Expansion with Desi Batista

Desi Batista

How can you build the business and life you actually want?  My name is Desi Batista, and I've spent years obsessed with one question. Why do people who do everything right still get stuck? Now I'm building Expansion into the place you come to break that pattern for good. I share what I've learned about identity, business, and growing without losing yourself along the way. Time to Expand.  

  1. Jun 11

    Million Dollar Vision, Survival Mode Behavior: Why High-Achieving Women Stay Sick | Nikki Stewart

    Send us Fan Mail Survival mode. Burnout. Toxic workplace. Suppressed depression. High-achieving women hide behind these words for years before someone names what's actually happening to them. Nikki Stewart is an ICF Identity and Alignment Coach who helps ambitious women move from success to fulfillment without apology. She had what she calls a millionaire vision with survival mode behavior. She didn't know it until a doctor sat her on a cold exam table and tried to put her on five prescriptions. She said no to the medicine. She quit the job making her sick. And she built the work she does now from what she learned about the gap between looking powerful and feeling powerful. In this conversation, we get into: What survival mode actually looks like in a successful woman's day to day Why suppressed depression and burnout get misdiagnosed as physical symptoms How toxic workplaces rewire your identity without you noticing The difference between success that looks good and success that feels right Why high-achievers normalize being sick and call it ambition What it takes to stop performing and start actually living If you've been told you're doing great while feeling like you're falling apart on the inside, this conversation is for you. Connect with Nikki: Website:   www.nikkistewartspeaks.com YouTube:   www.youtube.com/@NikkiStewartSpeaks Instagram:   https://www.instagram.com/nikki_r_stewart LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikkirstewart  Take the quiz at desibatista.com/quiz and find out exactly what's keeping you at your current level.  Connect with Desi Batista:  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/desibatista/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DesiBatista  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdesibatista  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamdesibatista

    Million Dollar Vision, Survival Mode Behavior: Why High-Achieving Women Stay Sick | Nikki Stewart
  2. Jun 2

    Your Success Mindset Is Working Against You

    Send us Fan Mail Your success mindset might actually be the thing slowing you down. Stay with me. You know the cycle. You start strong — new habits, new goals, new energy. Then around week three, it all just... stops. You go back to exactly who you were before. And you tell yourself you don't have enough discipline. That's not what's happening. Every behavior change is an identity update. Your brain has to literally rewrite its picture of who you are. That takes energy. It takes repetition. It takes time before the new thing stops feeling fake and starts feeling like you. And here's the part that changed everything for me: your nervous system can only run one major identity update at a time. When you try to become five new versions of yourself at once, your brain doesn't pick the best one. It picks none of them. And pulls you right back to who it already knows. That collapse you keep experiencing? That's not you failing. That's your old identity doing its job. In this video: Why your habits always fall apart at the same pointWhat that progress-and-collapse cycle is actually telling youHow identity updates really work and why most people get the timing wrongThe one shift that makes everything else easier without forcing itYou haven't failed at five things. You've been asking your brain to run five updates at the same time. Pick one. Let the root go deep. Watch what follows.  Take the quiz at desibatista.com/quiz and find out exactly what's keeping you at your current level.  Connect with Desi Batista:  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/desibatista/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DesiBatista  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdesibatista  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamdesibatista

    Your Success Mindset Is Working Against You
  3. May 21

    She Ran a $40M Business — Then Realized She Was Codependent | Rhonda Petit

    Send us Fan Mail Rhonda Petit was running a $40 million business with 12 employees, two kids at home, and a marriage that was unraveling. From the outside, she'd made it. Inside, she was performing — for everyone — and burning out trying to hold it all together. Then came the blowout. And after it, the identity shift that changed everything. In this episode, Rhonda introduces the two identities running most high-achieving women's lives: Ronnie Rescue — the fear-driven performer who fixes, controls, and seeks approval — and Sammy Sovereign, the connector who leads from love, sets real boundaries, and stops mistaking codependency for care. We talk about: • The hidden cost of being the woman who "handles it all" • Why codependency is enabling dressed up as kindness • The difference between operating from fear vs. operating from purpose • Her "40 moment" — when she finally stopped performing • The Terror Barrier and why most people pull back right before the shift • How leaders create (or destroy) psychological safety in their teams • The Three Cs of fulfillment: Create, Contribute, Connect If you've built the thing, hit the goals, and still feel like there's a version of you waiting underneath it all — start here. About Rhonda Petit: Author of The Spirit of Selling, sales leadership coach, and speaker working with HR leaders, business owners, and leader development teams on identity, fear, and human potential. 🔗 Rhonda's Links Website: rhondapetit.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rhondapetit4845Book: The Spirit of Selling — https://amzn.to/3RUM6CP Take the quiz at desibatista.com/quiz and find out exactly what's keeping you at your current level.  Connect with Desi Batista:  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/desibatista/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DesiBatista  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdesibatista  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamdesibatista

    She Ran a $40M Business — Then Realized She Was Codependent | Rhonda Petit

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How can you build the business and life you actually want?  My name is Desi Batista, and I've spent years obsessed with one question. Why do people who do everything right still get stuck? Now I'm building Expansion into the place you come to break that pattern for good. I share what I've learned about identity, business, and growing without losing yourself along the way. Time to Expand.