Laugh or Death with Paul Osincup | Humor, Resilience, Humanity

Paul Osincup: Keynote Speaker

Laugh or Death is a show about finding the humor in everyday life and during our darkest moments. Host Paul Osincup talks with industry leaders, entertainers, and brilliantly imperfect humans to uncover how they use humor to cope, survive, and even thrive. From career setbacks to personal loss, each conversation reveals the surprising, human, and often hilarious ways laughter builds resilience. Equal parts heart and humor, Laugh or Death is a reminder that sometimes the best way to face life's gravity, is with levity. www.paulosincup.com

  1. 5d ago

    19. I Won a Stand-Up Comedy Competition… Then Slowly Lost My Sense of Humor

    What happens when you win a stand-up comedy competition… and then slowly lose your sense of humor? In this solo episode of Laugh or Death, I'm sharing the story behind the two framed comedy posters hanging in my studio. They're from two stand-up competitions I won 23 years apart. But honestly, this episode isn't really about winning. It's about everything that happened in between. When I was 23, I was in graduate school, stressed out, overworked, and taking life way too seriously. Comedy became one of the things that helped me get through it. I tried stand-up for the first time at a house party, started doing open mics, and eventually won a local comedy competition in Denver. And then I made the mistake of deciding I needed to take comedy VERY seriously. Which, looking back, is kind of the fastest way to ruin comedy. I started overthinking every joke. A bad set could completely derail me. I stopped enjoying the process. Eventually, I quit doing comedy altogether… and I even stopped watching it because I couldn't stop comparing myself to other people. I had completely lost the plot. Over the years, I started realizing that humor wasn't just something I enjoyed. It was actually an important part of my mental health and wellbeing. Through therapy, research, improv, working with students, and a few ridiculous real-life moments — including spilling an entire Dr Pepper on my pants before a serious meeting — I learned that carrying yourself a little more lightly can change everything. In this episode, I also talk about the way humor helped me through hard seasons, including COVID, losing most of what we owned in a house fire, and moving somewhere new without an established community. Eventually, I found my way back to improv, stand-up comedy, and a much healthier relationship with laughter. This time, I wasn't trying to prove anything. I close the episode with a few lessons I wish I could go back and give my 23-year-old self: Your competition may actually be your community. Stop comparing your insides to other people's outsides. Don't live your life like an actor in a drama only to reach the end and realize you were the director… and it could have been a comedy. If you've ever taken life, work, or even something you love way too seriously… this episode is for you. And here's a line I keep coming back to: "You don't stop laughing because you get old. You get old because you stop laughing." 🎙 Listen to the full episode of Laugh or Death with Paul Osincup wherever you get your podcasts.   Links: If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit   Episode Minute-By-Minute: 00:00 – Winning two comedy competitions 23 years apart 01:15 – Why Paul hates stand-up comedy competitions 02:15 – Graduate school, stress & discovering stand-up 03:45 – Paul's first stand-up set at a house party 05:20 – The Crocodile Hunter joke that somehow worked 06:15 – When comedy became too serious 07:15 – Bombing at a pizza-place open mic 08:00 – Quitting comedy and losing the plot 09:00 – Why even watching comedy became difficult 10:00 – Therapy, Colorado & rediscovering levity 11:00 – The science behind humor and wellbeing 12:00 – Why humor is like exercise 13:30 – How improv helped Paul stop overthinking 14:15 – Taking another serious job too seriously 15:15 – Realizing he could not bottle up who he was 16:00 – Becoming better at work by becoming lighter 18:00 – Humor as an olive branch 19:45 – Fake tattoos, eyeliner & staying sane 20:30 – Finding community through comedy in Montana 21:30 – Returning to stand-up without taking it too seriously 22:15 – Winning Montana's Funniest Person 24:00 – Three lessons for his 23-year-old self 24:30 – Your competition might be your community 26:00 – Stop comparing your insides to other people's outsides 27:00 – Chronic seriousness & the comedy IV drip 28:30 – You do not stop laughing because you get old

    30 min
  2. May 27

    18. Humor in the C-Suite: How a Credit Union CEO Uses Authenticity to Build Culture (Sequins Not Required…But Recommended)

