I Got it Girl Podcast

Jackie Cote
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Have you ever said “I got it” . . .I’m fine, I’m good, I’ve got this. . . while silently holding everything together with sheer willpower and exhaustion? Yeah… same. Welcome to The I Got It Girl Podcast—a space for recovering I Got It Girls who are tired of surviving on control, hustle, and self-reliance, and are ready for something different. Here, we talk about the moment when having it all together stops working. This podcast shares real, raw stories from my own journey—and from other women who have lived successful, responsible, “good” lives… yet realized they were living from survival instead of trust. Control instead of freedom. Fear instead of love. Together, we explore what happens when you loosen the grip. When you stop muscling your way through life. When you surrender—not to give up, but to finally thrive. Expect conversations about: Letting go of control without losing yourselfMoving from chaos to peaceReleasing the identity of “the strong one”Learning to trust life, love, and yourself againFinding freedom in the middle of real life—not a perfect oneThis show is for you if you want more ease, joy, and authenticity… but aren’t quite sure what that looks like yet—or how to get there. Hang out with me. Learn through real experiences. Take the pressure off having it all figured out. And discover that you’re not broken, you’re not crazy—and you’re definitely not alone. Hit follow so you don’t miss the powerful little nuggets that remind you that it gets to be different and you don’t have to do it all by yourself anymore. Here all all things Coach Jackie

  1. 3d ago

    Micro Shifts, Manifestation, and Building a Business Without Quitting Cold Turkey with Lena Khais

    On this episode Coach Jackie welcomes Lena Khais, an intentional manifestation coach with a background in industrial-organizational psychology and 25 years in corporate healthcare/insurance, who helps business owners break through revenue plateaus by combining energy work with business psychology and the art of receiving. Lena shares moving to the U.S. in 1994 at 17, her corporate hustle mindset, and an “I got it” turning point when her six-year-old told her at the airport, “I’m gonna miss you,” prompting gradual change. She outlines three key shifts: empower your team instead of doing it all, find your “who” when you don’t know “how,” and focus on what you want rather than what’s broken. She explains bridging thoughts over toxic positivity and describes starting her business through “playing pretend” on Fridays, which eventually led to job elimination with severance and a full transition. 00:00 Meet Lena the Modern Fairy 00:30 Business Plateaus and Money Flow 02:15 Prom Fight to America 05:00 What I Got It Girl Means 07:42 Lena’s Hustle and Wake Up Call 12:27 Micro Shifts to Big Change 13:57 Three Shifts to Let Go 18:12 Stop Feeding Problems 20:34 Stop Fixing Problems 21:11 Double Down on Wins 21:42 Awareness to Action 23:01 Move Toward Desire 24:50 Thoughts Create Reality 25:30 Rewire Your Brain 26:17 Bridging Thoughts 27:49 Micro Shifts to Start 30:12 Practice Before You Quit 34:00 From Side Hustle to Business 34:43 Light vs Heavy Energy 35:29 Stay Connected Online 37:11 Live by Design 38:55 Final Thanks and Share You can find Lena Khais at the following places: website: www.atlas-paradigm.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lenakhais For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

    Micro Shifts, Manifestation, and Building a Business Without Quitting Cold Turkey with Lena Khais

  2. 6d ago ·  Bonus

    Magnetic Desires: Letting Go of Survival Mechanisms

    Coach Jackie introduces a new weekly “Freedom 15” segment (5–15 minutes) focused on the freedom to be you and releasing “I got it girl” survival mechanisms to move from surviving to thriving. She explains that many survival patterns form in early childhood and shares her own story of becoming fiercely independent after her mother died when she was five, learning to care for herself and working extensively to pay for college. Jackie distinguishes head desires from heart desires and says you can’t be magnetic to true desires while operating from fear, worry, and survival identity (like constant problem-solving). She describes how 2024 adversity—caring for her dad with dementia and advocating for her stepmom in the hospital—forced her to surrender, reduce work, close her membership, and allow her husband’s support, deepening their relationship. She invites listeners to identify their default patterns and shift to trust, receiving, and “we got it.” To check out the Destiny Makers Membership she spoke about in this episode click this link: https://destinymakers.net/dmm2025 00:00 Freedom 15 Intro 01:09 Survival Mechanisms Explained 02:51 Desires Head vs Heart 03:44 I Got It Girl Pattern 06:08 From Fear to Thriving 06:48 2024 Adversity Lesson 08:36 Letting Others Support You 09:54 Find Your Default Pattern 11:11 We Got It Girl Shift 11:58 Wrap Up and Offers You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links This includes links to connect, her small group programs, free intentional goal setting, retreats, one on one coaching and so much more! Don’t forget to subscribe or follow and share with someone who might need the power of this conversation.

