Cali On The Rocks Podcast

Anastacia Milani and Jennifer Marie
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Shit gets rocky, but we sip anyway. 🥂 Welcome to Cali on the Rocks with ya girls Anastacia Milani & Jennifer Marie— where millennial women unpack friendships, relationships, sex, family, and all the hot topics in between… one drink at a time. The conversations might get rocky, but that’s exactly how we like them. Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  1. 3d ago

    Thirty first Sip/Episode: Cali On The Rocks | SWOLLEN LIPS & HOT TAKES 💋😂 Dating Interviews

    SWOLLEN LIPS & HOT TAKES?! 💋😭 Welcome back to Cali on the Rocks! We recorded this episode fresh out of our lip filler appointments, so yes… the lips are swollen, so we had to skip the drinks but the Water is poured lol 😂🥂 This week we’re getting into a little bit of EVERYTHING. TAKE 10 👀We break down some of the latest entertainment stories, including the ongoing Russell Simmons & Kimora Lee situation and of course a few stories that had us asking… now what is REALLY going on?! SIP OR SKIP 🎶🥂We’re checking out some of the newest music releases and deciding what we’re adding to the playlist and what can stay right where it’s at. 😂 We also get into the latest music/pop culture conversations, award-show snubs and more. WHAT WE’RE WATCHING 📺🍿From new shows and upcoming releases to old favorites like Gilmore Girls, we’re talking about what currently has our attention including The Drop and more. And then we get into our main conversation: Are we even dating for FUN anymore… or does every date feel like a job interview?! 😭 Everybody is dating with intention, checking red flags, asking about marriage, kids, finances, goals, trauma, compatibility… baby, can we order the appetizer first?! 😂 At what point does “knowing what you want” turn dating into a strict screening process? And can we still just enjoy getting to know somebody without trying to determine their entire future on date one? Grab your drink, get comfortable and come hang with us. 🥂 New Episodes every Friday! Got a rocky situation? 👀Email us and tell us about it! Include your name, age & how long you’ve been in the situation.📧 CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com STAY CONNECTED 🥂Instagram: @CaliOnTheRocksPodTikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPodYouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod IT GIRLS THAT GET IT 💕Instagram: @ItGirlsThatGetItTikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt ANASTACIA MILANIInstagram: @LoveMilaniTikTok: @TheLoveMilaniYouTube: @LoveMilani JENNIFER MARIEInstagram: @JussJenn_TikTok: @JussJenn_YouTube: @JussJenn_ #CaliOnTheRocks #Podcast #DatingTalk #PopCulture #GirlTalk #RussellSimmons #KimoraLeeSimmons #LipFiller #NewMusic #PodcastClips #BlackPodcasters #WomenWhoPodcast #YouTubePodcast

  2. Sep 25

    Thirtieth Sip/Episode: Living The Black Girls Dream | Millennial Things & Take 10 | KJ Biermann Woes

    EPISODE 30 IS HERE! 🎉🍸 We made it to 30 episodes, y’all! And of course, we’re back with our old faithful… Cutwater. 😂🍸 We kick things off with our weekly check-in, catching up on what we’ve been up to. Jenn tells us about her bonfire in the city, while Anastacia was on a VERY important mission to find the viral apple pie wine at Trader Joe’s. 😂🍎🍷 We also talk new music—or the lack thereof—because apparently the music gods weren’t giving us much this week. Anastacia did give AZ Chike a chance though, so we’ll let y’all know how that went. 👀 Then we get into a much heavier conversation surrounding the senseless killing of Chicago rapper Q50 and how desensitized this new generation seems to have become to violence and loss. We also talk about The Drop: A Snowfall Saga after Anastacia finally watched the spinoff and gives us her thoughts. Then things take a turn into reality TV drama as we discuss Love & Marriage: Huntsville and the backlash surrounding creator Carlos King bringing Martell Holt’s former mistress onto the show. Was it good reality TV, or did the situation cross a line? 👀 Then we lighten things up with one of our favorite conversations of the episode: 9 Things Millennials Do Because We’re 30–44 But Still Feel Like We’re 25! 😂 Because let’s be honest… our birth certificates say one thing, but our behavior says something completely different. 😭 Somewhere along the way, we realize we’re out here LIVING THE BLACK GIRL’S DREAM. 💅🏾✨ We also get into the controversy surrounding Gail Bean’s interview with Cam Newton and her comments about segregation “should’ve lasted longer.” We discuss the backlash and the conversation surrounding her remarks. Then it’s time for TAKE 10, where we get into: 👀 KJ Biermann’s legal troubles🍿 Taylor from The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and the latest drama involving her ex/baby daddy😂 And the reminder that… apparently, they can be ghetto too! It’s Episode 30, but we’re still giving y’all the same laughs, debates, mess, and honest conversations you’ve come to expect. Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  3. Sep 18

