DCL by Jaimon Speaks

Jaimon Speaks

DCL - Demand Control of Your Life is a podcast hosted by Jaimon Barconia, a mental health professional, Bachelor of Criminal Justice, serial entrepreneur, and motivational speaker. Each episode empowers listeners to take control of their lives, featuring insight and strategies for self-improvement, building a stronger mindset, and achieving success.  Listeners can expect to gain actionable inspiration for cultivating positive habits, overcoming limiting beliefs, and unlocking their full potential. From mindset shifts to practical productivity tips, Demand Control of Your Life provides a roadmap for personal transformation.  Whether you're looking to start a business, boost your career, improve your relationships, or embrace your well-being, this podcast will help you break free from self-doubt and unleash your true potential! Be sure to subscribe to DCL By Jaimon Live on YouTube for Full Video Podcast Episodes!

  1. 12/05/2025

    The Entrepreneur Mindset They Don’t Teach in School | DCL #55

    In this DCL episode, we get brutally honest about entrepreneurship—discipline, delayed gratification, and the difference between goals you say you have and habits that actually match. We unpack why knowledge is the new currency (only if you apply it), the real grind behind real estate beyond Instagram highlights, and how to escape “comfortable” living that keeps you average. You’ll hear stories about dropping out, getting kicked out, starting over, and the exact mindset shifts that turn losses into lessons. We talk mentorship, building character, faith, and why investing in yourself beats flexing every time. Time Stamps  00:00 Highlights 01:09 Icklaas Background  01:59 The Entrepreneur Mindset 03:06 Kicked out: The Turning Point  04:28 Dropping out of College  06:28 Every Entrepreneur must be a student  10:13 Do your Habits align with your Goals?  11:36 Knowledge is the New Currency 15:00 Invest in Yourself  16:52 What’s Stopping you?  18:15 Ask yourself this before Starting a Business  21:03 Our Childhood in Dallas 23:41 Is School the Method for Success?  27:02 Advice for a High Schooler who wants to be Successful  28:37 Ways to get into Real Estate 34:45 Advice for those who want to get into Real Estate  38:35 The #1 Business Advice If this episode gave you game, like, comment what hit hardest, and subscribe for more real conversations about entrepreneurship, mindset, and building a life you’re proud of. entrepreneurship, entrepreneur mindset, habits and goals, knowledge is the new currency, invest in yourself, discipline and consistency, starting a business, how to start a business, real estate investing, real estate wholesaling, real estate reality, dropping out of college, kicked out story, self improvement, delayed gratification, mentorship, finding a mentor, generational wealth, business advice, side hustle, productivity, faith and success, modern slavery 9 to 5, attention is the new drug, Dallas childhood, high school advice, DCL podcast, podcast interview, life lessons, building character, resilience, taking initiative, applying knowledge, goal setting, uncomfortable growth, accountability, networking and relationships Support the show

