Cali On The Rocks Podcast

Anastacia Milani and Jennifer Marie

Shit gets rocky, but we sip anyway. 🥂 Welcome to Cali on the Rocks with ya girls Anastacia Milani & Jennifer Marie— where millennial women unpack friendships, relationships, sex, family, and all the hot topics in between… one drink at a time. The conversations might get rocky, but that’s exactly how we like them. Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  1. 6d ago

    Twenty Fourth Sip/Episode: The Soft Life Is NOT Just Pilates & Matcha 🍵 | A Nipsey Hussle Tribute 💙🏁

    This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re pouring it up in honor of the late, great Nipsey Hussle. 💙🏁 We popped open a bottle of Belaire Bleu, raised our glasses, and dedicated this episode to The Marathon. We kick things off with our weekly check-in before getting into some new music, including Lost Girl, Loe Shimmy, and Pooh Shiesty’s latest albums. 🎶 Then we get into our first topic and ask the question: Is Pilates, matcha, and buying yourself flowers REALLY the definition of a “soft life”?! Because who made that rule?! 😂 We talk about what living a soft life actually means to us and whether social media has completely redefined the phrase. In our Take 10, we have a bone to pick with one of our favorite podcasts because apparently now the girlies can’t even wear kitten heels?! 😭 We also get into the question: Why aren’t the girlies giving 90s fine anymore? Have fillers, BBLs, and the pressure to look a certain way changed what we consider beautiful? And then we close the episode with a special tribute to Nipsey Hussle. 💙🏁 With his birthday approaching, we wanted to take a moment to talk about what Nipsey meant to us, what he represented to the Black community, what he contributed to hip-hop and California culture, and the legacy he left behind. From his music and entrepreneurship to his commitment to his community and his philosophy of building something that lasts, we celebrate the man behind The Marathon and the impact he continues to have. The Marathon Continues. 🏁💙 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  2. Aug 7

    Twenty Third Sip/Episode: Bedazzled Divas + Pick Me’s | Should Men W/o Kids Be For Women W/o Kids?

    This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re back sipping on Cutwaters… and hopefully for the LAST time because these things have us completely out of control! 😂🍸 We kick things off with our weekly check-in before getting into some of the newest music releases from Cardi B, Meek Mill, and Wale, and of course, we had opinions. Then the episode takes a hilarious turn as we somehow end up discussing today’s “bedazzled divas” 😂 and all the chaos that comes with modern dating and pop culture. In our Take 10, we react to Jim Jones’ comments about women having to “put in” if they want to be in his section at the club. Is he making a valid point, or is this another example of unrealistic dating expectations? We also dive into some of our favorite debates: • Should men without children be dating women without children? • What actually makes someone a “pick me”? • And… are people really financing BBLs through Klarna and Affirm now?! 😳 As always, the conversations go left, the opinions are unfiltered, and we somehow end up laughing through it all. Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 ✨ New episodes every Friday! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! We want to hear from you: • Are men becoming “bedazzled divas”? 😂 • Should child-free men and women only date each other? • And where do you stand on financing cosmetic surgery? **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  3. Jul 31

    Twenty Second Sip/Episode: If It’s Not A Hard Yes, It’s Always A No 🥺🥂

    This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re switching things up with Cutwater Mango Margaritas… and let’s just say these had us feeling REAL good. 😂🍹 We kick off the episode with our weekly recap, catching y’all up on everything we’ve been up to before jumping into the YG vs. The Game Verzuz conversation. Did California show up the way it was supposed to? We break down our favorite moments and give our honest thoughts on how the West Coast was represented. 🅱️ In our Take 10 segment, we discuss JT’s interview where she called Kim Kardashian the ultimate “It Girl.” Do we agree? Is Kim really the blueprint, or does someone else deserve the crown? 👀 Then we dive into our biggest conversation of the episode: “If It’s Not a Hard Yes, It’s Always a No.” Whether it’s relationships, friendships, career moves, or simply trusting your gut, we talk about why settling for uncertainty can cost you your peace. This conversation really hit home for Jenn, and let’s just say… emotions were involved. 🥺❤️ Grab your favorite drink and join the conversation because this episode gets real. Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  4. Jul 24

    Twenty First Sip/ Episode: NYC Recap + Jay Z’s Extra Innings + Hot Topics

    We’re back from NYC! 🗽🍸 This week on Cali on the Rocks, we had one lonely Cutwater Espresso Martini left, so of course… we had to drink it. 😂 Cheers to making it work! This episode is a little different because we’re fresh off vacation and couldn’t wait to tell y’all all about our trip to New York City. We spend most of the episode recapping our unforgettable experience at Jay-Z’s Extra Innings, sharing our favorite moments, funny stories, and everything that made the trip one to remember. Then we jump into our Take 10 segment to discuss rapper Trim and the ongoing conversation around paying homage in hip-hop. Does every female rapper have to acknowledge Nicki Minaj, or is it okay to carve your own lane without constantly giving credit? We share our unfiltered thoughts, but you’ll have to tune in to hear where we stand. 👀 Whether you’re here for the travel stories, the laughs, or the hot takes, we’ve got you covered. Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  5. Jul 17

