores the uncomfortable but freeing truth: nobody actually owes us anything. Not closure, not love, not validation, and not the behavior we hoped for. We talk about why unmet expectations hurt so much, how entitlement quietly sneaks into relationships, and why the language of “deserving” things can sometimes keep us stuck. You’ll learn: • Why expectations create emotional suffering.• The psychology behind entitlement in relationships.• Why the idea of “deserving” happiness can be misleading.• How letting go of expectations creates more freedom, peace, and healthier relationships. If you’ve ever felt disappointed, rejected, or frustrated by others, this episode will help you rethink expectations and take back your power. IG: @thegroupchattherapistpod

    18 min

  6. Mar 12

    Modern Dating Is Broken—And These Rules Are Part of the Problem.

    Are common dating rules actually keeping you single? In this episode of The Group Chat Therapist, Betty breaks down some of the most popular dating advice—like “wait three days to text,” “play hard to get,” and “don’t show too much interest”—and explains why these rules often sabotage real connection. Drawing on psychology and relationship dynamics, she explores how fear of rejection, attachment styles, and dating “games” can attract the wrong partners and delay the formation of healthy relationships. You’ll also learn practical tools to help you date with more authenticity, confidence, and clarity. Follow TGCTP on IG! If you’re tired of the guessing games and ready for healthier dating, this episode will help you rethink the rules and focus on real connection. dating advice, modern dating, dating rules, attachment styles, dating psychology, healthy relationships.

    22 min

  7. Mar 5

    The Problem-Solving Episode You Didn’t Know You Needed.

    Feeling stuck? Have a problem and not sure what to do next? In this episode of The Group Chat Therapist, Betty breaks down a powerful framework from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that shows there are four ways to respond to a problem: solve it, change how you feel about it, tolerate it, or stay miserable. You’ll learn practical tools to stop overthinking and start making intentional choices. We also talk about the sneaky “yes, but…” mindset that keeps people stuck and how to move past it. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by a situation, unsure how to move forward, or trapped in the loop of overthinking, this episode can help you figure out what to do next.

    18 min

  8. Feb 26

    The Gym Crush Episode: What’s the Worst That Can Happen?

    In this episode of The Group Chat Therapist, Betty G breaks down why fear of rejection, overthinking, and avoidance keep us stuck—and what actually happens when we act anyway. Using a real-life story about finally shooting her shot with a longtime gym crush, Betty explores how our nervous system confuses emotional discomfort with danger, why overthinking is really an attempt to feel safe, and how avoidance reinforces anxiety over time. This episode covers analysis paralysis, fear of embarrassment, catastrophizing, and the difference between short-term discomfort and long-term regret. You’ll learn how to work with fear instead of waiting for it to disappear, how small acts of courage can rewire your nervous system, and why confidence doesn’t mean being fearless—it means acting despite the fear. If you’ve ever stopped yourself from speaking up, going after what you want, or choosing yourself because of “what if,” this episode will help you reframe fear, tolerate discomfort, and take action without needing certainty.

    23 min

  9. Feb 19

    Your Body Isn’t Broken—Diet Culture Is.

    In this episode of The Group Chat Therapist, Betty unpacks why modern society is so obsessed with dieting—and why restriction is often disguised as discipline, wellness, and self-control. From an eating-disorder-informed, anti-diet lens, this conversation explores how diet culture fuels rigidity, underfueling, shame, and disconnection from the body. We talk about the difference between therapeutic diets and diet culture, why weight loss does not equal health, the physiological and psychological costs of chronic dieting, and why fitness actually requires fuel. This episode also examines how before-and-after culture can reinforce harmful beliefs, why stopping dieting can feel scary, and how identity, control, and belonging get tangled up in food rules. This is not a “try harder” episode. It’s a reframe—inviting curiosity, awareness, and self-compassion around food, body image, and health without numbers, rules, or guilt. Campbell, N., De Jesus, S., & Prapavessis, H. (2013). Physical fitness. In M. D. Gellman & J. R. Turner (Eds.), Encyclopedia of behavioral medicine. Springer. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4419-1005-9_1167 Merriam-Webster. (n.d.). Diet. In Merriam-Webster.com dictionary. Retrieved February 18, 2026, from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/diet Merriam-Webster. (n.d.). Fitness. In Merriam-Webster.com dictionary. Retrieved February 18, 2026, from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fitness Merriam-Webster. (n.d.). Health. In Merriam-Webster.com dictionary. Retrieved February 18, 2026, from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/health Psychology Today. (2025, May). Before and after photos: A cultural obsession. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/body-image-and-stigma-bias/202505/before-and-after-photos-a-cultural-obsession

    32 min
  10. You're Not Lazy; You're Just Stuck.

    Feb 12

    You're Not Lazy; You're Just Stuck.

    Procrastination is usually framed as a motivation or discipline problem—but what if it’s actually about expectations, pressure, and perfectionism? In this first episode of The Group Chat Therapist, Betty breaks down why procrastination isn’t laziness and how unspoken expectations can quietly turn into overwhelm, avoidance, and self-shame. Through real-life examples and a clinical lens, we explore the difference between expectations and actionable plans, why doing too much can keep you stuck, and how letting go of “doing it perfectly” can help you finally start. This episode isn’t about productivity hacks or fixing yourself. It’s about reframing the way you approach the things you’ve been putting off—without guilt, burnout, or shame.

    14 min
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The Group Chat Therapist is a mental health and personal growth podcast that explores expectations, burnout, consistency, boundaries, and relationships—offering therapist insights with group chat energy. Real conversations, honest reflection, and no quick fixes. Hosted by Betty Guerrero, licensed psychotherapist in training (LPC-IT), registered dietitian, and personal trainer.

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    Betty Guerrero
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  • Episodes
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