What's the F**king Point(e)?

Veronica Vacanza
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If you were ever ever made to feel 'too much' in the ballet world, this is for you. What's the F**king Point(e)? is for dancers struggling to maintain motivation & consistency through the chaotic demands of adulthood. We chat all things mental health, purpose & more, all through the lens of a wannabe ballerina. ;)

Episodes

  1. 6D AGO

    10 books that made me *DELUSIONAL* enough to start ballet at 27

    Some days you’re all in, other days you’re asking yourself… What’s the F**king Point? Whether you’re pursuing ballet as an adult or trying to follow a dream that feels uncertain or even slightly delusional, this episode is for those days! These are the books that helped me SHIFT my mindset and REBUILD motivation, when I felt stuck, discouraged and ready to quit. We’re talking about powerful reads like Atomic Habits, The Obstacle Is the Way, and The Artist’s Way, plus a few that go deeper into mental health, relationships, and understanding your own beautiful self! ---> WATCH "How I Became an 'Unpaid Professional' Dancer" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1dRcxeF_i4 ---> WATCH Art Therapy Podcast about the Artist's Way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yn89sy8LI_I&t=3235s Books mentioned: Feeling Great - David Burns Why Does he do That? - Lundy Bancroft Mindset - Carol Dweck The Obstacle is the Way - Ryan Holiday Atomic Habits - James Clear The Artist’s Way - Julia Cameron The Let Them Theory - Mel Robbin’s Big Magic - Liz Gilbert Turning Pro - Steven Pressfield (E-BOOK) Spark - John J. Ratey If you’re an aspiring ballerina, an adult beginner, or just someone trying to stay committed to a dream that doesn’t come with instant results, these books will support you through all the sleepless nights. 🎥 Watch WTFP on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL89lzsALZuYEvobuqHwHPF2vUO3KOeyzN 🩰 STARTING LATE? Sign up for my FREE guide: The Late Bloomer's COMPLETE Guide to Your First Ballet Class (everything you need to know before, during & after no matter your age or where in the world you are) - https://mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-... 🩰 LOVE ADULT BALLET? The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up here: https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-s... 🩰 LET'S STAY IN TOUCH ⇢ INSTAGRAM- https://www.instagram.com/veronicavacanza/ 🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY? ⇢ For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here: E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com 🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my now 30s and show the world that it's never too late to live your dreams.

    30 min

  2. MAR 29

    If you really want to STAND OUT in ballet, stop trying to beat the competition & do this instead.

    Have you ever worried that everyone is already miles ahead of you and there’s absolutely no space left for you? Today we're going to talk about why you don't have to worry about that. Because in reality, very few people actually start…and even fewer stay consistent long enough to get good. So in this episode, we break down:  Why the “competition” isn’t what you think it isHow most people never even try (or quit early)The difference between working hard and comparing yourself to others Why not getting what you want isn’t always a lossLearning to trust redirection instead of resisting itBecause sometimes disappointment is exactly what puts you where you need to be. If you’re starting ballet as an adult or struggling with comparison and scarcity mindset, this conversation will help you shift your focus back to what actually matters: your own path. 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL89lzsALZuYEvobuqHwHPF2vUO3KOeyzN 🩰 STARTING LATE?  Sign up for my FREE guide: The Late Bloomer's COMPLETE Guide to Your First Ballet Class (everything you need to know before, during & after no matter your age or where in the world you are) - https://mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-... 🩰 LOVE ADULT BALLET? The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up here: https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-s... 🩰 LET'S STAY IN TOUCH  ⇢ INSTAGRAM- https://www.instagram.com/veronicavacanza/ 🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY?  ⇢ For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here: E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com 🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my now 30s and show the world that it's never too late to live your dreams.

    22 min

  3. MAR 22

    I wrote a musical so bad it silenced 200 college kids. Here’s what it taught me about failure.

