A Woman Becoming

Dr. Lonnie Marie
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Welcome to the space where brilliance, womanhood, healing & real life collide. I’m Dr. Londeria M. Taylor, Ed.D., ABS — educator, coach, sexologist & a woman becoming. This is where education meets embodiment. Where teacher talk becomes life talk. Where sacred meets ordinary and stays awhile. You’ll find: 🎤 TED-style talks on burnout, purpose, becoming and so much more 🍎 Real talk for educators who are human first 🌿 Healing & midlife rebirth 🔥 Sex, sensuality & real intimacy 🥗 Use-what-you-have wellness & lifestyle This is for the woman evolving in real time. Not lost — just done pretending. We’re not figuring it out because we’re confused. We’re figuring it out because we got honest. ✨ Subscribe & come home to yourself — softly.

  1. 5d ago

    Beyond Survival: Becoming Your True Self

    SHE HELPED YOU SURVIVE but YOU'VE OUTGROWN HER #WomenOver40 #SelfTrust #SurvivalMode #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #Reclaiming https://stan.store/drlonniemarie

    1 min

  2. 6d ago

    The Version of You That Learned to Survive (And Why She Won’t Let Go)

    Have you ever felt like you’ve outgrown a version of yourself… but you don’t know how to let her go? In this video, Dr. Lonnie Marie explores the survival version of ourselves — the part that learned how to stay strong, keep going, and hold everything together through difficult seasons of life. For many women, survival becomes an identity. We become the caretaker. The fixer. The strong one. The woman who always finds a way. But what happens when the version of you that helped you survive is no longer the version of you meant to lead your life? In this episode, we explore: • How survival identities are formed • Why it can feel difficult to relax, trust, or let go of control • The connection between survival mode and emotional disconnection • Why many women feel lost or disconnected in midlife • The transition from survival to selfhood • What it takes to begin trusting yourself again We also discuss insights from Age Like a Girl by Dr. Mindy Pelz and the idea that women move through different seasons of development—from girlhood, to motherhood, and eventually into a deeper season of wisdom, clarity, and selfhood. Maybe you're not falling apart. Maybe you're transforming. Maybe the version of you that learned to survive is making room for the woman you're becoming. PART OF THE SERIESThis video is part of the A Woman Becoming series — conversations about: • identity • emotional healing • survival mode • self-trust • reconnecting with yourself ✨ WANT TO GO DEEPER?💌 Pamper Me: Sexy & Sacred — A 7-Day Feminine Reset Reconnect with yourself, your body, and your sense of peace. 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie 📚 Books Mentioned & Recommended Reading 👉 Check out my book list on Beneable: https://benable.com/drlonnie_marie2 🔗 Connect with me: 👉 https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie

    11 min

  3. Apr 22

    Why You Feel Disconnected From Your Body And How to Reconnect

    If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your body… like you’re going through life but not really feeling it… this conversation is for you. In this video, Dr. Lonnie Marie explains why so many women lose connection to their body — and how that disconnection impacts everything from emotional presence to intimacy and desire. This isn’t just about stress. It’s about how survival mode, pressure, and emotional overwhelm can slowly shift you out of your body and into constant functioning. And over time… you stop feeling like yourself. In this episode, we explore: • Why women feel disconnected from their body • How survival mode affects emotional and physical awareness • The connection between body awareness and desire • Why many women feel numb or emotionally distant • How pressure and performance impact presence • What it actually takes to reconnect with your body again This is not about forcing yourself to feel more. It’s about understanding what happened… so you can begin to reconnect with yourself in a safe and sustainable way. PART OF THE SERIESThis video is part of the A Woman Becoming series — real conversations about: • identity • emotional healing • relationships • reconnecting with yourself WANT TO GO DEEPER?💌 Pamper Me: Sexy & Sacred — A 7-Day Feminine Reset Reconnect with your body, your peace, and your sense of self 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie 🔗 Connect with me: 👉 https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie #BodyConnection #EmotionalHealing #WomenAndGrowth #SelfDiscovery #Becoming #MentalHealth

    11 min

  4. Apr 21

    Understanding Body Disconnection in Intimacy

    #BodyConnection #EmotionalHealing #WomenAndGrowth #SelfDiscovery #Becoming #MentalHealth

    1 min

  5. Apr 21

    Reconnect with Your Body: Start Small

    #BodyConnection #EmotionalHealing #WomenAndGrowth #SelfDiscovery #Becoming #MentalHealth

