The Solomon Abrams Podcast

Solomon Abrams

Mister Solomon Abrams is a Afro Erotic Photojournalist, Shibari Artist, BDSM performer and educator , as well as a former porn producer, with nearly years of experience in the adult content industry(14 of which has been in BDSM and rope bondage). He is a respected pillar of the community known for an authentic no nonsense real life Uncle-like approach to building community. Now his foray in men's sexual health and interpersonal relationships is a refreshing source of information about being everything like from sex as an old man, BDSM polyamory and many things in between.

  1. May 4

    Episode 11: Conditioning the Bottom

    In this episode I discuss our need for bottom focused education and information based on the rope bottoms view point. We open with a quick reading of Abramatic Law #4, which discusses the LIVING TRINITY OF ROPE: the rope, the bottom and the top. Understanding the each is important as it relates to harmony and balance. I touch on a brief history lesson and then discuss why I feel it’s important to educate people who want to begin their journeys as a bottom just as and in some cases more important than those who want to be tops. I highlight two books; The Rope Bottom’s Guide by clover and Somatics for Rope Bottoms by Natasha NawaTaneko. I read the 12 Inquires from the book and do my best to answer them for the perspective as a rope top. I hit up against some very important conversation starters that feel important. I hope this is the beginning of more conversation on rope bottom centered information. Below is a list of the 12 Somantic Inquiries. 12 Somantic Inquiries 1. Why do you seek the experience of being tied. 2. Where does your desires come from and how can we honor them? 3. Where does your attention go when you are in ropes? 4. What can you do to let your partner know how you feel, without speaking up? 5. What are the ways you can use breathing to create a better experience in ropes? 6. What is the source of your resilience in rope? 7. Where are your limits and whose responsibility is it to recognize them? 8. Why do you want to surrender and what allows you to do so? 9. What makes you feel safe in rope bondage? 10. Which pain can you welcome and when do you decide to stop? 11. Why rope bondage can be the place to embrace all your emotions, even the difficult ones? 12. Which risk can you take and where to stop exploring?

    Episode 11: Conditioning the Bottom

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Mister Solomon Abrams is a Afro Erotic Photojournalist, Shibari Artist, BDSM performer and educator , as well as a former porn producer, with nearly years of experience in the adult content industry(14 of which has been in BDSM and rope bondage). He is a respected pillar of the community known for an authentic no nonsense real life Uncle-like approach to building community. Now his foray in men's sexual health and interpersonal relationships is a refreshing source of information about being everything like from sex as an old man, BDSM polyamory and many things in between.