    Magnetic Desires: Letting Go of Survival Mechanisms

  3. Aug 10

    Trauma, Communication, and Masculine/Feminine Energy Dynamics with Andre Paradis

    On this episode Coach Jackie welcomes Andre Paradis as her first male guest, a Los Angeles–based relationship coach, NLP practitioner, and communication educator. Andre explains that healthy relationships require releasing childhood trauma and understanding how men and women process, speak, and listen differently, since miscommunication can escalate hurt and distance. Jackie shares her “I Got It Girl” story rooted in control, fear, and survival after her mother died when she was five, and how midlife helped her recognize the impact and learn to let go and receive support from her husband. Andre describes “coming online” around age five, how early meanings shape lifelong relationship patterns, and how he moved from a painful childhood to feeling alive through dance, eventually working with major artists. He outlines how unresolved safety wounds can push women into masculine survival energy, affecting attraction and intimacy, and offers resources through Project Equinox, including a workbook and a call to identify and release core imprints, encouraging listeners to think for themselves about love, marriage, and family. 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 01:02 Andre’s Coaching Mission 01:23 Why Couples Miscommunicate 03:44 The I Got It Girl Story 04:58 Childhood Programming at Five 07:25 Midlife Wake Up Moment 09:45 Andre’s Origin Wound 11:23 Dance Saved My Life 14:49 From Dancer to Destiny 18:08 Gifts From Adversity 20:52 Masculine Feminine Dynamics 28:55 I Got It Girl Traits Today 29:58 Why You Attract Boys 31:20 Masculine Men Need Feminine 31:53 Radical Responsibility Shift 33:04 Letting Go Feels Unsafe 38:29 Keep Success Keep Softness 39:25 Recalibrating Feminine Energy 41:17 Proof And Invitation 41:42 Gifts And How To Reach 47:16 Action Takers Break The Loop 50:00 Final Nuggets Think Yourself 53:22 Wrap Up And Share For all things Andrea Paradis you can go here to his website: http://www.projectequinox.net For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

    Trauma, Communication, and Masculine/Feminine Energy Dynamics with Andre Paradis

  4. Aug 5 ·  Bonus

    Coach Jackie’s Freedom Roadmap (Vision, Beliefs, Mindset, Money & Support)

    Coach Jackie shares the origin of her “I Got a Girl” concept, growing up fiercely independent after early loss and learning to survive through control, while realizing that this mindset can block love, connection, and true fulfillment. She explains how many people stay stuck for decades in jobs, relationships, or locations that no longer fit, feeling resentment, frustration, and unfulfillment, and how surrendering control can shift life from surviving to thriving. Jackie introduces how her Freedom Roadmap that she takes clients through was built from seven years of coaching and includes a vision plan, belief plan, mindset plan, financial plan, and support plan tailored to each person. She encourages taking small, stackable steps and emphasizes that action creates clarity and momentum. Jackie mentions the Destiny Makers Membership that includes weekly zoom calls to support you in your journey to freedom and how to get a month free using coupon code DMM1FREE https://destinymakers.net/dmm2025 00:00 Welcome Back Podcast 00:38 The I Got A Girl 01:41 Control To Connection 02:22 Stuck And Unfulfilled 03:46 Introducing Freedom Roadmap 04:24 Vision Belief Mindset 05:34 Money Fear And Change 06:51 Custom Paths Examples 08:09 Support Plan And Steps 09:30 From Surviving To Thriving 10:29 Take Action And Connect 11:35 Closing And Next Episode You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links This includes links to connect, her small group programs, free intentional goal setting and so much more! Don’t forget to subscribe or follow and share with someone who might need the power of this conversation.

