Brainwashed To Be Broke

Adam Rother

Most people aren't stuck by accident. They're stuck by design. From the moment you're born, you're handed a script. What to believe, what to want, what's possible and what isn't. Most people never question it. Brainwash to Be Broke exists to change that. Hosted by Adam Rother, this show pulls back the curtain on the social programming, beliefs, and conditioning quietly running your life. The stories about money, religion, relationships, health, and identity you believe so deeply you don't even know you believe them. This isn't just about being broke financially. It's about being mentally broke. Stuck in thinking handed to you by people just as conditioned as you are. Raw, unfiltered conversations with founders, thinkers, and people who woke up, questioned everything, and rebuilt life on their own terms. If you've ever felt like something is off but couldn't name it, you're in the right place. It's time to break the script. 🔔 Subscribe and follow so you never miss an episode.

  1. 15h ago

    Trauma Therapist Holly Loxton: Why the Love of Money Changes Everything

    Biblical money principles are not about staying poor, Holly Loxton argues, they are about refusing to let money become your master. This conversation challenges the belief that faith requires lack and asks what happens when wealth becomes stewardship instead of identity. Holly is a trauma therapist and former success coach who spent years working with entrepreneurs on mindset, burnout and their inner world before rebuilding her work around biblical principles. Holly explains: ■ Why "money is the root of all evil" misses the point, and what 1 Timothy 6:10 changes ■ How high performers can build from unresolved trauma and still feel empty ■ Why being broke does not automatically free you from obsession with money ■ The business lesson inside the parable of the talents, and what it exposes ■ How to test whether an opportunity is coming from conviction, fear or desire, and her honest answer Chapters: 00:00 Intro 02:15 What Happens When You Lose Everything? 06:52 When Achievement Becomes an Idol 09:42 What Does the Bible Really Say About Money? 13:00 Why She Had to Go Back to Zero 18:29 Does Christianity Require You to Stay Poor? 21:23 Why Confidence Is Not the Same as Authority 23:13 Can AI Help You Understand Scripture? 29:32 What Changes When You Build With Biblical Principles? 31:59 What the Parable of the Talents Exposes 39:59 How Do You Know Someone's Faith Is Real? 43:05 The Prayer That Can Change Everything 45:25 How Do You Know Which Voice to Trust? 50:41 What Happens When Other People's Opinions Stop Mattering? 53:32 Was Jesus Ever Teaching Poverty? If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Follow Holly: Website - https://www.hollyloxton.com.au Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

  2. 2d ago

    Storytelling Coach Molly Gomez: Why High Performers Need to Stop Performing

    How to tell your story without turning yourself into a commercial may be one of the most valuable communication skills in business. Molly Gomez explains why lived experience creates connection, why constant performance can steal your peace, and why your voice gets stronger through practice. Former news anchor and reporter Molly Gomez now helps entrepreneurs refine their voice and communicate their story with more impact. Her clients include people operating from multiple six figures to eight figures. Molly explains: ■ Why chasing performance can quietly take over your entire life ■ What getting fired taught her about entrepreneurship and identity ■ Why people expect partners to read their minds, and what happens next ■ The framework she uses to keep an audience listening without oversharing ■ Why successful people still hide parts of themselves, and what fear is underneath it ■ What changes when you finally stop believing your voice does not matter Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:41 The Career That Looked Right but Felt Wrong 05:49 What Had to Be Unlearned First 09:32 When Performance Starts Stealing Your Peace 11:51 What Happens When Money Changes a Marriage? 15:27 Why Good Partnerships Still Break Down 20:30 Would You Let the World Raise Your Kids? 24:34 What Nobody Taught Us About Money 27:53 Can You Train Yourself to Speak With Confidence? 31:04 The Story Framework That Keeps People Listening 36:24 What If You Think Your Voice Doesn't Matter? 40:48 Faith, Identity, and the Lie About Your Worth 46:16 Where to Find Molly If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Follow Molly: Website - https://signaturestoryco.com Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam Listen to Brainwashed To Be Broke: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brainwashed-to-be-broke/id1879032145 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6UzZfVwqPmNjyOYfDaxEGc?si=91c9a140c35247db #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