    43 min
  2. 11/29/2025

    You Don’t Need Permission: Dallas Dis0 World Founder Dylan | DCL #54

    In this episode of DCL, I sit down in Dallas with my childhood friend Dylan, the designer behind Dis0 World. We get into why he launched the brand, building community over clout, and why there’s no blueprint for how you should live, create, or dress. We talk men’s mental health, the cost of trends, why “street money” can’t buy assets, and how to win your losses—from manufacturing delays to self-doubt. If you’re starting a clothing line or any creative venture, this one’s for you: action over perfection, delegation, staying authentic, and falling in love with the journey. 🔗 Dis0 World: (add site/IG)  🎧 Follow Dylan: (add IG)  🎙️ DCL Podcast: (your links) 00:00 Intro 00:59 Why Dylan Started Dis0 World Clothing Brand 03:13 Advice for Those Who Want to Start a Clothing Line 04:26 The Fear of Not Living Up to Your Potential 05:49 Battling Depression & Men’s Mental Health 10:38 Music Culture Is Influencing the Youth 12:27 Why Street Money Is Pointless (You Can’t Spend It) 13:17 You Can Make Money Doing What You Love 14:09 Winning From Your Losses / “Win Your Losses” 15:52 The Challenges of Owning a Clothing Brand 18:08 Doing Everything Gets You Nowhere 19:18 Embracing Your Differences 20:41 This Wasn’t Supposed to Be Added 21:16 How We Want to Be Remembered 22:31 They Trolled Kanye Until… 24:05 Skinny vs. Baggy Jeans Trend 26:18 What Does School Really Prepare Us For? 28:31 What’s Next for Dis0 World 30:16 Success as a Brand Owner 31:13 Chasing Money Doesn’t Work Anymore 33:43 Speed Round Questions 35:04 Bogus Childhood Fits 36:11 Degrassi 37:10 Vampire Diaries 40:21 Speed Question #2 41:36 Inspiration From Anime 42:10 Message to Creatives Dylan, Dis0 World, Dis0 World clothing, streetwear brand, clothing brand startup, how to start a clothing line, fashion designer interview, men’s mental health, community over clout, authenticity, Kanye influence, skinny vs baggy jeans, school system critique, entrepreneurship, creative discipline, manufacturing setbacks, delegation, Dallas podcast, DCL podcast, Jaimon Barconia, inspiration from anime, Vampire Diaries, Degrassi, win your losses, street money, financial literacy for teens, brand building, inclusivity, creative journey, podcast interview Support the show

    45 min
  3. 11/22/2025

    Creating on Your Own Time: Artist, Designer & Barber KCHOP | DCL #53

    In this episode of the DCL Podcast, we sit down with KCHOP — a Dallas barber, musician, and clothing brand creator — to dive into his grind, his passion for artistry, and the lessons he’s learned along the way. From cutting hair in college to launching One Dienasty clothing, and from dropping tracks to balancing multiple hustles, KCHOP opens up about the struggles of procrastination, staying authentic, and moving on his own time. We talk about what it means to grow up as a true artist, the lessons that come with building side hustles, and how barbering shaped his journey in Dallas. KCHOP also shares his perspective on music as an art form, not just a paycheck, and breaks down the vision behind his clothing brand as he works through a major revamp. Along the way, he reflects on staying motivated through setbacks and finding balance when you have too many talents and interests pulling you in different directions. This is a real conversation about hustle, growth, and creativity — from the perspective of someone carving his own lane and defining success on his own terms. 👉 Follow KCHOP: [Insert IG handle / links] 👉 More DCL Podcast episodes: [Insert playlist link] KCHOP, Dallas barber, Dallas rapper, One Dienasty, Dallas clothing brand, Dallas music scene, barber entrepreneur, hustler mindset, barber life, creative grind, balancing side hustles, podcast interview, Dallas artist interview, self improvement, authenticity, true artist mindset, barber content creator, fashion hustle, Texas entrepreneur, independent artist 00:00 Intro  00:38 How it All Started  01:52 KCHOP as an Music Artist 02:50 Why One Lane Wins  04:28 Creating on Your Own Time 05:59 Stop Caring What People Think 06:52 How KCHOP Started Cutting Hair 11:53 One Dienasty: Building a Clothing Brand 17:47 Lessons We Learned the Hard Way 21:43 What’s Next for KCHOP  Support the show