    Twenty Ninth Sip/Episode: FALL IS A WHOLE MOOD 🍂 Raven Symoné who not Black??

    FALL IS HEREEEE 🍂🤎 and y’all already know we’re ready for the clothes, the vibes & everything that comes with it! Welcome back to Cali on the Rocks! 🥂 This week we’re officially welcoming fall and getting into all the things that make this season a whole MOOD. We’re talking fall fashion, the pieces we can’t wait to pull back out, what we’re leaving behind with summer, what energy we’re bringing into the new season, and whether everybody can actually PUT THAT SH*T ON once layering season starts. 😂🍂 Of course, we had to get into what’s happening in entertainment too 👀: 🎤 Jhené Aiko’s new Westside Whimsy album and why we’re LOVING the vibe 📺 What we’ve been watching lately + the shows that give us fall vibes 👀 Raven-Symoné asking why we consider Raven Baxter a Black character — because baby… we definitely had THOUGHTS 😂 🍂 Fall fashion, fall activities & everything we’re excited for this season 💭 What we’re leaving behind and what we’re bringing with us into our fall era Somehow we went from cozy fall vibes to debating whether Raven Baxter would still be Black if she was GREEN… so you already know how these conversations go. 😭😂 Grab your drink, get comfortable & come kick it with us because we’re talking music, TV, pop culture, fashion, fall vibes and everything else on our minds this week. 🥂 Episodes every Friday! If you’re in a rocky situation, email us and tell us about it! Make sure to include your name, age & how long you’ve been in the situation. Email: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Anastacia Milani: IG: @LoveMilani TikTok: @TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie: IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: ​⁠

  4. Sep 11

    Twenty Eight Sip/Episode | AH HA! ! Hoe Suck My D!$*😂🍸Day Parties, TV & Hot Takes

    AH HA! HOE SUCK MY D!$* 😭😂🍸 Welcome back to Cali on the Rocks, where apparently we’re over the day-party lifestyle! 😂 We kick things off with our weekly recap and talk about the day party we went to over the weekend that had us saying UHN UHN ✋🏾… because sometimes the vibe is just NOT vibing. Then it’s time for FRIDAY SIP OR SKIP 🎶🍸, where we’re getting into all the latest music and pop culture tea: 👑 Beyoncé’s b’day remastered 🎤 Kash Doll vs. Role Model over “NWM” 🐀 Rod Wave accused of plagiarizing Tunechi 🐝 Beyoncé’s $948.01 beekeeper box?! Are we sipping or skipping all of this? Y’all know we’re gonna tell you exactly how we feel. 😂 Then we get into what we’ve been watching! We’re talking Beauty in Black, DeArra From Detroit, Baddies USA, and some of the new shows and movies we’re checking out, including Tyler Perry’s Why Did I Get Married Again? and The Drop: A Snowfall Saga. In Take 10, things get messy as we discuss the Daejon Love fake NFL player situation and Raven-Symoné saying she doesn’t “see color” and doesn’t like to label herself. 👀 We definitely had thoughts. And somewhere in the middle of all this chaos came the energy of: “AH HA! HOE SUCK MY D!$!”* 😭 You’ll have to tune in to find out where THAT came from. 😂 Grab your drink, get comfortable, and come kick it with us because we’re talking TV, music, pop culture, day parties, and everything else that’s been on our minds this week. Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  5. Sep 4