    Have you ever wanted to physically disappear out of pure embarrassment? Because SAME! And boy oh boy, do I have a story for you today. On this week’s episode of What’s the F**king Point(e)?, I share the story of the time I completely mortified myself in front of 200 college students, and what that painfully awkward moment taught me about failure, success and not giving up. In this episode, we talk about: The impact of total embarrassmentWhat failure actually exposesHow success & failure can shape your identityHow I didn’t let embarrassment stop me from chasing my dreamsand a lot more! So listen until the end so you don’t miss a thing. By the way, if you’re new here, I’m Veronica, an adult ballerina documenting what it looks like chase your dreams and take your passions seriously, even when no one understands why you’re doing it. If any of this episode resonated with you, subscribe for more honest conversations about adult ballet, mental health, and becoming who you are meant to be. 🩰 SIGN UP FOR THE SLIPPER EDIT: https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-slipper-edit The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up with the link above :) 🩰 LET'S STAY IN TOUCH ⇢  INSTAGRAM- https://www.instagram.com/veronicavacanza/ 🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY? ⇢  For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here: E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com 🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my 20s and show anyone that it's never too late to live your dreams. 0:00 - intro 0:25 - Welcome back to WTFP!  1:50 - The Slipper Edit  2:42 - Storytime (I wrote a musical)  7:26 - Broadway, baby  10:02 - the most embarrassing moment of my life  14:06 - the aftermath  16:45 - The lesson learned  19:35 - a fresh outlook  27:00 - outro #ballerina #ballet #failure #growthmindset #storytime #adultballetdancer #resilience

    28 min

  4. MAR 15

    ‘You’ll NEVER be a professional ballerina.’ Why this pointless advice gets you nowhere FAST.

    You don’t have to want a contract with New York City Ballet to start ballet. In this video, I’m sharing reasons to start ballet that have nothing to do with going professional, especially if you’re an adult beginner wondering if it’s “too late.” Today we discuss:  Better posture and body awareness Improved mental clarity Finding community through dance Getting into the best physical shape of your life The undeniable aesthetic of balletBallet isn’t just about becoming a professional dancer and your ART has nothing to do with making money in the first place (even though there's nothing wrong with that!) It’s about finding a vessel of expression, joy, confidence, creativity, and building a stronger relationship with your body, mind and soul! 🩰 STARTING LATE?  Sign up for my FREE guide: The Late Bloomer's COMPLETE Guide to Your First Ballet Class (everything you need to know before, during & after no matter your age or where in the world you are) - https://mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-... 🩰 LOVE ADULT BALLET? The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up here: https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-s... 🩰 LET'S STAY IN TOUCH  ⇢ INSTAGRAM- https://www.instagram.com/veronicavacanza/ 🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY?  ⇢ For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here: E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com 🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my now 30s and show the world that it's never too late to live your dreams. #adultballet #balletmindset #balletfitness #ballet

    23 min

  5. MAR 8

    If you're 'creative but lazy,' give me 30 minutes to reveal what's REALLY ruining your motivation.

    You’re not lazy. If you’ve been struggling with motivation, ESPECIALLY when it comes to your goals, dreams, or starting ballet, there’s usually a deeper reason. In this week’s issue of What’s the F**king Point(e)?, we’re breaking down the real causes behind feeling unmotivated and how to actually fix them so you can get out of your creative rut for good. In this episode, we talk about:   Identifying the REAL reason you feel unmotivated Why “just try harder” doesn’t work The differences between discipline and burnout How your environment affects your consistency The power of surrounding yourself with inspiration Making your goals easier to start (instead of harder to avoid) Why support systems matter more than willpowerAnd much more! If you’re an aspiring ballerina, an adult beginner, or an artist trying to build better habits and creative discipline, this episode will help you shift from frustration to clarity. Motivation isn't a matter of luck. It's often a byproduct of circumstance and in time, becomes something you can CHOOSE.  🩰 NEW HERE? If you’re new here, welcome! I'm Veronica and I document my journey of starting ballet as an adult, along with the mindset shifts that turn your big dreams into your reality. If that resonates with you, subscribe! And if this episode helped you rethink your relationship with motivation, leave a review! I’d love to hear what you think. 🩰 STARTING BALLET LATE?  Sign up for my FREE guide: The Late Bloomer's COMPLETE Guide to Your First Ballet Class (everything you need to know before, during & after no matter your age or where in the world you are) - https://mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-... 🩰 SIGN UP FOR THE SLIPPER EDIT The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up here: https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-s... Whether you’re an aspiring ballerina, an adult beginner, or someone struggling with embracing the dancer’s mindset, this episode will help you recognize the patterns that keep you from dancing to your fullest potential and what happens when you stop letting them run the show. 🩰 LET'S STAY IN TOUCH  ⇢ INSTAGRAM- https://www.instagram.com/veronicavacanza/ 🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY?  ⇢ For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here: E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com 🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my 20s and show anyone that it's never too late to live your dreams. #growthmindset #dancermindset #balletmotivation #ballet

