Your Bold Marriage

Chris & Jamie Johnson

Your Bold Marriage is a weekly podcast for couples who are tired of simply surviving marriage and are ready to build something extraordinary! Hosted by Chris and Jamie Johnson—authors of A Little Book for a Bold Marriage—this show delivers honest conversations, practical tools, and faith-rooted wisdom to help you communicate better, reconnect emotionally, strengthen intimacy, and rediscover joy together. The hosts lean on their 15 years of marriage and parenting experience, and Jamie adds a therapist's perspective as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Each episode tackles real marriage challenges with clarity, hope, and actionable steps you can apply immediately. Marriage is a gift from God—and when you’re willing to invest in it intentionally, a love-filled, deeply fulfilling marriage isn’t just possible… it’s within reach.

  1. 1d ago

    5 Marriage Myths That Are Killing Your Hope Before It Starts

    In this episode, Chris & Jamie explore the hidden marriage myths that can quietly shape expectations, create frustration, and keep couples stuck in unhealthy patterns. Chris and Jamie Johnson unpack common beliefs about conflict, connection, love, and long-term marriage health, then replace them with practical, faith-based truth. The conversation combines counseling insight, biblical perspective, and real-life marital wisdom to help listeners build a stronger, more intentional relationship. At the center of the episode is a simple but powerful message: marriage does not thrive on assumptions, timelines, or feelings alone. It thrives on honesty, emotional awareness, intentional action, vulnerability, and the willingness to grow together. Whether a couple is dealing with constant conflict, emotional distance, unmet needs, or discouragement about the future, this episode offers a clear framework for recognizing what is happening and taking steps toward healing and connection. Some key pieces unpacked in this episode include: Marriage myths and false expectationsHealthy conflict versus destructive fightingEmotional distance, disconnection, and relational driftFeeling loved, receiving love, and expressing needs clearlyBiblical truth applied to real relationshipsWhen to seek help for deeper wounds or unhealthy patterns We all know our beliefs shape behavior, and false beliefs about marriage can quietly weaken commitment and effort. A great marriage is possible, but it requires purposeful work and realistic expectations. It’s not conflict itself that is automatically a problem; the way couples handle conflict reveals relationship health. Only when replacing false beliefs with truth can you truly experience the joy, hope, and fulfillment God intended in your marriage!  DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

  2. Aug 11

    Ask a Therapist: Real Answers to Real Marriage Questions (Pt. 2)

    In this episode, we turn our attention to Frequently Asked Questions from couples in real marriage counseling sessions. Jamie, a licensed mental health counselor with over a decade of experience in trauma and couples therapy, will answer key questions from both an online audience as well as some real-life examples she receives in therapy sessions.  Join us for a raw and insightful conversation, as Chris fires the questions and Jamie shares powerful real-world examples and expert tips on how much “fighting” is too much. How you can tell if you’re truly loved. Why conflict-avoidance is no good. We break down the core signs that indicate it’s time to seek help — like excessive conflict, resentment, and safety concerns — and why some issues need individual work before couples therapy can truly heal.  This episode is essential listening for anyone feeling stuck, doubtful, or exhausted in their relationship. Whether you’re just wanting to get better, starting to question if your love can survive, or you’re already at your wit’s end, what you’ll learn here can transform your approach to marriage and healing. Remember: even the most broken relationships can be restored when both partners commit to doing the inner work. If you value growth, resilience, and the real truths behind lasting connection, tune in now. Your path to a healthier, happier marriage begins with understanding what’s truly going on beneath the surface. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

