In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn

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In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn is a vulnerable, raw, and transparent journey of transformation as Tori actively embodies the woman she is becoming out loud and in real life. This podcast is a safe, honest space for people who are tired of “just think positive” healing and are ready to actually become different through lived experience. In each episode, we explore what’s really happening beneath our behaviors. Revealing our patterns, recognizing what shaped them, regulating the nervous system, reframing the story we tell about ourselves, and learning how to respond differently in real life. Through personal stories, honest reflection, and emotional intelligence, In Real Time gives language to what people feel but can’t always name. As we integrate spiritual wisdom and scientific insight to support real, embodied change. This is a front-row seat to healing, learning, and becoming… in real time. Have you done some healin’ today? 💛

Episodes

  1. 6H AGO

    Pillar Six: The Dysregulated Nervous System State | Episode 9

    You’re not overreacting. You’re responding from a nervous system that does not feel safe. In this episode of In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn, we’re breaking down Pillar 6: The Dysregulated Nervous System State™ and what’s really happening when your body shifts into survival mode. Because what most people call “personality”…  is often just a pattern of protection. Fight.  Flight.  Freeze.  Fawn. These are not random reactions.  These are learned responses your nervous system developed to keep you safe. And if you’ve ever felt like  “I don’t even recognize myself when I react like that…”  this episode is going to give you language, clarity, and real understanding. We talk about:  • How to identify what state you’re in in real time  • Why your logic shuts off when you’re triggered  • How different nervous system states show up in everyday life  • Why people respond so differently to the same situation  • How to stop taking everything personal once you understand survival states And most importantly… How to process these states in yourself and others without shame, escalation, or losing yourself in the moment. Because emotional intelligence is not just about feelings. It’s about recognizing nervous system states and responding with awareness instead of reaction. This episode is especially important for those of us who grew up thinking our survival responses were just “who we are.” You are not your trauma responses. You are not your dysregulation. You are not the version of yourself that only learned how to survive. And the more awareness you build around your nervous system states… the more choice you create. Today’s Episode Is Sponsored By AMH Media Agency At AMH Media Agency we help business owners create systems for their lives and businesses. Because systems are not just about productivity. They’re about support. A regulated nervous system needs structure, clarity, boundaries, organization, and systems that actually work for the human behind the business. We specialize in helping overwhelmed entrepreneurs create systems built to support real people… not robotic expectations. From automation and follow up systems to organization, visibility, and sustainable structure, our goal is to help people work smarter without abandoning themselves in the process. ✨ Learn more at:  amhagency.com 📌 Exclusive offers and business audits available here:  Schedule an Audit If this episode resonates with you… My book You’re Not Crazy… You’re Conditioned is officially available for pre-order now. This is not just a book you read.  It’s a book you experience. Designed to help you recognize your patterns, understand your nervous system, and apply healing in real life. 🖤 Pre-order here:  Linktree.com/Torivictories 📖 Official release date: June 26 Pre-orders will also get access to exclusive updates and a virtual launch experience. Stay Connected 🎙 Podcast: In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn 📺 YouTube: AMH Network 📲 TikTok & IG: @Torivictories If this helped you, share it with someone who’s been trying to understand their reactions… or someone you’re learning how to better understand. Because most people are not trying to hurt you. They’re responding from a version of themselves that learned how to survive. THIS… is healin’… in Real Time. Peace and healin’. 💛

