What does it really mean to be a dad? In Episode 10 of The DadCo Podcast, Dustin sits down with his brother-in-law, Alex, for one of the most personal conversations we’ve shared so far. Alex opens up about immigrating from Ukraine as a child, meeting his future wife at church, raising four daughters, rebuilding his career after losing his architecture job, and learning to trust God when life didn’t follow the plan. Together, Dustin and Alex talk honestly about marriage, fatherhood, faith, financial hardship, and the importance of being present. Dustin also shares more of his own story—including adoption, the pain of an absent biological mother, searching for identity in the music industry, and how God used orphan care, marriage, and fatherhood to bring healing and purpose to his life. We dive into questions like: Why does a healthy marriage require both people to keep doing the work? How do you remain present while providing for your family? What does it look like to raise strong, independent, God-fearing daughters? How can hardship reshape your definition of success? What do you hope your children will say about you 20 years from now? This episode is filled with laughter, family stories, hard truths, and a powerful reminder: your children may forget what you bought them, but they will remember whether you were there. Presence is provision. ❤️ 👇 What do you hope your children will say about you someday? Let us know in the comments! 👍 Like the video if it encouraged you. 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode. 🎙️ New episodes of The DadCo Podcast drop every week. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Episode 10 01:00 – Meet Alex: Dustin’s Brother-in-Law 02:24 – Moving from Ukraine to Missouri 04:07 – Meeting His Future Wife 05:04 – From Architect to Walmart and Network Security 06:46 – Building Rise Apothecary 07:37 – The Love Story That Began at Church 11:07 – The Biggest Lesson Marriage Has Taught Him 12:48 – Protecting Your Marriage in a Busy Season 14:46 – Sharing Each Other’s Burdens 15:22 – How They Ended Up With Four Girls 17:58 – Losing His Career and Starting Over 19:31 – Depending on God Through Financial Hardship 21:27 – Raising Tough, Independent Girls 25:46 – What Each Daughter Has Taught Him 30:23 – Knowing You’re Succeeding as a Dad 32:25 – Leading Your Family Spiritually 34:26 – Raising Adults, Not Just Children 36:15 – Redefining Success as a Father 40:45 – Success, Priorities and the Legacy You Leave 41:51 – How Fatherhood Changed Dustin’s Ambition 44:07 – What Alex Had to Let Go of as a Dad 45:56 – The Painful Lesson Alex Learned From His Father 49:19 – Stress, Marriage and Asking for Help 50:54 – Providing vs. Being Present 52:39 – “Presence Is Provision” 53:16 – Dustin Opens Up About Adoption and His Mother 55:47 – What Dustin Was Like Growing Up 57:01 – The Advice Alex Would Give Teenage Dustin 59:09 – Searching for Purpose in California 1:01:19 – How God Led Dustin to Houston 1:05:41 – Finding Healing Through Orphan Care 1:06:54 – How Dustin Met His Wife 1:09:43 – Fatherhood Bringing the Story Full Circle 1:10:29 – The Biggest Change Alex Has Seen in Dustin 1:16:17 – What Alex Hopes His Daughters Say in 20 Years 1:17:56 – Closing Thoughts #DadCoPodcast #Fatherhood #DadLife #Marriage #ChristianDad #Parenting #GirlDad #Family #Faith #Legacy Support the show