    1 min

  6. Mar 8

    Why Pressure Kills Female Desire in Relationships

    If you’ve ever felt pressure around intimacy in your relationship, this conversation may help explain why your desire changed. In this video, Dr. Lonnie Marie explores why pressure often shuts down female desire and what many couples misunderstand about intimacy in long-term relationships. Many women believe something is wrong with them when their desire fades. But often the issue isn’t libido — it’s the environment surrounding intimacy. In this episode we discuss: • Why pressure activates stress in the body • The “gas and brakes” model of sexual desire • How emotional safety affects arousal • Why love and desire are not the same system • Why women may withdraw when intimacy feels expected instead of chosen This conversation is not about blaming men or fixing women. It’s about understanding how the female nervous system responds to pressure, stress, and emotional safety inside relationships. When couples understand this dynamic, intimacy becomes something that grows naturally — not something that has to be pushed. Want to Go DeeperPamper Me: Sexy & Sacred – 7 Day Feminine Reset Restore peace, pleasure, and connection. 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie Connect with me: 👉 https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie #FemaleDesire #RelationshipPsychology #IntimacyInMarriage #EmotionalSafety #WomenAndRelationships #LowLibido

    12 min

  7. Feb 24

    Emotional Safety: The Missing Ingredient in Female Desire

    If your desire has changed and you don’t know why — this conversation is for you. In this episode of A Woman’s Desire Series Dr. Lonnie Marie explores the connection between emotional safety and female desire. Because here’s the truth: Most women don’t lose desire. They lose safety. And when emotional safety disappears, the nervous system shifts into protection mode which directly impacts intimacy, arousal, and connection. In this video, we explore: • What emotional safety actually means in relationships • Why love and desire are not the same system • How attachment security affects intimacy • The “gas and brakes” model of arousal • Why pressure kills desire • How broken trust impacts the body • Why women can love deeply but still shut down sexually This is not about blaming men. And it’s not about fixing women. It’s about understanding how safety, trust, and connection shape desire. If you’ve ever felt: • emotionally alone in a relationship • confused about your low libido • disconnected from your body • pressured instead of chosen You are not broken. You may just need safety restored. 🌿 This is part of the “A Woman’s Desire” series. ✨ WANT TO GO DEEPER?💌 Pamper Me: Sexy & Sacred — A 7-Day Feminine Reset Reclaim your peace, pleasure, and connection without pressure. 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie 🔗 All Links: https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie 🔍 SEARCH-BOOSTING KEYWORDSemotional safety in relationships female desire explained why women lose desire low libido in marriage emotional connection and sex attachment and intimacy gas and brakes sexual model why she doesn’t want sex married but emotionally disconnected women and nervous system regulation intimacy problems in long term relationships #Hashtags#EmotionalSafety #FemaleDesire #WomenAndIntimacy #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipHealing #WomenOver40 #AClonnieMarie #IntimacyEducation

    14 min

  8. Feb 22

    How I Lost Myself....And Found Me Again | Starting Over at 40+

    If you’re starting over at 40+ after divorce, heartbreak, or burnout — this conversation is for you. In this video, I share my personal journey of losing myself inside marriage, roles, and expectations… and how I found myself again on the other side of divorce, relocation, and rebuilding my life from the inside out. This is not a “bounce back” story. It’s a becoming story. 💌 JOIN PAMPPER ME: SEXY & SACRED — $7 A 7-day feminine healing reset to restore your peace, pleasure, and purpose. 👉 https://stan.store/drlonniemarie 🎙️ LISTEN TO THE DAILY PUSH PODCAST Daily promises, wisdom, and grounding for women becoming her again. Season VI launches January 4th. 📌 CONNECT WITH ME https://linktr.ee/drlonniemarie Instagram: @drlonniemarie | @40plusfiguringitout TikTok: @drlonniemarie Podcast: The Daily Push Podcast Coaching: Intimacy & Reclaiming Coach for women 40+ starting over at 40 life after divorce for women emotional healing after divorce rediscovering myself after marriage rebuilding life after divorce how to heal after divorce feminine healing journey reclaiming identity as a woman becoming her again women over 40 healing divorce recovery story spiritual rebirth after heartbreak #StartingOverAt40 #LifeAfterDivorce #WomenOver40 #HealingAfterDivorce #BecomingHerAgain #FeminineHealing #DivorceRecovery #ReclaimYourself #SoftRebirth #PamperMeSexy

    9 min
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Welcome to the space where brilliance, womanhood, healing & real life collide. I’m Dr. Londeria M. Taylor, Ed.D., ABS — educator, coach, sexologist & a woman becoming. This is where education meets embodiment. Where teacher talk becomes life talk. Where sacred meets ordinary and stays awhile. You’ll find: 🎤 TED-style talks on burnout, purpose, becoming and so much more 🍎 Real talk for educators who are human first 🌿 Healing & midlife rebirth 🔥 Sex, sensuality & real intimacy 🥗 Use-what-you-have wellness & lifestyle This is for the woman evolving in real time. Not lost — just done pretending. We’re not figuring it out because we’re confused. We’re figuring it out because we got honest. ✨ Subscribe & come home to yourself — softly.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Lonnie Marie
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Dr. Lonnie Marie
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    A Woman Becoming