Don't Cook the Messenger

Cullen Jackson and Justin Cook
  • 5.0 (2)
  • Comedy
  • Updated Weekly

Don’t Cook the Messenger is where hot takes meet holy perspective. We say what others are thinking — but filter it through wisdom. From culture and relationships to current conversations and controversial opinions, we bring bold takes, honest dialogue, and a God-centered lens to every topic. We’re not here to argue for attention — we’re here to challenge perspectives. You may not agree. You may feel convicted. But don’t cook the messenger.

  1. Sep 12 ·  Video

    Episode 21

    In this episode, we tackle the difficult balance between compassion, accountability, mental health, and justice. We begin by taking a moment to remember the lives lost on September 11, 2001, as well as the first responders, healthcare workers, and everyday people who displayed incredible courage during one of the darkest days in American history. From there, we break down the concept of toxic empathy—what happens when compassion becomes so extreme that it minimizes responsibility, excuses harmful behavior, or prevents honest conversations about accountability. We also discuss toxic masculinity, healthy empathy, and whether society applies compassion and accountability differently depending on the person involved. The conversation then turns to the Lindsay Clancy case, examining the known details surrounding the tragedy, the role mental illness has played in public discussion, and some of the theories and misconceptions surrounding the case. Throughout the episode, we wrestle with a difficult question: Can we have compassion for someone struggling with severe mental illness while still holding them accountable for the harm they caused? This episode explores where empathy should end, where accountability begins, and how justice can acknowledge mental health without ignoring the victims of a tragedy. TakeawaysWhat toxic empathy is and how it can become harmfulThe difference between healthy empathy and excusing harmful behaviorMental illness and personal accountabilityCompassion versus justiceHow mental health can affect legal responsibilityThe Lindsay Clancy case and common theories surrounding itWhy empathy and accountability do not necessarily have to be oppositesChapters00:00 – Introduction and Episode Topic 02:31 – Remembering 9/11 04:02 – Defining Toxic Empathy and Toxic Masculinity 08:19 – Healthy Empathy and Accountability 23:25 – The Lindsay Clancy Case and Conspiracies 33:58 – Compassion vs. Accountability 43:22 – Mental Health and Justice

  2. Aug 29 ·  Video

    Episode 20

    The episode opens with a lighthearted round of “This or That” before Cullen, Justin, Kristian, and special guest Christian shift into a meaningful conversation: “A Doula’s Perspective on Mothers’ and Fathers’ Rights From Birth to Adulthood.” Christian explains what doulas do, the different types of doula support, and how they provide non-medical, practical, and emotional care through childbirth, postpartum recovery, and other major life transitions. The conversation also explores God’s design for men and women, equal worth alongside distinct callings, and the importance of both parents in a child’s life. Together, the group discusses abortion, parental rights, gender identity, postpartum challenges, and the social and legal factors that shape family dynamics—approaching each topic with compassion, accountability, and a biblical perspective. Takeaways • Doulas provide non-medical emotional, practical, and comfort support during labor, postpartum recovery, and other significant life transitions • Mothers and fathers both have vital roles and responsibilities in a child’s life • Equal worth does not erase the distinct callings God gives men and women • Difficult conversations about abortion require compassion, truth, and accountability • Parental rights, gender identity, and postpartum care affect families in deeply personal ways • Faith should lead to greater understanding and care when addressing sensitive cultural issues Chapters • 00:00 – Introduction and “This or That” • 03:16 – A Doula’s Perspective: What Is a Doula? • 18:06 – The Role of a Doula • 19:47 – God’s Design and Equal Worth • 34:12 – Abortion and Compassion • 49:21 – Abortion and Parental Rights • 52:16 – A Child’s Right to Both Parents • 01:08:00 – Gender Identity and Postpartum Issues