    Coach Jackie’s Freedom Roadmap (Vision, Beliefs, Mindset, Money & Support)

  5. Aug 3

    Connecting with the Self and Embodying Awareness with Super Kate Slepicka

    Nervous System Regulation, Control & Safety: Somatic Coach Super Kate Slepicka on Becoming More by Doing Less In this episode Coach Jackie and somatic coach Super Kate (SK) to the podcast, sharing how they both launched podcasts recently so check out Super Kate’s below. Super Kate explains her work helping people build body awareness, regulate a dysregulated nervous system, and feel safe so they can make better decisions, reconnect with creativity, focus, and enjoy life. Jackie relates her own history of disconnection from her body, over-busyness, and learning to feel emotions later in life. Super Kate recounts taking an unplanned holiday pause from constant networking and productivity, separating worth from output, sitting with uncertainty, and using breath and sensation to settle. They discuss privilege, finding small moments to reset, flexibility over control, and end with Super Kate’s key message: “There’s nothing wrong with you.” 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 01:09 Meet Super Kate 02:07 Somatic Coaching Explained 04:47 Jackie on Safety and Feelings 06:23 What I Gotta Go Means 07:42 Letting Go of Control 09:01 Snowy Pause Breakthrough 13:46 Be More Do Less 16:48 Privilege and Practical Steps 19:47 Finding Time and Support 21:30 Stuck in the Jar Analogy 22:53 Escaping What If Spirals 24:43 Reclaiming The Present 26:15 Control Versus Safety 27:21 Flexibility With Thoughts 31:01 Control Identity And Childhood 32:46 Letting Love In 34:47 No One Has It Figured Out 36:10 Stay Connected With Kate 37:30 Nothing Wrong With You 40:20 Closing And Share The Episode You can find all things Super Kate here: https://linktr.ee/the_superkate For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

    Connecting with the Self and Embodying Awareness with Super Kate Slepicka

  6. Jul 27

    Lipstick and Life Lessons: Monica Walls' Journey to Empowerment

    In this episode Coach Jackie interviews her friend and peer, Monica Walls the owner and creator of Keca’s Usna on letting go, receiving support and building her own lipstick brand. Monica, an HR executive turned entrepreneur, met Jackie through Polka Dot Powerhouse, to discuss the launching of Monica’s lipstick company Keca’s Usna (named from her teenage nickname and the Croatian word for “lip”) and the personal growth behind building it. They explore the “I Got It Girl” mindset—fierce independence rooted in control, fear, and survival—and how it can keep people at a distance, limit receiving help, and affect relationships, especially in male-dominated corporate environments. Monica shares how learning to ask for support, letting women in through community, and doing mindset/body-based work, helped her shift toward trust and surrender. She highlights three key practices: release control, stop carrying the past, and trust the process, and invites listeners to connect with her on social and discover her inclusive, timeless beauty brand. 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 00:43 From HR to Lipstick Startup 01:52 Permission to Take the Leap 03:34 Making the Brand Personal 04:24 What Is the I Got It Girl 06:29 Monica on Independence and Control 08:47 Letting People In and Real Support 11:54 Women Supporting Women 12:38 Corporate Culture and Being the Only Woman 15:44 Learning to Trust Women Again 17:00 Polka Dot Powerhouse in Action 18:20 Seeing People Again 19:42 Strength Meets Softness 21:14 Learning To Receive 23:12 Help In A Hard Year 24:29 Enneagram And Energy Flow 25:16 Top Three Growth Shifts 29:03 Where To Find Monica 31:47 Ask For Help Takeaway 32:43 Final Thanks And Share You can follow and connect with Monica Walls at the following places: https://www.instagram.com/kecasusna/ https://www.facebook.com/kecasusna https://www.linkedin.com/in/monicawalls/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/keca-s-usna/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kecasusna https://kecasusna.com/ For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

