Real Talk With Amiri

Amiri

I Am Amiri. Sharing my thoughts about Love, Life, Money, Health, Food, a little bit of Everything. I love art, cooking, architecture, beautiful, places, and spaces. Just learning about life and all the speed bumps that come with it.

  1. When Rebuking the Devil Gets You Killed...

    07/25/2024

    When Rebuking the Devil Gets You Killed...

    Black women should be safe in their own homes. Black women should be safe in this country. I am praying for Sonya's family and loved ones. Twitter... Body-camera footage showing the fatal police shooting of Sonya Massey, a 36-year-old Black woman who had called 911 for help, was released Monday in a case that has led to murder charges against a deputy. The 36-minute video released via the Illinois State Police includes body-camera footage from each of the two Sangamon County sheriff’s deputies who responded to Massey’s house after midnight on July 6 after Massey called 911 to report a possible “prowler” at her home in Springfield, according to a court document filed by prosecutors. In the footage, deputy Sean Grayson and another deputy speak calmly with Massey in her home when she goes to the stove to turn off a pot of boiling water. She then picks up the pot and the other deputy steps back, “away from your hot steaming water,” he says. “I rebuke you in the name of Jesus,” she says in response. “Huh?” the deputy says. “I rebuke you in the name of Jesus,” she repeats. “You better f**king not or I swear to God I’ll f**king shoot you in the f**king face,” Grayson says.   He then draws his firearm and points it at her, and she ducks and says, “I’m sorry” while lifting the pot, the video shows. “Drop the f**king pot!” both deputies yell. Three shots are heard. After a few seconds of silence, one deputy says “shots fired” and calls for emergency medical services. “Dude, I’m not taking f**king boiling water to the f**king head. And look, it came right to our feet, too,” Grayson says. Support the show

    29 min
  2. Bad Roommates Real Talk With Amiri Help

    05/09/2024

    Bad Roommates Real Talk With Amiri Help

    What Makes a Bad Roommate?Is an Habitual BorrowerIs Pushy and Too PersonalDoesn't Do the DishesIs Disrespectful and Not CourteousWritten by Sarah Casimong 13 June, 2017 Coming home to a bad roommate is the last thing you want to do after a long day. Sharing a living space with another person -- whether with a friend or a stranger -- means that both people will have to compromise and adapt to each other. Communicating and coming up with an agreement is important, because certain traits and habits can occur that make for a less-than-ideal roommate 1. Is an Habitual Borrower An undesirable roommate is someone who does not respect your personal property. It’s frustrating to find that your roommate finished off the leftovers you were planning to have for dinner, or that she “borrowed” your clothes without asking. Some people are more generous when it comes to sharing their things, but it’s always wise to ask, first. It would be wise to talk about boundaries when it comes to using each other’s stuff. An undesirable roommate is someone who does not respect your personal property.It would be wise to talk about boundaries when it comes to using each other’s stuff.Is Pushy and Too Personal Invading emotional space is another form of overstepping boundaries. A nosy roommate is just as invasive as a roommate who uses your things without asking. Some roommates may expect that the person they’re living with will automatically become their best friend -- sharing everything from how their day went to spilling those deep, dark secrets. This information isn’t always welcome, however, and each person shouldn’t expect that from the other person. It’s important to get along with your roommate, and it’s ideal if a friendship evolves, but it’s important to give your roommate some space if he does not seem receptive to an intimate conversation. Invading emotional space is another form of overstepping boundaries.It’s important to get along with your roommate, and It’s ideal if a friendship evolves, but It’s important to give your roommate some space if he does not seem receptive to an intimate conversation.Doesn't Do the Dishes Living with a messy or disorganized person can become a headache, especially if you are a clean freak. Even if you aren’t strict about spotless floors or orderly shelves, coming home to a cluttered living room and moldy kitchen can be bad for your mental and physical health. If both roommates are messy, this could turn into a disaster. A good roommate realizes the importance of cleanliness, even if it means scheduling cleanups every so often. Living with a messy or disorganized person can become a headache, especially if you are a clean freak.A good roommate realizes the importance of cleanliness, even if it means scheduling cleanups every so often. Support the show

    30 min
  3. House Guest Alcoholic & Dysfunctional Real Talk With Amiri

    04/01/2024

    House Guest Alcoholic & Dysfunctional Real Talk With Amiri

    SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.  1-800-662-HELP (4357) Help in Missouri Our Modern Facility Has Everything You Need. Grand Falls is centrally located in Joplin, Missouri. Our residential compound was designed to help offer quality, evidence-based programming alongside modern amenities. Grand Falls is a one-stop-shop for lasting addiction recovery. Treatment & Services for Substance Use or Mental Illness The Division of Behavioral Health (DBH) has programs around the state to help individuals with substance use disorders or their mental illness. There are programs for youth, adolescents, and adults. If you or a loved one struggles with substances or have questions regarding their mental illness, you can contact a treatment program for help. They can help you get the services you or a loved one needs.  The Division and its contracted programs offer services that have been proven to help individuals with mental illness and substance use struggles. Those services help to prevent crime and make communities safer, reduce emergency room visits, and prevent school dropout. Many individuals are able to keep their job or get help finding a job when they receive services.  The cost of services is based on the individual's ability to pay.   Those who have first priority for mental illness services are: individuals with a serious mental illness; individuals and families in crisis; individuals who are homeless and mentally ill; individuals committed for treatment by the court system; and children with severe emotional problems.  Those who have first priority for substance use treatment are: pregnant women; intravenous (IV) drug users; and, certain referrals from other state agencies. Locate Treatment & Services For more information, see Locating Treatment & Services. You may contact us directly by calling (573) 751-4942 or (800) 575-7480 or you may e-mail us at dbhmail@dmh.mo.gov .   Support the show

    31 min

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I Am Amiri. Sharing my thoughts about Love, Life, Money, Health, Food, a little bit of Everything. I love art, cooking, architecture, beautiful, places, and spaces. Just learning about life and all the speed bumps that come with it.