  3. Aug 26

    Business Coach Lauren Turton: Stop Owning a Job and Start Building Freedom

    Business owner burnout does not always come from working too hard, it can start when the company you built becomes another job you cannot leave. Lauren Turton explains why systems, automation, data, and the right partnerships matter if you actually want time freedom. Lauren Turton is an entrepreneur and co-CEO of Studio Creativo, where she focuses on technology, AI, data, education, and community initiatives. Lauren explains: ■ Why founders can accidentally create the exact job they wanted to escape ■ What managing 75 to 100 coaching clients taught her about confidence ■ Why one $300K-per-month client still struggled with content, and what that revealed ■ How public speaking can change your authority before fear disappears ■ When a co-CEO can be smarter than trying to do everything alone ■ Why systems, AI, and data may be the real path to time freedom Chapters: 00:00 Intro 02:38 Why the Traditional Career Path Never Fit 07:38 What Changes When You Stop Caring What People Think 10:50 Would You Raise Kids Outside the American Norm? 16:54 When You Have to Question Your Religion 19:26 Why Entrepreneurship Forces You to Face Yourself 21:16 The Branding Choice People Remember 24:55 Why Public Speaking Changes Your Business 32:24 Can Interviews Build Authority Faster? 35:35 Why $300K Months Don't Fix Content Confidence 39:40 What Criticism Really Says About You 43:36 When a Business Partner Becomes the Better Move 48:27 The Breakup That Changed Her Business 49:13 Why Studio Creativo Is Betting on AI and Data 52:24 Do You Own a Business or Just a Job? If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Follow Lauren: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/laurenturton/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@laurenturton_ Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam Listen to Brainwashed To Be Broke: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brainwashed-to-be-broke/id1879032145 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6UzZfVwqPmNjyOYfDaxEGc?si=91c9a140c35247db #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

  4. Aug 18

    Construction Entrepreneur Tim Hoover: Work On It, Not In It

    Business systems for entrepreneurs can be the difference between owning a company and buying yourself another job. Tim Hoover learned that after spending his early years working harder, taking bad advice, and keeping too much of the operation inside his own head. The real shift was not more hustle, it was changing how he thought about ownership. Tim started working for himself as a teenager and built a construction company that is approaching 21 years in business. Today he also coaches and consults service business owners who want growth without becoming the permanent bottleneck. Tim explains: ■ Why his first seven years created income but still left him trapped ■ The belief problem he sees repeatedly in experienced business owners ■ Why advice from people you trust can quietly keep you small ■ What social conditioning teaches us about speaking up and trusting ourselves ■ Why systems change what employees can actually take ownership of ■ What he now values more than money, and what it can never replace Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:55 What Happens When Entrepreneurship Starts at 16? 04:46 How a Rough Childhood Shapes What You Believe 08:36 What Happens When Proving People Wrong Becomes Your Fuel? 12:10 When Money Stops Being the Main Motivation 15:02 How Much Confidence Do You Actually Need? 19:14 Are These Really Your Beliefs? 22:47 What Did School Teach You About Speaking Up? 25:32 Why Nobody Taught Us How Money Works 28:02 Who Should You Never Take Business Advice From? 29:18 Did You Build a Company or Buy Yourself a Job? 33:52 The Entrepreneurship Fantasy Social Media Sells 36:46 What Should a New Business Owner Focus on First? 38:30 Can Work-Life Balance Actually Hold You Back? 40:58 What Does Real Time Freedom Look Like? If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Follow Tim: Website - https://livealchemy.com Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/tim.hoover.524/ Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