  3. Aug 19

    Episode 19

    Cullen, Justin, Anders, and their guest kick off the episode with a playful round of “Would You Rather?”—weighing absurd survival situations, unpleasant senses, disrupted sleep, and the difficult choice between losing past memories or being unable to form new ones. The conversation then shifts to Southaven’s controversial broken-blinds ordinance, examining the mayor’s response, public criticism, enforcement concerns, and the effect fines and appearance-based policies can have on lower-income residents. Takeaways • A lighthearted “Would You Rather?” game opens the episode with funny and thought-provoking scenarios. • The memory discussion explores identity, relationships, and the value of past versus future experiences. • Southaven’s blinds ordinance raises questions about community standards, fairness, and government micromanagement. • The hosts consider whether fines and enforcement practices disproportionately burden lower-income families. • The discussion addresses the conduct of local leadership, law enforcement, and politicians—and how their decisions affect community trust. Chapters • 00:00 — Introduction and catching up • 01:28 — Would You Rather: Crash landing • 06:28 — Would You Rather: Musty smell vs. sour taste • 08:23 — Would You Rather: Frequent urination vs. interrupted sleep • 12:36 — Memory dilemma: Past vs. future • 21:26 — The blinds ordinance controversy • 26:53 — The mayor’s response and public reaction • 28:34 — Government overreach and the impact on lower-income families • 42:12 — The mayor’s behavior and conduct • 45:11 — The blinds ordinance and fines • 59:02 — Law enforcement and community impact

  4. Aug 8

    Episode 18

    In this episode of the Don’t Cook the Messenger podcast, the hosts engage in a comprehensive discussion and ranking of various Spider-Man movies. They share their insights and opinions on each film, comparing and contrasting its various aspects, including characters, plot, and visual effects. The conversation delves into a detailed analysis of different Spider-Man movies, focusing on character development, plot elements, and the overall impact of each film. The hosts express their opinions on the portrayal of various characters, the significance of key scenes, and the emotional resonance of certain storylines. The discussion also explores the portrayal of Peter Parker’s struggles, the depiction of Spider-Man’s identity, and the ranking of Spider-Verse movies. Additionally, it examines the significance of the Spider-Man soundtrack and the impact of delayed movie releases.. Takeaways Spider-Man movie rankingsComparison of different Spider-Man actors Character developmentImpact of key scenes Identity struggle of Peter ParkerRanking of Spider-Verse movies Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Missing Host00:28 Justin's Absence and Replacement01:26 Discussion of the Spider-Man Movies03:14 Ranking Spider-Man Movies19:21 The Evolution of Spider-Man20:23 Assessment of Spider-Man Movies27:09 The Impact of No Way Home34:25 Brand New Day35:30 The Struggle of Peter Parker44:24 Ranking Spider-Verse Movies

  5. Jul 20

    Episode 17

    summary Join us as we review our first experience at Anime Blues Con, discuss live-action adaptations of anime and other source material, and explore the trends and guidelines for successful cosplay and conventions. In this episode, Justin and Cullen explore the nuances of creative liberties in adaptations, the importance of staying true to source material, and debate the morality of villainous actions in fictional stories. They also discuss popular series like Avatar, Dragon Ball, and Attack on Titan, providing insights into how these stories could be adapted for live action. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 02:08 Our experience at Anime Blues Con 05:00 Meeting cosplayers and community highlights 10:01 Lessons learned from our first con 14:59 Costume and cosplay insights 20:04 Food, merchandise, and event logistics 24:57 Discussion on live action adaptations of anime 29:59 Successes and failures of recent adaptations 35:11 Guidelines for future anime conventions