    What does leadership look like when the CEO shows up in a bright red sequin jacket quoting Biggie Smalls? In this episode of Laugh or Death, Paul sits down with Mike Wilson, President and CEO of Members 1st Credit Union, to talk about leadership, culture, humor, and why authenticity matters more than pretending to be perfect. Mike oversees an organization with more than 1,300 employees and over 630,000 members, but what stood out most to Paul wasn't just the growth of the company… it was the culture. After being invited to speak at Members 1st's all-staff rally — where every branch across Pennsylvania shut down for the day so the entire team could gather together — Paul witnessed something rare: employees who genuinely seemed excited to be there. Between wellness fairs, parody commercials made by staff, hip-hop references, and Mike's now-famous red sequin jacket, the event felt less like a corporate obligation and more like a community gathering built around purpose, humor, and connection. Mike shares how his unconventional leadership style developed from humble beginnings. Raised in a military family, moving constantly, and supporting himself through school, he learned early on the importance of empathy, adaptability, and creating spaces where people feel seen. That perspective now shapes how he leads Members 1st, where the philosophy is simple: take care of your employees first, and they'll take care of the members. Paul and Mike also dive into the growing importance of authenticity in leadership. From discussing psychological safety in the workplace to balancing professionalism with personality, this conversation explores how humor can actually strengthen trust, improve communication, and help teams thrive — even in serious industries like banking and finance. Along the way, there's plenty of laughter too: conversations about 90s hip-hop, karaoke, Dr. Dre, rap battles between credit union CEOs, AI, leadership pressure, imposter syndrome, and why "Culture of We" became the heartbeat of the organization. If you've ever wondered whether you can lead seriously without taking yourself too seriously… this episode is for you.   Links: FREE GIFT! Download the Fun Over Funny Guide For Leaders!  https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift  If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit All Links For Paul: https://stan.store/PaulOsincup    Episode Minute-By-Minute: 00:00 – Meet Mike Wilson, CEO of Members 1st Credit Union 01:10 – Biggie Smalls, rescue dogs & 90s hip-hop 02:45 – The red sequin jacket story 04:20 – Building a "Culture of We" 06:00 – Why authenticity matters in leadership 07:00 – Escaping traditional corporate culture 08:30 – Psychological safety in the workplace 10:00 – Happy employees create happy members 11:00 – Growing up in a military family 13:00 – Why credit unions matter to communities 15:00 – Humor in leadership & workplace culture 16:30 – Why Members 1st hired Paul to speak 17:30 – Wellness, purpose & employee engagement 19:30 – Culture by design vs culture by default 21:00 – Funny employee commercials & leadership buy-in 22:00 – Why leaders need to "play along" 23:00 – Rap battles between credit union CEOs? 24:00 – Mike's GOAT rapper debate 26:00 – Leading through rapid growth & change 27:00 – Transparency as a leadership tool 28:00 – AI, technology & critical thinking 30:00 – The human side of banking 32:00 – Humor, humanity & helping people 33:00 – Imposter syndrome as a CEO 36:00 – Leadership pressure & finding balance 37:00 – Why culture drives business success 39:00 – Empathy in leadership 40:00 – "Easy We Records" & final laughs

    42 min
  3. May 20

    17. A 61-Year-Old Republican Congressman Walks Into a Liberal Harvard Dorm… From Congress, Comedy, to Harvard: A Conversation with Ric Keller