  5. Aug 16

    Parenting Coach Jeremy Roadruck: Why Punishment Repeats Childhood Trauma

    Parenting without punishment starts with understanding the patterns you inherited before you unconsciously hand them to your children. Jeremy Roadruck explains why loving parents can still yell, control, punish, or repeat painful conditioning they swore they would never repeat. Jeremy has spent roughly 30 years helping people and ran a martial arts school for about 17 and a half years, working extensively with children, parents, mindset, relationships, and human behavior. He is also the author of "Your Best Child Ever: Is This Game Worth Winning?" Jeremy explains: ■ Why childhood trauma can quietly become your parenting default ■ What happens when a child triggers something you never resolved ■ Why punishment can create fast compliance, but at a hidden cost ■ The five levels of growth, and where people get trapped ■ Why your parents may have loved you while still hurting you ■ How to replace inherited patterns before your children inherit them Chapters: 00:00 Intro 02:00 What Happens When You Stop Trusting Everyone? 04:20 Why Martial Arts Changed Everything 07:00 Can One Conversation Really Change a Relationship? 13:00 What Happens When Childhood Trauma Comes Back? 18:00 Why People Hear Something You Never Said 22:00 Were You Really "Too Nice" as a Kid? 27:00 What If There Isn't One Right Way to Live? 36:30 Are Victims Really Just Volunteers? 38:30 Which of the Five Growth Levels Are You In? 44:00 Why Your Family May Never Understand Your Success 55:40 Why Do Loving Parents Still Punish Their Kids? 59:30 Why Stress Makes Parents Yell, Hit, and Control 01:03:00 Will You Repeat What Your Parents Did to You? 01:08:20 Can Parenting Become a Win-Win Game? If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Follow Jeremy: Facebook - Jeremy Roadruck Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

  6. Aug 14

    Financial Educator Sam Knickerbocker: Why High Income Does Not Build Wealth

    Money mindset can quietly control what you earn, spend, save, and believe you deserve. Sam Knickerbocker explains why making more money does not automatically create wealth, and how comparison, identity, and lifestyle inflation can keep even high earners trapped. Sam is a financial educator who moved from studying neuropsychology into financial literacy after realizing how deeply financial stress affects people and families. Sam explains: ■ Why earning over $100,000 in three months still did not make him financially secure ■ How spending money became tied to his personal value, and what exposed it ■ Why a $250,000 income forced him to question what his family was spending ■ What sales taught him about trust, integrity, and making more money ■ Why comparison can sabotage wealth without you noticing it ■ The hidden rules behind financial freedom, and why nobody hands you the rulebook Chapters: 00:00 Intro 03:48 What Growing Up Broke Taught Him About Money 07:51 Can Financial Stress Change an Entire Family? 10:57 When a Career You Love Stops Making Sense 11:53 Do You Actually Need Sales to Build a Business? 14:58 What Makes Someone Trust You Enough to Buy? 19:39 What 11 Kids Taught Him About Independence 22:17 Who Taught Him to Think Differently About Money? 29:17 Which Books Actually Change How You See Money? 36:12 Which Money Beliefs Quietly Keep You Stuck? 39:56 Can You Earn More and Still Be Financially Lost? 43:26 What Having Kids Changed About Success and Freedom 49:21 Are We Making the Next Generation Too Soft? 53:44 What Shame and Guilt Do to Your Identity 57:21 How Do You Stop Your Kids From Being Programmed? 01:03:01 What Financial Freedom Is Really About If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Follow Sam: Website - https://samknickerbocker.com Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam Listen to Brainwashed To Be Broke: #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