    Twenty Seventh Sip/Episode: B.A.N.S | Why Do Girls Trips ALWAYS End In Chaos?! 😭🍸

    Welcome back to Cali on the Rocks! 🍸😂 This week, we’re bringing y’all ALL the chaos because Jenn is back from Vegas and, whew… the girls trip had her f****d up! 😭 We kick things off with Friday Sip or Skip, where we give our honest opinions on some new music, including Rod Wave and the Yung Miami “Spend Dat” remix. 🎶 Are we sipping on these drops or skipping them? Then Jenn gives us the full Vegas girls trip recap. What was supposed to be a fun getaway turned into a whole situation, and it has us asking: WHY DO GIRLS TRIPS ALWAYS END IN CHAOS?! Can women really travel together, have different personalities and expectations, and still get along? Or does spending that much time together inevitably bring out the drama? 👀 We get into friendship dynamics, jealousy, communication, and why sometimes people just can’t seem to coexist. In our Take 10, we’re talking about the return of Beauty in Black, the breakup rumors surrounding Serayah and Joey Bada$$, Khadijah Haqq and her estranged husband’s separation woes, and the latest conversation surrounding B.A.N.S — Big Ass N****s. 😂 We also discuss the controversy surrounding a Target Blackface Halloween costume and Master P’s comments about Black people needing to stop harping on slavery. Yeah… we had THOUGHTS. 👀 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: ​⁠

  6. Aug 28

    Twenty Sixth Sip/Episode: What REALLY Makes A Woman Feel Put Together? 🍸✨

    This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re switching it up with a Hennessy Henny Rita 🍹🥃 and let’s just say… this cocktail may have gotten the girls a LITTLE too loose. 😂 We kick things off with our weekly check-in before jumping into our Friday Sip or Skip segment, where we give our honest opinions on some of the newest music from Eric Bellinger, Skilla Baby, The Game, and Cleo Sol. 🎶 Are we sipping on these new releases or sending them straight to the skip button? 👀 Then we get into our main topic: What actually makes a woman feel put together? Is it having your hair and nails done? A good outfit? Smelling amazing? Having your finances together? Having a clean home? Or is feeling put together more about confidence, organization, and how you carry yourself? We break down what makes US feel like we’ve got our shit together. ✨ In our Take 10, we discuss Yung Miami saying she wants her man to simply “be a man” and skip all the high fashion—give her Levi’s and Air Forces instead. 👀 Do y’all agree, or is a man being into fashion a GOOD thing? Then we get into the conversation surrounding NBA star Anthony Edwards, who was ordered to pay $14,000 a month in child support and has reportedly said he doesn’t want to be involved in the child’s life. We discuss fatherhood, financial responsibility, and whether paying child support is enough when you don’t want a relationship with your child. And to close things out, we talk about Ciara’s take that having an extensive amount of friends of the opposite sex is a 7/10 red flag 🚩. Is having lots of opposite-sex friends harmless, or should your partner’s friend group make you pause? It’s another episode full of opinions, laughs, debates, and just enough Henny to keep things interesting. 😂🍸 Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. ✨ New episodes every Friday! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—and let us know: ● What makes YOU feel put together? ● Would you rather your man wear Levi’s & Air Forces or designer? ● Is having too many opposite-sex friends a red flag? **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  7. Aug 21

    Twenty Fifth Sip/Episode: The Longer You’re Single, The Harder It Gets? 👀🍸 Are You A Cheat Backer??