    1h 5m

  2. MAR 27

    Pillar 5: The Somatic Score | Episode 8

    Your body remembers what your mind tries to move on from. In this episode of In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn, we’re breaking down Pillar 5: The Somatic Score™ and what it really means when your body reacts before your logic can catch up. If you’ve ever said “I know better… so why am I still reacting like this?” this episode is going to hit different. Because healing is not just about understanding your patterns. It’s about recognizing where those patterns live… in your body. We talk about how your nervous system stores emotional experiences, why certain situations still trigger you even when they “shouldn’t,” and how your body can stay stuck in survival mode long after the moment has passed. You’ll learn how to: • Recognize when your body is holding onto past experiences • Understand why your reactions feel automatic • Identify what your nervous system is trying to protect • Begin processing emotions in real time instead of suppressing them We also get into real, everyday examples of what somatic responses look like in relationships, stress, and emotional overwhelm… and how to start shifting them. This is not about being perfect. This is about becoming aware of what your body is carrying… and learning how to support it. Because once you understand the body… you stop fighting yourself. If this episode resonates with you… My book You’re Not Crazy… You’re Conditioned is officially available for pre-order now. This book is your interactive guide to understanding your patterns, your nervous system, and how to actually apply healing in real life. 💛 Pre-order here: Linktree.com/Torivictories 📖 Official release date: June 26 Pre-orders will also get access to exclusive updates and a virtual launch experience. Stay Connected 🎙 Podcast: In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn 📺 YouTube: AMH Network 📲 TikTok & IG: @Torivictories If this helped you, send it to someone who needs language for what they’ve been feeling. Because you’re not crazy. You’ve just been responding from a nervous system that hasn’t felt safe yet. This… is healin’… in Real Time. Peace and healin’. 💛

    46 min

  3. MAR 20

    Pillar Four: The Open Wound | Episode 7

    In this episode of In Real Time, we are breaking down Pillar 4 of the nervous system framework, The Open Wound. This is the layer most people skip. You’ve identified the behavior. You’ve questioned the why. You’ve uncovered the belief. But if the wound underneath it never got closure, your nervous system will keep protecting it. And that protection will look like your personality. In this episode, we talk about how emotional wounds form, how they stay active in the nervous system, and why your reactions are not random. They are patterned protection. We also break down attachment styles and how they show up as defense mechanisms in real life. Why some people chase. Why some people shut down. Why some people run when things get real. And why none of it makes you broken. It makes you patterned. Tori shares a personal story about repeating relationship cycles and what it actually took to stop the loop, not just understand it. This episode will help you stop taking everything personally, see your patterns clearly, and begin to separate who you are from what you’ve been protecting. Because once you see the wound, you can stop calling it your personality. If you’ve ever said “I don’t know why I keep doing this” or “Why does this still affect me” this episode is for you. We are not fixing ourselves. We are retraining our nervous systems. And that requires honesty, awareness, and a willingness to see what’s really underneath. New episodes drop every Thursday. Watch the full visual experience on YouTube at AMH Network Follow on TikTok at inrealtimethepodcast or mamamarketingwithadhd Connect on Instagram at torivictories or amhnetwork If this resonated with you, share it with someone who is ready to do the work. And if you’re ready to take this deeper, tap into Choose Differently. Because healing is not something you think about. It’s something you practice. Subscribe, leave a review, and let me know what hit for you. This is healin… in real time.

    1h 2m

  4. MAR 5

    Pillar Three: The Outdated Belief | Episode 6

    Episode 6: Pillar Three | The Outdated Belief™ The story beneath the story. By the time a behavior becomes automatic, there is usually a belief underneath it that once made perfect sense. The problem is that many of those beliefs were formed in moments where our nervous system was overwhelmed, hurt, or trying to protect us. And what protected us then may now be limiting us. In this episode we break down Pillar Three of the Nervous System Framework™ called The Outdated Belief™ and explore how survival conclusions formed in the past can quietly shape the way we think, react, and show up today. Because most beliefs are not conscious decisions. They are patterned nervous system responses. In this conversation we talk about • Why beliefs often form during emotionally intense moments • How your nervous system turns experiences into protective conclusions • Why personality is often mistaken for patterned protection • The difference between identity and adaptation • Why questioning a belief can feel destabilizing to the body • How exposure and regulation work together to update old patterns Many of us believe we are just “like this.” But often what we call personality is actually protection. And once someone slows down long enough to question the belief underneath the behavior, something powerful happens. Because once someone sees their outdated beliefs, they cannot unsee them. This episode is especially powerful for people who recognize patterns in themselves but have struggled to actually change them. If you have ever thought “Why do I keep doing this even though I know better?” this episode will help you understand what may be happening underneath the surface. And if this conversation resonates with you, remember It takes a lot of healing to Choose Differently. That phrase is not just apparel. It is a reminder. A reminder that awareness is the first step. But intentional change is the work. Every time you interrupt an automatic behavior, question a belief, and respond differently, you are strengthening self authority. You are choosing differently. Stream everywhere podcasts are available. Full visual episodes on YouTube at AMH Network. New episodes every Thursday. Subscribe, follow, and share this episode with someone who is ready to look a little deeper at their patterns. Because the change does not happen when we judge ourselves. The change happens when we finally understand ourselves. This… is healin’… in Real Time. Peace and healin’.