  3. Aug 4

    Signs You're Settling In A Relationship Instead Of Waiting For The Right One

    In this episode, we explore the biblical and cultural perspectives on marriage, emphasizing the importance of making an intentional marriage decision rooted in faith. Ideal for our single, engaged, and hoping to be married listeners, these insights will help you understand how to trust God's timing and build a strong, Christ-centered relationship.  Chris & Jamie cover key topics such as:  The Christian perspective on marriage: seeking God first and trusting His guidanceThe dangers of culture's obsession with early marriage and social media influencersThe difference between ‘Settling and Stalling’ in relationshipsRecognizing red flags and understanding when doubts indicate deeper issuesThe Relationship Attachment Model of know, trust, rely, commit, and touchThe significance of aligning values, attraction, and emotional safety before commitmentThe importance of prayer and seeking the Holy Spirit’s guidance throughout dating and marriage decisionsThe cycle of gradual settling and how to consciously make decisions rather than letting momentum carry youAddressing cultural stigmas around singlehood and the biblical view of singleness and marriagePractical steps to assess your relationship health: knowing yourself, discerning red flags, and making conscious choices Deciding who to marry involves careful prayer, self-awareness, and commitment to God's principles. Avoid rushing and recognize signs of stall or settle. Trust that in God's perfect timing, He will bring the right person into your life — when you're truly ready and aligned with His will. Remember: The biggest decision of your life should be approached with prayer, intentionality, and trusting God's design for marriage. Seek His guidance every step of the way. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

  4. Jul 28

    Why You Feel Lonely In Your Marriage (And How To Fix It)

    Most couples unknowingly sabotage their marriage by expecting their partner to be just like them. What if the secret to a thriving relationship isn't sameness—it's respecting & valuing the beautiful differences?  If you're tired of frustration mounting over quirks, communication gaps, or personality clashes, this episode reveals how embracing your spouse’s unique traits can actually strengthen your bond. Chris & Jamie dive deep into the science and faith behind healthy marriage dynamics, sharing practical insights on how to navigate—and even celebrate—personality differences. You'll discover why similarities often breed boredom or conflict, while complementary traits lead to growth and mutual reinforcement. They break down common misconceptions, and will encourage how shared core values, mutual respect, and understanding differences form the true foundation of marriage success. In this episode, we break down:  How personality traits either clash or complement in real-life scenariosPractical ways to handle differences in decision-making, emotional responses, and quality timeThe importance of setting boundaries, giving space, and avoiding assumptions that can cause conflictThe biblical basis for unity & shared faith as central to compatibilityHow personality tests can be a helpful tool for understanding and appreciating each other This episode will challenge you to see your spouse—not as someone to change—but as a gift to learn from, mirror, and grow with. Perfect for couples committed to deepening their love and understanding, this conversation is your roadmap to turning differences into your greatest strength. Because in God's design, your differences are the perfect ingredients for a resilient, joyful union. Tune in now and start transforming your loneliness into connection! DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

  5. Jul 21

    Your Spouse Isn't the Problem—Your Expectations Are

    Most couples unknowingly sabotage their marriage by expecting their partner to be just like them. But what if the secret to a thriving relationship isn't sameness—it's respecting and valuing the beautiful differences?  If you're tired of frustration mounting, this episode reveals how embracing your spouse’s unique traits can actually strengthen your bond. Chris & Jamie dive deep into the science & faith behind healthy marriage dynamics, sharing practical insights on how to navigate—and even celebrate—personality differences. You'll discover why similarities often breed boredom or conflict, while complementary traits lead to growth and mutual reinforcement. They break down common misconceptions: that marriage is about changing each other, or that sameness = compatibility. Instead, learn how shared core values, mutual respect, and understanding differences form the true foundation of marriage success. In this episode, we break down:  How personality traits like introversion, extroversion, emotionality, and planning style either clash or complement in real-life scenariosPractical ways to handle differences in decision-making, emotional responses, and how you spend quality time togetherThe importance of setting boundaries, giving space, and avoiding assumptions that can cause conflictThe biblical basis for unity and shared faith as central to compatibilityHow personality tests can be a helpful tool for understanding and appreciating each other's strengths and weaknesses Ignoring these principles risks growing resentment, miscommunication, and disconnection, but embracing them opens doors to a marriage where both partners thrive and flourish. This episode will challenge you to see your spouse—not as someone to change—but as a gift to learn from, mirror, and grow with. Tune in for more! Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational & informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

