“Being There: Stories from the Road Where We Keep the Rubber Side Down”

John McCalmont
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There’s a difference between passing through… and truly being there. Being There is a collection of true motorcycle journeys written by my father — stories of open highways, small towns, long miles, unexpected detours, and the kind of moments you only find when you slow down enough to notice them. My father passed away many years ago.But through these writings, his voice still rides. In each episode, I read one of his stories from the road — just as he wrote it — and then I share a personal reflection at the end. What it means to me now. What I hear differently as a son. What time and miles have taught me since he first put those words on paper. These aren’t just ride logs.They’re lessons in presence. In freedom. In risk. In faith. In keeping the rubber side down — on the bike and in life. Ride safe. Be present.And keep the rubber side down.

  1. 1d ago

    A Life Less Ordinary

    30 episodes of Being There, and a little something special to celebrate! I'm proud to share that Being There has won the Silver Award at the 2026 Signal Awards for Most Inspirational Podcast in the Limited Series & Specials category. What started as a way to preserve my father's stories has now reached 30 episodes, and this recognition makes the milestone even more meaningful. For this episode, I read Dad's story "A Life Less Ordinary," originally written for Ride Texas Magazine in 2006. While riding through the Big Bend country of West Texas, Dad and his friends find themselves needing motorcycle parts. What they discover outside Terlingua is much more than a motorcycle shop. Ralph and Tommye Delmar had left their lives in Fort Worth behind to pursue a dream in the desert. They built a business, learned to live off the grid, and created a life that most people might consider anything but ordinary. It wasn't easy, but it was the life they had chosen. Dad recognizes that same spirit in his friends Val and Miguel, who had followed their own vision in creating Ride Texas Magazine. In my commentary, I reflect on the life I've lived. To me, it's always seemed pretty ordinary. But I've come to realize that people who choose a different path probably don't see their lives as unusual. It's the people looking in from the outside who shake their heads and say, "You're crazy!" And maybe that's the point. We each have choices about how we spend our time, what we pursue, and the experiences we want to have. So I encourage you to look back at the life you've lived, and then look ahead at the years still to come. Is this the life you want? Or is there a life a little less ordinary waiting for you? Thank you for being part of these first 30 episodes. I think Dad would have gotten a real kick out of that Silver Award. As Dad wrote, "A life lived a little less ordinary is a life worth living." Send us Fan Mail

    A Life Less Ordinary

  2. Oct 4

    Silent Night

    Can we disagree and still remember that we're all on the same team? In this episode of Being There, I read my father's original, unedited version of Silent Night Dad begins in December 1967. He's a college student working nights at Camp Gary outside San Marcos, riding a Triumph Bonneville because it's the only transportation he has, struggling with his grades, and knowing that school may be the only thing standing between him and Vietnam. Then the snow begins to fall. For a few moments, the noise and fear disappear. Nearly 40 years later, another snowfall takes him back to that night. This time it's 2006, the television is reporting another 200 deaths in Baghdad, and America is fighting another war. Dad finds himself asking whether we ever really learn from our mistakes—and whether anyone has the clarity, truth and courage to lead us out of chaos. Pasted text Reading his words again made me think about something called the Overview Effect—the profound change in perspective described by people who have looked back at Earth from space. From that distance, our borders disappear. Our political divisions disappear. The atmosphere protecting every one of us suddenly looks incredibly thin and fragile. That brought me to William Shatner, one of Dad's favorite actors, and his emotional reaction after finally traveling to space. I couldn't help wondering what Dad and I would have talked about after hearing Shatner describe what he saw. Dad and I didn't always agree politically. In fact, we could debate pretty feverishly. But we could talk. We could disagree. And at the end of the conversation, we still loved each other. I'm not sure we're very good at that anymore. Now that I'm older and thinking less about my own future and more about the world my children will inherit, I find myself looking at these questions differently. Maybe we're not as far apart as we think. Maybe we're simply one crew traveling together on a very small and fragile planet. And if we want this place to live long and prosper, regardless of our politics, we're eventually going to have to figure out how to work together. 🎧 Being There — Episode 29: Silent Night Send us Fan Mail

    Silent Night

  3. Sep 22

    They All Went to Mexico

    In this episode of Being There, I read my father's story "They All Went to Mexico." Dad takes us along on his first motorcycle trip deep into Mexico—a 2,800-mile, 16-day adventure through mountain passes, colonial cities, unfamiliar roads, rain, traffic, and a country that seemed to offer something completely new around every corner. But some of his strongest memories weren't about the roads at all. They were about the people. An unexpected invitation from local motorcyclists in Monclova turned into an evening of cold cerveza, new friendships, and the realization that the language of motorcycles didn't require much translation. As Dad wrote, "When you ride, you are never too far from friends—in any country." In my commentary, I look back at the Mexico my father experienced and wonder how much has changed. There was a freedom to trips like this—crossing the border on a motorcycle and simply exploring—that feels like it came from another time. Is that kind of motorcycle adventure through Mexico still possible today? Is it still safe? Or has the world changed enough that some of these journeys now live mostly in the stories of those who were fortunate enough to experience them? Either way, Dad's story is a reminder of what can happen when you're willing to leave your comfort zone and see what's waiting on the other side. Send us Fan Mail

