The Next Chapter with Seun Adeyemi

Seun Adeyemi

The Next Chapter with Seun Adeyemi is a fireside conversation for men who want to make the rest of their lives count. Through thoughtful reflections on faith, family, and stewardship, Seun invites listeners to slow down, look forward, and live with greater intention in this season of life. Each episode offers practical wisdom, honest questions, and calm perspective for men navigating responsibility, legacy, and purpose—whether you’re preparing for retirement, already there, or simply asking what faithful leadership looks like now. This is not about starting over. It’s about stewarding what you’ve been given—and walking faithfully into the next chapter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episodes

  1. Ep 07: You Can't Follow Jesus Alone | Brotherhood, Community & Why the Local Church Is Not Optional | The Next Chapter Roundtable Pt. 1

    May 25

    Ep 07: You Can't Follow Jesus Alone | Brotherhood, Community & Why the Local Church Is Not Optional | The Next Chapter Roundtable Pt. 1

    You can't follow Jesus alone. And yet, millions of Christian men are trying to do exactly that. In Part 1 of this roundtable, Seun sits down with three brothers he does life with — James, Craig, and Justin — for an honest conversation about why men disconnect from the local church, what it costs them when they do, and what it actually looks like when the body of Christ shows up. This is Part 1 of 2. Part 2 — Is Your Church Healthy? — drops June 8. Subscribe so you don't miss it. Topics covered: The three types of men who aren't really in the church: the consumer, the critic, and the online attendeeJames: losing his mom to cancer — and how the local church found himWhy most men drift from church: it's a teaching problem, not a commitment problemYour theology dictates your methodologyDigital disciples — and why they give the brothers a side eyeThe lowest point of sanctification: what happens when you leave the church pridefullyRugged individualism — the cultural poison keeping men isolatedWhat real community looks like: meals, phone calls, being knownProverbs 18:1 — whoever isolates himself seeks his own desireWhat if Christ treated you the way you treat the church? Key Scriptures: Hebrews 10:25 | John 13:35 | Proverbs 18:1 | 1 Corinthians 12 | Romans 8:18 CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro — Seun Recaps Episode 5: The Three Types of Men 01:35 The Three Portraits: Consumer, Critic, Online Attendee 03:25 Roundtable Begins: When Did Church Become Important? 04:20 James: Losing His Mom — How the Church Found Him 07:33 A Theology of the Church: What Scripture Actually Says 09:49 From Mega Church to Reformed: The Turning Point 11:46 Digital Disciples Give Me a Side Eye 14:01 Your Theology Dictates Your Methodology 18:24 Rugged Individualism: The Cultural Poison in the Church 21:00 You Need Men Who Know What's Going On in Your Life 24:58 The Lowest Point of Sanctification: Pridefully Apart 27:00 What Real Community Looks Like 28:28 I Called You Craig — The Body Showing Up in Crisis 30:10 Proverbs 18:1 — Whoever Isolates Himself 31:17 What If Christ Treated You Like You Treat the Church? 33:00 Idolatry of Preferences: The Real Reason Men Stay Away 34:24 End of Part 1 — Part 2 drops June 8 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    35 min
  2. Ep. 06: Biblical Counseling vs. Therapy: Heart Transformation, Identity & What Scripture Uniquely Heals

    May 11

    Ep. 06: Biblical Counseling vs. Therapy: Heart Transformation, Identity & What Scripture Uniquely Heals

    In this episode, Seun Adeyemi shares his personal journey through depression and how biblical counseling — not secular therapy — led him to the root of what he was experiencing: an identity crisis rooted in misplaced worship. Joined by Paul Flannery, a certified biblical counselor and trainer with the Association of Biblical Counselors (ABC), Seun unpacks why Scripture is sufficient to address the deep heart issues that secular therapy and behavior modification simply cannot reach. What you'll learn in this episode: Biblical counseling vs. secular therapy — Paul explains the core distinction: secular therapy locates the problem as external, leading to behavior modification. Biblical counseling locates the problem internally — in the heart — leading to genuine repentance, transformation, and lasting change. One puts a bandage on the wound. The other cleans it. Why labels can become traps — When secular therapy labels someone a narcissist, that label can become an identity and a crutch. Scripture cuts deeper: it calls that behavior pride, names it as sin, and calls the person to repentance. You cannot repent of something that has no name in your framework. The three questions therapy cannot answer — Using the framework of biblical anthropology, hamartiology, and soteriology, Seun articulates what Scripture uniquely provides: Who is man? What is wrong with man? What actually fixes man? Secular therapy can only partially address the second question — and even then without seeing the root. How biblical counseling actually works — Paul walks through the practical process: intake forms, exploratory sessions, identifying heart postures (rebellion, deception, fear, discouragement, unbelief), Scripture-based homework, and slow, relational transformation — not a prescription handed across a desk. Trauma, past hurt, and the hard question of forgiveness — The episode tackles one of the most sensitive topics in counseling: how a person heals when they've been genuinely hurt — including abuse victims — and what forgiveness looks like when the person who caused the harm is unrepentant. Biblical counseling is intensified discipleship — Not a service reserved for credentialed professionals. It is the body of Christ functioning at its deepest level, walking alongside one another with the Word of God, pointing each other back to Christ. Resources mentioned: ABC (Association of Biblical Counselors) — christiancounseling.comACBC (Association of Certified Biblical Counselors) — biblicalcounseling.comKey figures: Jay Adams, David Powlison, Ed Welch, Jeremy Lelek, Darby Strickland, Chris Moles Key scripture references: 2 Peter 1:3, Romans 15:14, Romans 12:9–21, Matthew 6:14–15, Hebrews 4:12, Psalm 16:11, 2 Corinthians 5:17 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    57 min
  3. Ep 05: Christ Died for the Church. Do You Even Like Her? | What Church Commitment Reveals About You

