A Woman Becoming

Dr. Lonnie Marie

Welcome to the space where brilliance, womanhood, healing & real life collide. I’m Dr. Londeria M. Taylor, Ed.D., ABS — educator, coach, sexologist & a woman becoming. This is where education meets embodiment. Where teacher talk becomes life talk. Where sacred meets ordinary and stays awhile. You’ll find: 🎤 TED-style talks on burnout, purpose, becoming and so much more 🍎 Real talk for educators who are human first 🌿 Healing & midlife rebirth 🔥 Sex, sensuality & real intimacy 🥗 Use-what-you-have wellness & lifestyle This is for the woman evolving in real time. Not lost — just done pretending. We’re not figuring it out because we’re confused. We’re figuring it out because we got honest. ✨ Subscribe & come home to yourself — softly.

  1. 6d ago

    The Version of You That Learned to Survive (And Why She Won’t Let Go)

    Have you ever felt like you’ve outgrown a version of yourself… but you don’t know how to let her go? In this video, Dr. Lonnie Marie explores the survival version of ourselves — the part that learned how to stay strong, keep going, and hold everything together through difficult seasons of life. For many women, survival becomes an identity. We become the caretaker. The fixer. The strong one. The woman who always finds a way. But what happens when the version of you that helped you survive is no longer the version of you meant to lead your life? In this episode, we explore: • How survival identities are formed • Why it can feel difficult to relax, trust, or let go of control • The connection between survival mode and emotional disconnection • Why many women feel lost or disconnected in midlife • The transition from survival to selfhood • What it takes to begin trusting yourself again We also discuss insights from Age Like a Girl by Dr. Mindy Pelz and the idea that women move through different seasons of development—from girlhood, to motherhood, and eventually into a deeper season of wisdom, clarity, and selfhood. Maybe you're not falling apart. Maybe you're transforming. Maybe the version of you that learned to survive is making room for the woman you're becoming. PART OF THE SERIESThis video is part of the A Woman Becoming series — conversations about: • identity • emotional healing • survival mode • self-trust • reconnecting with yourself ✨ WANT TO GO DEEPER?💌 Pamper Me: Sexy & Sacred — A 7-Day Feminine Reset Reconnect with yourself, your body, and your sense of peace. 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie 📚 Books Mentioned & Recommended Reading 👉 Check out my book list on Beneable: https://benable.com/drlonnie_marie2 🔗 Connect with me: 👉 https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie

    11 min
  2. Apr 22

    Why You Feel Disconnected From Your Body And How to Reconnect

    If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your body… like you’re going through life but not really feeling it… this conversation is for you. In this video, Dr. Lonnie Marie explains why so many women lose connection to their body — and how that disconnection impacts everything from emotional presence to intimacy and desire. This isn’t just about stress. It’s about how survival mode, pressure, and emotional overwhelm can slowly shift you out of your body and into constant functioning. And over time… you stop feeling like yourself. In this episode, we explore: • Why women feel disconnected from their body • How survival mode affects emotional and physical awareness • The connection between body awareness and desire • Why many women feel numb or emotionally distant • How pressure and performance impact presence • What it actually takes to reconnect with your body again This is not about forcing yourself to feel more. It’s about understanding what happened… so you can begin to reconnect with yourself in a safe and sustainable way. PART OF THE SERIESThis video is part of the A Woman Becoming series — real conversations about: • identity • emotional healing • relationships • reconnecting with yourself WANT TO GO DEEPER?💌 Pamper Me: Sexy & Sacred — A 7-Day Feminine Reset Reconnect with your body, your peace, and your sense of self 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie 🔗 Connect with me: 👉 https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie #BodyConnection #EmotionalHealing #WomenAndGrowth #SelfDiscovery #Becoming #MentalHealth

    11 min
  3. Feb 24

    Emotional Safety: The Missing Ingredient in Female Desire

    If your desire has changed and you don’t know why — this conversation is for you. In this episode of A Woman’s Desire Series Dr. Lonnie Marie explores the connection between emotional safety and female desire. Because here’s the truth: Most women don’t lose desire. They lose safety. And when emotional safety disappears, the nervous system shifts into protection mode which directly impacts intimacy, arousal, and connection. In this video, we explore: • What emotional safety actually means in relationships • Why love and desire are not the same system • How attachment security affects intimacy • The “gas and brakes” model of arousal • Why pressure kills desire • How broken trust impacts the body • Why women can love deeply but still shut down sexually This is not about blaming men. And it’s not about fixing women. It’s about understanding how safety, trust, and connection shape desire. If you’ve ever felt: • emotionally alone in a relationship • confused about your low libido • disconnected from your body • pressured instead of chosen You are not broken. You may just need safety restored. 🌿 This is part of the “A Woman’s Desire” series. ✨ WANT TO GO DEEPER?💌 Pamper Me: Sexy & Sacred — A 7-Day Feminine Reset Reclaim your peace, pleasure, and connection without pressure. 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie 🔗 All Links: https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie 🔍 SEARCH-BOOSTING KEYWORDSemotional safety in relationships female desire explained why women lose desire low libido in marriage emotional connection and sex attachment and intimacy gas and brakes sexual model why she doesn’t want sex married but emotionally disconnected women and nervous system regulation intimacy problems in long term relationships #Hashtags#EmotionalSafety #FemaleDesire #WomenAndIntimacy #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipHealing #WomenOver40 #AClonnieMarie #IntimacyEducation

    14 min

About

Welcome to the space where brilliance, womanhood, healing & real life collide. I’m Dr. Londeria M. Taylor, Ed.D., ABS — educator, coach, sexologist & a woman becoming. This is where education meets embodiment. Where teacher talk becomes life talk. Where sacred meets ordinary and stays awhile. You’ll find: 🎤 TED-style talks on burnout, purpose, becoming and so much more 🍎 Real talk for educators who are human first 🌿 Healing & midlife rebirth 🔥 Sex, sensuality & real intimacy 🥗 Use-what-you-have wellness & lifestyle This is for the woman evolving in real time. Not lost — just done pretending. We’re not figuring it out because we’re confused. We’re figuring it out because we got honest. ✨ Subscribe & come home to yourself — softly.