The Quiet As Kept Podcast With Shawnti Refuge

Shawnti Refuge

Join host Shawnti Refuge, Master Certified Mental Health Coach, author the best-selling book, "Quiet As Kept", and journaling enthusiast, as she introduces The Quiet as Kept Podcast. In this first episode, Shawnti shares her personal journey of overcoming severe depression and anxiety, discusses the purpose of the podcast, and sets the stage for what’s to come. This podcast is a safe space to unpack the conversations we, especially in the African American community, were told to avoid. From mental health and generational trauma to self-love and journaling for healing, Shawnti keeps it real, relatable, and rooted in the belief that healing is possible for everyone. Whether you’re navigating your mental health journey, looking for balance as a professional, or just ready to start thriving, this podcast is for you. Grab your journal and tune in for honest conversations, actionable tips, and guided prompts that will help you rewrite your story.

  1. EPISODE 1

    S2:E1 THE AUDACITY OF A HEALING WOMAN

    In this Women’s History Month episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge unpacks the hidden emotional cost of being the “strong woman.” If you’ve ever been praised for holding it together while quietly falling apart, this episode is for you. We’re talking mental load, suppressed rage, generational trauma, divorce survival mode, and the audacity to heal out loud. 🎯 Join the FREE 5-Day Audacity Challenge 🎯 Enroll in The Audacity of a Healing Woman 🎯 Grab your copy of Quiet as Kept 🎯 Shop guided journals at ShawntiRefugeJournals.com Subscribe. Share. Heal. Send a text Support the show Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website: ShawntiRefuge.com Social media: IG: @shawntirefugejournals FB: Shawnti Refuge Journals TikTok: @shawntijournalbae YouTube: @shawntirefugejournals

    12 min
  2. EPISODE 2

    S2:EP2 Healing Isn’t Pretty: The Rage Women Were Never Allowed to Feel

    Healing Isn’t Pretty: The Rage Women Were Never Allowed to Feel In this Women’s History Month episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores the anger women were taught to suppress and how that suppressed rage often turns into anxiety, burnout, and emotional exhaustion. This episode discusses emotional suppression, boundary setting, and the role anger plays in the healing process. Resources mentioned in this episode: • Guided journals and healing resources  • Quiet as Kept by Shawnti Refuge • The Audacity of a Healing Woman • The Free 5-Day Audacity Challenge Visit ShawntiRefuge.com to learn more. Send a text Support the show Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website: ShawntiRefuge.com Social media: IG: @shawntirefugejournals FB: Shawnti Refuge Journals TikTok: @shawntijournalbae YouTube: @shawntirefugejournals

    11 min
  3. EPISODE 3

    S2:EP3 Mother Wounds, Silent Grief & Becoming the Woman You Needed

    In this Women’s History Month episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores one of the quietest and most complicated forms of grief women carry — the mother wound. What happens when the person who was supposed to nurture you couldn’t?  What does healing look like when your mother is still alive, but the relationship is painful, distant, or unresolved? In this raw conversation, Shawnti discusses emotional neglect, generational trauma, silent grief, and the journey of becoming the nurturing presence you needed growing up. She also shares powerful reflections on reparenting yourself, setting boundaries, and breaking cycles. If you’ve ever struggled with complicated feelings about your mother, this episode will help you put language to emotions many people are afraid to acknowledge. Subscribe to The Quiet As Kept Podcast, share this episode with someone who may need it, and explore Shawnti’s guided journals and healing resources at ShawntiRefuge.com. Send a text Support the show Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website: ShawntiRefuge.com Social media: IG: @shawntirefugejournals FB: Shawnti Refuge Journals TikTok: @shawntijournalbae YouTube: @shawntirefugejournals

    8 min

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Join host Shawnti Refuge, Master Certified Mental Health Coach, author the best-selling book, "Quiet As Kept", and journaling enthusiast, as she introduces The Quiet as Kept Podcast. In this first episode, Shawnti shares her personal journey of overcoming severe depression and anxiety, discusses the purpose of the podcast, and sets the stage for what’s to come. This podcast is a safe space to unpack the conversations we, especially in the African American community, were told to avoid. From mental health and generational trauma to self-love and journaling for healing, Shawnti keeps it real, relatable, and rooted in the belief that healing is possible for everyone. Whether you’re navigating your mental health journey, looking for balance as a professional, or just ready to start thriving, this podcast is for you. Grab your journal and tune in for honest conversations, actionable tips, and guided prompts that will help you rewrite your story.