    What happens when a 61-year-old former Republican Congressman moves into a Harvard dorm surrounded by students young enough to be his grandchildren? According to Ric Keller… a lot of unexpected connection, comedy, and surprisingly hopeful conversations. In this episode of Laugh or Death, Paul sits down with speaker, lawyer, TEDx presenter, and former U.S. Congressman Ric Keller for a conversation about humor, humility, politics, and why self-deprecating humor might be one of the most powerful leadership tools we have. Ric shares the story behind his viral TikTok documenting life as a 61-year-old graduate student living in a Harvard dorm room with no car, no cable TV, and no private bathroom. What started as a joke from his daughter ("The Rise and Fall of Ric Keller") turned into an experiment in human connection. Instead of staying in political bubbles, Ric intentionally spent a year disconnecting from cable news and connecting face-to-face with people who think differently than he does. The conversation dives into everything from stand-up comedy and psychological safety to leadership, relationships, and how humor helped Ric win a seat in Congress against impossible odds. Paul and Ric also explore why vulnerability and authenticity matter more than perfection — especially in today's social media-driven world. Ric opens up about his upcoming book Disagree Better, the lessons he learned as a trial lawyer and politician, and why listening to understand (instead of listening to win) completely changes conversations. Along the way, there are stories about Harvard comedy clubs, motorcycle rallies, "girly drinks," viral TikToks, and why spending time with people different from you might be the antidote to modern division. If you've ever felt burned out by outrage culture, exhausted by politics, or just needed a reminder that humans have more in common than we think… this episode is for you. And yes… there's also a story about getting fired from Wendy's.   Links: Connect with Ric on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ric-keller-866a05118 Watch Ric' TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xiX85UzI86Y    FREE GIFT! Download the Fun Over Funny Guide For Leaders!  https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift    If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit   Episode Minute-By-Minute: 00:00 – Meet Ric Keller: Former Congressman, TEDx Speaker & Harvard Dorm Resident 01:00 – Ric's obsession with commencement speeches 03:00 – Living in a Harvard dorm at 61 years old 04:00 – A Republican's experiment at liberal Harvard 05:00 – Joining Harvard's stand-up comedy club 07:00 – Why adults still crave belonging 08:00 – The 19-year-old mentor who changed Ric's TEDx Talk 10:00 – Listening to understand vs. listening to win 12:00 – The emotional story that led Ric to Congress 14:00 – How humor helped him win a congressional race 16:00 – Creating psychological safety through humor 18:00 – Why vulnerability builds trust 21:00 – Cable news, social media & outrage culture 24:00 – Comedy, cancel culture & free speech 28:00 – Corporate humor vs. stand-up comedy 31:00 – Why Ric went back to school at Harvard 33:00 – Writing the book Disagree Better 37:00 – The LAW framework for better conversations 39:00 – Why apologies are underrated 40:00 – Self-deprecating humor at work 42:00 – Why Ric avoids partisan comedy 44:00 – The viral Harvard dorm TikTok 47:00 – Why Ric is optimistic about humanity 48:00 – What all humans actually have in common What's funny is that this episode proves humor isn't just entertainment — it's one of the fastest ways to build trust, lower defenses, and remind people they're more alike than different. 🎙️ Laugh or Death is a podcast hosted by Paul Osincup exploring how humor, resilience, and human connection help us navigate life's hardest moments. Through conversations with comedians, creators, speakers, and everyday people with incredible stories, Paul uncovers the power of laughter to bring people together — even in the middle of chaos.

    51 min
  4. May 13

    16. She Beat Her Daughter at TikTok… Then Accidentally Became a Comedian | Kimmi Kaiy

    What starts as a joke between a mother and daughter… can apparently turn into millions of followers and a career in stand-up comedy. In this episode of Laugh or Death, Paul sits down with content creator and comedian Kimmi Kaiy to talk about her unexpected journey from posting dark humor videos on TikTok to performing live stand-up comedy in front of packed crowds. What began as a playful challenge with her daughter quickly exploded online, with Kimmi building a massive audience through relatable dark humor, honesty, and a style that connected deeply with people going through difficult seasons in life. Kimmi opens up about the strange world of internet fame, dealing with criticism online, and why dark humor resonates so strongly with people who have experienced pain, anxiety, depression, or hardship. Rather than seeing humor as offensive, she explains how laughter can actually disarm difficult situations and give people the psychological distance they need to cope and heal. The conversation dives into the surprising emotional connection people form through comedy and how humor can become a form of resilience. The episode also explores Kimmi's transition into stand-up comedy—a move she never originally planned to make. After performing her first five-minute set "just to try it once," she immediately fell in love with the adrenaline, connection, and energy of live audiences. Paul and Kimmi talk honestly about bombing on stage, social anxiety, crowd work, hecklers, and the emotional highs and lows that come with comedy. Along the way, the two swap stories about social media culture, the weirdness of online comments, Minecraft obsessions, crowd work trends, and how comedy changes depending on who's telling the joke. Kimmi also shares how reading Paul's book The Humor Habit helped her through a difficult season and even inspired a new "laugh jar" ritual in her home with her daughter. This episode is funny, thoughtful, brutally honest, and full of insight into why people laugh at the darkest things—and why sometimes, that laughter is exactly what helps them survive. PS!  One of my favorite parts of this conversation was hearing how The Humor Habit helped Kimmi and her daughter create more laughter at home. 🎧 Grab the audiobook here: Listen to The Humor Habit Audiobook Links: Downloads the FREE Fun Over Funny Guide for Leaders: https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift All Links For Paul: https://stan.store/PaulOsincup If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit   Guest Links: TikTok: Kimmi Kaiy on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@kimmi.kaiy?_r=1&_t=ZN-91FnMne4oT8  Instagram: Kimmi Kaiy (@kimmi.kaiy) • Instagram profile https://www.instagram.com/kimmi.kaiy?igsh=MWYzMDdjdW5ka2lseg%3D%3D  Facebook: Kimmi Kaiy: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091805300931&rdid=3lgRbZL6EklZ47j1&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F15NHEU8feXN%2F#  YouTube: Kimmi Kaiy http://youtube.com/@kimmi_kaiy?si=x2lkPtNViPv6cZSv   Episode Minute-By-Minute: 0:00 – Intro: Meet Kimmi Kaiy 1:00 – Minecraft obsession & escaping reality 2:15 – The TikTok bet with her daughter 3:30 – Viral dark humor videos & millions of views 4:45 – Why she stopped reposting jokes online 6:00 – Trying stand-up comedy for the first time 7:30 – The adrenaline of getting your first laugh 9:00 – Bombing on stage & comedy highs/lows 11:00 – Social anxiety vs performing on stage 12:30 – Why dark humor helps people cope 15:00 – Joking about difficult topics responsibly 16:30 – Dreaming comedy jokes in her sleep 😂 18:00 – Crowd work, hecklers & comedy trends 20:00 – Matt Rife, viral crowd work & social media comedy 21:30 – Looking sweet while telling dark jokes 23:00 – Her favorite audience "bait and switch" joke 25:00 – Motherhood, social media & balancing everything 27:00 – How Kimmi found Paul's book The Humor Habit 29:00 – The good and bad sides of social media 31:00 – Online laughs vs in-person laughs 33:00 – What comedy taught Kimmi about herself 35:00 – Becoming a "real comedian" & final thoughts