    1h 17m

  5. FEB 26

    Pillar Two: The Initial Why | Episode 5

    Episode 5: Pillar Two | The Initial Why™ The story beneath the story. You think you know why you reacted. But the first answer is usually ego protection, not truth. In this episode, we break down Pillar Two of the Nervous System Framework™ called The Initial Why™ and explore why surface level awareness is not enough to create real change. Because awareness without investigation creates loops. If you have ever said, “I know better… so why do I still do this?” this episode is for you. We talk about: • Why your first explanation is often defensive • How the brain protects your identity before it reveals your truth • The difference between the socially acceptable answer and the honest one • How the amygdala prioritizes familiarity over growth • Why questioning yourself can feel destabilizing • How to investigate your patterns without shame You will learn how to bridge the gap between who you think you are and how you actually show up using regulation, self interrogation, and small exposure work. Because healing is not about fixing yourself. It is about building self leadership. And self leadership starts with asking better questions. This episode is especially powerful for my neurodivergent community navigating AuDHD, emotional intensity, and pattern awareness in real time. If this conversation resonates, remember: It takes a lot of healing to Choose Differently. Not just once. But consistently. The apparel is more than clothing. It is a reminder. A commitment to interrupting the automatic behavior. A declaration that you are building self authority. Stream everywhere podcasts are available. Full visuals on YouTube at AMH Network. New episodes every Thursday. Subscribe. Leave a review. Share with someone who is ready to go deeper. Because the change starts with how deep you are willing to explore yourself. This… is healin’… in Real Time. Peace and healin’.

    55 min

  6. FEB 19

    Pillar One: The Automatic Behavior | Episode 4

    In this episode we are slowing down long enough to actually see ourselves. Not from shame. Not from judgment. But from awareness and curiosity. We break down what automatic behavior really is and why so many of our reactions are not conscious decisions but conditioned responses. If you have ever said “I don’t know why I keep doing that” this episode is for you. We talk about how the nervous system protects us, how familiar reactions can become outdated, and why healing is not about fixing yourself but learning yourself. You will learn how to zoom out and observe your behavior using the Current Self, Lower Self, and Higher Self lens. This gives you space to separate who you are from what you do so you can change patterns without attacking your identity. We also introduce The Initial Why. Because once you see the behavior, the next step is asking why you think you did it. And most of the time the first answer is only surface level. We go deeper. In this episode we discuss • Automatic and conditioned reactions • How criticism and shame block self observation • Trauma informed awareness • Internal Family Systems and parts work as resources • Why regulation comes before reflection • How to document behavior without diagnosing yourself • The truth that healing is a skill and skills can be practiced You will leave this episode with tangible homework. A weekly exposure practice. A self observation exercise. And questions you can ask yourself to build emotional muscle instead of emotional avoidance. This is purely educational and shared from lived experience and perspective. This space is especially for neurodivergent minds still learning themselves and for anyone who wants to understand why they react the way they do to life. You are not broken. You are patterned. And patterns can be rewritten. Full visual episodes are live on YouTube. Audio is streaming everywhere podcasts are available. Connect with me TikTok inrealtimethepodcast TikTok mamamarketingwithadhd Instagram Torivictories Instagram AMHNetwork YouTube AMHNETWORK If this resonated with you comment “Determined” and meet me back here every Thursday for your weekly dose of healin… in real time. Peace and healin. 💛