    Apr 27

    Ep 05: Christ Died for the Church. Do You Even Like Her? | What Church Commitment Reveals About You

    Most Christian men don't have an attendance problem with church. They have a love problem. In this episode of The Next Chapter, Seun Adeyemi makes the case that the men who've drifted from the local church — the one who shows up but never invests, the one who left with legitimate grievances, the one watching online from the comfort of home — aren't dealing with a commitment problem. They're dealing with a self-centered faith that God has already named: idolatry. Using John 21, Ephesians 5, 1 Corinthians 12, and Proverbs 27, Seun builds the argument that love for Christ is always revealed in how you love God's people — and that the local church is not optional, not replaceable by a screen, and not secondary to your preferences. Chapters 00:00 — Introduction 00:10 — The Three Men: Consumer, Critic, Digital Attendee 02:00 — The Diagnosis: This Is a Love Problem 03:15 — God Has a Name for It: Idolatry and Pride 05:23 — The Costless Cross: Matthew 16:24 06:44 — The Question Jesus Actually Asked: John 21:15–17 09:36 — Love for Christ Is Always People-Shaped 09:49 — Robbing the Body: 1 Corinthians 12:21 12:05 — The Bride Argument: Ephesians 5:25–27 13:15 — The Husband Illustration 15:42 — The Man Who Attends But Never Sees 16:20 — What the Screen Cannot Give 18:16 — The Real Reason Men Choose the Screen 19:30 — The Beauty of the Broken Church 21:00 — God Is Not Finished: Philippians 1:6 & 2 Corinthians 3:18 22:39 — The Exchange: What These Men Have Traded 23:00 — What Genuine Community Actually Looks Like 24:50 — The Hardest Love: Proverbs 27:6 26:07 — You Can Only Wound a Brother 29:46 — The Bride Named Specifically: Four People 32:35 — Your Testimony to the World: John 13:35 34:41 — The Bride Landing 35:15 — Two Closing Questions 36:09 — If the Answer Is No Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    38 min
  4. Ep. 04: How Much Is Enough? What the Bible Says About Money, Ambition & Contentment

    Apr 13

    Ep. 04: How Much Is Enough? What the Bible Says About Money, Ambition & Contentment