    38 min
  5. May 6

    15. You're One Funny Mother! Humor, Healing & Mom Life with Mallori DeSalle

    Motherhood is messy. Life is unpredictable. And sometimes… the only thing left to do is laugh. In this episode of Laugh or Death, Paul sits down with humorist, therapist, and speaker Mallori DeSalle for a real, honest, and often hilarious conversation about what it looks like to use humor in the middle of real life—not just the highlight reel. From raising kids to navigating hard seasons, Mallori shares how humor isn't about being "on" all the time—it's about being present. Whether it's using improv principles like "yes, and," connecting through dark humor with her kids, or simply showing up as a safe space for expression, she reveals how laughter can build trust, resilience, and connection in ways nothing else can. The conversation also dives into how humor shows up differently across generations—especially in the age of memes, where humor has become a primary language for expressing emotion. Instead of shutting it down, Mallori leans in, using humor as a window into what people are really feeling beneath the surface. You'll also hear practical insights on how to bring more humor into everyday life—without forcing it. From being a "generous audience" to creating environments where people feel safe enough to laugh, this episode is packed with simple but powerful shifts that can transform relationships at home and beyond. This one is equal parts funny, real, and surprisingly meaningful. Links: Downloads the FREE Fun Over Funny Guide for Leaders: https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift All Links For Paul: https://stan.store/PaulOsincup If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit   Links for this episode:  Website: MalloriDeSalle.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mallori-desalle-4918378/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mdesalle Episode Minute-By-Minute: 0:00 – Intro: Meet Mallori DeSalle 1:00 – Oreo obsession & starting with humor 4:30 – Balancing therapy, humor, and motherhood 8:00 – Improv mindset: "Yes, and" in real life 12:00 – Finding humor in hard moments & resilience 17:00 – Real-life struggles (health, family, life chaos) 23:00 – Parenting through humor (and when kids don't think you're funny) 26:00 – Dark humor, memes & emotional expression 29:00 – Humor as a generational language 31:00 – Be a "generous audience" (powerful shift) 34:30 – Turning hard moments into humor (tools & games) 41:00 – Do your kids actually think you're funny? 😂 44:00 – Final thoughts + why humor matters in real life

