Content note: This episode includes discussion of infertility, IVF, miscarriage, and a medically complicated pregnancy. Please listen with care. In this episode of Motherhood Advantage, Dr. Laura Marie Rivera talks with Denise Lieu Kakimoto, a Southern California educator, longtime teacher, and Mother of triplets, about infertility, perseverance, community, and the deep connection between teaching and Motherhood. Denise shares the emotional road to becoming a Mother—from fertility treatments and miscarriage to the exciting discovery that she was pregnant with triplets—and the difficult decisions, uncertainty, and extraordinary support that surrounded her pregnancy. Through it all, gratitude became a grounding force, as friends, colleagues, and community members stepped in with meals, laundry, classroom help, and the practical care her family needed. After nearly three decades as an educator, Denise also sees striking parallels between teaching and parenting. Both require patience, anticipation, modeling, flexibility, clear expectations, and the humility to recognize that children ultimately have to become who they are—not simply who we imagined they might be. Denise’s story is a reminder that Motherhood can be exhausting, complicated, and profoundly demanding while still being experienced as an extraordinary privilege—and that some of our greatest strength is built not by getting everything right, but by continuing to show up. Key Takeaways Motherhood can be both deeply demanding and deeply valued. For Denise, years of infertility shaped her enduring sense of Motherhood as a privilege rather than something she takes for granted.Community is a form of resilience. Practical support—from meals and laundry to simply showing up—can fundamentally change how a family moves through a difficult season.Teaching and Motherhood develop many of the same leadership skills: patience, modeling, anticipation, communication, adaptability, and knowing when to step back.Resilience does not require perfection. Denise’s philosophy is simple and powerful: “I will screw up, but I will not give up.”--- Find Denise on Instagram: dkakimoto Infertility & Family-Building Support If Denise’s story resonates with your own fertility journey, RESOLVE: The National Infertility and Family Building Association offers free peer support groups, information, and resources for people experiencing infertility and navigating family building. https://resolve.org/ ReproductiveFacts.org, from the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM), provides patient-focused information about infertility, IVF, fertility preservation and other reproductive-health topics, plus a directory for finding reproductive-health professionals. https://www.reproductivefacts.org/ About Motherhood Advantage At The Motherhood Advantage, we explore the research, stories, and leadership lessons that emerge when we recognize Motherhood not as a detour from leadership—but as one of its greatest teachers. If you'd like to learn more about the research or recommend a Mother, please visit us at MotherhoodAdvantage.com @MotherhoodAdvantage with Dr. Laura Marie Rivera