The Twisted Take

Jac/TheTwistedWanderer

Life's Twisted - Let's talk about it.

  1. Jun 25

    Bi Bi Bi

    I always knew I was different. I just didn't have the words for it... This episode is my first time talking openly about my bisexuality — the sleepover in seventh grade, seeing Tila Tequila on "A Shot at Love" and finally having a word for what I felt, my Aunt Patti Ann outing me to my grandfather , and the long road from shame to pride. Growing up, we weren't taught queer history. We weren't given vocabulary. We weren't shown that bisexuality is fluid and beautiful and AND — not or. So I internalized a lot. I thought there was only one way to "be bi." It took years, therapy, and learning about the people who came before me to understand that my identity isn't a box to fit into. It's a way of seeing the world. This episode is for baby bis who are just starting out. For anyone who's ever felt "too late" to their own identity. And for anyone who needs to hear: you're not behind. You're right on time. 3 In this episode: My first experience with a woman (yes, at a sleepover)The power and danger of having only ONE representationGetting outed before I was ready — and why that mattersWhy Stonewall, Marsha P. Johnson, and Sylvia Rivera changed everything for meWhat it means to decenter whiteness within the queer communityThe speech that every queer person should hear: "Y'all Better Quiet Down"Resources mentioned: The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson (Netflix): https://www.netflix.com/title/80189623Sylvia Rivera's "Y'all Better Quiet Down" : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jb-JIOWUw1oBrenda Howard - The Mother of PRIDE: https://www.them.us/story/brenda-howardThe Trevor Project: https://give.thetrevorproject.org/The Good BI Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thegoodbipodcast/Smarter in Seconds : https://www.instagram.com/blairimani/?hl=enHappy Pride! 🩷💜💙

About

Life's Twisted - Let's talk about it.