Barrels, Belief, and Becoming: What Remains After Faith, Fear, and Heteronormativity Burns-Off

DeEtte Decker
  • 5.0 (3)
  • Christianity

Barrels, Belief, and Becoming is a podcast for those untangling inherited faith, releasing fear, and discovering who they are becoming later in life. Through humor, honest conversation, lived experience, and thoughtful reflection, hosts DeEtte and Abbi explore what remains after certainty burns off—and what can be reclaimed with courage and compassion. Episodes invite listeners into stories of deconstruction, identity, grief, joy, and rebuilding a life with integrity. 

Episodes

  1. Apr 7

    The Barrels of My Becoming: My Grandparents

    DeEtte Decker shares her personal journey of belief and becoming through the metaphor of bourbon barrels, exploring her family history, faith, resilience, and the shaping influence of her grandparents. key topics The metaphor of bourbon barrels as a symbol of shaping and transformationFamily history and its influence on personal faith and resilienceThe impact of grandparents' stories and values on identityThe role of faith, discipline, and love in personal developmentShare your story with us or ask us a question at www.barrelsandbecoming.com

    29 min

  2. Apr 1

    The Spirit of Becoming: Lessons from Bourbon and Louisville

    DeEtte Decker explores her life through the metaphor of bourbon making, emphasizing patience, transformation, and authenticity. She shares her personal journey from Louisville's complex history to her own process of becoming, highlighting the importance of honoring one's roots while forging a unique path. Key Topics: Metaphor of bourbon making for personal growth The influence of Louisville's history on identity The importance of patience and process in transformation Chapters 00:00 The Art of Bourbon: A Metaphor for Life 03:10 My Kentucky Mash Bill: Roots and Identity 05:55 Growing Up in Louisville: A Tapestry of Contradictions 11:52 The Influence of Faith and Community 17:56 Becoming Myself: The Journey of Transformation Resources Louisville's History and Culture - https://www.louisville.com/ DeEtte Decker's Website - https://deettedecker.com/ Share your story with us or ask us a question at www.barrelsandbecoming.com

    21 min
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About

Barrels, Belief, and Becoming is a podcast for those untangling inherited faith, releasing fear, and discovering who they are becoming later in life. Through humor, honest conversation, lived experience, and thoughtful reflection, hosts DeEtte and Abbi explore what remains after certainty burns off—and what can be reclaimed with courage and compassion. Episodes invite listeners into stories of deconstruction, identity, grief, joy, and rebuilding a life with integrity. 

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