    46 min
  6. Apr 29

    14. The Fire Took (Almost) Everything… and We Still Laughed: How Laughter Helped Us Cope Through a Wildfire

    What do you do when you lose almost everything? For my wife Kelly and me… we laughed. Not at the situation—because it was awful. But through it. In this episode of Laugh or Death, I'm sharing the real story of what happened when a wildfire hit our home in Montana… just five months after we moved in. We had just finished unpacking. We were giving a house tour to family. And within minutes… the entire mountain behind us was on fire. What followed was evacuation, uncertainty, smoke damage, and ultimately losing almost everything we owned. But in the middle of all that…There were moments of laughter. We laughed at ridiculous things—like the view firefighters had of our house (I'll explain 😅), the absurdity of what people grab when they evacuate, and even stories shared by others in our community who were going through the same thing. Because here's what I've learned: Humor doesn't mean something isn't serious. It means your brain is taking a break from it. In this episode, I share: Our firsthand wildfire story (from "dream home" to total loss) Real moments of humor that helped us cope Stories from other wildfire victims finding levity in chaos Why laughter creates psychological distance from trauma And how humor can actually build resilience in the hardest moments One of the most powerful takeaways? You don't have to feel guilty for laughing through something you didn't ask for. Sometimes laughter isn't about making things lighter…it's about making them survivable. If you're going through something hard—or have ever wondered how humor fits into real life, not just the good moments—this episode is for you. Links: Downloads the FREE Fun Over Funny Guide for Leaders: https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift All Links For Paul: https://stan.store/PaulOsincup If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit   Episode Minute-By-Minute: 00:00 – We Lost Everything… and Still Laughed 01:00 – Moving to Our Dream Home in Montana 02:00 – The Moment the Wildfire Started 03:00 – Evacuating With Minutes to Spare 04:00 – "Your House Is Still There… Wait, It's On Fire" 05:00 – Smoke Damage and Losing Everything 06:00 – Using Humor in the Middle of Frustration 07:00 – The "Horses in the Window" Story 😅 08:30 – A Previous Wildfire Experience in California 09:30 – Humor in Evacuation (Kids, Masks, and Reality) 10:30 – What People Grab When They Evacuate (Hilarious) 12:00 – Why Laughter Helps During Trauma 13:30 – Holiday Photos in the Ashes (Powerful Story) 15:00 – Shared Laughter as a Signal of Hope 16:00 – Wildfire Survivor Stories (Incredible Moments) 17:00 – The "Fully Cooked Turkey" Story 18:30 – Finding Gratitude in Loss 19:30 – The Bra Underwire Story (Yes… really) 20:30 – Is It Okay to Laugh During Tragedy? 21:30 – Life After the Fire (Tiny House + Rebuild) 22:30 – What Humor Really Represents: Resilience 23:30 – Final Thoughts: Laugh Through It

    23 min
  7. Apr 22

    13. Humor, Hope, and Honest Conversations: What Laughter Teaches Us About Life and Leadership with Dani Klein Modisett

    What if humor isn't about being the funniest person in the room… but about helping people feel less alone? In this episode of Laugh or Death, I sat down with Dani Klein Modisett—founder of Laughter On Call, comedian, author, and someone who's spent years bringing laughter into some of the most unexpected places… including healthcare, senior living, and even end-of-life care. And honestly? This conversation goes way deeper than comedy. We kick things off talking about Dani's background in acting and stand-up (including some wild Hollywood moments), but quickly move into something much more meaningful—how humor shows up in real life. Not the polished, stage-ready kind… but the kind that helps people cope, connect, and keep going when things get hard. One of the most powerful parts of this episode is Dani's story about her mom's Alzheimer's diagnosis. It completely shifted how she viewed humor—not as performance, but as connection. That realization is what ultimately led her to build Laughter On Call, a company focused on bringing joy, presence, and human connection into environments that need it most. We also talk about something I think every leader needs to hear: You don't need to be funny to create a culture of humor. In fact, trying too hard to "be funny" is usually what backfires. Instead, it's about creating an environment where people feel safe, seen, and human. Because when that happens… laughter naturally follows. We also get into: Why humor is really about truth, not jokes How comedians "mine" difficult moments for meaning The role of leadership in shaping workplace culture Why people avoid showing up for others—and how to change that And one simple mindset shift that can immediately bring more lightness into your life Dani also shares a powerful perspective I won't forget: Humor is a sign of hope. And when you start to see it that way… everything changes. If you've ever wondered how to bring more connection, more meaning, and yes—more laughter into your life or your work… this is an episode you don't want to miss. Links: Downloads the FREE Fun Over Funny Guide for Leaders: https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift  All Links For Paul: https://stan.store/PaulOsincup  If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit   Episode Minute-By-Minute: 00:00 – Intro: Meet Dani Klein Modisett 01:00 – "Something Weird About You" (Love Is Blind + human behavior) 03:00 – Relationships, communication, and why we're fascinated by couples 04:30 – Dani's first acting roles (yes… including a cult 😅) 06:30 – Wild Hollywood moments (Las Vegas, Law & Order, and more) 10:00 – The subtle genius of comedy (John Cleese moment) 11:00 – From performing to teaching humor 12:00 – How Dani's mom shaped her perspective on laughter 14:30 – The real purpose of Laughter On Call 15:30 – What COVID revealed about loneliness and connection 17:30 – Humor at work: why most companies get it wrong 18:30 – The hardest audience (and why it's actually the best one) 20:00 – How to create psychological safety with humor 22:00 – Leadership's role in culture (top-down impact) 24:00 – Phones, attention, and engaging modern audiences 26:00 – Humor in hard moments (powerful personal stories) 28:00 – Grief, caregiving, and unexpected laughter 30:00 – Why showing up matters more than saying the right thing 33:00 – The biggest regret people have at the end of life 35:00 – Why we all need more laughter (and less pressure) 36:00 – How comedians find humor in real life 38:00 – "Don't focus on what's funny—focus on what's true" 41:00 – Practical ways to bring more laughter into your life 43:00 – Final takeaway: humor = hope 44:30 – Outro + where to find Dani