  7. Aug 12

    Serial Entrepreneur Domingo Silvas: How to Reach $20K a Month With 20 Clients

    Entrepreneur mindset is not about chasing money, it is about building the focus, belief, and discipline to keep going when easier opportunities appear. Domingo Silvas explains how one discarded lead became a $30 million company, why annual plans are losing relevance, and how recurring revenue can turn a simple service into real freedom. Domingo is a business strategist and 26-year entrepreneur who has built more than 10 seven-figure businesses, taken two to eight figures, and completed eight-figure exits. Domingo explains: ■ Why his mentor rejected the opportunity that changed everything ■ How four clients could create $20,000 in monthly revenue ■ Why being the smartest person in the room can quietly limit you ■ The five business pieces most struggling entrepreneurs never connect ■ Why a 90-day plan can expose whether your one-year goal is real ■ What success can feel like before the results become visible Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:01 How He Built a $30 Million Business From Nothing 02:50 Why Determination Must Outlast the Money 05:54 Are New Opportunities Destroying Your Focus? 07:35 Why Success Attracts Dangerous Distractions 12:15 What Keeps You Driven After the Money Arrives? 16:26 Why One-Year Business Plans No Longer Work 19:50 Were You Brainwashed to Stay Broke? 24:28 Can 20 Clients Really Create $20K a Month? 28:00 Why Do Most New Businesses Actually Fail? 33:32 How to Change Your Environment Without Leaving 36:12 The Five Pieces Every Business Must Connect 40:26 The Candy Sale That Revealed His Entrepreneur Mindset 45:21 What Turns a Dream Into Something Real? 51:45 How Do You Raise Children Without Teaching Limits? If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam Listen to Brainwashed To Be Broke: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brainwashed-to-be-broke/id1879032145 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6UzZfVwqPmNjyOYfDaxEGc?si=91c9a140c35247db #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

  8. Aug 10

    Jenna Evola: Why Corporate Success Never Felt Like Freedom

    The corporate ladder trap promises security, validation, and success, but Jenna Evola discovered that staying inside the system was the greater risk. She reveals why good employees are rewarded with harder work, why entrepreneurs burn out without systems, and how fear quietly keeps people compliant. Jenna is a former journalist and General Motors corporate operator who founded Evolve Systems, where she helps entrepreneurs build the processes, teams, and business infrastructure needed to grow. Jenna explains: ■ Why reaching the next corporate title failed to create the feeling she expected ■ The moment a difficult project was presented as a reward, and what happened next ■ Why news directors deliberately prioritize fear and negative stories ■ How entrepreneurs waste money on marketing before fixing a hidden problem ■ What nearly ended her business during COVID, and why she refused to quit ■ Why emotional decisions can outperform perfect data, and her honest answer Chapters: 00:00 Intro 02:57 When Corporate Success Stops Feeling Like Success 06:37 Is Entrepreneurship Really the Bigger Risk? 11:04 Who Taught You to Follow the Safe Path? 14:44 The Career That Was Nothing Like She Expected 19:02 Why Fear Controls the News You Consume 24:18 How One Career Pivot Changed Everything 29:41 What Happens When Your Family Fears Your Dream? 34:16 Can Corporate Friends Understand Entrepreneurship? 40:20 Why Good Employees Get the Worst Rewards 46:05 The Business Skill Entrepreneurs Learn Too Late 55:02 Should You Trust Data or Your Gut? 01:04:04 What COVID Revealed About the Business System 01:12:59 Why She Refused to Let the System Win 01:18:43 What Freedom Actually Looks Like If this conversation helps you see your programming more clearly, subscribe to Brainwashed to Be Broke, like the video, comment with the biggest belief you are questioning now, and share this with one friend who needs to hear it. Follow Jenna: Website - https://jennaevola.com Adam's socials: Website: https://www.brainwashedtobebroke.com X: https://x.com/adam_rother Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rotheradam/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rotheradamlive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rotheradam Listen to Brainwashed To Be Broke: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brainwashed-to-be-broke/id1879032145 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6UzZfVwqPmNjyOYfDaxEGc?si=91c9a140c35247db #socialprogramming #conditioning #moneymindset #freedom #deprogramming

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Most people aren't stuck by accident. They're stuck by design. From the moment you're born, you're handed a script. What to believe, what to want, what's possible and what isn't. Most people never question it. Brainwash to Be Broke exists to change that. Hosted by Adam Rother, this show pulls back the curtain on the social programming, beliefs, and conditioning quietly running your life. The stories about money, religion, relationships, health, and identity you believe so deeply you don't even know you believe them. This isn't just about being broke financially. It's about being mentally broke. Stuck in thinking handed to you by people just as conditioned as you are. Raw, unfiltered conversations with founders, thinkers, and people who woke up, questioned everything, and rebuilt life on their own terms. If you've ever felt like something is off but couldn't name it, you're in the right place. It's time to break the script. 🔔 Subscribe and follow so you never miss an episode.