The Liberated Porch Podcast

Kit Morgan

Welcome to The Liberated Porch Podcast with your host, Kit Morgan, a queer and trans religious trauma educator, licensed clinical social worker, and therapist. Sexuality and gender can be complicated when you came from a religious background that restricted the relationship you had to your body and desire. Kit explores in solo and guest episodes about how to become unrestricted and find sexual and gender liberation after experiencing religious trauma. Each episode will explore liberation-oriented methods of religious trauma recovery. Through storytelling, research, and skills-building, Kit and their guests are here to help you discover the person who was stifled by religious teachings to give up your identity.

  1. Jul 16

    The Hopeless Romantic Pastors

    This episode dives into the nuanced reality of pastors who are driven by deep-seated romantic ideals, often rooted in childhood experiences of trauma and conditional love. Kit Morgan, trans and queer licensed clinical social worker, therapist, and educator, specializing in religious trauma challenges stereotypes, explores the diverse backgrounds of pastors, and discusses the importance of trauma-informed care for church leaders and their communities. In this episode: The misconception that all pastors are narcissists and the diversity behind pastoral personalitiesHow childhood trauma and conditional love create a longing for safe belonging, influencing pastoral callingThe difference between romantic and hopeless romantic identities, and how these shape pastors’ worldviewWhy many pastors may marry young or experience love bombing, affecting their emotional fulfillmentThe impact of secret-keeping and idealization in pastoral roles, including how it influences mental health and relational dynamicsThe challenges faced by non-narcissistic pastors dealing with unrealistic expectations, overwork, and career risksThe significance of trauma-informed therapy for pastors to prevent harm and foster healthier church environmentsThe concept of wounded healers and the necessity of healing wounds for authentic empathy and leadership Timestamps: 00:00 - Challenging stereotypes about pastors' narcissism 02:13 - Pastors' diverse backgrounds and personal stories 05:01 - The role of childhood trauma in shaping pastoral motives 09:25 - Understanding hopeless romanticism in pastors 13:18 - Conditional love and its influence on faith and identity 16:37 - Overcompensation behaviors and emotional escapism 19:47 - The risks of early marriage and secretive relationships in pastoral life 23:17 - The importance of trauma-informed care for pastors 27:37 - The concept of wounded healers and preventing harm 30:01 - The necessity of trauma-informed therapy for church leaders Resources: Religious Trauma Therapy in New York, Indiana, and VirginiaMentorship for Therapists Wanting to Learn More about Religious Trauma Informed PracticesRead More About Religious Trauma on Substack Find Kit Morgan on TikTok, Instagram, and Substack @theliberatedporch

  2. Jul 3

    Queer Religious Trauma Therapy is Political with Liz Rhea

    In this episode of The Liberated Porch Podcast, Kit Morgan sits down with queer therapist and content creator Liz Rhea, LCSW, for a candid conversation about religious trauma, queer identity, deconstruction, and what it means to practice therapy with integrity. Liz shares what it was like growing up in a deeply conservative evangelical environment shaped by purity culture, Southern Baptist influence, and intense church involvement. Together, Kit and Liz unpack how religion can provide community and purpose while also enforcing silence, control, and shame — especially for women, queer people, and anyone who doesn’t fit the mold. The conversation also explores grief, especially how the loss of a parent can crack open long-held beliefs and make harmful theology impossible to ignore. From there, Kit and Liz dive into the politics of therapy, the reality of conversion therapy and “gender identity change efforts,” and the pressure many therapists feel to stay neutral in a deeply political field. They close with practical advice for early-career therapists and students who want to stay values-aligned while navigating supervision, licensure, and institutional pressure. A thoughtful, validating, and necessary conversation for anyone interested in religious trauma, queer mental health, and deconstructing harmful systems. Resources: Liz on InstagramLiz on TikTokLiz Website To learn more about religious trauma, check out @theliberatedporch on Substack, Instagram, and TikTok

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About

Welcome to The Liberated Porch Podcast with your host, Kit Morgan, a queer and trans religious trauma educator, licensed clinical social worker, and therapist. Sexuality and gender can be complicated when you came from a religious background that restricted the relationship you had to your body and desire. Kit explores in solo and guest episodes about how to become unrestricted and find sexual and gender liberation after experiencing religious trauma. Each episode will explore liberation-oriented methods of religious trauma recovery. Through storytelling, research, and skills-building, Kit and their guests are here to help you discover the person who was stifled by religious teachings to give up your identity.

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