    30 min

  7. FEB 17

    How We Actually Heal..(Not Just Talk About It) | Episode 3

    In this episode we go beyond awareness and into execution. Because knowing your patterns is not the same as changing them. So many of us can name the trauma, quote the book, and explain our behaviors yet still find ourselves reacting the same way. This episode is about why that happens and what healing actually requires in real life, not just in theory. We talk about the gap between insight and embodiment, the problem with pop healing, and why your nervous system must feel safe before your mind can choose differently. You will hear real, tangible practices, not fluff, including Somatic and body based healing Breath work and vagus nerve activation EMDR and bilateral stimulation Cold exposure and grounding practices Behavioral discipline and emotional restraint Environment shifts and exposure in micro doses Building systems that support the version of you you are becoming I also introduce my personal framework, The Nervous System Mirror, and walk through the pillars we will be breaking down throughout this season so you are not just consuming information, you are building transformation. This space is especially supportive for neurodivergent minds including AuDHD, ADHD, highly sensitive thinkers, and anyone who has ever asked “I know better… so why do I still do this?” Healing is not about fixing yourself. It is about retraining your nervous system to respond differently with grace, consistency, and real accountability. Episode Homework This week’s practice is simple but powerful. Pause once a day before reacting. Name what you feel. Then choose a response even if it is small. Document, do not diagnose. Progress, not perfection. Connect With Me TikTok @inrealtimethepodcast or @mamamarketingwithadhd Instagram @Torivictories or @AMHNetwork YouTube AMH NETWORK If this resonated with you, share it with someone who is ready to grow. Comment your biggest takeaway. And meet me back here next week as we break down the first pillar. Peace and healin’. This… is Healin’ in Real Time. 💛

    1h 3m

  8. FEB 13

    Self Aware.. and Still Stuck | Episode 2

    You can name your trauma. Quote the books. Understand your patterns. …And still react the same way. In this episode, we talk about the truth many people don’t say out loud: Awareness without nervous system safety creates loops. We break down why self-awareness alone does not equal change, and how burnout cycles, emotional shutdown, over-giving, and repeated relationship patterns are often nervous-system responses… not personal failures. Inside this episode we explore: • Why “knowing better” doesn’t always lead to “doing better” • The nervous system’s priority of safety over growth • Overthinking vs. embodied action • Repeating relationship dynamics • Emotional burnout and shutdown cycles • The difference between grace and enabling yourself I also introduce the foundation of my healing framework and the pillars we’ll be exploring throughout this season that gives you language, tools, and real-life application instead of abstract motivation. You’re not broken. You’re responding the best way you know how. Self-awareness is the door. Regulation is the key. If this episode hit home, share it with someone who feels stuck in their growth. Subscribe so you don’t miss the framework episodes coming next. 💛 CONNECT WITH ME TikTok @inrealtimethepodcast @mamaMarketingWithADHD Instagram @ToriVictories @AMHNetwork YouTube AMH Network

    45 min

  9. FEB 13

    This is Healin’… In Real Time Episode 1

    Welcome to In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn. 💛 This isn’t another affirmation podcast. This is a space for people who are self-aware… and still healing. In this first episode, I introduce the mission behind In Real Time and the vision for Healin’ Entertainment under the AMH Network. This podcast exists for neurodivergent minds, emotionally aware people, and anyone who has done the “inner work” but still feels stuck in patterns they can’t quite break. We talk about: • Why healing has to be lived, not just understood • Nervous system safety vs. “just think positive” culture • Character growth and intentional choice • Why perfection narratives actually harm growth • What this space is and what it is NOT This podcast is not about bypassing pain. It’s not about pretending you’re fine. It’s about building safety in your body, language for your experiences, and the capacity to become who you keep seeing in your mind. You are not here to consume. You’re here to participate. Welcome to healin’… in real time. If this resonates with you, subscribe, share, and leave a review so this message reaches the people who need language and support. CONNECT WITH US TikTok @inrealtimethepodcast @mamaMarketingWithADHD Instagram @ToriVictories @AMHNetwork YouTube AMH Network

    48 min
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In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn is a vulnerable, raw, and transparent journey of transformation as Tori actively embodies the woman she is becoming out loud and in real life. This podcast is a safe, honest space for people who are tired of “just think positive” healing and are ready to actually become different through lived experience. In each episode, we explore what’s really happening beneath our behaviors. Revealing our patterns, recognizing what shaped them, regulating the nervous system, reframing the story we tell about ourselves, and learning how to respond differently in real life. Through personal stories, honest reflection, and emotional intelligence, In Real Time gives language to what people feel but can’t always name. As we integrate spiritual wisdom and scientific insight to support real, embodied change. This is a front-row seat to healing, learning, and becoming… in real time. Have you done some healin’ today? 💛

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