    Episode 25 of Cali on the Rocks is HERE! 🍸🎉 And y’all… Anastacia came prepared this week! 😂 She whipped up a little concoction with Carlo Rossi, Bacardi Rum, and fruit juices, and let’s just say… it definitely had the girls feeling loose. 🤣🍹 We kick things off with our weekly check-in before sharing a resource for the girlies interested in Bible study. Jenn has a Bible study guide recommendation for anyone looking to spend a little more intentional time in the Word. https://amzn.to/4xPBG7f 52-week Bible Study Workbook for Black Women Then it’s time for our newest segment: 🎶 FRESH FRIDAY: SIP OR SKIP! 🎶 We listen to and give our honest opinions on some of the latest releases from Kash Doll, Flo Milli, and KenTheMan. Are we sipping on these new drops or sending them straight to the skip button? 👀 Then we get into our main topic: Does the longer you’re single, the harder it becomes to date or get into a relationship? We talk about becoming comfortable with your independence, getting set in your ways, and whether being single for an extended period of time can make it harder to make room for another person. That conversation leads us into an important breakdown: Standards vs. Boundaries vs. Dealbreakers. What’s the difference? Are your standards realistic? Is a boundary something you set for yourself or something you expect someone else to follow? And when does a preference become a true dealbreaker? 👀 Then we get into our Take 10 topic and discuss Yung Miami calling herself a “cheat backer.” 😳 What exactly does that mean, and are we f*****g with it?! As always, we’re keeping it honest, we’re laughing through the chaos, and yes… we got a little loose. Where shit gets rocky, we sip anyway. 🍸 ✨ New episodes every Friday! Don’t forget to like, comment, subscribe, and let us know: • Do you think being single too long makes relationships harder? • What’s the difference between a standard, boundary, and dealbreaker? • And are y’all a “cheat backer”? 👀 **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

  8. Aug 14

    Twenty Fourth Sip/Episode: The Soft Life Is NOT Just Pilates & Matcha 🍵 | A Nipsey Hussle Tribute 💙🏁

    This week on Cali on the Rocks, we’re pouring it up in honor of the late, great Nipsey Hussle. 💙🏁 We popped open a bottle of Belaire Bleu, raised our glasses, and dedicated this episode to The Marathon. We kick things off with our weekly check-in before getting into some new music, including Lost Girl, Loe Shimmy, and Pooh Shiesty’s latest albums. 🎶 Then we get into our first topic and ask the question: Is Pilates, matcha, and buying yourself flowers REALLY the definition of a “soft life”?! Because who made that rule?! 😂 We talk about what living a soft life actually means to us and whether social media has completely redefined the phrase. In our Take 10, we have a bone to pick with one of our favorite podcasts because apparently now the girlies can’t even wear kitten heels?! 😭 We also get into the question: Why aren’t the girlies giving 90s fine anymore? Have fillers, BBLs, and the pressure to look a certain way changed what we consider beautiful? And then we close the episode with a special tribute to Nipsey Hussle. 💙🏁 With his birthday approaching, we wanted to take a moment to talk about what Nipsey meant to us, what he represented to the Black community, what he contributed to hip-hop and California culture, and the legacy he left behind. From his music and entrepreneurship to his commitment to his community and his philosophy of building something that lasts, we celebrate the man behind The Marathon and the impact he continues to have. The Marathon Continues. 🏁💙 Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

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Shit gets rocky, but we sip anyway. 🥂 Welcome to Cali on the Rocks with ya girls Anastacia Milani & Jennifer Marie— where millennial women unpack friendships, relationships, sex, family, and all the hot topics in between… one drink at a time. The conversations might get rocky, but that’s exactly how we like them. Episodes every Friday! **if you’re in a rocky situation email us and tell us about it! Make sure to put your name, age & how long you been in this situation. Email to: CaliOnTheRocksPod@gmail.com*** Stay Connected with us: IG: @CaliOnTheRocksPod TikTok: @CaliOnTheRocksPod YouTube: @CaliOnTheRocksPod Fashion Duo Socials: IG: @ItGirlsThatGetIt TikTok: @ItGirlsThatGetIt Personal Socials: Anastacia Milani IG: @LoveMilani TikTok:@TheLoveMilani YouTube: @LoveMilani Jennifer Marie IG: @JussJenn_ TikTok: @JussJenn_ YouTube: @JussJenn_

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  • Creator
    Anastacia Milani and Jennifer Marie
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    31
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Anastacia Milani and Jennifer Marie
  • Show Website
    Cali On The Rocks Podcast