  6. Jul 14

    Why Putting Your Kids First Could Cost You Your Relationship

    In this episode, Chris & Jamie explore the vital balance between nurturing your marriage and raising children, emphasizing that a healthy marriage creates a secure environment for kids and benefits the entire family.  Join us as we share practical insights and biblical principles to strengthen your marital bond amidst busy family life.  Today we cover several key topics: The importance of prioritizing your marriage over solely focusing on childrenHow a secure and connected marriage impacts children's emotional healthRecognizing the "Roommate Syndrome" and maintaining romanceAvoiding over-scheduling and over-parenting that can harm marital and family healthHow children observe and learn from their parents’ relationship behaviorsPractical ways to foster affection, respect, and unity in front of childrenThe significance of regular date nights and seeking God's guidanceRecognizing warning signs in your relationship through children's perceptions Remember, consistently prioritizing your marriage fosters a loving environment for your children and strengthens your family for years to come. We hope you enjoy the episode. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

  7. Jul 7

    Don't Stop Dating After "I Do": 100+ Date Ideas Every Married Couple Needs

    Unlock the secrets to reigniting your relationship from the comfort of your home or the excitement of new adventures. Whether you're navigating busy schedules, finding babysitters tough, or just want to break the routine, this episode is your ultimate guide to meaningful, fun, and memorable dates—big or small. Discover creative ideas, practical tips, and category-based strategies that will transform your connection and add fresh energy to your marriage. We kick off by exploring the importance of intentional dating—why continuing to prioritize your spouse is essential for avoiding boredom and deepening intimacy. Learn how to categorize your date nights into "Out on the Town," "Stay In," "Creative Adventures," and "Time Crunch," making it easier to plan intentional, budget-friendly, or spontaneous connections, even with little time or resources. Why does this matter? Because investing in your marriage today sets a foundation for lifelong partnership and joy. Missing out on quality moments can lead to disconnect—a risk this episode helps you counteract with simple, effective strategies. Plus, we'll share inspiring stories, insider tips on finding the right babysitters, and practical ideas suitable for every stage of life. Perfect for busy couples, new spouses, or those looking to reclaim fun, authenticity, and closeness, this episode invites you to start today—no matter how hectic life gets. Get ready to plan your next date, try something new, and rediscover the joy of being together. Because in the end, it's not about where or how, but making the effort to truly connect. If you're ready to turn ordinary moments into extraordinary memories, this dating episode is your go-to resource.  DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

  8. Jun 30

    Money, Marriage & Trust: Why Couples Keep Fighting

    Money is often listed as one of the top reasons for divorce. And, even if not a divorce topic, money can definitely be one of the biggest sources of stress in marriage — BUT it can also become one of the greatest opportunities for unity.  In this episode, Chris & Jamie dig into why finances are about so much more than numbers: they reveal priorities, values, trust, and the deeper heart issues beneath the surface. It’s never about the money itself! We talk honestly about the tension couples feel around budgeting, debt, spending habits, career decisions, and different money mindsets. But we also share the healthier, more hopeful path forward: one built on communication, shared financial vision, wise planning, and radical generosity.  Whether you’re trying to get out of debt, break free from lifestyle creep, or simply get on the same page with your spouse, this conversation will challenge you to see money not as an enemy, but as a tool for building a stronger marriage and a more purposeful life.  Tune in for practical wisdom, real stories, and a faith-centered perspective on how couples can pursue financial unity together. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

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Your Bold Marriage is a weekly podcast for couples who are tired of simply surviving marriage and are ready to build something extraordinary! Hosted by Chris and Jamie Johnson—authors of A Little Book for a Bold Marriage—this show delivers honest conversations, practical tools, and faith-rooted wisdom to help you communicate better, reconnect emotionally, strengthen intimacy, and rediscover joy together. The hosts lean on their 15 years of marriage and parenting experience, and Jamie adds a therapist's perspective as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Each episode tackles real marriage challenges with clarity, hope, and actionable steps you can apply immediately. Marriage is a gift from God—and when you’re willing to invest in it intentionally, a love-filled, deeply fulfilling marriage isn’t just possible… it’s within reach.