  6. Jul 9

    Episode 16

    In Episode 16, we’re mashing up nerd culture and apologetics in the best way. In this episode, Justin and Cullen jump into a full‑blown Multiverse Tournament of Power, pulling fighters from across anime and pop culture to see who survives our custom bracket. Expect arguments, upsets, and a lot of “there’s no way they beat that guy. Justin and Cullen analyze and debate the outcomes of various fictional battles from anime, comics, and other media, exploring strengths, weaknesses, and hypothetical matchups. 00:00Welcome Back and Technical Upgrades 02:29Merch and Podcast Updates 05:04Anime Recommendations and Star Wars Debate 07:56Discussion on Takopi's Original Sin 10:52Avatar Series and Upcoming Releases 14:00Bootleg Movies and Streaming Concerns 16:58Tournament of Power: Anime Showdown Begins 19:48My Hero Academia vs. Invincible 23:37Naruto vs. Solo Leveling Showdown 26:01Naruto vs. Sun Jinwoo: A Battle of Universes 29:56Teen Titans vs. Marvel: A Clash of Heroes 33:35Attack on Titan vs. Demon Slayer: Titans vs. Slayers 35:49Invincible vs. Naruto: Power Dynamics Explored 37:31Teen Titans vs. Attack on Titan: Unfair Advantages 39:08Death Note vs. Pokemon: A Battle of Wits 40:03Dragon Ball vs. One Piece: Strength and Strategy 43:35Marvel vs. Kaiju: The Ultimate Showdown 44:23Avatar vs. Jujutsu Kaisen: Bending vs. Curses 45:22Character Matchups and Analysis 47:15Team Dynamics and Strategies 50:09Final Showdown: JJK vs. Invincible 54:05Debating the Outcomes 58:08Conclusion and Future Collaborations

  7. May 30

    Episode 15

    The episode begins with the hosts sharing personal updates, including the birth of Cullen's daughter and the upcoming Father's Day. They introduce their special guest, Dinx the Puppet, who shares his background in social media and Christian content creation. The conversation then transitions to a discussion on free will, with a focus on biblical perspectives and personal experiences. A discussion on faith, denominational differences, and the interpretation of religious texts. The conversation explores the concept of free will, the role of faith in worship, and the impact of denominational traditions on individual beliefs. Takeaways Free will and personal choice are central themes in the discussion, emphasizing the importance of accountability and the consequences of decisions.The hosts and the guest share personal stories and experiences related to their Christian faith, music, and ministry, highlighting the impact of free will and the journey of faith. Denominational differences are often rooted in minor details rather than core values.The concept of free will and its role in religious beliefs is a complex and multifaceted topic. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates19:28 Discussion on Free Will30:13 Denominational Debates and Core Values39:30 Expression of Faith and Worship47:36 Denominational Traditions and Individual Beliefs

  8. Apr 5 ·  Bonus

    Easter Special

    Easter Special Episode: In this lively Easter episode, the hosts kick things off with a fun round of Bible trivia, leaning on live participants for help and sharing plenty of laughs along the way. Justin reveals a shocking and horrifying birthday gift for Cullen, creating one of the most unforgettable moments in the show’s history. The conversation then turns toward the anime Takopi’s Original Sin, as the crew reflects on its intense themes, emotional weight, and connections to mental health. Afterward, they dive into the recent meteor that struck Ohio, unpacking the science, the headlines, and the wild reactions online. The episode wraps up with thoughts on the latest moon mission, using NASA’s Artemis II launch as a springboard to talk about space exploration and humanity’s drive to push beyond Earth Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setup15:00 Bible Trivia and Discussion43:47 Takpoi's Original Sin51:17 Space Exploration and Conspiracy Theories59:04 Ocean Exploration and Space Exploration

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Don’t Cook the Messenger is where hot takes meet holy perspective. We say what others are thinking — but filter it through wisdom. From culture and relationships to current conversations and controversial opinions, we bring bold takes, honest dialogue, and a God-centered lens to every topic. We’re not here to argue for attention — we’re here to challenge perspectives. You may not agree. You may feel convicted. But don’t cook the messenger.

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  • Creator
    Cullen Jackson and Justin Cook
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Cullen Jackson and Justin Cook
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