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Built Different Podcast
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Older, wiser, and still swiping. We’re breaking down the chaos of dating in your 40s—from ghosting at 42 to the art of the first-date "vetting." Real talk for the grown and slightly exhausted.

  1. Nov 2

    Episode 12: The Roster Dating Era

    Are you stuck in the dating game, juggling multiple partners like a quarterback with a full roster? In this eye-opening episode of Built Different, Julie and Armond dive deep into the modern phenomenon of roster dating - where people keep three to five potential partners on rotation to avoid vulnerability and commitment. Julie unpacks the psychological implications of this trend, referencing Barry Schwartz's "paradox of choice," which reveals how too many options can lead to decision paralysis and dissatisfaction. Listen as they explore the devastating effects of spreading your attention thinly across several partners instead of focusing on one meaningful connection. Armond adds a unique perspective, likening dating to emergency management—if you’re trying to handle multiple fires at once, nothing gets the full attention it deserves. You’ll discover: Why roster dating might hinder your ability to find real love and satisfaction. The balance between dating casually and the risk of using it as a defense mechanism against rejection. How to recognize when it's time to narrow your focus and invest fully in one relationship. This conversation is essential for anyone navigating the complexities of modern romance, especially in a world dominated by dating apps and endless options. Ignoring the insights shared here could mean missing out on the deep, fulfilling relationships you truly desire. Join Julie and Armond for a candid discussion that challenges conventional dating norms and encourages listeners to reflect on their own dating habits. Perfect for those feeling overwhelmed in the dating world, this episode will leave you questioning if your own roster is holding you back from finding true connection. Don't miss it!

  2. Oct 27

    Episode 11- Friends With Benefits

    For this episode, we are talking about friends with benefits- the good, the bad, and the ugly! Watch, like, subscribe, and comment to let us know what you think!

  3. Oct 27

    Episode 10: Modern Dating Is a Full-Time Job......And Were Tired!!!!!

    Modern dating can feel like a FULL-TIME JOB… except there’s no paycheck, no PTO, and definitely no HR department. 😂😩In Episode 10 of the Build Different Podcast, Armond and Julie get into the reality of dating today from both the male and female perspective. From endless swiping and dry conversations to mixed signals, ghosting, high expectations, emotional labor, and trying to find a genuine connection while handling everyday life—has dating become more exhausting than it should be?🔥 Are dating apps helping or making things harder? 🔥 Who puts in more effort—men or women? 🔥 Why does the talking stage feel like another job? 🔥 Are our standards higher, or are we just tired of settling? 🔥 And when does protecting your peace become giving up on dating?We’re bringing two perspectives, plenty of laughs, and the conversations people are having behind closed doors.👇 JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Does modern dating feel like a full-time job to you? And what part of dating exhausts you the MOST?🎙️ Build Different PodcastReal Conversations. Real Relationships. Different Perspectives. Better Connections.👍 Like the video💬 Drop your opinion in the comments🔔 Subscribe and stay connected#BuildDifferentPodcast #ModernDating #DatingAfter40 #DatingAdvice #Relationships #DatingApps #SingleLife #RelationshipTalk #MenAndWomen #Podcast

  4. Oct 27

    Episode 9: Dating With Baggage: Kids, Exes, and Trauma

    Are you carrying old baggage into new relationships? In this episode of the Built Different podcast, we dive into the complexities of dating after 40, exploring how past experiences shape our present. Join us as we discuss the challenges of dating with kids, navigating exes, and the impact of trauma on relationships.Key takeaways:* Understanding the importance of timing when introducing kids to new partners.* How to handle co-parenting dynamics and set boundaries.* The significance of addressing trauma in dating and how it manifests in behavior.

  5. Oct 27

    Episode 8- Do People Over 40 Even Know How to Date Anymore?

    We're talking about navigating app culture, red flags, green flags, and whether or not we are datable after 40! Get in on the conversation!

  6. Oct 27

    Episode 7- Are You Too Picky, or Selective By Design?

    Are you too picky when it comes to dating, and is it stopping you from finding true love? Or is it better to be selective by design?

  7. Oct 27

    Episode 6- Is It Better to be Single or Settled After 40?

    Join us as we debate whether it's better to be single or settled after 40! What do you think? Comment below!

  8. Oct 27

    Episode 5: Dating in Your 40's: What We Want Now Vs. Then

    In this episode of Built Different, we're talking about the traits we're looking for and what we're trying to avoid. Like, share, subscribe, and comment below!

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Older, wiser, and still swiping. We’re breaking down the chaos of dating in your 40s—from ghosting at 42 to the art of the first-date "vetting." Real talk for the grown and slightly exhausted.

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