    You've been chasing a number. And when you got there, the number moved. Researchers have a name for it — the hedonic treadmill. Within about a year of reaching a new level of success or income, the feeling fades and the goalpost shifts. Solomon described it in Ecclesiastes thousands of years earlier: all is vanity and a striving after the wind. In this episode, Seun Adeyemi asks the question most men have been quietly avoiding: how much is enough? And more importantly — who decided what your scorecard says? Because if you haven't answered that consciously, something else already has. In this episode: Why the ceiling of comparison is so high that no one will ever reach it — and the only way to stop runningWhat researchers call comparison, the Bible calls covetousness — and why it hides behind words like ambition, drive, and visionRajat Gupta, Bernie Madoff, and David: three men whose desire for more cost everythingMoney as tool, test, and testimony — and what your bank statement reveals about your heartFive principles of faithful financial stewardshipThe four uses of money (Live, Give, Owe, Grow) — and why the order matters more than the amountWhy giving is the foundation, not the afterthought — and what it actually does to money's hold on youThree things most people miss from the Parable of the TalentsWhat it means to reclaim the word "enough" — not as settling, but as freedom "The man who is always chasing the next number is perpetually half-present in every place that actually matters." Key Scriptures: Ecclesiastes 1–2 · Hebrews 13:5 · Philippians 4:11–13 · 1 Timothy 6:6–8 · Matthew 25 (Parable of the Talents) Referenced: The Psychology of Money — Morgan Housel Never Enough? 3 Keys to Financial Contentment - Ron Blue 📩 Subscribe to Reflections on The Next Chapter — a biweekly newsletter at the intersection of faith, family, and finance: links.seunadeyemi.ca/reflections 🎙️ The Next Chapter is for men who have built something — and are starting to ask what it was for. CHAPTERS 00:00 The goalpost that never stops moving 01:20 The hedonic treadmill — research confirms the trap 01:57 Morgan Housel: the hardest financial skill to master 03:58 Solomon got there first — Ecclesiastes and vanity 04:48 Covetousness: the sin hiding behind ambition 05:54 Even the disciples weren't immune 06:42 Rajat Gupta, Bernie Madoff, and David 10:46 Saul and the compromise that looked like worship 12:45 Compromise is never justified — the means never justify the end 13:18 Money as tool, test, and testimony 15:03 Hebrews 13:5 — contentment anchored in a promise 15:45 Five principles of faithful stewardship 17:09 Why giving is the foundation, not the afterthought 18:40 The four uses of money: Live, Give, Owe, Grow 21:13 What giving actually does to money's hold on you 23:50 Philippians 4:11 — what contentment actually means 24:48 The Parable of the Talents: three things most people miss 30:01 How much is enough? 31:22 Reclaiming the word "enough" 33:14 Lifestyle creep: the silent goalpost mover 34:49 The question to carry with you Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    36 min
  5. Ep. 03: You Are More Than Your Work — Faith, Identity & the Pressure Every Man Feels

    Mar 30

    Ep. 03: You Are More Than Your Work — Faith, Identity & the Pressure Every Man Feels

    Who are you? Not what you do. Not the roles you carry. Not the titles you’ve been given. In this episode, we explore why many of the struggles men face—confusion, comparison, striving, and even crisis—can often be traced back to a misplaced understanding of identity. Drawing directly from Scripture and a helpful framework from The Titus 10 Men by Josh Smith, this conversation reframes identity not around assignments or performance, but around who God says we are in Christ. We walk through four gospel-rooted identities that form a foundation for godly manhood: Servant — settling the question of ownership and surrenderSon — resting in adoption, security, and belongingFriend — living in honesty, vulnerability, and intimacy with GodLover — cultivating affection for Christ that fuels obedience and love for others Rather than defining ourselves by what we do—provider, leader, husband, father—we’re invited to rediscover who we are before those roles. Scripture, not culture or comparison, must be the source of our identity. This episode is an invitation to pause, examine, and allow God’s Word to define who you are—so you can live out your calling from a place of clarity, freedom, and wholeness. Chapters 00:00 Exploring Identity: Who Are You? 02:01 The Foundation of Identity in Christ 04:15 Understanding Our Identity as Servants 06:28 Embracing Our Identity as Sons 08:37 The Friendship with God 10:53 Loving God and Others 12:29 Reframing Identity: Servants, Sons, Friends, Lovers 14:26 The Crisis of Identity in Men 16:54 Rediscovering Our True Identity Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    26 min
  6. Ep. 02: Where Are the Fathers? — Faith, Presence & the Legacy Every Man Is Building

    Mar 16

    Ep. 02: Where Are the Fathers? — Faith, Presence & the Legacy Every Man Is Building