    46 min
  8. Apr 15

    12. Humor at Work: How to Create a Culture of FUN! (LAFTER Framework Part 2)

    What if the difference between a good workplace… and a great one… was something surprisingly simple? Fun. Downloads the FREE Fun Over Funny Guide for Leaders: https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift  In this episode of Laugh or Death, Paul picks up where he left off in Episode 10 and continues breaking down his LAFTER framework—a practical model for using humor to build stronger, healthier workplace cultures. And this one starts with a stat that's hard to ignore: In a study of nearly 1.2 million employees, the number one factor that moved a workplace from "good" to "great" wasn't perks, pay, or flexibility… It was whether people felt like they worked in a fun environment. From there, Paul walks through the next steps in the LAFTER model—focusing on how leaders and teams can actually create that kind of environment (without turning into the office comedian). He breaks down: Why you don't have to be funny to use humor at work How to "ask for help" by tapping into naturally funny people on your team The difference between fun vs funny (and why it matters more than you think) How organizations can tell the story of their culture through hiring, interviews, and social media Why humor has to be earned through trust, reliability, and respect And how simple, consistent rituals create real culture (not just once-a-year events) One of the biggest takeaways? You don't build a fun culture by trying to be hilarious… You build it by creating an environment where fun can naturally happen. This episode is packed with practical ideas—from adding humor to meetings and presentations to creating small daily rituals that make work feel lighter and more human. If you want a team that's more engaged, more connected, and actually enjoys showing up… This is where it starts.  Links: Downloads the FREE Fun Over Funny Guide for Leaders: https://www.paulosincup.com/freegift  All Links For Paul: https://stan.store/PaulOsincup  If you enjoyed this episode and want to build your own humor habit, make sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little more levity in their life. To learn more about Paul's work, book him for speaking engagements, or explore the science behind humor and resilience, visit: 👉 https://www.paulosincup.com You can also dive deeper into the tools discussed in this episode in Paul's book: 👉 The Humor Habit   Episode Minute-By-Minute: 00:00 – Why Fun Matters at Work (The Research) 01:30 – From Good to Great: The Role of Fun 03:00 – The LAFTER Framework Overview 04:30 – A = Ask for Help 06:00 – You Don't Have to Be Funny 08:00 – Using Humor in Meetings and Presentations 10:00 – Letting "Company Comics" Lead the Way 12:00 – F = Fun Over Funny 14:00 – Why Fun Creates Natural Humor 16:00 – Avoiding "Trying Too Hard" at Work 18:00 – T = Tell Your Story 20:00 – Hiring for Humor and Culture Fit 22:00 – Using Job Descriptions and Interviews 24:00 – Social Media and Brand Personality 26:00 – E = Earn It 28:00 – Why Trust Comes Before Humor 30:00 – Safe vs Risky Humor at Work 32:00 – R = Rituals 34:00 – Why Big Events Don't Build Culture 36:00 – Daily, Weekly, Monthly Ritual Ideas

    32 min
5
out of 5
15 Ratings

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Laugh or Death is a show about finding the humor in everyday life and during our darkest moments. Host Paul Osincup talks with industry leaders, entertainers, and brilliantly imperfect humans to uncover how they use humor to cope, survive, and even thrive. From career setbacks to personal loss, each conversation reveals the surprising, human, and often hilarious ways laughter builds resilience. Equal parts heart and humor, Laugh or Death is a reminder that sometimes the best way to face life's gravity, is with levity. www.paulosincup.com

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