    25 min
  4. 11/15/2025

    YV Fendi: Music, Spirituality & The Power of Being Yourself | DCL #52

    In this episode, we sit down with YV Fendi — artist, motivator, and visionary — to talk about his journey through music, spirituality, and life. From recording his first tracks on an iPhone mic to reaching 200K+ streams, Fendi shares raw truths about accountability, mental health, and the importance of being yourself in both relationships and artistry. Full Video Podcast on YouTube at Jaimon Live  We dive deep into spirituality, struggles, patience, and the power of purpose. Fendi doesn’t just make music — he inspires, motivates, and challenges us to live authentically. 🔥 Follow YV Fendi on all platforms:  Apple Music | Spotify | YouTube | TikTok | Instagram YV Fendi, YV Fendi interview, YV Fendi podcast, YV Fendi music, YV Fendi freestyle, YV Fendi motivation, YV Fendi authenticity, YV Fendi spirituality, YV Fendi 200k streams, YV Fendi boxing, Jake Paul scripted fights, Tank vs Roach, Canelo vs Crawford vs Spence, being yourself, authenticity, mental health, masculinity, accountability, music journey, purpose, self improvement, patience, success mindset, inspirational podcast, rap podcast, artist evolution, chasing dreams, podcast motivation Time Stamps  00:00 Intro - Facing Silence & Growth Through Struggles 01:38 Why YV Fendi Started making Music  04:56 Music as Medicine: Visualization, Vibrations & Frequencies  08:27 Spirituality & God  13:07 Recording 200K+ Streams From an iPhone Mic   14:17 Excuses vs. Accountability: The Psychology of Growth   17:43 Blame Yourself: Taking Full Responsibility   19:06 Everything Happens For a Reason   21:47 Patience & Appreciating the Journey   23:39 Evolving Your Sound as an Artist    27:19 Being Yourself Unapologetically (Authenticity vs. Code-Switching)   32:48 Attracting the Right Audience by Staying Real   35:52 Boxing Talk & Jake Paul Debates   42:02 Tank vs. Roach Rematch Breakdown   47:53 Canelo, Crawford & Spence: Who’s Really the Best?   50:39 Car Accidents, Trauma & Resilience in Boxing   55:50 Floyd Mayweather, Tank Davis & Hidden Agendas   57:54 YoungBoy & Relationship Talk   59:00 Being yourself in a Relationship 01:02:38 Processing Hard Times & Sitting With Your Emotions   01:10:59 Mental Health, Masculinity & Breaking Stigmas   01:16:03 Being an Artist Isn’t What You Think (Struggles & Misconceptions)   01:21:28 The Pressure of Support, Community & Not Giving Up   01:22556 Motivation, Quitting Thoughts & Talking to Yourself Honestly   01:25:23 Messages in Music: Authenticity, Growth & Purpose   01:27:08 Finding Your Purpose (Vision, Freedom & Goals)   01:30:10 Success Means Nothing Without Freedom   01:32:29 The Mindset of Becoming the Best Rapper Alive   Support the show

    1h 36m
  5. 11/08/2025

    Vander Blue: The Most Slept-On Pro Hooper of All Time | DCL #51

    In this powerful and raw episode of the DCL Podcast, we sit down with Vander Blue, one of the most slept-on hoopers of this generation. From game-winners at Madison Square Garden, going undrafted in 2013, becoming the 2017 NBA G League MVP, and dropping 23 free throws in a single G League game (a record), Vander breaks down his incredible journey through college hoops at Marquette, the NBA grind with the Lakers and Celtics, and his experiences hooping overseas in Italy, Israel, China, and more. Full Video Podcast on Jaimon Live (YOUTUBE)  We also talk about his $33 million lawsuit, mentorship, mental health, the reality of playing pro ball globally, and what’s next as he becomes a father. If you're a basketball fan, aspiring pro, or someone who appreciates perseverance, this is a must-watch episode. 🔔 Subscribe for more real stories from basketball legends and underdogs. Vander Blue, NBA G League, G League MVP, Marquette basketball, DCL podcast, Vander Blue interview, basketball podcast, NCAA, basketball, undrafted NBA players, overseas basketball, Lakers G League, Celtics basketball, basketball stories, 48 minutes NBA, Madison Square Garden game winner, underrated NBA players, pro basketball grind, hoop journey, basketball inspiration, NBA underdog stories Time Stamps  00:00 The Most Underrated Player in NBA History   01:39 Who is Vander Blue? Early Life & Background   03:54 Growing Up in Milwaukee & Madison   04:27 Top-Ranked Player in Wisconsin (8-Year Reign)   06:22 Playing in Nike EYBL Peach Jam with Illinois Warriors   08:34 From High School to College Hoops: Culture Shock   10:29 D1 Basketball at 17 Years Old   11:19 NCAA Tournament Highlights: Game-Winners & MSG Moment   14:24 The Reality of D1 Hoops: Pressure, Practice & Adversity   17:29 Going Undrafted in 2013: Motivation & Mindset   20:42 G League MVP Season Breakdown   22:57 Why the G League is the 2nd-Best League in the World   24:35 Game Routine, Visualizing Success, & Kyrie Irving Stories   25:40 “Kyrie Never Got Better — He’s Always Been Like That”   26:30 23 Free Throws in One Game: G League Record   27:50 First NBA Stint: Boston Celtics Call-Up Story   29:51 Time with the Lakers: Lonzo, Kuzma, Caruso & Summer League Hype   31:15 Lonzo Ball Was Treated Like Michael Jackson   32:13 Playing 48 Minutes in an NBA Game   34:31 Playing Overseas: Culture Shock, Food, and Basketball   37:33 Hardest Countries to Play In (Italy & Qatar)   38:20 MVP of the Italian Cup: Underrated Moment   40:21 Adjusting to Life Abroad as a Pro   40:45 Evolution of Vander Blue’s Game: From Slasher to Shooter   43:07 Advice to Young Hoopers: Focus, Mentors, & Sacrifice   50:20 What’s Next for Vander Blue?   51:10 College Players Now Getting Paid & NBA Roster Trends   53:27 $33 Million Lawsuit: What Really Happened in Dallas   Support the show