    Lipstick and Life Lessons: Monica Walls' Journey to Empowerment

  7. Jul 20

    Legacy and Learning: Building a Future Beyond Survival with Tanean Schaller

    Coach Jackie welcomes entrepreneur and paralegal Tanean Schaller to discuss shifting from the “I got it” survival mindset into thriving through trust, surrender, and receiving support. Tanean shares launching Pink Seal Notary after realizing notaries can build independent businesses through loan signings, remote online notarizations, and field inspections, while maintaining her career and focusing on her legacy as a mom and “Gigi.” They talk about asking for help at home and in business, hiring support like website help and cleaners to reclaim time, and letting go of others’ opinions and permission-seeking. Tanean explains setting boundaries with family after resentment signaled misalignment, using therapy tools to say no and empower her daughter’s independence. Key takeaway: move unapologetically in silence and stop asking for permission, including from yourself. 00:00 Podcast Welcome 01:01 Meet Tanean Schaller 01:24 Notary Side Hustle 03:14 Family Legacy Why 05:15 Start Before Later 06:16 I Got It Girl 09:07 Letting Others Help 11:47 Outsourcing For Freedom 22:19 Stop Asking Permission 23:08 Handling Pushback 25:27 Thank You For Loving Me 26:18 Love From Afar Boundaries 27:11 Not Responsible For Others 28:40 PARRR and Radical Responsibility 31:49 Saying No To Family 32:46 Resentment As A Signal 36:29 Body Knows Alignment 41:08 Scary Versus Misaligned 42:18 Connect And Follow Tanean 43:16 Move In Silent Confidence 45:45 Final Thanks And Subscribe You can contact Tanean Schaller at the following places: Instagram: ts_pink seal notary Website: pinksealnotary.com Email: tanean@pinksealnotary.com For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

    Legacy and Learning: Building a Future Beyond Survival with Tanean Schaller

  8. Jul 13

    Stop Doing It Alone: Let Go, Ask for Help, and find Community with Divorce Coach Mardi Winder

    Coach Jackie welcomes Mardi Winder to the I Got It Girl podcast to discuss moving from survival-driven independence to letting go of control, asking for help, and building supportive relationships. Mardi, a strategic divorce consultant and high-conflict divorce coach, shares key turning points where she learned to reach out—after losing her adoptive parents before age 20, during her divorce, and after caring for and later losing her second husband. They explore how women’s support networks, masterminds, and “take what you like and leave the rest” thinking create better solutions than going it alone, and how corporate scarcity and information-hoarding can limit growth. Mardi explains finding community in a rural Texas farm life through yoga, volunteering, classes, and trying new activities, and outlines her path from mediation and domestic violence work to divorce coaching. 00:00 Welcome and Introductions 01:01 Mardi’s Farm Life 02:00 What Is an I Got It Girl 02:19 Jackie’s Survival Story 03:40 Learning to Let Go 04:07 Mardi’s Early Losses 05:38 Divorce Wall and Support 07:49 Masterminds and Real Advice 09:34 Take What You Like 12:13 Stop Hoarding Information 14:40 Corporate Scarcity Mindset 17:04 AI Won’t Replace Humans 17:34 Finding Friends After Loss 18:53 Yoga Grief Release 20:43 Try New Communities 22:21 Identity Beyond Work 24:47 Career Path to Divorce Coaching 27:31 Everything Connects Later 29:55 Mindset Lessons From Hard Years 32:05 Where to Find Mardi 33:04 Ask for Help Early 35:09 Closing Thanks and Subscribe You can find Mardi Winder at the following links: Website: https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/ Podcast: The D Shift: Redefining Divorce and Beyond LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

    Stop Doing It Alone: Let Go, Ask for Help, and find Community with Divorce Coach Mardi Winder
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Have you ever said “I got it” . . .I’m fine, I’m good, I’ve got this. . . while silently holding everything together with sheer willpower and exhaustion? Yeah… same. Welcome to The I Got It Girl Podcast—a space for recovering I Got It Girls who are tired of surviving on control, hustle, and self-reliance, and are ready for something different. Here, we talk about the moment when having it all together stops working. This podcast shares real, raw stories from my own journey—and from other women who have lived successful, responsible, “good” lives… yet realized they were living from survival instead of trust. Control instead of freedom. Fear instead of love. Together, we explore what happens when you loosen the grip. When you stop muscling your way through life. When you surrender—not to give up, but to finally thrive. Expect conversations about: Letting go of control without losing yourselfMoving from chaos to peaceReleasing the identity of “the strong one”Learning to trust life, love, and yourself againFinding freedom in the middle of real life—not a perfect oneThis show is for you if you want more ease, joy, and authenticity… but aren’t quite sure what that looks like yet—or how to get there. Hang out with me. Learn through real experiences. Take the pressure off having it all figured out. And discover that you’re not broken, you’re not crazy—and you’re definitely not alone. Hit follow so you don’t miss the powerful little nuggets that remind you that it gets to be different and you don’t have to do it all by yourself anymore. Here all all things Coach Jackie

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  • Creator
    Jackie Cote
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Jackie Cote
  • Show Website
    I Got it Girl Podcast