    Most fathers and leaders overlook a vital truth: true disciple-making begins at home. In this powerful episode, Seun Adeyemi sits down with his father—a man whose life exemplifies how intentional sacrifice, rooted in faith, transforms generations. By sharing his journey from a wild, irresponsible youth to a spiritual father dedicated to discipling his children, he reveals timeless principles of fatherhood that challenge modern passive approaches. Discover the pivotal moments that shifted a life—like a near-death encounter that led to over 40 years walking with Christ—and learn how these experiences shaped a legacy of intentionality, prayer, and sacrificial love. You'll uncover: The vital role of fathers as spiritual leaders who set the spiritual temperature of their homes.How biblical principles, from prayer to community accountability, can turn shallow faith into a deep, resilient foundation for children.Practical strategies for cultivating deliberate conversations about faith and character development amid today’s digital distractions.Why sacrificing ego and embracing vulnerability are powerful tools for modeling Christlike character, especially in the face of hardship and personal failure.The importance of community, accountability partnerships, and lifelong sacrifice in raising the next generation of faith-filled leaders. This episode highlights that the stakes are higher than they seem—what we ignore today by shortcutting discipleship, we pay for in the next generation's faith and integrity. If you're a parent, mentor, or believer longing to leave a lasting, faith-driven impact on your children, this conversation offers clarity, conviction, and practical wisdom. With heartfelt honesty, a legacy of sacrifice is shared—not just for the benefit of children, but as a blueprint for all believers committed to living out the Gospel in every facet of life. Perfect for fathers, spiritual leaders, and anyone serious about strategic, faith-centered parenting—it’s a call to action that could redefine the future of your family. Chapters: 00:00 - Why young people are leaving the church immediately after college 02:09 - The responsibility of fathers in discipling children beyond Sunday school 04:08 - How salvation radically redefines parenting purpose 06:55 - The story of a life-changing encounter with God in 1986 08:22 - Building a spiritual foundation through prayer and intentional parenting 10:09 - The role of prayer and dependence on God's guidance in raising children 12:27 - Living by example: sacrifice, humility, and vulnerability in parenthood 14:36 - Legacy and the importance of moral and spiritual consistency across generations 16:44 - The influence of family conversations and deliberate example during teenage rebellion 18:01 - The significance of accountability groups and community among men 20:00 - The historical legacy of faith within the family lineage 22:27 - Practical parenting: making God's Word relevant and applicable daily 25:24 - The shift from rigid old school to flexible, love-centered parenting 26:50 - Sacrifices made moving from Nigeria to Canada to secure a future 30:06 - Navigating family storms and conflicts with faith and humility 37:57 - The importance of being physically present and involved in children’s lives 42:18 - Addressing mistakes, mistakes, and the power of continuous sacrifice 44:37 - Teaching through example: practical sacrifices and understanding children’s unique needs 50:13 - Reflecting on work, presence, and intentional sacrifices in fatherhood 52:44 - The call for strategic, prayerful, and intentional parenting regardless of past struggles 53:26 - Final encouragement: Decide to be a deliberate, sacrificial father 55:01 - The importance of crushing ego and embracing vulnerability in leadership 56:43 - The ongoing journey of faith, community, and legacy building 58:36 - Closing thoughts: Hope, reconciliation, and trusting God's plan Resources & Links: Watch on YoutubeFollow on Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr
  7. Ep. 01: The Drift — Why So Many Men Are Living on Autopilot (And How to Wake Up)

    Feb 27

    Ep. 01: The Drift — Why So Many Men Are Living on Autopilot (And How to Wake Up)

    In this conversation, Seun Adeyemi discusses the concept of 'drift' in the lives of men, particularly fathers, who may be physically present but emotionally and spiritually absent from their families. He emphasizes the importance of intentionality in nurturing relationships with spouses and children, highlighting that providing for a family is just the beginning of a father's responsibilities. Adeyemi offers practical steps to combat drift, encouraging men to be present and engaged in their homes, which he describes as their primary ministry. Takeaways Drift is not laziness; it's a common life experience.Many hardworking men feel productive but neglect what matters most.Providing for a family is essential but not sufficient.Intentionality is key to building strong family relationships.Drift happens when urgent tasks overshadow essential connections.Men often give their best to work, leaving little for family.Faithfulness involves leading and engaging with family, not just providing.Spiritual leadership in the home is crucial for family dynamics.Practical steps can help men combat drift and be present.Daily decisions shape the legacy we leave for our families. Chapters 00:00 The Illusion of Presence 09:10 The Call to Intentionality Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    15 min
  8. Ep. 00: The Next Chapter Podcast Trailer | Faith, Work, Purpose & Intentional Living for Christian Men

    Season 1 Trailer

    Ep. 00: The Next Chapter Podcast Trailer | Faith, Work, Purpose & Intentional Living for Christian Men

    The Next Chapter Podcast is a reflective, faith-centered podcast for Christian men who want to live with greater intention, steward their lives well, and redefine success through a biblical lens. In this podcast trailer, host Seun Adeyemi introduces a fireside conversation about faith, family, work, ambition, stewardship, and purpose. This is not a hustle podcast. It’s a space for men asking deeper questions: • What does faithfulness look like in this season? • How do I steward more than just my career? • What does success mean from a Christian worldview? If you’re a Christian man navigating leadership, family life, financial stewardship, calling, or life transitions, The Next Chapter Podcast is for you. Subscribe and join the conversation on intentional living, biblical stewardship, faith and work, and purpose-driven leadership. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 min

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The Next Chapter with Seun Adeyemi is a fireside conversation for men who want to make the rest of their lives count. Through thoughtful reflections on faith, family, and stewardship, Seun invites listeners to slow down, look forward, and live with greater intention in this season of life. Each episode offers practical wisdom, honest questions, and calm perspective for men navigating responsibility, legacy, and purpose—whether you’re preparing for retirement, already there, or simply asking what faithful leadership looks like now. This is not about starting over. It’s about stewarding what you’ve been given—and walking faithfully into the next chapter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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