    57 min
  6. 11/02/2025

    Stop Waiting for the Right Time ft. Matt Santana | DCL #50

    This episode dives deep with Dallas creative and visionary Matt Santana, covering everything from embracing adversity to the importance of real support. We explore how moving schools shaped him, why he started his podcast, and how he landed an NBA player on his show. Full Video pOdcast on YouTube From Dallas culture and slang to the genius of LaVar Ball, Matt shares unfiltered truths about hustling, networking, and staying true to your “why.” Whether you’re chasing creative dreams, building a business, or just looking for motivation, this conversation will give you the tools and mindset to level up. 📌 Topics Covered: Growing up in Dallas & moving schools often, How adversity builds character, Dallas culture, music, and community, Content creation & building a platform, The real meaning of support, Advice for young artists & creators 🎯 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations on self-improvement, creativity, and culture. Follow Matt Santana on Instagram at mattsantana_ and tiktok at themattsantana  Dallas podcast, Matt Santana interview, Dallas culture, Dallas slang, Dallas music scene, podcasting tips, how to start a podcast, embracing adversity, real support, self improvement, content creation tips, NBA podcast guest, LaVar Ball genius, advice for young artists, Dallas YouTubers, creative hustle, motivational podcast, Texas culture, words are powerful, Dallas come up Time Stamps 00:51 – Living in Dallas, Texas 02:10 – Moving Schools Constantly Growing Up 04:24 – Why I Started My Podcast 07:18 – Who Is Matt Santana? 08:11 – Matt Gives Me My Flowers 08:59 – Dallas Is on the Rise 09:50 – Do What You Hate to Do What You Love 12:10 – Embracing Adversity 13:58 – The Power of Words 18:14 – What REAL Support Looks Like 22:07 – Essentials Every Man Needs 25:06 – How 2K Brings the Guys Together 28:03 – Landing an NBA Player on My Podcast 32:22 – Surviving the Internet 39:50 – Why Content Creation Is Peaking 47:03 – Breaking Down Dallas Lingo 49:54 – Dallas Artists Are Coming Up 56:15 – Starting Your YouTube Channel 01:00:15 – Advice for Young Artists 01:03:21 – Flipping the Switch 01:10:13 – Finding Your Why 01:12:09 – Choosing Between Your Job & Your Dreams 01:16:09 – The Truth About Real Support 01:20:40 – The Genius of LaVar Ball 01:24:50 Final Message   Support the show

    1h 36m

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DCL - Demand Control of Your Life is a podcast hosted by Jaimon Barconia, a mental health professional, Bachelor of Criminal Justice, serial entrepreneur, and motivational speaker. Each episode empowers listeners to take control of their lives, featuring insight and strategies for self-improvement, building a stronger mindset, and achieving success.  Listeners can expect to gain actionable inspiration for cultivating positive habits, overcoming limiting beliefs, and unlocking their full potential. From mindset shifts to practical productivity tips, Demand Control of Your Life provides a roadmap for personal transformation.  Whether you're looking to start a business, boost your career, improve your relationships, or embrace your well-being, this podcast will help you break free from self-doubt and unleash your true potential! Be sure to subscribe to DCL By Jaimon Live on YouTube for Full Video Podcast Episodes!