    They All Went to Mexico

  4. Sep 4

    The Bobber

    Episode 27 – The Bobber In this episode of Being There, I read my father's story "The Bobber," a look back at the summer of 1966 when he and a friend decided to build the ultimate motorcycle. They were college kids without much money—and apparently without much concern that they didn't really know what they were doing. They started with the remains of a 1947 Triumph Speed Twin and a vision. What followed was an education in engines, paint, chrome, broken parts, empty wallets, cold beer, good friends, and the occasional lesson learned the hard way. Eventually, they built their Bobber. It ran. It looked great. And then, in one spectacular moment, it quite literally started throwing pieces of itself down the street. But that's really not what the story is about. In my commentary, I talk about something I know I inherited from my dad: the love of a good project. I love figuring things out, building something, making mistakes, and especially doing it alongside friends. Because when you look back, the finished project isn't always what you remember. You remember the people who were there, the problems you solved, the things that went wrong, and the stories you still laugh about years later. Maybe that's the real journey a man was meant to take. Not simply finishing something—but building it together. Send us Fan Mail

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  5. Aug 23

    Relativity

    In this episode of Being There, I read "Relativity," one of my father's award-winning stories. Written by Gene McCalmont in 2006 for Ride Texas Magazine, "Relativity" went on to earn an award from the Houston Press Club in 2007. Stranded in the Chihuahuan Desert with a flat tire and daylight slowly disappearing, Dad finds himself with something we rarely seem to have enough of—time. Having recently turned 60 and facing serious physical challenges that once threatened to end his motorcycle riding altogether, he reflects on Einstein, aging, the years already behind him, and the choices we make with whatever time remains. What begins with a broken motorcycle becomes an affirmation of life and a deceptively simple question: How do I want to live my life? For my father, the answer was clear. Keep moving. Keep experiencing. Keep living. "Everything is relative. I had made my choice." An award-winning story about time, mortality, and choosing to live the life we have. Send us Fan Mail

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  6. Aug 18

    West of Sanderson

    Twenty-five episodes of Being There. For this milestone episode, I read my father's story "West of Sanderson," written about the beginning of his first motorcycle trip to West Texas in 1967. Three young guys, old motorcycles, very little money, and absolutely no idea what was waiting for them down the road. A stop at a small-town bar, a little pool hustling, a narrow escape, freezing temperatures, and miles of dark West Texas highway somehow added up to something my father would remember and write about decades later. In my commentary, I reflect on something these stories continue to remind me: at the end of the day, we are the sum of our experiences. The trips we take. The mistakes we make. The people we meet. The adventures we share with friends and family. Those moments eventually become our stories, and those stories become part of who we are. So maybe the next time someone asks what you want for your birthday, Christmas, or any special occasion, don't ask for another thing. Ask for time. Time with the people you care about. Time to go somewhere. Time to do something you've never done before. Because someday that experience may become one of the stories you treasure most. Send us Fan Mail

    West of Sanderson

  7. Aug 3

    The Shop

    In this episode of Being There, I read my father's story, "The Shop." On the surface, it's about vintage motorcycles, British iron, and the unforgettable characters who kept those old machines alive. But beneath the grease, oil, and worn concrete floors is something much deeper—a tribute to the places that shape us and the people who make them unforgettable. For my father, the motorcycle shop wasn't just a place to fix a bike. It was where stories were shared, friendships were built, and generations passed along their knowledge, humor, and passion. It was a place where history wasn't displayed—it was alive. In my commentary, I reflect on visiting Big D Triumph with my dad over the years. Shops like that are becoming increasingly rare. They're places filled with endless possibilities, remarkable people, and a craftsmanship that feels like a lost art. Sometimes the best part of a shop isn't what's on the shelves—it's the conversations that happen between them. If you've ever had a favorite place where you simply loved to spend time, I'd love to hear about it in the comments. Send us Fan Mail

    The Shop

  8. Jul 26

    I'm Gonna Remember This...

    What begins as one of the worst riding days imaginable—hours of rain, freezing temperatures, snow at over 10,000 feet, and complete misery—slowly transforms into something entirely different. Somewhere along the ride, my father realizes they aren't simply enduring bad weather. They're living an adventure they'll talk about for years to come. By day's end, one of his riding companions sums it up perfectly: "I'm gonna remember this for a long time." In my commentary, I relive my first ride through a torrential downpour. Along the way, I had an accident, but I got back on the bike and made it home. By the time I had taken off all the wet clothes, I realized I hadn't just endured a miserable day—I had lived an adventure I'll remember for the rest of my life. The best stories aren't always born from perfect days. Sometimes they're created by the moments that challenge us the most—and years later, become the experiences we treasure most. Send us Fan Mail

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There’s a difference between passing through… and truly being there. Being There is a collection of true motorcycle journeys written by my father — stories of open highways, small towns, long miles, unexpected detours, and the kind of moments you only find when you slow down enough to notice them. My father passed away many years ago.But through these writings, his voice still rides. In each episode, I read one of his stories from the road — just as he wrote it — and then I share a personal reflection at the end. What it means to me now. What I hear differently as a son. What time and miles have taught me since he first put those words on paper. These aren’t just ride logs.They’re lessons in presence. In freedom. In risk. In faith. In keeping the rubber side down — on the bike and in life. Ride safe. Be present.And keep the rubber side down.

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