    Twentieth Sip/Episode: Does He Have To Ask You Out? | Do Nice Guys Finish Last? | Future’s New Album

    Welcome back to Cali on the Rocks! 🍸 Plot twist… there are no drinks this episode! 😂 We’re currently out of town on vacation, so we had to record two episodes back-to-back, and let’s be honest… two Cutwaters in one recording session would’ve been a little too ambitious. 😅 This week, Jenn kicks things off with a dating question that always sparks debate: Does a man have to officially ask you out on a date or ask you to be his girlfriend? Or are you okay with just going with the flow? Are labels still important, or do actions speak louder than words? We break down our thoughts and share our own perspectives. In our Take 10 segment, we talk about Future’s latest album and react to comments from Gizelle Bryant about how women can experience different levels of feelings depending on who they’re dating. We get into whether there’s truth behind that idea and what it says about modern relationships. To wrap things up, we tackle another classic dating debate: Do nice guys really finish last? Are genuinely kind men being overlooked, or is there more to the story? We share our honest opinions, personal experiences, and, as always, we want to hear yours! Drop your thoughts in the comments—we’re reading them all! 👇 Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  6. Jul 10

    Nineteenth Sip/Episode: Is It Easier to Find A Good Man or a Good Woman? | Boss Women + BET Awards

    This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re back sipping on our favorite Cutwater (at this point… where’s our sponsorship? 🤣🍸). We kick things off by recapping our week and talking about the BET Awards, including some of our favorite looks from the night. Then we dive into our first topic: the era of the “Boss Woman.” Are women really leveling up and taking over, or has the term taken on a whole new meaning? We share our thoughts on ambition, independence, relationships, and what being a “boss woman” looks like today. In our Take 10, we discuss the criticism from India Arie and Nicci Gilbert surrounding Yung Miami’s “Spend Dat” and the ongoing conversation about music, messaging, and women in the industry. We also get into the Chloe Bailey situation after she revealed she found hair ties at her man’s place but chose to stay and cuddle anyway… whew! 👀 To close out the episode, we tackle one of our biggest relationship debates yet: Is it easier for men to find a good woman… or for women to find a good man? We’re giving our honest opinions, sharing our experiences, and we definitely want to hear what y’all think. As always, we’re keeping it real, having a few laughs, and reminding y’all… Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  7. Jul 3

    Eighteenth Sip/Episode: Is It A Flex To Be 30+ With No Kids? | Simps & Tricking | Friendship Loyalty

    This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re back with our go-to Cutwater Long Island Iced Tea 🍸 because at this point… it’s part of the family. 😂 We waste no time jumping into our first topic: what happens when one of your friends stops being friends with someone in the group? Are you expected to cut that person off too, or can you stay neutral and maintain your own friendships? 👀 In our Take 10, we get into the debate surrounding tricking vs. being a simp. Why do some people think that courting a woman, planning dates, and showing genuine interest automatically makes a man a simp? Is chivalry getting confused with tricking? We had a lot to say! Then we discuss the conversation surrounding North West attending Paris Fashion Week and why it felt uncomfortable seeing so many grown men approaching her for hugs and photos while she’s still just a young teenager. To wrap up the episode, we settle one of our favorite debates: Is it a flex to be 30+ with no kids? 😝 The girls definitely had opinions, and let’s just say… we’re standing on what we said! As always, we’re bringing the laughs, the honesty, and the conversations that get a little rocky. Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  8. Jun 26

    Seventeenth Sip/Episode: Stop Being A HATERRRRR 🤣🍑 | Birthday Bellini’s & Juneteenth Recap |

    Happy Birthday to our girl Anastacia!! 🥳🎉 This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re celebrating our amazing co-host’s birthday the only way we know how… with a delicious Peach Bellini! 🍑🥂 Made with Bacardi Rum, Prosecco, Peach Schnapps, blended peaches, and topped off with Sangria… trust us, this one is definitely worth trying! After catching up on our week, we jump right into Take 10, where we break down the Pretty Ricky vs. B2K Verzuz and give our thoughts on who really came out on top. Then we recap our Juneteenth weekend, and let’s just say… your girls had a B A L L! From great vibes to meeting a true girl’s girl, we share all the highlights before talking about what’s in store for Anastacia’s birthday celebration. To close out the episode, we dive into our main topic: “Stop being a fin’ HATERRRRR!”* 😂 Why are people so comfortable rooting against others instead of celebrating them? We talk about jealousy, supporting one another, protecting your peace, and why there’s enough room for everybody to win. As always, we’re keeping it honest, laughing through it all, and reminding y’all… Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

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Shit gets rocky, but we sip anyway. 🥂 Welcome to Cali on the Rocks with ya girls Anastacia Milani & Jennifer Marie— where millennial women unpack friendships, relationships, sex, family, and all the hot topics in between… one drink at a time. The conversations might get rocky, but that’s exactly how we like them. Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

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  • Creator
    Anastacia Milani and Jennifer Marie
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Anastacia Milani and Jennifer Marie
  • Show Website
    Cali On The Rocks Podcast