    35 min

  6. MAR 1

    You were born to be a ballerina but these 7 things are killing the dream before you even try.

    The reason you haven’t started ballet yet probably isn’t what you think. In today’s episode of What’s the F**king Point(e)?, we’re breaking down the 7 mindset patterns that kill your dreams before they even take shape. From comparison to scarcity to perfectionism and everything in between, we’re tackling it all, baby! In this episode, we talk about:  Poorly defined goals (what does “being a ballerina” even mean to you?) Imposter syndrome in dance • Scarcity and competition in the ballet world Comparison (the helpful kind vs. the toxic kind) Perfectionism that keeps you stuck Limiting beliefs about being “too late” Self-sabotage when opportunities finally show upWhether you’re an aspiring ballerina, an adult beginner, or someone struggling with embracing the dancer’s mindset, this episode will help you recognize the patterns that keep you from dancing to your fullest potential and what happens when you stop letting them run the show. If any of this episode resonated with you, subscribe to the show for more honest conversations about adult ballet, mental health, and becoming who you were always meant to be. 🩰 STARTING BALLET LATE?  Sign up for my FREE guide: The Late Bloomer's COMPLETE Guide to Your First Ballet Class (everything you need to know before, during & after no matter your age or where in the world you are) - https://mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-... 🩰 SUBSCRIBE TO THE SLIPPER EDIT  The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up here: https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-s... 🩰 LET'S STAY IN TOUCH ⇢  INSTAGRAM- https://www.instagram.com/veronicavacanza/ 🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY?  ⇢ For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here:  E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com 🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my 20s and show anyone that it's never too late to live your dreams. #ballerina #ballet #limitingbeliefs #balletjourney #dancermindset #whatsthefuckingpoint

    42 min

  7. FEB 22

    I started ballet at 27 & ended up broke, divorced & RICHER than I ever imagined

    At 27, I moved to New York City to start ballet for the very first time in my life. While it was an exhilarating experience filled with so much good, the past few years have also been full of unexpected obstacles to overcome: divorce, death, loss, an unlivable apartment, financial strain. This video is about what it actually looks like to pursue ballet as an adult even when life is crazyyyyy. As an adult ballerina training in NYC, I had to navigate grief, financial instability, and mental health and physical health struggles while still showing up to class. This is for the dancers who are struggling to find the motivation to continue to pursuing their dreams because adult life is so overwhelming. If you’re a ballerina rebuilding your life after divorce, an artist navigating financial uncertainty, or a dancer who started “late” but refuses to give up, this one is for you. In this video, I share: • What moving to New York to follow my ballet dream really cost • How personal loss and instability affected my mental health • Why adult ballet is as much emotional endurance as physical training • How I found meaning and purpose in the middle of the chaos If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s too late to start ballet at 27, or whether you can keep pursuing your dream even when it feels like everything is falling apart, this video is for you. I’m Veronica, an adult ballerina documenting what it looks like chase your dreams, take your passions seriously, even when no one understands why you’re doing it. If any of this episode resonated with you, subscribe for more honest conversations about adult ballet, mental health, and becoming who you are meant to be. The story of how I moved to NYC & started pursuing ballet at 27: https://www.youtube.com/watch?si=1seysIlGmOdK1YFW&v=psScYqNQQLw&feature=youtu.be

    23 min
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If you were ever ever made to feel 'too much' in the ballet world, this is for you. What's the F**king Point(e)? is for dancers struggling to maintain motivation & consistency through the chaotic demands of adulthood. We chat all things mental health, purpose & more, all through the lens of a wannabe ballerina. ;)

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    Veronica Vacanza
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